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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone noticed the trend of people sending an intial message saying something like 'I'm fine, thanks for asking.....' trying to kid you into thinking that you have messaged them first?

I very rarely message someone first and as a site supporter I can see my message history. It's mildly amusing that people do this, does it ever work?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah,on my old profile people used to say they had chatted to me a while ago.However with site supporters you can see a message thread,so i knew they were trying it on lol.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!? Not personally. I'm obviously missing out! Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate times call for desperate measures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah,on my old profile people used to say they had chatted to me a while ago.However with site supporters you can see a message thread,so i knew they were trying it on lol.

Miss"

Glad it's not just me, I thought I was going mad ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We get it a lot.

One guy said we spoke six months ago. Seeing we have only been back on a few weeks, we asked him our previous ID.

We went along with him initially,and it was funny how quickly he sent us a face pic..

Funny how polite he was once we had the photo.

What is it with these sad people. Are they that desperate??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No!? Not personally. I'm obviously missing out! Haha. "

Look out for them now, I'm sure you will notice it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Desperate times call for desperate measures "

I'd prefer a knock knock joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love cock pics "

Each go their own x

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading


"Has anyone noticed the trend of people sending an intial message saying something like 'I'm fine, thanks for asking.....' trying to kid you into thinking that you have messaged them first?

I very rarely message someone first and as a site supporter I can see my message history. It's mildly amusing that people do this, does it ever work? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperate times call for desperate measures

I'd prefer a knock knock joke "

That's a whole different level of creativity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. We get it a lot.

One guy said we spoke six months ago. Seeing we have only been back on a few weeks, we asked him our previous ID.

We went along with him initially,and it was funny how quickly he sent us a face pic..

Funny how polite he was once we had the photo.

What is it with these sad people. Are they that desperate?? "

I think it's probably hard for them to get a reply sometimes. It's funny how many I have received though. It's almost like they ran a masterclass on this method as it worked for someone once! X

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

no. ive had men message me again from like over a year ago when i didnt have my filters on, not remembering they've messaged me..errr look at your messaging history, idiot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Desperate times call for desperate measures

I'd prefer a knock knock joke

That's a whole different level of creativity "

I'm so demanding ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just play the good old english 4-4-2 tactic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!? Not personally. I'm obviously missing out! Haha. "

Scrap that! Have now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just play the good old english 4-4-2 tactic"

It works well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no. ive had men message me again from like over a year ago when i didnt have my filters on, not remembering they've messaged me..errr look at your messaging history, idiot! "

Bless them ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just play the good old english 4-4-2 tactic"

Many great victories have come from that formation x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No!? Not personally. I'm obviously missing out! Haha.

Scrap that! Have now. "

Ha ha brill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just play the good old english 4-4-2 tactic

Many great victories have come from that formation x"

I don't call him big sam for nothing

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We have started getting from a couple of guys,

"Did you get the pictures I sent"

Or

" I'm guessing you didn't like the picture I sent last week"

Guessing it's all just a ploy to get you engage in a chat

unless the wife is arranging something without me knowing

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Has anyone noticed the trend of people sending an intial message saying something like 'I'm fine, thanks for asking.....' trying to kid you into thinking that you have messaged them first?"

Not noticed this particular one but I occasionally get "it's been a while since we chatted" yet their profile tells me I've never messaged them. Do they not realise a quick look at the profile tells you how long ago each side messaged and winked?! Good for them if it works but it won't with me, don't be underhand and don't try to play me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just play the good old english 4-4-2 tactic

Many great victories have come from that formation x

I don't call him big sam for nothing "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have started getting from a couple of guys,

"Did you get the pictures I sent"

Or

" I'm guessing you didn't like the picture I sent last week"

Guessing it's all just a ploy to get you engage in a chat

unless the wife is arranging something without me knowing "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone noticed the trend of people sending an intial message saying something like 'I'm fine, thanks for asking.....' trying to kid you into thinking that you have messaged them first?

Not noticed this particular one but I occasionally get "it's been a while since we chatted" yet their profile tells me I've never messaged them. Do they not realise a quick look at the profile tells you how long ago each side messaged and winked?! Good for them if it works but it won't with me, don't be underhand and don't try to play me. "

This is a good point too. The profile stats don't lie ha ha.

X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its my favourite site supporter feature stops me going insane.

Best was from a guy who said wr hadnt spoken for a little while, i checked and had spoken to him six years previously

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"no. ive had men message me again from like over a year ago when i didnt have my filters on, not remembering they've messaged me..errr look at your messaging history, idiot! "

bit harsh like calling somone an idiot.

you said they messaged you over a year ago..maybe you have a different profile picture up and they dont remember they had messaged you.

after all it was "over a year ago", and I'm not sure how many guys keep hold of their conversation history, plus if not a site member it doesn't even tell that person if they have messaged you or not.

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