FabSwingers.com forum: Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good god, no

I am happy to judge the fuckers without that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then you can say what you like because you will be a mile away and have their shoes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god, no

I am happy to judge the fuckers without that shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And then you can say what you like because you will be a mile away and have their shoes

Pretty much, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it's quite hard to do that over the Internet.

And we all judge in someway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah it's quite hard to do that over the Internet.

And we all judge in someway. "

Click the same buttons as someone else before you judge them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I would never wear someone else's shoes

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge people way to soon, i must try and stop it. Atleast a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges everyone ... all the time ... FACT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge without realising, but we should try not to. We don't know what it's like to be that person, and we're all wired up differently and have different circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all judge without realising, but we should try not to. We don't know what it's like to be that person, and we're all wired up differently and have different circumstances. "

???? some people just like to stir things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure where the ???? Came from. Supposed to be a thumb.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not walking a mile in the shoes of the man walking towards me with a giant axe and a menacing gleam in his eyes...I'm flaming well running as fast as my little legs will carry me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I don't need to have been in someone's situation to think they're a cunt.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"I'm not sure where the ???? Came from. Supposed to be a thumb. "

You can only use the forum smileys...others come up as question marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others said, we all judge to a degree, nowadays though I'll admit I get it wrong sometimes.

Sarah

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I judge people all the time.

I just don't feel the constant need to tell them my conclusion. I keep my mouth shut.... mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure where the ???? Came from. Supposed to be a thumb.

You can only use the forum smileys...others come up as question marks."

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish my H would bring my shoes back the little arsehole! (Before I get pounced apon that is her given name by herself for me to call her.

it's a long story

) xxx

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them .....

and hope they haven't taken the car to catch up with you stealing their clothes!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them .....

and hope they haven't taken the car to catch up with you stealing their clothes!

*...and then you'll have their shoes and a good head start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging can be positive as well as negative, and some are better at it than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge some do it more verbally than others....but we all do it and are guilty just the same.

It's both humbling and grounding to walk in someone else shoes. Sometimes we assume those better off than ourselves to have it much easier either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can barely walk in my own shoes, never mind anyone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope, I don't need to have been in someone's situation to think they're a cunt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar

I do judge but it takes a lot and first I have to be certain or as close as about my thoughts.

If I was to judge society as a whole, we are all depressed and not really ever content with anything ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?"

I'm not sure about the psychology behind this ........ I think it's been moulded/misinterpreted to suit.

I'd go as far as to agree it can reveal something the judge dislikes but it can't define them.

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By *onny bigMan
over a year ago

london harrow

Everybody's a judge but nobody wants to be judged, its human nature.

It's the in which some people judge others lie's a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

observe judge react

whereas some judge react

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the cry babies whine about being judged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Judging can be positive as well as negative, and some are better at it than others."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can barely walk in my own shoes, never mind anyone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?

I'm not sure about the psychology behind this ........ I think it's been moulded/misinterpreted to suit.

I'd go as far as to agree it can reveal something the judge dislikes but it can't define them. "

I have to agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?"

I think I know what you mean by that. Possibly revealing something about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning."

Naaa- fuck it- other people's shoes smell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar

I do judge but it takes a lot and first I have to be certain or as close as about my thoughts.

If I was to judge society as a whole, we are all depressed and not really ever content with anything ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning.

Naaa- fuck it- other people's shoes smell."

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god, no

I am happy to judge the fuckers without that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only the cry babies whine about being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we all judge .

Actors playing specific roles are chosen as they will be judged by the audience to portray that role .

As is the case with documentary type programmes , media , newspapers etc.....

And on here , especially on here .

They do this , they do that , they don't kiss , they like a hairy muff , they do bareback , they like dogging , they don't do socials , they have how many verifications , look at those action shots , ewww...... Cum shots , cock pics , he's bi , that tv looks like a bloke in a dress , she's fat , beards , and the list goes on ..... We show pics for visual judgement , we write a profile to show what we like and dislike , and are judged by each and every person who reads it and looks at the pics .

There really isn't any need to walk in someone else's shoes before judging them . It's a done deal the moment we set eyes on them .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course we all judge .

Actors playing specific roles are chosen as they will be judged by the audience to portray that role .

As is the case with documentary type programmes , media , newspapers etc.....

And on here , especially on here .

There really isn't any need to walk in someone else's shoes before judging them . It's a done deal the moment we set eyes on them ."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've got really small feet so don't go ruining my shoes walking a mile in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be a mile ?

A mile aint really that great a distance to walk ?

Why not 10 miles ? Or a bit more ?

Why a mile ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got really small feet so don't go ruining my shoes walking a mile in them.

I tried em on but they didn't fit me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why does it have to be a mile ?

A mile aint really that great a distance to walk ?

Why not 10 miles ? Or a bit more ?

Why a mile ?"

A mile is more than long enough if the shoes are ill-fitting.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've got really small feet so don't go ruining my shoes walking a mile in them.

I tried em on but they didn't fit me

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it have to be a mile ?

A mile aint really that great a distance to walk ?

Why not 10 miles ? Or a bit more ?

Why a mile ?

A mile is more than long enough if the shoes are ill-fitting.

Barefoot and carry the shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewwww! Sounds like a recipe for athletes foot. You can keep your socks on.

Appreciate the sentiment though. There is the concept that we need to judge in order to maintain personal safety. I try and keep it to a minimum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ewwww! Sounds like a recipe for athletes foot. You can keep your socks on.

Appreciate the sentiment though. There is the concept that we need to judge in order to maintain personal safety. I try and keep it to a minimum. "

I guess that makes sense

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

We can all be overly judgemental on the basis of. A few Ill chosen words..

Surely a poorly worded sentence shouldn't be the basis of our decision making..

Step back, think about it and then move on..

Of course, if they are a repeat offender then just block the buggers.

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