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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever fallen out with a great friend , not knowing the reason , they just remove you from their life ? ( this case met a man )

How do you deal with it ?

I've had to let it go . Today she gets married

I'm hurting today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and pop by get her a nice present. And pop a little message it there, may be you can rekindle the fire. After all must of been friends for a reason. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - and looking back realised they were just takers - ive survived just made me tougher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

It's painful but it happens for a reason.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"yes - and looking back realised they were just takers - ive survived just made me tougher "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry to hear that , and your pain comes through in your posting.

why not just go along to watch.

leave a small gift and a card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..lots of times

Its just the way of life though, people change and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes - and looking back realised they were just takers - ive survived just made me tougher "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever fallen out with a great friend , not knowing the reason , they just remove you from their life ? ( this case met a man )

How do you deal with it ?

I've had to let it go . Today she gets married

I'm hurting today "

Awww no man is worth the end of a friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend like that picks me up and drops me when she has got a fella on the go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever fallen out with a great friend , not knowing the reason , they just remove you from their life ? ( this case met a man )

How do you deal with it ?

I've had to let it go . Today she gets married

I'm hurting today "
ahh my heart goes out to you today go out and get a meet will maybe take your mind off it good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am working a full shift today thought that was best to keep me busy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am working a full shift today thought that was best to keep me busy . "
yeagh thats a good idea i know exactly what your going through its horrible im soooo sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I lost too many friends to drugs. Making new ones seemed pointless for a long time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever fallen out with a great friend , not knowing the reason , they just remove you from their life ? ( this case met a man )

How do you deal with it ?

I've had to let it go . Today she gets married

I'm hurting today "

Yes! I understand your pain and confusion. I've lost an 8 year and 11 year friendship. All because I started university and didn't have the time to hang out and kiss their butts like they adore people treating them. Some people think they're truly amazing and need lots of people worshipping / complimenting them daily.

I put up with their arrogant attitudes for years because I saw a different side to them I liked. Even though they were two very self loving women. Constantly slagging people off and putting down ladies that weren't deemed as pretty as them. Both continously cheated on their partners which I as a friend made excuses for them if their partner got suspicious. Something I deeply regret now.

Anyway, after I took a step back away from them (was tired of their nonsense after so long and due to me attending university),they didn't like my lack of attention towards them. As such I soon started hearing vile lies/gossip about me...including how I'm supposedly sleeping with my best friends husband. Hmm because apparently men and women can't be just friends . Turned out it was my two supposed friends who was churning out those hateful lies and gossip about me. Both in their 30's I may add so should be all grown up.

Op, sometimes people are just spiteful c**ts. Some people just thrive on attention and react badly when they no longer receive it. It's nothing you've done and their behaviour shows up their true colours. It's hurtful sure but now you've seen who your REAL friends are and who never was your real friend.

I wouldn't attend the wedding for worry how she'll react. On a day like that, you wouldn't want to risk being involved in a potential negative scene. Smile OP and carry on making new friends instead! After all stress is a killer! . P.s sorry for the essay! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't - but I'm incredibly cautious about who becomes a friend in the first place.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would pop a card and present round.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Has anyone ever fallen out with a great friend , not knowing the reason , they just remove you from their life ? ( this case met a man )

How do you deal with it ?

I've had to let it go . Today she gets married

I'm hurting today "

I'm not sure really. Ive always known the reasons for falling out.

If I didn't I would ask and try to make-up.

How do you know you have fallen out and not just lost contact.

Why do you say you have been replaced by this man?

There are too many unknowns to comment really.

I know when I got together with my partner one of our friends did not like it. But we both liked them, we just sat and talked. Of course a partner will be more important and as they have kids and work gets in the way contact will drop away. But it does not equate to falling out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I lost too many friends to drugs. Making new ones seemed pointless for a long time ."

x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I have a friend like that picks me up and drops me when she has got a fella on the go x"

I've got a friend like this,completely changed now shes with this bloke.She only answers txts etc when she can be bothered,so i deleted her number only the other day.

Dropping friends is not a nice thing to do ,sorry you're hurting .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend like that picks me up and drops me when she has got a fella on the go x"

That's not a friend. x

Hugs to you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A pal 3 years ago. Just stopped calling and answering.

And l irreparably fell out with my best friend (and family member) 6 months ago.

You get used to it. l am pretty much a loner but maybe the heart became hard.

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