FabSwingers.com forum: Wifes who don't like sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know this site is mainly couples who enjoy sex! What's your opion on men who's wife don't give them much sex Mmm no oral receiving or giving. And the men love there wifes and would do anything to please them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our opinion isn't really the one that counts. We are just strangers on the Internet.

Assuming you're talking about yourself, have you spoken to your wife about it?

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

masturbation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's cheating on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's cheating on you"

How did you reach that conclusion?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Perhaps she no longer fancies you? What have you done to deserve that?

Don't tell me you joined a swingers site behind her back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this site is mainly couples who enjoy sex! What's your opion on men who's wife don't give them much sex Mmm no oral receiving or giving. And the men love there wifes and would do anything to please them"

Not quite anything then, it seems?

My opinion is that it's not my circus, not my monkeys.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Maybe they are put off by too many cock pics

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's cheating on you

How did you reach that conclusion? "

Well the original post made no sense to me so I made my own assumptions that his wife doesn't give him oral or like to receive. She may be cheating on him with someone she does enjoy those activities with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol good responds yea it's my wife and we been too counsler I work 7 days a week 12 days I have too ask her for a kiss and a hug ! At the point were there is no hope! She would never be able to survive on her own ! So I look at porn and have skyped with a couple woman to get some release is that wrong

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Lol good responds yea it's my wife and we been too counsler I work 7 days a week 12 days I have too ask her for a kiss and a hug ! At the point were there is no hope! She would never be able to survive on her own ! So I look at porn and have skyped with a couple woman to get some release is that wrong

Perhaps pay her more attention?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Yes.

There's a reason she's behaving as she is. Cheating on her isn't going to fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Maybe you are using infrequent sex as a feeble excuse to shag about, seriously, if it was a good reason, you could honesty say to her "look, I'm not getting enough, so I'm going to look elsewhere" and there would be no argument.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

Nail, head

Not sure if its an attention seeking post for his ego or some kind of fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our humble opinion yes it is wrong.

We have read your profile and reading what you are looking for, then you intend to do a lot more.

Did you say somewhere that you love her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

It is so refreshing to see single guys who speak sense, you guys seem a minority on here.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"masturbation"

I'm good at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

It is so refreshing to see single guys who speak sense, you guys seem a minority on here."

I don't do it often, so don't count on clarity all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You work 7 days a week, and she can't survive on her own ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Want to omit she has a problem she used too keep a clean house now it's all clutter I have too cook supper or buy something I am a good too her when I ask her for a bj she tells me too suck my own cock she is always nasty too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex is about communication, how well do you manage that? (If this post is autobiographical)

Usually it's like ships that pass in the night, you could be both trapped in what feels like a sexless marriage, because of an inability to read each other's queues. Talk, talk, talk, that's the best answer I could give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

Say it just how it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

Say it just how it is!!"

I'm not his wife, never met either of them, it's just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Maybe she does have depression. Or maybe she just doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe you're not the man she fell in love with all those years ago.

Relationships are like cars. They're great when shiny and new but they take a lot of looking after to keep things going smoothly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Maybe she does have depression. Or maybe she just doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe you're not the man she fell in love with all those years ago.

Relationships are like cars. They're great when shiny and new but they take a lot of looking after to keep things going smoothly."

Are you saying he should maybe think about trading her in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Maybe she does have depression. Or maybe she just doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe you're not the man she fell in love with all those years ago.

Relationships are like cars. They're great when shiny and new but they take a lot of looking after to keep things going smoothly.

Are you saying he should maybe think about trading her in ?

I've no idea what I was saying to be honest, I just went with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Maybe she does have depression. Or maybe she just doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe you're not the man she fell in love with all those years ago.

Relationships are like cars. They're great when shiny and new but they take a lot of looking after to keep things going smoothly.

Are you saying he should maybe think about trading her in ?

I've no idea what I was saying to be honest, I just went with it lol

He may get a good deal if he asks about the scrappage scheme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it isn't that she doesn't 'like sex'. She has a medical condition that results in her not wanting sex at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think the fab forums are the best place to ask for relationship advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really think the fab forums are the best place to ask for relationship advice

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't that she doesn't 'like sex'. She has a medical condition that results in her not wanting sex at the moment."

where did you get anything about a medical condition from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't that she doesn't 'like sex'. She has a medical condition that results in her not wanting sex at the moment.

where did you get anything about a medical condition from?"

He said she has depression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she is going through tbe Menopause a lot of women go off sex then.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Fucking bravo! The woman is ill and you cheat on her. Nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel sorry for your wife if your working 7 days a week bla bla

you live to work

so works more important than your wife.

you need to put your wife first , and not just for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Log off the Internet and have a conversation with her. Ah, the long-forgotten art of communication....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

Fucking bravo! The woman is ill and you cheat on her. Nice. "

Has to cook supper or buy something, mate you should try cooking and preparing 6-8 meals a day, every day and going the gym 4-5 days a week

You get little time for sex

and rest days are ( rest days )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

this sounds about right to me...he's said nothing to back up his assumption that she's depressed..dont think that her not wanting sex means she must have something medically wrong with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Log off the Internet and have a conversation with her. Ah, the long-forgotten art of communication...."

how go thee ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're good to her because you work 12 hours a day 7 days a week, expect her to keep a spotless house, have dinner waiting for you and want her to suck your cock on demand?

Maybe she is depressed, maybe she feels like a drudge, maybe she doesn't find you attractive anymore, maybe she just doesn't like sucking your cock. But whatever the reason she doesn't sound contented with her life.

Strangers online can't solve your problems, only you can. But I'd say you sound very selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

this sounds about right to me...he's said nothing to back up his assumption that she's depressed..dont think that her not wanting sex means she must have something medically wrong with her!"

He has said nothing to back up his assumption ????? Read the bit in his words about her not keeping house etc. Depressed people often stop looking after themselves/others/home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i never oh my goodness,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op if you are genuinely after advice here ?

Ok here it is, loose some weight and a bit of body hair, take 2 months maybe 3 off work , have a bath not a shower,

Clean the house yourself but send her to a 3 day weekend spa whilst your wearing the marry golds

When she is due to return play a little soft music from yours and hers past

Run her a bubbly bath and candles make the bathroom all cosy and warm

Then talk to the women properly

Do not and I repeat

DO NOT ASK HER TO SUCK YOUR DICK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she just doesn't like you in that way anymore. Doesn't mean she's cheating. Just gone off you. There's many reasons but you won't know until you ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Its official then

Op get yourself and your wife to the local and get her traded in haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with my wife for over 20 years. I'm here because she's not that interested in sex.

It's not a fault thing; it's just that different people want and need different things. It's certainly not because I'm ugly or unappealing,which is something often levelled at posts like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

We are sure as you guys are so popular on here most on here will agree with you,and if you are being ironic or funny we apologise for missing it,other than that.....what total utter bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex? "

And believe me; I'm no mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's cheating on you

How did you reach that conclusion? "

He obviously works for the marriage guidance council

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't really think the fab forums are the best place to ask for relationship advice

Yes they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug."

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're allowed to slag off a poster's photos when they haven't asked for it now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex? "

Yep , perhaps I didn't get the point across properly though .

If a man and wife don't have any sexual relations with each other , they may as well be mates . But this rarely happens as one or the other wants sex , and the other doesn't , so animosity creeps in . One feels unloved , and without sex the relationship isn't complete - worthlessness comes to mind , less care and attention in oneself and a downwards spiral starts .

Depression , emotional void , and it's no longer the person one married any more .

Do I think women are only useful for sex ?

No , but within a marriage it sure as hell helps if they do want it !

Do I think you're a mug ?

I don't know your circumstances so I couldn't possibly say . But if my wife wasn't interested in sex I wouldn't be staying around , and that's for sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite "

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly if she isn't interested, and I mean really not interested even on her terms but your relationship is good apart from this issue (however unlikely that may be) then I say don't throw the baby out with the bath water so to speak, by separating. Not if you love each other.

If there's no realistic prospect of getting together with her then I say find yourself a nice young perv who's into "dirty old men" I see plenty saying that they're into that in their profiles. Good luck, vote Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...still not seeing where he asked for people to pass opinion on his photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock"

Opinions on why she wont suck it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock

Opinions on why she wont suck it

Nope, not what he asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock

Opinions on why she wont suck it

I thought I was one of the biggest idiots on here but you're pushing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

Calling guys mugs and women who don't give out as useless wives....seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock

Opinions on why she wont suck it

I thought I was one of the biggest idiots on here but you're pushing it

I aim for the top

and to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would now be a good time to ask whats for supper ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

Calling guys mugs and women who don't give out as useless wives....seriously "

Yep , the guy asked for people's opinions , and we gave ours .

I don't remember asking anyone for their opinion on us .

But hey , fill your boots if it it makes you feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

Calling guys mugs and women who don't give out as useless wives....seriously

Yep , the guy asked for people's opinions , and we gave ours .

I don't remember asking anyone for their opinion on us .

But hey , fill your boots if it it makes you feel better

We gave our opinion on your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

Calling guys mugs and women who don't give out as useless wives....seriously

Yep , the guy asked for people's opinions , and we gave ours .

I don't remember asking anyone for their opinion on us .

But hey , fill your boots if it it makes you feel better

We gave our opinion on your comment "

Thing Two did that without resorting to referring to,us as kings and queens , and suggesting we had followers etc..... There's a big difference between having an opinion on a subject and a comment , and an opinion of a poster .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suck me, beautiful"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?"

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?"

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?"

You need to catch up norris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up the op asked for opinions, if i ask for opinions i want ztraight honest anssers and thats all i have provided

Play nice

He wanted opinions on his wife/marriage.. Not his hair or cock

Opinions on why she wont suck it

I thought I was one of the biggest idiots on here but you're pushing it

And i thought you was trying to humour me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?

You need to catch up norris

I've been reading, you abusing the old guy over the net and then saying you cook your own meals 7 times a day? Drink or drugs are 100% involved

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

You like your cock being sucked. Think about 3 things she likes or would want and consider when you last gave her any of it. Women tend to be like this when they feel unloved, unappreciated and don't have their needs met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

And believe me; I'm no mug.

I'm sure your not mate....however some on here are the kings and Queens and can say whatever they want and others will chuckle and follow and agree despite talking shite

Oh dear , so we are kings and queens and talk shite ?

I haven't seen anyone chuckle and follow , and Infact in our time on fab that's rarely happened .

It's cool that you don't agree with our post , but there's really no need to be personal .

Calling guys mugs and women who don't give out as useless wives....seriously

Yep , the guy asked for people's opinions , and we gave ours .

I don't remember asking anyone for their opinion on us .

But hey , fill your boots if it it makes you feel better

We gave our opinion on your comment

Again it's our opinion,maybe a ridiculous one,like yours but an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?

You need to catch up norris

I've been reading, you abusing the old guy over the net and then saying you cook your own meals 7 times a day? Drink or drugs are 100% involved "

He asked for opinions and i gave him mine as a single bloke

Your very opinionated yourself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?

You need to catch up norris

I've been reading, you abusing the old guy over the net and then saying you cook your own meals 7 times a day? Drink or drugs are 100% involved

He asked for opinions and i gave him mine as a single bloke

Your very opinionated yourself though

Im straight sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuk it al make my own supper, like i do every night, along with meal 1,2,3,4,5,6 and 7

Are you on steroids?

No but im intrigued as to why you ask ?

Because you're mad

talking to yourself on a forum!

Something about 7 meals a day?

You need to catch up norris

I've been reading, you abusing the old guy over the net and then saying you cook your own meals 7 times a day? Drink or drugs are 100% involved

He asked for opinions and i gave him mine as a single bloke

Your very opinionated yourself though

Im straight sorry "

No drink or drugs and deffo no steriods my body is my temple for others to worship aswell as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the odd glass of rose, but only maybe once every 3 months as i like to keep my routine a routine

Drink just fuks it all up

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"Op if you are genuinely after advice here ?

Ok here it is, loose some weight and a bit of body hair, take 2 months maybe 3 off work , have a bath not a shower,

Clean the house yourself but send her to a 3 day weekend spa whilst your wearing the marry golds

When she is due to return play a little soft music from yours and hers past

Run her a bubbly bath and candles make the bathroom all cosy and warm

Then talk to the women properly

Do not and I repeat

DO NOT ASK HER TO SUCK YOUR DICK

This!!! Omg this !!!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Special chop suey is for supper

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think one person on here gets it! I have never had sex with anyone other then my wife! Would not either cause of all the disease I have been to marriage counselors with her i'm also by myself to i'm also by myself to try to deal with the lost love and no sex I love her and she loves me I am not selfish she has no drivers lisence and I run all the errans I know what it takes to be a good husband on come on here to get a little bit of enjoyment in my life and to talk to people! Got some ruthless people here yea my pics are what I was born with! Maybe you all need to be in my shoes and for the record I work 2 jobs so my family can eat and have shelter if I had my way I wouldn't work at all at least my wife can play her games on the internet while I wirk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think one person on here gets it! I have never had sex with anyone other then my wife! Would not either cause of all the disease I have been to marriage counselors with her i'm also by myself to i'm also by myself to try to deal with the lost love and no sex I love her and she loves me I am not selfish she has no drivers lisence and I run all the errans I know what it takes to be a good husband on come on here to get a little bit of enjoyment in my life and to talk to people! Got some ruthless people here yea my pics are what I was born with! Maybe you all need to be in my shoes and for the record I work 2 jobs so my family can eat and have shelter if I had my way I wouldn't work at all at least my wife can play her games on the internet while I wirk"

I think your missing the point op, you dont have to have sex to become a cheater,

Does your wife know your on here ?

Invite her to the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of us know exactly the reasons and causes of any of this so you won't get the answer on here fella. If neither of you are happy anymore then maybe its time to part, you're only here once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of us know exactly the reasons and causes of any of this so you won't get the answer on here fella. If neither of you are happy anymore then maybe its time to part, you're only here once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a wife no longer likes sex....it look at what you are doing....or not doing well Enough!?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

If you think your wife has depression, maybe you should be seeking some medical advise, rather than looking after your own sexualneeds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's another angle though. Maybe his wife is just cold, maybe her hubby is working 7 days a week to provide for his family and she doesn't even bother to make him a meal when he gets home, maybe he is feeling neglected and depressed, maybe she's on a site like this while he's at work.

The point is nobody knows what a relationship is like apart from the two people who are in it, so there's no point whatsoever in guessing or making judgements in the OPs motives or actions. And certainly no reason at all to make personal and nasty comments about his profile or pics.

OP talk to your wife. It sounds like you two don't communicate very well, so I'd start there. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's abit early for pigs in blankets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you should have a spruce up down there fella. Make it more appealing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's another angle though. Maybe his wife is just cold, maybe her hubby is working 7 days a week to provide for his family and she doesn't even bother to make him a meal when he gets home, maybe he is feeling neglected and depressed, maybe she's on a site like this while he's at work.

OP talk to your wife. It sounds like you two don't communicate very well, so I'd start there. Good luck"

Agreed hence it's not a great idea to start a thread about it because as you say only he and is wife know what is going on,however people will form an opinion rightly or wrongly purely due to the fact he's posted about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ty You angel you got it right ! It's at the point we're I am helpless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ty You angel you got it right ! It's at the point we're I am helpless "

Be nice to hear your wife's take on things though so we can have a balanced _iew

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Ty You angel you got it right ! It's at the point we're I am helpless "

So helpless you've found your way here. Sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP talk to your wife. It sounds like you two don't communicate very well, so I'd start there. Good luck

Totally agree. Shame people can't comment on the question though and instead have to make insulting comments to someone. Seems to be a common thing at the minute on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP talk to your wife. It sounds like you two don't communicate very well, so I'd start there. Good luck"

This is kind of what I was thinking....

We have no idea what the issue is, OP. Maybe your wife is cold. Maybe she has just lost interest in sex in general, maybe you don't do enough to get her sexually motivated. We have no idea. I don't think this is really the place to discuss it. I also don't personally think cheating is the answer (whether that be by having sex, camming, chatting, etc.).

Talk to your wife more. Communication

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I think my wife has depression and doesn't

So she's not stopping you getting your cock sucked, if you could just be bothered?

We're picking at the symptoms, rather than addressing the deeper causes of you both being unhappy.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Is it safe in here yet?

OP: It is good that you have been trying counselling. I think that will help in the longer term. I also think Miss P may be right when she says that your wife may be struggling to cope with her hormonal changes. Counselling may help you understand this better and show you ways you can support her.

In the meantime, do I think that you Skyping with women will cause the sky to fall in? No. In fact I can even see how that might relieve some of the pressure in your relationship. But I also think you have to realise that sex isn't a right that you can demand from your wife.

Good luck, I hope you both manage to sort things out.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to work away mon-Fri....he would come back and moan about the house (house was spotless btw) or dinner not right (didn't fancy spag bol that night) and treated me like shite...he was also cheating on me (I was not fridgid) and I ended up despising him...not that I showed it in a venomous way...I just wanted him not to be there....my life ran smoothly without him.....I just didn't love him and hadn't for a long long time....I got fed up being nice and getting nothing back.....was easier to ignore him x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

When i was little, i was always told "ask and you won't get". Maybe this is where you are going wrong, perhaps you should stop asking her for a blow job and just stick it in her mouth

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Stop watching porn and believing that that is how couples always behave.

Some women like oral some detest it. Put your phone away and talk to your wife, take time off work and talk to your wife, as a person not as a sex toy.

Oh and have I mentioned talk to your wife!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol good responds yea it's my wife and we been too counsler I work 7 days a week 12 days I have too ask her for a kiss and a hug ! At the point were there is no hope! """"""""She would never be able to survive on her own """"""""! So I look at porn and have skyped with a couple woman to get some release is that wrong

you would be surprised how strong women are, I am sure she can live a happy life without you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna stick my 2p in now. I used to hate physical contact with my ex husband. Used to ask for hugs but used to huff at him as I just didn't like it, he never liked kissing so gave up on that too. Always felt weird when we did.

With ads though I am completely different. Even when me and my ex first got together I never liked it but with ads it was instant, always hugging, cuddling and everything else.

Don't really know if I'm suggesting anything here but that's my experience

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those men are talking utter bullshit. They say they love their wives and would do anything to please them? Get real. If they loved their wife they would respect her wishes.

Own your actions!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex used to work away mon-Fri....he would come back and moan about the house (house was spotless btw) or dinner not right (didn't fancy spag bol that night) and treated me like shite...he was also cheating on me (I was not fridgid) and I ended up despising him...not that I showed it in a venomous way...I just wanted him not to be there....my life ran smoothly without him.....I just didn't love him and hadn't for a long long time....I got fed up being nice and getting nothing back.....was easier to ignore him x"

Probably exactly the case in many of the marriages of the 'single men' on here.

But it's the woman's fault for being frigid. Never ever ever the man's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably exactly the case in many of the marriages of the 'single men' on here.

But it's the woman's fault for being frigid. Never ever ever the man's fault. "

Ano. ....if they could only see it through a woman's eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad we had this thread.

I've had a lovely conversation this morning with some lovely people who, without knowing me or my wife, our history, relationship, or anything else about my life, has managed to explain to why what they do is right and what I do is wrong and what a fucking disgrace I am (I'm obviously not quoting private messages, because that's not permitted, but you get the gist).

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

OP talk to your wife. It sounds like you two don't communicate very well, so I'd start there. Good luck

Totally agree. Shame people can't comment on the question though and instead have to make insulting comments to someone. Seems to be a common thing at the minute on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread."

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

Oh ok, so you're all going to follow up the nasty jibes by being kind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

Oh ok, so you're all going to follow up the nasty jibes by being kind? "

Because you've never once been nasty on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

And some people use the word "honest" as an excuse to say anything they like. Oh and smileys mean that cunty comments are offered in a friendly way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

Oh ok, so you're all going to follow up the nasty jibes by being kind?

Because you've never once been nasty on here ?

I don't believe I have. I definitely don't fake someone's thread asking for advice and turn it into an excuse to make horrible comments about their genitals. If you feel differently, feel free to furnish me with a specific example.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

Yep , perhaps I didn't get the point across properly though .

Depression , emotional void , and it's no longer the person one married any more .

Do I think women are only useful for sex ?

No , but within a marriage it sure as hell helps if they do want it !

Do I think you're a mug ?

I don't know your circumstances so I couldn't possibly say . But if my wife wasn't interested in sex I wouldn't be staying around , and that's for sure . "
. I have read this over and over and normally I wouldn't comment, but that makes me feel incredibly sad, I have watched you two over the time I have been here, your posts have made me smile, made me think and sometimes made me horny, and in all of that I have always judged you two of being so in love with each other, I always had the impression that you are having an amazing sexual time but if it ended tomorrow, then it's no biggie, now perhaps Sabrina feels the same way about you, and if you stopped having sex with her she would leave, and if that is the case then so be it, but if it's not then surely reading this would be tough, now I'm making assumptions that it's one sided, I get that, but even if it's not, you have children, and commitments to each other and sometimes life gets in the way, if you would really leave because sex had ended for a while, then yep that makes me sad, and I have to say, I got you all wrong

Mrs blue eyesxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

Could be worse, they might also have been incredibly cruel about your penis, as they have done with the OP of this thread.

Sometimes a person has to first be cruel in order to be kind

And some people use the word "honest" as an excuse to say anything they like. Oh and smileys mean that cunty comments are offered in a friendly way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, tough crowd here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, tough crowd here!

I suggest you wear full armour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those men are talking utter bullshit. They say they love their wives and would do anything to please them? Get real. If they loved their wife they would respect her wishes.

Own your actions!!"

Agree totally.

Behaving in such a distasteful way towards your wife is dishonest and shows no respect.

If you are going to cheat on her at least be honest with her. Are we dishonest to people we say we love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those men are talking utter bullshit. They say they love their wives and would do anything to please them? Get real. If they loved their wife they would respect her wishes.

Own your actions!!

Agree totally.

Behaving in such a distasteful way towards your wife is dishonest and shows no respect.

If you are going to cheat on her at least be honest with her. Are we dishonest to people we say we love?

No we are not, we ain't nasty with them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

Yep , perhaps I didn't get the point across properly though .

Depression , emotional void , and it's no longer the person one married any more .

Do I think women are only useful for sex ?

No , but within a marriage it sure as hell helps if they do want it !

Do I think you're a mug ?

I don't know your circumstances so I couldn't possibly say . But if my wife wasn't interested in sex I wouldn't be staying around , and that's for sure . . I have read this over and over and normally I wouldn't comment, but that makes me feel incredibly sad, I have watched you two over the time I have been here, your posts have made me smile, made me think and sometimes made me horny, and in all of that I have always judged you two of being so in love with each other, I always had the impression that you are having an amazing sexual time but if it ended tomorrow, then it's no biggie, now perhaps Sabrina feels the same way about you, and if you stopped having sex with her she would leave, and if that is the case then so be it, but if it's not then surely reading this would be tough, now I'm making assumptions that it's one sided, I get that, but even if it's not, you have children, and commitments to each other and sometimes life gets in the way, if you would really leave because sex had ended for a while, then yep that makes me sad, and I have to say, I got you all wrong

Mrs blue eyesxxx"

Sorry this has made you sad

We have been together six and a half years .

We both came out of long term relationships some seven years ago . And the sex in both was not good , especially towards the end . Plenty of other reasons though , including an affair ( not me by the way ) .

Anyway , we spent the first year together as any other couple . Getting to know each other , never a thought if swinging . Her 2 year old son lived with her ex . We fell in love , and began to entertain the thought of swinging in the throes of our bedroom antics and started a year into our relationship . We loved it , had no negatives and got engaged nine months later . Her son moved in with us and six months later we married .

Neither of us has ever been happier , her son is now happy ( his dad never really wanted him and his new partner certainly didn't , hence his decision to desert him ) and we have a wonderful life .

But , and here's the thing . Sex between us is still absolutely fantastic . The one thing that despite anything else that may happen , which we can share and feel the bond and closeness we have . Sex is our drug of choice . Neither of us drink , we don't do drugs , we work together , we raise her son together , we build our home and our lives together and truly are soul mates too . And the sex is the foundation and the cement which holds everything together .

So where would we be without sex ?

What would hold it all together ?

We both had relationships where sex wasn't important and look what happened to them .

My original post was a tad trite , I accept that . A long day at work , and a bit tired is my excuse . But the fact remains , a sexless marriage is not what either of us would want , nor entertain .

I don't doubt that my wife would be more willing than me to try and make it work without sex . Hopefully that won't ever happen , but if it does , we have discussed it , and we both agree that the intimacy and passion of a sexual relationship is vital for us .

So , while my comments yesterday were less tactile than they should have been , I do stand by them .

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

southampton

""Suck me, beautiful""

still love that film !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave her and find a younger hot woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don't take this offensively op but,,, I get the distinct impression your wife thinks your a selfish slob that only pays her any attention when you want your cock sucking ?

Spot on I'd say!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

dont marry them then..simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a long term relationship you can easily forget each other, especially when forced apart by work.

marriage councilling is good, but it focuses on the problem in the relationship not on why it's there in the first place.

Think back to when you first got together, think of your wife as an independent shagable piece of ass that you want to get with. chat her up and take her out on dates, the sex may follow, got a lot bether chance tHan if you get home from work dirty and tired and expect a clean house, dinner and a blow job.

It's all to easy to focus on the cost of running a household, and division of labour, and forget you are two people who used to enjoy each other.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"In a long term relationship you can easily forget each other, especially when forced apart by work.

marriage councilling is good, but it focuses on the problem in the relationship not on why it's there in the first place.

It's all to easy to focus on the cost of running a household, and division of labour, and forget you are two people who used to enjoy each other."
thats never happened in my LTR's.. preferred sex to housework and competing with the 'other'..key value in choosing a partner..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

My opinion on the wives who don't give them much sex is that they are useless wives and may as well be a platonic mate .

And my opinion on the men who love their wives and would do anything to please them , despite not getting any sex , is that they are mugs .

Useless?

So a woman has no use other than sex? And a relationship has no use other than sex?

Yep , perhaps I didn't get the point across properly though .

Depression , emotional void , and it's no longer the person one married any more .

Do I think women are only useful for sex ?

No , but within a marriage it sure as hell helps if they do want it !

Do I think you're a mug ?

Mrs blue eyesxxx

Sorry this has made you sad

We have been together six and a half years .

Neither of us has ever been happier , her son is now happy ( his dad never really wanted him and his new partner certainly didn't , hence his decision to desert him ) and we have a wonderful life .

So where would we be without sex ?

What would hold it all together ?

We both had relationships where sex wasn't important and look what happened to them .

My original post was a tad trite , I accept that . A long day at work , and a bit tired is my excuse . But the fact remains , a sexless marriage is not what either of us would want , nor entertain .

So , while my comments yesterday were less tactile than they should have been , I do stand by them .

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. never have I known you to be so open and candid, and I absolutely respect you so much for being so, I respect your relationship and the turns it has taken, I truly believe you are a wonderful couple together, I believe you are doing a fabulous job in creating a lovely family life, and I totally get that sex is so important to you both so much and I get that really it's not just sex, it's passion and it's addictive, but all that said, I'm perhaps a little more sad that if the sex ended then so would your relationship, but in a more real life situation would I comment on this if we had never met, then no I wouldn't, so for that I truly apologise, I feel I pryed, and I'm sorry, and you know what, who knows what would happen? Your connection, your bond may still be around,if the sex should end, and god knows you will have some amazing memories

and perhaps that's all you'll need, and if not, then you are adults who are fully in a relationship with your eyes open

xxxxxx Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you? "

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a long term relationship you can easily forget each other, especially when forced apart by work.

marriage councilling is good, but it focuses on the problem in the relationship not on why it's there in the first place.

It's all to easy to focus on the cost of running a household, and division of labour, and forget you are two people who used to enjoy each other. thats never happened in my LTR's.. preferred sex to housework and competing with the 'other'..key value in choosing a partner.."

Not happened to us either, but we never forgot to date each other.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two. "

But if Fab has taught us anything it's that it's the best thing for everyone in all circumstances to do is to bin off an entire loving relationship when one part of it doesn't work exactly as we'd like it, because it's always best for everyone to be "honest".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you? "

Good question .

It depends on what it is she wanted next year I guess . If she just didn't want me , resisted my advances , and things went the way if the op then yes I would leave her . I couldn't be in a relationship where I wasn't wanted , desired , or needed .

Honesty between us has always been a massive thing . Because of our desire to be truly happy , we both decided from day one that no matter what it was , we would be totally honest with each other . On the odd occasion I could say we have had a few ups and downs with this policy , but nothing major .

If she felt she couldn't be honest with me for whatever reason , then we have failed . Fortunately that's not the case , and I hope it never will be . She knows she can say anything at all to me and I will listen , learn , and most importantly , understand and act upon what's been said .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

When life gets tough , when you feel down , when you just have to feel wanted , desired , needed or simply not all alone , sex with someone you feel totally connected to can help pull you out of the shit you are sinking into .

We are lucky we have each other , and together we feel we can achieve anything . The sex we have is the icing on the cake , but also a major part of the substance that holds the cake together . Without it , the cake would fall apart , and it couldn't be iced . Is that so bad ? To be so honest that we accept that sex together is so important ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together . "

The nature of forums is to over simplify, the reality is its seldom an on off switch, You ride the roller coaster together, and resolve things by talking before they become a real problem.

think the OP and his wife have been in different fair grounds for so long they have forgotten what fun together is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together . "

You can desire someone but not have the urge to Fuck them. It sounds like a woman HAS to sleep with you and if she doesn't, then she's dumped. That's practically putting someone under constant long standing pressure to sleep with you!

. Maybe that's not exactly the case but that is how you're coming across. Shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

No I don't think that is bad at all. What I was referring to is the declaration made by many (not necessarily you guys) on here that this is the right thing to do for everyone, ever. People extrapolating from their own situation and applying to other people they don't know and have never met. Someone will be along shortly to tell us all about how they left their partner because they're so "brave" and we're all supposed to bow down and applaud them because they were honest.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together .

. Maybe that's not exactly the case but that is how you're coming across. Shocking."
its not coming across like that at all..to be honest enough to say that sex is important, to be desired is important to know you are wanted is important, is key..if the action doesn't reflect the words, something needs to change, if the change cant be negotiated then the connection goes and other issues arise..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Professional relationship counselling?

Other than that & communication, I have no idea.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

Like you said earlier in this post regarding your comment made wasn't very tactful because you was tired,likewise maybe I didn't articulate my comment to you in the best way,whilst my feelings remain the same regarding your thoughts I'd like to apologise to you both in how I put my point across you,plus West ham got another damn spanking and I wasn't in the best of moods

Sorry........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

Sorry........

It's all good guys , totally respect your opinion on the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

I agree with the above poster; I think that's really quite sad. You two seem so close. I really can't believe that changing sex drives would be enough to break up a couple as close as you two.

Sorry........

It's all good guys , totally respect your opinion on the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together .

. Maybe that's not exactly the case but that is how you're coming across. Shocking."

Shocking ?

Perhaps you really see it like that and that's cool .

It's certainly not shocking to me to feel that when someone no longer wants sex with me there's an essential component missing . How is she gonna be happy if she is with a husband she no longer fancies ? How am I gonna feel , knowing my wife no longer wants to share her sexual desires with me ?

Should we take up a hobby which doesn't involve sex , forget the wonderful times we had together , no longer enjoy the feeling of togetherness that sex gives us ?

Compromise is essential in any successful relationship , but to no longer have any desire to have sex between husband and wife would be a compromise too far for either of us . Particularly if one of us still desired and wanted the other , but it wasn't wanted by the other .

Hardly shocking to be fair is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together .

. Maybe that's not exactly the case but that is how you're coming across. Shocking.

Shocking ?

Perhaps you really see it like that and that's cool .

Should we take up a hobby which doesn't involve sex , forget the wonderful times we had together , no longer enjoy the feeling of togetherness that sex gives us ?

Hardly shocking to be fair is it ?"

No it's not shocking at all and to me makes perfect sense actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, Gloswingers, you openly say that you'd leave if your wife didn't want to continue having sex like you currently do.

What if she wants something different next year? You'd just leave her?

You think she could be honest now without fear of losing you?

Good question .

If she said she no longer wanted sex with me , then I would know she no longer desired me , and without that there would be no reason to remain together .

. Maybe that's not exactly the case but that is how you're coming across. Shocking.

Shocking ?

Perhaps you really see it like that and that's cool .

Should we take up a hobby which doesn't involve sex , forget the wonderful times we had together , no longer enjoy the feeling of togetherness that sex gives us ?

Hardly shocking to be fair is it ?"

It would be shocking for some people though. It's almost like emotional blackmail. I know what she meant.

You know your relationship and what works for you. That's good. I think the question is, what happens when one of you can't have sex anymore even if they want to... due to age for example. I doubt many 80 year olds go out dogging.

Not asking you to answer this. It's just a thought.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I doubt many 80 year olds go out dogging.

Not asking you to answer this. It's just a thought. "

Nowt wrong with a Nissan Micra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i was little, i was always told "ask and you won't get". Maybe this is where you are going wrong, perhaps you should stop asking her for a blow job and just stick it in her mouth

You could get put in prison for that. The irony would be harder to stomach than your prison daddies spunk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex with hubby

Giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love sex with hubby

Giving and receiving "

Yeah that will make op feel better

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"No I don't think that is bad at all. What I was referring to is the declaration made by many (not necessarily you guys) on here that this is the right thing to do for everyone, ever. People extrapolating from their own situation and applying to other people they don't know and have never met. Someone will be along shortly to tell us all about how they left their partner because they're so "brave" and we're all supposed to bow down and applaud them because they were honest. "

But that is Fab.

Who knows whose experience is more valid: my sister, with her wealth of experience from 4 separate marriages, or mine for helping hold together only one? It reminds me of the time when we first had children, how free with their advice people would be despite only ever having had one child, but they could never appreciate the difference between 'what worked with their particular child' from 'what works for ALL children'.

All any OP can do is accept that there will be many 'answers', and it is up to them to take solace in the fact that maybe someone has been in a similar position and can pass on a little empathy. Hopefully they can filter out the others...

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she no longer fancies you? What have you done to deserve that?

Don't tell me you joined a swingers site behind her back?

Don't judge people we don't know all the facts and at the end of the day it is Ops' problem

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

If I helps, TT, I have always felt that when people are too cowardly to post their opinion on an open forum, where it can be challenged, then it loses much of its validity.

When they PM and then block, it loses it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

If I helps, TT, I have always felt that when people are too cowardly to post their opinion on an open forum, where it can be challenged, then it loses much of its validity.

When they PM and then block, it loses it all.

Thanks for commenting.

No, it doesn't help.

I wish I could post what they wanted to happen to a "friend" of theirs who had confided in them. I'll say in all honesty that I'm better person than either of them.

People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

If I helps, TT, I have always felt that when people are too cowardly to post their opinion on an open forum, where it can be challenged, then it loses much of its validity.

When they PM and then block, it loses it all.

Thanks for commenting.

No, it doesn't help.

I wish I could post what they wanted to happen to a "friend" of theirs who had confided in them. I'll say in all honesty that I'm better person than either of them.

People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same. "

We should check them against Ruby's list of hypocrites, just for research purposes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women go off sex for all different manner of reasons as do guys.

With my ex wife its a wonder I have two kids.

Sex was always planned. Used to have to let her know in the morning If I wanted sex that night then if the wind was in the right direction amd the planets aligned and the moon in the right phase and she could be bothered I MIGHT get lucky.

Yet I NEVER once cheated on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

If I helps, TT, I have always felt that when people are too cowardly to post their opinion on an open forum, where it can be challenged, then it loses much of its validity.

When they PM and then block, it loses it all.

Thanks for commenting.

No, it doesn't help.

I wish I could post what they wanted to happen to a "friend" of theirs who had confided in them. I'll say in all honesty that I'm better person than either of them.

People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same.

We should check them against Ruby's list of hypocrites, just for research purposes..."

I haven't yet had an offer of sex from them yet. You probably will have though

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"maybe its not worth the effort of cleaning up after you when you didn't even hit it right in the first place

Maybe, with looking after a house, children, and a hubby who spends a lot if time on the toilet with his phone, she hasn't got ther energy.

Maybe, she knows you are looking to have illicit encounters, with other women, and doesn't want to sleep with an unfaithful ungrateful man.

Maybe, she is too tired after being stretched wide by the local rugby team.

Talk to your wife man, she deserves better than to be lied yo and cheated on, don't you think?

Wow, can we stuff you and put you on the wall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women go off sex for all different manner of reasons as do guys.

With my ex wife its a wonder I have two kids.

Yet I NEVER once cheated on her."

Your ex wife. Sorry, what's your point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad we had this thread.

I'm glad there's people in the world willing to go that extra mile to help others.

It's a shame they won't post on here to help everyone else out too because they are absolutely lovely.

It's a beautiful day.

If I helps, TT, I have always felt that when people are too cowardly to post their opinion on an open forum, where it can be challenged, then it loses much of its validity.

When they PM and then block, it loses it all.

Thanks for commenting.

No, it doesn't help.

I wish I could post what they wanted to happen to a "friend" of theirs who had confided in them. I'll say in all honesty that I'm better person than either of them.

People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same.

We should check them against Ruby's list of hypocrites, just for research purposes...

I haven't yet had an offer of sex from them yet. You probably will have though

That's my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try giveing it a trim down there.ect .dosnt look very good like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op if you are genuinely after advice here ?

Ok here it is, loose some weight and a bit of body hair, take 2 months maybe 3 off work , have a bath not a shower,

Clean the house yourself but send her to a 3 day weekend spa whilst your wearing the marry golds

When she is due to return play a little soft music from yours and hers past

Run her a bubbly bath and candles make the bathroom all cosy and warm

Then talk to the women properly

Do not and I repeat

DO NOT ASK HER TO SUCK YOUR DICK

Im sorry I couldnt help but laugh as that reminds me of the baz lurman song called sunscreen

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same."

(which is kinda what I was saying in answer to Ruby's post)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know you or your wife so i dont know the reasons why she doesnt want sex but i am a married man we have been together a long time and had our share of ups and downs and the problem is patently obvious

Lack of communication its the same thing that kills most relationships.

She wont communicate about whats making her depressed and you would rather spend your time on here than trying to fix the issue all i can say is unless you both open up and talk honestly about all of your wants desires and needs the relationship is doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""People are unique and complicated. Relationships have the cartesian product of those compilations and variations. And no two are the same."

(which is kinda what I was saying in answer to Ruby's post)

Nice piece closed thread commenting there DDC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*piece of

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