FabSwingers.com forum: Would you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No seems rather pointless having them on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably...but I'm lazy and have some on my list I've never spoken to..no idea why they're there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I wanted to perve on their photos or not.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

Absolutely not

Do you so you can still perve the private pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they never reply, were they ever a friend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

Certainly not.

The only people on my friends list are people I've played with or have made some kind of plan to play with.

I will not add a person until that's been established, normally I only add after meeting them, but I habe made an exception lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not....is it me or do the first two avatars look the same but one's being put through a filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly. Hope that helps.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If they never reply, were they ever a friend ?"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of people on my friends list who I've never spoke to. Went through a phase of just accepting everyone and just wasn't practical at all lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course not....is it me or do the first two avatars look the same but one's being put through a filter?"

Yeah,your right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but it has never happened yet. And wouldn't expect it from others either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a lot of people on my friends list who I've never spoke to. Went through a phase of just accepting everyone and just wasn't practical at all lol "

Well try messaging them and see if they reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Most of my friends have my phone number so we chat via text or call each other anyway

Wouldn't keep or accept someone as a friend if that wasn't the case. Can't see the point really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a lot of people on my friends list who I've never spoke to. Went through a phase of just accepting everyone and just wasn't practical at all lol

Well try messaging them and see if they reply! "

How do your even find your friends list?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I only have people I have met and want to stay in touch with. When they drop me from the list I take it as sign that they don't want to be friends any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

Nope

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have a lot of people on my friends list who I've never spoke to. Went through a phase of just accepting everyone and just wasn't practical at all lol

Well try messaging them and see if they reply!

How do your even find your friends list?"

It's the tab that says 'Friends List'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of my friends have my phone number so we chat via text or call each other anyway

Wouldn't keep or accept someone as a friend if that wasn't the case. Can't see the point really. "

Well, I was hoping to fuck 'em...

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I would probably forget they were on my friends list

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"How do your even find your friends list?"

My Account on the left hand side of the screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably...but I'm lazy and have some on my list I've never spoken to..no idea why they're there

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i have a few like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No totally pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none on my friends list anyway lol only hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have four friends on my friends list haha, and I speak regularly to them. If they started to ignore me though, I wouldn't keep them on there.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

No but I'm a fiery redhead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I do a sweep after a while of no messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I'm a fiery redhead x"

Fiery you say

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There's 1 or 2 on here I'd like on my friends list but guess that doesn't help much

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"There's 1 or 2 on here I'd like on my friends list but guess that doesn't help much

Make it happen bladey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to all my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's 1 or 2 on here I'd like on my friends list but guess that doesn't help much

Make it happen bladey

Thought you were off to bed Missy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"There's 1 or 2 on here I'd like on my friends list but guess that doesn't help much

Make it happen bladey

Thought you were off to bed Missy?

Wait- I though the girls of fab were allowed to tell lies?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yay I have a hot new friend

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yay I have a hot new friend

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By *ason_silverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

ahh - the single male.

To get on my friends list you have to have done something special for me.

essentially - be a friend.

1- welcome me to the site and make me feel this was a good idea

2- chat to me and maybe meet up

3 - help me when the idea of going to a club overwhelmed me

4-meet in a club and put a smile on my face (unfortunately gone now)

That's four people.

I don't see myself deleting anyone.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I operate a 3 strikes policy, if they haven't replied to a message 3 times then I remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yay I have a hot new friend

So do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I review my friends list constantly - if we have no correspondence then they are removed

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By *ason_silverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

perhaps confusing acquaintances with friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have many friends and tbf non of them really talk apart from 1 and then its only when i start the convo.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No way I review my friends list constantly - if we have no correspondence then they are removed "

Bloody el not seen you 2 in a while hope your both well

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

"I only have four friends on my friends list haha, and I speak regularly to them. If they started to ignore me though, I wouldn't keep them on there. "

Ooh lucky them

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

No.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Probably...but I'm lazy and have some on my list I've never spoken to..no idea why they're there

Same here

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have hardly any on friends list and thinking of removing one or two as they never talk ....so no I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i have a very small list of friends ... about 5 maybe 6 on mine

My hotlist is huuuuuge though

Only chat to a couple of those though

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Keeping up with mail is tough enough, leaving little time for lists reviews. I aim not to add someone who I've not communicated with - even though some appear promising. If I wink them and no reply then it's an ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if there's no contact after a length of time what's the point ?

Kinky

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

No.

If someone doesn't reply in under 5 minutes exactly, they get the chop.

We don't have many friends for some reason.

Actually, I'm fibbing. If they're really hot. I give them a whole 10 minutes.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nope

If I am considering removing someone because we don't chat I do tell them.

Also, people do have real lives outside Fab ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, recently culled 3!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

You don't call, you don't write...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No, recently culled 3!"

Brutal

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

What's a friends list?

Yes I have several were we are friends have chatted in the past but now I just get ignored - guess they've moved on to others - my friend list isn't that big (open to invites) so it doesn't really matter to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail?

You don't call, you don't write...

But darling, we'll always have kik x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail?

You don't call, you don't write...

But darling, we'll always have kik x"

Smooth!

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I've got a few like that, one is a couple who've never ever spoken to me, I've mailed a few times but never got a reply, I just assumed they like to perve my pics and tbh I like theirs too so I keep em on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, recently culled 3!

Brutal

I did it humanely!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No, recently culled 3!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no chance of meeting again or they are ignoring me then I will delete. And I'm surprised at how many completely get the hump about it (no pun intended!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the way it works - probably not if a simple short message back never happens at all -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way Jõse. I sent a pm to one. Nothing. So i had a cull. I'm a ruthless fucker though and not bothered about meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail? "

Hey I always reply to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually this thread has inspired me to go and check and do a culling of my own!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Only if I wanted to perv their private photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/09/16 10:45:37]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to send my friend request box is gathering up cobwebs now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, recently culled 3!

It's OK, there's always a place for my favourite top hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stay friends with someone on your list who never replies to your mail?

Hey I always reply to you

Yes you do sweetness! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, recently culled 3!"

Goes off to check my friends list......oh...fancy a brew?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, recently culled 3!

Goes off to check my friends list......oh...fancy a brew?!

I'll bring the kit kats

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