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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!"

I'm liking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from Newcastle, this is something I already do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who do that around here are seen as nutters. I talk to old people and some women,not men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore a perv upon highheels, and the way she appears not up her arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore a perv upon highheels, and the way she appears not up her arse!"

Are you on the wrong thread young man ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Northeners do that all the time!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I always say hello to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore a perv upon highheels, and the way she appears not up her arse!

Are you on the wrong thread young man ?"

I thought this was the real world...oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming from Newcastle, this is something I already do "

Same over in Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Northeners do that all the time! "

We are a friendly bunch that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!"

Isn't that the norm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going out today....I'm having too much fun in the shower.

Oh but I'm delightfully polite when I'm out in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In wales we say alright butty how you doing who's coats that jacket on the floor over there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not going out today....I'm having too much fun in the shower.

Oh but I'm delightfully polite when I'm out in public "

Ain't you feeling lonely in that shower want someone to join you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Northeners do that all the time! "

So do Southerners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say hello and smile at strangers if eye contact is made. It costs nothing to be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!

Isn't that the norm?"

According to my other thread, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!

Isn't that the norm?

According to my other thread, no."

There's a big difference in saying hi to someone you pass in the street and going up and saying hello to someone in a pub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Following on from my thread on approaching beautiful people, here's an idea.

Instead of playing a forum game, today when you're out and about, any time you see someone you like the look of, you need to say hi to them. It doesn't have to be a full conversation starter, just smile and say hello, and see what happens.

I want to see how peoples experiences at this sort of thing in the real world differ from on here - its a Saturday, so get out there and spot a hottie!

Isn't that the norm?

According to my other thread, no.

There's a big difference in saying hi to someone you pass in the street and going up and saying hello to someone in a pub. "

Only in the confidence it takes.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

In London.. Are you mad!!

I will end up being sectioned!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I say hello to people all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a big difference in saying hi to someone you pass in the street and going up and saying hello to someone in a pub. "

I'll happily smile at, make eye contact with and greet people in general while in the street, on public transport, while queuing at a till or stood at a bar.

The smile and eye contact may change depending on the person in question, obviously.

However, I have never in my life chatted someone up.

So this is very very different from the other thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thread was about chatting up the most stunningly beautiful person you'd ever seen. This time it's saying hello to 'anyone you like the look of'. These are slightly different things. Anyway, I'm in a bad mood, so I won't be doing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The other thread was about chatting up the most stunningly beautiful person you'd ever seen. This time it's saying hello to 'anyone you like the look of'. These are slightly different things. Anyway, I'm in a bad mood, so I won't be doing either. "

Oh fuck... I'm staying out of your way then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say hello and smile at strangers if eye contact is made. It costs nothing to be nice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Northeners do that all the time!

So do Southerners"

And then they say "give me your wallet you fucker!"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Was in a cafe earlier, picking up tableware - they were short of it. A fanciable guy comes over, I spoke - he needed a fork, then I asked the assistant for some. I returned a few minutes later, picked mine and his up and walked back. We meet in the aisle, we both smiled and I gave him his fork, whilst he'd been walking to the till area. He was caught off-guard, and the love spread around. We're now Team Sophie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Northeners do that all the time!

So do Southerners

And then they say "give me your wallet you fucker!"

"

We say please, we have manners in the south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say hello to people I know but I wouldn't go out of my way to say hello to a stranger in case they ignored me..

and then I'd look daft

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I look daft a lot, without trying but it doesn't stop me from starting conversations. I've gone on holidays with people that were relationships started from my chatting and flirting. Otherwise I prefer our world to be friendly and people not disconnected. I'm just back from a summer in the USA, where we generally talk to strangers more than in much of the UK.

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