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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hot or not?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

depends on the ex AND on what terms you left AND on how good the sex was - I left mine partly because that part was bad so not likely to go back for more of what I did not like in the first place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not the best especially when they are dead after i killed them and buried them

gets me all manky n dirty and the worms and beasties - ewwwwwwww

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Phew! Glad you warned us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not. Couldn't think of anything worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually found it better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big no no for me. Although i know a couple of my friends have. Mainly cus they can't let go. Sally x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

not the best especially when they are dead after i killed them and buried them

gets me all manky n dirty and the worms and beasties - ewwwwwwww

"

omg I am taking back what I just said to you lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A big no no for me. Although i know a couple of my friends have. Mainly cus they can't let go. Sally x"

And therein lies a problem - doesn't it...Not a healthy relationship perhaps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to paraphrase Samantha from Sex and the City - if it's good, you've not got it anymore, if it's not, well, you just had bad sex with an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partial to having sex with a future ex now there's an idea

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

they are ex's for a reason so a no from me

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot...."
remind me never to upset you

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot...."

Love the detail.....you must have thought long and hard about this fantasy pmsl

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot...."

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, who's my next ex??? remind me....

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot....

Love the detail.....you must have thought long and hard about this fantasy pmsl "

my ex thought that ,, a) i should have sex with him when ever he wanted.. no matter how i felt....

b) that i was a slut, whore and perverted because i wanted a vibrater..

c) was a total wanker....

D) never thought about my pleasure once..

i sometimes get the urge to call him and let him know excatly what sort of fun we are having now... every intermit details ,, including diragrams and photo evidence....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot....

Love the detail.....you must have thought long and hard about this fantasy pmsl

my ex thought that ,, a) i should have sex with him when ever he wanted.. no matter how i felt....

b) that i was a slut, whore and perverted because i wanted a vibrater..

c) was a total wanker....

D) never thought about my pleasure once..

i sometimes get the urge to call him and let him know excatly what sort of fun we are having now... every intermit details ,, including diragrams and photo evidence.... "

Oooo that's terrible! No wonder you got rid. Good on you girl x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot....

Love the detail.....you must have thought long and hard about this fantasy pmsl

my ex thought that ,, a) i should have sex with him when ever he wanted.. no matter how i felt....

b) that i was a slut, whore and perverted because i wanted a vibrater..

c) was a total wanker....

D) never thought about my pleasure once..

i sometimes get the urge to call him and let him know excatly what sort of fun we are having now... every intermit details ,, including diragrams and photo evidence.... "

Hell that sounds like an abusive relationship - no joke - and I can understand why you feel as you do... Good for you that you got out by the sound of it, before he could damage your self esteem...

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

what do you do if you run into your ex?

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. reverse the car and try again......

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot...."

Hahahahaha! That proper made me belly laugh!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I shagged my ex husband for a couple of years after we split up. Ceertainly wasnt a case of not being able to let go of the relationship. That was over. He was such a dirty bastard and i wasnt going to cut of my nose to spite my face thats for sure

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off "

Oooo thats going a bit far! stick with meat malleting his love eggs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I shagged my ex husband for a couple of years after we split up. Ceertainly wasnt a case of not being able to let go of the relationship. That was over. He was such a dirty bastard and i wasnt going to cut of my nose to spite my face thats for sure "

Ooo a girl after my own heat! Use him and abuse him

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off

Oooo thats going a bit far! stick with meat malleting his love eggs "
He didnt have any lol

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off "

i am sure the biker gang can take on your ex too .lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off

i am sure the biker gang can take on your ex too .lol "

Men in leather with big throbbing things between their legs! Mmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I would rather stick pins in my eyes and have all my extremities cut off

i am sure the biker gang can take on your ex too .lol "
oh i hadnt thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me ta!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex "
there is always a future...or doesnt that count

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i try and stay mates with my exe's but don't think i would jump into kip with em again ..there was one exception tho but she is no longer my ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for me ta!"

Never ever not even to take vengeance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no having to stay friend cos of the kids is hard anought

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"no having to stay friend cos of the kids is hard anought "

it is difficult when you ahve to stay friends but at the end of the day... its important to consider kids and their feelings... hard on you though

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count "

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is)

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is) "
omg..

pmsl... did nt mean for you to even consider that...lol.. but there is always room for more on that huge bed...;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no having to stay friend cos of the kids is hard anought "

Well good for you biting the bullet for the young ones. Can't be easy for you though.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is) omg..

pmsl... did nt mean for you to even consider that...lol.. but there is always room for more on that huge bed...;-)"

3 and 4 on a bed is good

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is) omg..

pmsl... did nt mean for you to even consider that...lol.. but there is always room for more on that huge bed...;-)"

you causing trouble again lol

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is) omg..

pmsl... did nt mean for you to even consider that...lol.. but there is always room for more on that huge bed...;-)

you causing trouble again lol "

I hope she's going to

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hmmmmmmmm not got an ex there is always a future...or doesnt that count

no intention of ditching K!!!!!!! she knows every woman I've ever known (in the biblical sense that is) omg..

pmsl... did nt mean for you to even consider that...lol.. but there is always room for more on that huge bed...;-)

you causing trouble again lol

I hope she's going to "

Ooops and I was not even trying here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"they are ex's for a reason so a no from me"

You are right but sometimes we fall do get tempted. I shall remember that they are an ex for a reason next time i am tempted.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby. "

Was it hot or not though?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby. "

did you remain "friends" after you had split ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would love to have sex again with my first serious boyfriend just to show him how much ive changed since those days

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby.

Was it hot or not though? "

It was a lot better then the first time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to have sex again with my first serious boyfriend just to show him how much ive changed since those days"

I bet he would be gagging for more if he got the chance.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I would love to have sex again with my first serious boyfriend just to show him how much ive changed since those days"
But what if they had not learnt in the same way.. you would end up feeling a bit frustrated I guess?

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby.

did you remain "friends" after you had split ? "

yes we stead very good friends.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I talk to my ex every day by email. We split 6 years ago. We've been chatting every day for the last couple of years. I have no idea why. I have no plans to meet him. It's quite odd but neither of us seem able to stop it.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I talk to my ex every day by email. We split 6 years ago. We've been chatting every day for the last couple of years. I have no idea why. I have no plans to meet him. It's quite odd but neither of us seem able to stop it. "

how long were you together ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I talk to my ex every day by email. We split 6 years ago. We've been chatting every day for the last couple of years. I have no idea why. I have no plans to meet him. It's quite odd but neither of us seem able to stop it. "

Maybe its pure lust on his part and he regrets loosing a sexy woman like you.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby.

did you remain "friends" after you had split ?

yes we stead very good friends. "

I can totally see that being a lovely experience, there is trust and friendship. And great that your partner is generous in want of a better word to allow it to happen. SOunds awesome

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I talk to my ex every day by email. We split 6 years ago. We've been chatting every day for the last couple of years. I have no idea why. I have no plans to meet him. It's quite odd but neither of us seem able to stop it. "

Just because you split from somebody it does not mean there is an end to the history you had with each other... and if you were at some point in love... and if there is friendship and trust - well, why not... It works when you are both grown up people, it would not work if one of you had an agenda of vengeance...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think he was my one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think he was my one. "

And he got away? Thats just not nice

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"I shagged my first boyfriend again few years a go with permission off my hubby.

did you remain "friends" after you had split ?

yes we stead very good friends.

I can totally see that being a lovely experience, there is trust and friendship. And great that your partner is generous in want of a better word to allow it to happen. SOunds awesome "

It was a fantastic buss for me and hubby trust me 100 percent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldnt have sex with an ex, though we are still friends - to a degree, facebook etc, I wouldnt get into a close friendship with them either. I dont believe in going backwards.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think he was my one.

And he got away? Thats just not nice "

Sometimes life is like that. It's all about timing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I wouldnt have sex with an ex, though we are still friends - to a degree, facebook etc, I wouldnt get into a close friendship with them either. I dont believe in going backwards. "

You are a strong woman. I wish i had your strength to avoid the temptation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think he was my one.

And he got away? Thats just not nice

Sometimes life is like that. It's all about timing. "

I had one i wish i hadn't lost and one i just couldn't get rid of for ages. Its hard to say which gave the most upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me ta!

Never ever not even to take vengeance? "

I'm on very good terms with my ex. I'll always love him and he's the father of my kids. It was his birthday yesterday but he ended up doing all my Easter shopping for me. He, our girls and I spend birthdays, graduation's etc together.

I've not wanted to or had sex with him in eight years. No gender issues or bitterness here. No one cheated, no one lied. Our son died, we grieved separately and drifted apart.

A good man, just not one I'd ever shag again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for me ta!

Never ever not even to take vengeance?

I'm on very good terms with my ex. I'll always love him and he's the father of my kids. It was his birthday yesterday but he ended up doing all my Easter shopping for me. He, our girls and I spend birthdays, graduation's etc together.

I've not wanted to or had sex with him in eight years. No gender issues or bitterness here. No one cheated, no one lied. Our son died, we grieved separately and drifted apart.

A good man, just not one I'd ever shag again! "

I can't fault you for having respect but no feelings that way for him. Thank you for being so open about it.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not for me ta!

Never ever not even to take vengeance?

I'm on very good terms with my ex. I'll always love him and he's the father of my kids. It was his birthday yesterday but he ended up doing all my Easter shopping for me. He, our girls and I spend birthdays, graduation's etc together.

I've not wanted to or had sex with him in eight years. No gender issues or bitterness here. No one cheated, no one lied. Our son died, we grieved separately and drifted apart.

A good man, just not one I'd ever

shag again! "

Totally seconded - he was not a bad bloke just not the right one for me.. and kids love him as their dad... even if I did not like him, I would not hurt kids by saying horrible things about him. And yeah... just not somebody I would shag again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You are a strong woman. I wish i had your strength to avoid the temptation "

You havent seen them, believe me its not hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You are a strong woman. I wish i had your strength to avoid the temptation

You havent seen them, believe me its not hard.

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Ahh they haven't worn well with time then! I bet you have had the last laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with one in particular it would be hot.............the rest you can leave em be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def not............!!!!!!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

and it's a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door."

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought all your were under the patio anyway Diamond xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together"

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness"

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness "

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real."

I dont know you in person, i can only make my assumptions from what you post and almost every post you make has some form of aggression in it. Each to their own obviously, i like to think i come across on the forums the same as i am in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real.

I dont know you in person, i can only make my assumptions from what you post and almost every post you make has some form of aggression in it. Each to their own obviously, i like to think i come across on the forums the same as i am in person"

assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

just confirmed that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real.

I dont know you in person, i can only make my assumptions from what you post and almost every post you make has some form of aggression in it. Each to their own obviously, i like to think i come across on the forums the same as i am in person

assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

just confirmed that."

nerrrrrr youve just proved your aggressive nature in which you post again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real.

I dont know you in person, i can only make my assumptions from what you post and almost every post you make has some form of aggression in it. Each to their own obviously, i like to think i come across on the forums the same as i am in person

assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

just confirmed that.

nerrrrrr youve just proved your aggressive nature in which you post again"

ok diamond whatever.

i just posted a forum on the subject wasnt looking for a fight or to comment on someone i didnt know.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


" umm only if i was watching him get gang raped by a group of hairy gay bikers,, who dont belive in using lube, while a band of bdsm women saw at his bollox with blunt saws and pour hot candle wax in his arse...

now that would be hot...."
not bitter then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not.

never go back. you think its great but it will never be as it was.

you split for a reason and before long that reason will be bought up again and trouble.

walk away with dignity. and if you cant do that grab what you can on the way out of the door.

But your only having sex with them, not trying to get the relationship back together.

When i was having sex with my ex husband it was totally emotionless dirty sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us. I never have and never will associate sex, love and a relationship together

sorry but im a seriously cold person.

once pissed off i never go back and wipe them from my memory.

its like they never existed.

fools give second chances.its a sign of weakness

I feel sorry for you, you always come across as so aggressive. I dont give people second chances either but havng sex with my ex worked for me. Until i found someone better.

But then im not easily fooled by people either which could also be seen as a sign of weakness

im not aggressive in person. making it clear where you stand with people is being honest.

and this is a forum so you cannot see the person' body language.

never assume anything until you know them for real.

I dont know you in person, i can only make my assumptions from what you post and almost every post you make has some form of aggression in it. Each to their own obviously, i like to think i come across on the forums the same as i am in person

assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

just confirmed that.

nerrrrrr youve just proved your aggressive nature in which you post again"

How vary astute of you i think you have him down almost to a T well apart from the insecurity part and the daydream element.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

chillllll out and feel the love xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends why they were exes,I've revisted two exes one ex boyfriend after 10 year gap and the other an nearly did but didnt until 19yrs later. The first one the sex was oodles better as i was 27 not 17 and the other was why the hell did i wait 19 years!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I have 2 that Id be very tempted...

But Im safe to say that cos the opportunity will never arise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the EX bit says a lot and they usually are an EX for a reason but its quite understandable for some people to have relapses and if its not detrimental to their well being and the sex is good who are we to say someone shouldn't indulge.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think the EX bit says a lot and they usually are an EX for a reason but its quite understandable for some people to have relapses and if its not detrimental to their well being and the sex is good who are we to say someone shouldn't indulge. "

I would have said the same,they're an EX for a reason but as it seems like a 100 yrs since I had one I can't really remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the EX bit says a lot and they usually are an EX for a reason but its quite understandable for some people to have relapses and if its not detrimental to their well being and the sex is good who are we to say someone shouldn't indulge.

I would have said the same,they're an EX for a reason but as it seems like a 100 yrs since I had one I can't really remember "

Then you area lucky lady i would say. People do change though and i would never say never but some i would actively avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deff not - last time I saw my ex I wanted to kick his teefs in...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Just thought of another one that I need to go back and show him how to do it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best sex i've ever had has been with an ex....when they were an ex

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Best sex i've ever had has been with an ex....when they were an ex "

that's only cos you ain't had me yet

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

No, never, even if I was desperate and had to crawl across broken glass in a bikini to reach him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, never, even if I was desperate and had to crawl across broken glass in a bikini to reach him. "

That would be a maybe then lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have sex with my ex although we still chat every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best sex i've ever had has been with an ex....when they were an ex

that's only cos you ain't had me yet "

Is that an offer?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with an ex......def not a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never put a message on here but couldnt resist this one. Definate no no for me but I know two guys who are still bedding their ex's. Having their cake and eating it as far as I am concerned. No respect for themselves or their women folk. Not good enough to stay married too but good enough to shag!! Cant you tell this gets me mad

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