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Starting a new job in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And the anxiety and nerves are setting in

I was totally excited when I got the news but now I'm a nervous wreck

A few words of wisdom and encouragement would be greatly appreciated right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry u must b good at what u do

And just be urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get up early. Look fabulous. The rest will sort itself. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you were successful, means you were the best candidate over everyone else, and they have the confidence that you'll be able to do it - no worries

Have the same confidence in yourself, which they've shown by offering you the position.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Try and remember what excited you about the job and then remember that everyone there was new once.

Take a menthol stick for the 4pm headache that will come with trying to remember all the new information.

Pack your bag tonight and set out your clothes.

Go to bed and try and relax.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the anxiety and nerves are setting in

I was totally excited when I got the news but now I'm a nervous wreck

A few words of wisdom and encouragement would be greatly appreciated right now "

You'll be fine.

Nothing you're imagining will come to pass. Just try visualize what the perfect day would look like. Everything going right and you functioning at your optimum. Negative thoughts create negative feelings, positive thoughts create positive feelings. You will also automatically function better, if you've primed you're mind with positive outcomes, as those solutions will be easier to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations on the job and good luck.

You'll be just fine.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Congratulations

I have been doing agency work for a while but got offered permanent position Saturday

You will be fine, have fun and good luck

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

It's a thought but once the first day is under your belt you will be smiling

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant.

Take a mug with you and a notepad. Plenty water.

And paracetamol.

You make your first impression once.. Smile.

Listen, and relax!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exciting & nerve wracking all at the same time!

I'm sure you'll be absolutely fine in the morning after a good nights sleep.

How about a relaxing bath followed by a good book & bed.

Good luck for tomorrow x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

You'll be great OP.

This time tomorrow you'll be sat back with your mug of Horlicks wondering why you were so worried. Evidently they think you can do the job so I wouldn't sweat it too much. You'll be part of the team before you know it. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first day of any new job is usually all about meeting everyone and learning the ropes. Just enjoy it, try to stay excited. You'll do great and you should enjoy these early days when the pressure of the job hasn't built up yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck! It's always scary, you'll be great

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm sure you will be fine remember to breathe and have a wee before you meet anyone new nothing worse than nervously needing a wee.

Set off before you need to incase of traffic.

You'll be fantastic.. Believe in yourself... That's all you need to do.

Have fun x x and relax x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

If they are a decent employer; they won't be expecting you to be the world expert on day one;

Remember;,they offered you the job, so they want you .

Spend a bit of time getting to know your new co workers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try and remember what excited you about the job and then remember that everyone there was new once.

Take a menthol stick for the 4pm headache that will come with trying to remember all the new information.

Pack your bag tonight and set out your clothes.

Go to bed and try and relax.

Good luck.

"

Thank you. Bag packed, clothes set out and petrol in the car. Almost tempted to have my breakfast now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exciting & nerve wracking all at the same time!

I'm sure you'll be absolutely fine in the morning after a good nights sleep.

How about a relaxing bath followed by a good book & bed.

Good luck for tomorrow x"

I'm just after a lovely shower. Will have an early night with a book. Don't think I'll sleep much anyway

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston

I know how you feel, I start a new job next Monday but I'm looking forward to a new challenge although a little nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best of luck to you I'm sure you'll be ok X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Good luck in your new job. Hope all goes well, you enjoy the work, make new friends and have good working environment. Trust no-one.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"And the anxiety and nerves are setting in

I was totally excited when I got the news but now I'm a nervous wreck

A few words of wisdom and encouragement would be greatly appreciated right now "
Any reasonable employer will realize that it takes time to settle in. Just relax and be your normal self .

Congratulations on your new role . We have all experienced first day nerves so do not worry.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Congratulations. My first day I had to write down everyone's names and where they sat or I would never have remembered them.

Remember and drink fluids. Easy to get dehydrated in an office.

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