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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh? Its early and i need coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

Can you put it in a manner that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

Each to their own

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By *onhorMan
over a year ago

here


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

Been drinking in LA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its too early for this, and I haven't had my cuppa yet.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


" "

your profile pictures makes my eyes behave exactly like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent had enough coffee yet for these types of question.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"next"

if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... it's too early ....brain..not functioning...need coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too early ........ Need a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?"
I think you ve got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheat wanting to dabble with someone who doesn't meet those in relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha ...... Drinking on a Saturday morning isn't good .

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Confused.....I'm going back to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes im glad those miles away numbers are over 40

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No... it's too early ....brain..not functioning...need coffee "

Capatino expresso or a latta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this a new kink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a cuppa so will plunge in.

Depends how they ask.

Last week had a Dom who put a polite, detailed proposal to me, as a first message. Although detailed, it wasn't graphic, so my response was "Not for me thanks". His response was to thank me for my courteous reply.

Conversely an "Are you on the pill?" sent from a Breeder was just deleted. If he can't be courteous, I can't be arsed.

And then again, it does depend on the volume of messages too as some vaguely polite first messages might get ignored and then deleted if my inbox is particularly busy.

Why do you ask, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, dependant on the extremity of the difference, I probably would say its ok, to respond to someone positively if it suits you.

I might shag some hot fuck with less liberal views than me...we either discuss it as we meet,like adults..or ignore that and approach something else..

or just shag fuck out her n block her next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/09/16 08:22:57]

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Glad im not the only one who has no idea what OP is on about was feeling a bit stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

Back so soon?

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Ill try again after coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?I think you ve got it "

Excellent...not sure what I'm supposed to do now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?I think you ve got it

Excellent...not sure what I'm supposed to do now though "
Be Mighty ?

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else. "

Ahhh you've stil got you knickers in a knot. Im out. Have a nice day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else. "

"Bully and abuse"..."pea brained keyboard warriors...lack of self respect"?

I see your basic point even though you've shrouded it in superiority and actually agree with you; but Pot Kettle Black

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By *onhorMan
over a year ago

here


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else. "

I think the you rather than who confused us all.

Thanks for the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

If they did I would just say no thanks .. not my thing ..

Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else. "

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else. "

I think we have moved on somewhat from the last time you graced us with your presence.. maybe you should go back to your corner and read a few threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?I think you ve got it

Excellent...not sure what I'm supposed to do now though Be Mighty ? "

Isn't that what they say on that washing powder advert?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Ahh right, so you are taking all the low blows from the keyboard warriors on our behalf are you? How very noble, what would us meek and mild personalities do without you

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

"Bully and abuse"..."pea brained keyboard warriors...lack of self respect"?

I see your basic point even though you've shrouded it in superiority and actually agree with you; but Pot Kettle Black "

What part is superior?

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Ahhh you've stil got you knickers in a knot. Im out. Have a nice day. "

And here we have a documentary on what to do. Good work. If you don't like a thread, leave a snide comment and fuck off.

Forum 101

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By *damdoesMan
over a year ago

Bristol/swindon


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Ahhh you've stil got you knickers in a knot. Im out. Have a nice day.

And here we have a documentary on what to do. Good work. If you don't like a thread, leave a snide comment and fuck off.

Forum 101"

Ahhhh I see you're looking for a fight. May I suggest you use your right hand (probably as usual) and release some pent up frustration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

"Bully and abuse"..."pea brained keyboard warriors...lack of self respect"?

I see your basic point even though you've shrouded it in superiority and actually agree with you; but Pot Kettle Black "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You re not happy with other people having different opinions to you on a public forum op

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

"

It's always too early to be angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

It's always too early to be angry "

I'd rather have bacon.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

It's always too early to be angry

I'd rather have bacon. "

Ooooo...bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

It's always too early to be angry

I'd rather have bacon.

Ooooo...bacon"

Sod the bullying... lets have bacon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironic comes to mind.

If that's not the correct term I'm expecting a correction from the OP

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

Why would I? People use the site for a multitude of reasons differently to the way I do. I am very much a live and let live girl since it doesn't affect me in the slightest. Unless their way of using the site involves being a cunt to me personally. And even then it's easier and more politic to just move on and ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Who's bullying who or is that whom?

Is it too early to be this angry?

It's always too early to be angry

I'd rather have bacon.

Ooooo...bacon

Sod the bullying... lets have bacon. "

bacon butty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Or put another way.

Someone outside the fab accepted looks criteria posts a thread.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've met Tories.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ironic comes to mind.

If that's not the correct term I'm expecting a correction from the OP "

Nah, the OP is pretty ironic, and somewhat hypocritical too. I'd chuck in some passive aggression and ad hominem as well. He has pretty much got the 'butt hurt' post down pat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty. "

So to cut through the combined waffle of the thread title and opening post.

I get the impression that this is an attempt to bully forum members into bullying you. is that about right? if so, why?

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Ahhh you've stil got you knickers in a knot. Im out. Have a nice day.

And here we have a documentary on what to do. Good work. If you don't like a thread, leave a snide comment and fuck off.

Forum 101

Ahhhh I see you're looking for a fight. May I suggest you use your right hand (probably as usual) and release some pent up frustration?"

Haha no. A discussion. It is possible to disagree without fighting. Honest. Even in a forum.

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You re not happy with other people having different opinions to you on a public forum op "

Who said I am not happy. It would be boring if we all agreed. But we can disagree without being sad.

We can also disagree without snide comments. But the latter seems harder to achieve.

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ironic comes to mind.

If that's not the correct term I'm expecting a correction from the OP

Nah, the OP is pretty ironic, and somewhat hypocritical too. I'd chuck in some passive aggression and ad hominem as well. He has pretty much got the 'butt hurt' post down pat."

None of those to be fair. But I see why you think so. Passive aggression is better than active aggression. It is also almost impossible to speak of someone being aggressive in this way without hypocrisy as you have demonstrated well.

This is fun isn't it?

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty.

So to cut through the combined waffle of the thread title and opening post.

I get the impression that this is an attempt to bully forum members into bullying you. is that about right? if so, why? "

No. It is not. Therefore there is no reason why.

Nothing I have said is bullying.

I simply put forward a hypothetical generic situation and invited people to attack me as they do to many others who put forward scenarios which are also perfectly reasonable but outwith the arbitrary boundaries that seem to exist here.

Happy to use unwaffley words of one syllable if you are upset by other words but that would be quite patronising. As this response is, but I feel justified given your response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I underestimated the ability of people to read multi clause sentences before 10am on a Saturday.

There is a preponderance within this particular forum to bully and abuse people whose values differ to ones own despite the fact that person has said or done nothing which is outwith the bounds of normality on this site.

So I am giving all those pea brained keyboard warriors somewhere to vent their lack of self respect and maybe they won't bully someone else.

Ahhh you've stil got you knickers in a knot. Im out. Have a nice day.

And here we have a documentary on what to do. Good work. If you don't like a thread, leave a snide comment and fuck off.

Forum 101"

I'm going to leave mine

It's not that I haven't had enough coffee or rest or that I have a hangover, I just don't give enough of a shit to leave a sensible comment. For that reason I'm out

Have a nice/shit day

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What I have said is not exactly as you would put it.

Come on guys, get your keyboards out, destroy me. Be mighty.

So to cut through the combined waffle of the thread title and opening post.

I get the impression that this is an attempt to bully forum members into bullying you. is that about right? if so, why?

No. It is not. Therefore there is no reason why.

Nothing I have said is bullying.

I simply put forward a hypothetical generic situation and invited people to attack me as they do to many others who put forward scenarios which are also perfectly reasonable but outwith the arbitrary boundaries that seem to exist here.

Happy to use unwaffley words of one syllable if you are upset by other words but that would be quite patronising. As this response is, but I feel justified given your response."

Isn't that the point though? People feel justified given what they read, interpret and understand?

Your 'patronising' is another's 'clarification'. Your 'offence' is another's 'water off a duck's back'. Your 'bullying' is another's 'straight talking'.

Any response to this thread can be read as an attack, aggressive (passive or otherwise), bullying or discussion by anyone depending on their mood, mindset or any other factor we as the reader are not privy to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slightly confused but I'm thinking this thread boils down to double standards ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Reading the title I'd assumed it was something alone the lines of, would you play with someone who had different fundamental values from you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cheat wanting to dabble with someone who doesn't meet those in relationships."

They're called "single" but can't accommodate

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You mean like "some fucking arsehole messaged me because he wanted to meet! FOR SEX! And he had the temerity to say 'hi' too (but I still won't put my filters on even though I'm outraged)"?"
god youre good arent you.? ..its 3pm and i even thought it was complicated for the afternoon xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cheat wanting to dabble with someone who doesn't meet those in relationships.

They're called "single" but can't accommodate "

Maybe they single and don't want to accommodate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cheat wanting to dabble with someone who doesn't meet those in relationships.

They're called "single" but can't accommodate

Maybe they single and don't want to accommodate lol "

Possibly in some cases. But it always gets my red light going

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Lots of people don't want fans and NDA sex encroaching on their families, that doesn't mean they are married, just they have a life outside of fab and are mindful of their safety ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only go by my experience. And my experience is, that a lot have eventually admitted to having a partner or being married. So whether its right or wrong, my first assumption will be that they are not single. And it won't change.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can only go by my experience. And my experience is, that a lot have eventually admitted to having a partner or being married. So whether its right or wrong, my first assumption will be that they are not single. And it won't change. "

We all have our own filters.

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