FabSwingers.com forum: Anal about verifications

By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

So, I've seen on some profiles people mention they want a verification if they leave you one as it's rude blah blah blah.

I personally don't get all het up on getting them, I always ask if the person wants one, but I wouldn't demand one, or get pissy if they didn't.

It's not like it's Amazon and you need to read a re_iew before you meet that person!!!!

What's your _iew on them?

Do you demand them? If so why? Or are you a couldn't be mithered?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm a couldn't be mithered. I don't think my veris would tell anyone anything about me they wouldn't find out by having a conversation with me.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I'm a couldn't be mithered. I don't think my veris would tell anyone anything about me they wouldn't find out by having a conversation with me."

Exactly. And they can't send you back for a refund if you didn't fulfill the exact wording of your previous verification!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I've seen on some profiles people mention they want a verification if they leave you one as it's rude blah blah blah.

I personally don't get all het up on getting them, I always ask if the person wants one, but I wouldn't demand one, or get pissy if they didn't.

It's not like it's Amazon and you need to read a re_iew before you meet that person!!!!

What's your _iew on them?

Do you demand them? If so why? Or are you a couldn't be mithered?"

No mention of you can't or struggle to get a meet without though?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think veri's are important, more so for men, woman will get 30 offers of a meet everyday so your right they mean nothing to you, and yes they probably don't do anymore for someone than a few messages would do, but most men don't get the chance at those "few messages"

It does annoy me when I meet people and they fail to leave a veri, I hate the in depth detail ones, just a few lines saying yeah he is the bloke in the pictures and we did/didn't have a good night is fine, especially if you send them a nice write up which they show on there profile.

Thread after thread here woman and Cpls are complaining about the "No shows" they encounter, well a few veri's on a single males profile should help people find the ones that will turn up and not let people down.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

What makes us die is when we joined it was "You'll struggle till you get veried" & you need to go to clubs really"..

Done that then, got them then..

Hasn't made the slightest bit of difference..

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol

As newbies to the site we've found that having them helps you get in touch with people but now we have a couple we wouldn't want to collect them.

The odd one is nice just to show that we're still a couple and not just one of us remaining on the couples profile after splitting up.

We check for this as we've heard a couple of horror stories.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I always ask if they want one, what I meant was I wouldn't block somebody or get pissy if they didn't leave me one.

And yes I do have them, I just don't display them as some women do get jealous of your veris and I've had altercations about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a few to prove you're genuine and an actual hoooman I don't see why people get worked up over them.

Maybe for single guys it's more important I don't know

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,it doesnt bother us either

Miss

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

If someone gives you a verification we think its bad manners no to reciprocate.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

After 1 or 2, pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are handy to show 2 things for me.

1. The persons genuine

2. They have / do meet people on some form of regular basis.

For me that cuts out most if not all of the timewasters / dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and receive veris..I don't care if you don't display them..and more often than not I don't either..but I have a really bad memory and that's why I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet world who have them tbh kinda like a reference lol x but I'm a bit hypercritical because I don't show mine x I worry that they make me look like a hoe lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be bothered anymore really. I'll offer one. Will never request one. Only read them for entertainment value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After well over 500 on this profile we couldn't give a flying fuck if we never get another to be honest

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I always ask if they want one, what I meant was I wouldn't block somebody or get pissy if they didn't leave me one.

And yes I do have them, I just don't display them as some women do get jealous of your veris and I've had altercations about them "

Oh no, I've still to do a couple from the weekend, no one has chased for them & we haven't chased them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never bothered with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although I will admit to looking at them on some profiles and then being put off - not by them, but by who they met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never request them as never know what to say to reciprocate, however, I always try to veri any newbies I meet at various socials or parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like veris after socials to proove were still active on the site but it doesn't bother me if we don't recieve one. Not overly fussed about veris after sex as hate it when what I have been up to is published for all to see so don't always show them if we get them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered by them really. I only show my social ones any way and I never know what to write.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I'm not anal about verifications but happy to give an anal verification.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I'm not anal about verifications but happy to give an anal verification.

Please read lube thread first tho and be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I've seen on some profiles people mention they want a verification if they leave you one as it's rude blah blah blah.

I personally don't get all het up on getting them, I always ask if the person wants one, but I wouldn't demand one, or get pissy if they didn't.

It's not like it's Amazon and you need to read a re_iew before you meet that person!!!!

What's your _iew on them?

Do you demand them? If so why? Or are you a couldn't be mithered?"

I don't really look at them. I would if I thought there was a possibility of meeting in the future. I'd prefer to meet people with a few rather than loads.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I'm not bothered by them really. I only show my social ones any way and I never know what to write. "

Why did the ant cross the road?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not like it's Amazon and you need to read a re_iew before you meet that person!!!!"

Perhaps not a 're_iew', per se; but I would posit that that's exactly how many single fems and couples think when they're 'shopping' for single guys.

As TemplarWarrior's already pointed out, in such a saturated market, even a single verification can be the USP between your profile and countless others, in so far as affording you the opportunity to put your personality across in subsequent messages. (I think that's all the mileage I can squeeze out of that analogy!)

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I'm not anal about verifications but happy to give an anal verification.

Please read lube thread first tho and be prepared

Have done and commented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we recently deleted our account of 4 years - lost about 80 verifications - got about 10 back in an hour or two of new account - but they arent the be all and end all

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I leave a verification I expect one back, even if its nothing more than 'she turned up'. If I don't leave one, I don't expect one back.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I think mine explains the night pefectly

"I'm leaving you one whether you want it or not"

Demanding shit that one

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not bothered by them really. I only show my social ones any way and I never know what to write.

Why did the ant cross the road?"

I don't know.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't. "

'Straight' men rarely do, I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't. "

I like to leave a pervy trail...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't.

I like to leave a pervy trail...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't.

I like to leave a pervy trail...

made me think slug hahaha

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't.

I like to leave a pervy trail...

You did not show my verification when we decided to be cat-burglars in Paris... Ok! We got lifted by the gendarmerie....but would have been a great veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either - some verify, some don't.

I like to leave a pervy trail...

You did not show my verification when we decided to be cat-burglars in Paris... Ok! We got lifted by the gendarmerie....but would have been a great veri!"

I thought we weren't to speak of that fiasco again?

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!"

Meh, his are okay I guess.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Only leave the last one, just a sign of what is happening.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!

Meh, his are okay I guess.

But a hatter veri is like an Olympic gold medal

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!

Meh, his are okay I guess.

I tend to do them when I'm half cut. Seems to be a constant

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!

Meh, his are okay I guess.

I tend to do them when I'm half cut. Seems to be a constant

For some reason, I want you to be doing them on a typewriter. Possibly whilst smoking a pipe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never get pissy or demand a veri but if I've left one it's nice if its reciprocated. I usually ask if they're into the whole veri thing because if they're not then it's not an issue.

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By *aughty_amazon OP Woman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I love giving and receiving verifications.

Mostly.

I strangely want one from.you...a veri...and not in a Pervy way...I know ur brutally honest and think it'll be funny!

Meh, his are okay I guess.

I tend to do them when I'm half cut. Seems to be a constant

For some reason, I want you to be doing them on a typewriter. Possibly whilst smoking a pipe. "

After last week I thinK he does them mid fuck with a cock in his mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always leave a verification, I don't get all grumpy if I don't get one in return.

I have hidden my verifications , I am quite happy to share them with friends who ask.

I do get a tad fed up with those who beg for verification or fabbs. Apart from good friends who as fun forumites help get chums up in the hot list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't Care less x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont demand them but I do enjoy reading them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think the first one is a hurdle that's good for many to overcome. I verify people who need it or anyone I want to 'keep all to myself', as people love seeing those and respect your ownership rights

I don't think much about veris.

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not bothered about them. Most are usually generic anyway "photos don't do her justice" "a great girl who deserves to be treated with respect" etc etc... If only one had a quid for every time these comments pop up on veris.

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Verifications are handy to show 2 things for me....

2. They have / do meet people on some form of regular basis.

For me that cuts out most if not all of the timewasters / dreamers."

Not everybody has either the time or desire to meet on a regular basis. Personally speaking we both have busy work, family and social lives. Swinging is an occasional distraction when we get time to do it. Not everybody has the time to visit clubs every week but we're not time wasters

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I think some people form too many assumptions based on veris. For me they are just proof that the person has actually met (not the Web cam ones of course) and that is all that matters.

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