FabSwingers.com forum: long hair on me!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

Currently at 2 months without a cut and the top is fairly long (over my eyes when brushed forward) but I'm at that what to do with it stage. Anyway is it worth the pain of me pushing through and growing it, my hair is naturally very dark brown and has waves and kinks to it with length.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've had all lengths of hair over the years including a slightly dodgy Mohawk

Just do what feels right for you fella, although shaved saves on combs & shampoo

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

Well I will always vote for long wavy dark hair on a man, especially if it's with a bit of shape just over the collar like Robert Downy Jnr sometimes wears it, ooooft!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should grow your hair if you want to. Do it for you and not anybody else. I have long hair because I like it.

If you do grow it out and it doesn't suit or you don't think it suits then you can always just cut it off.

A side point but we haven't had a long hair appreciation thread for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's looked after well like the boys above then it rocks. If you grow it and ignore it it sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've grown mine again recently. Just be prepared for your hair looking shit for the next few months while it's in the in between stage

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

love long hair on a man most of my LTR's have been with men with long hair..grow it while you still have some and enjoy it, you can always cut it if you want to later on x look after it and don't always stick it up in a ponytail, always think that is such a waste xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

I'm not sure that's true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should grow your hair if you want to. Do it for you and not anybody else. I have long hair because I like it.

If you do grow it out and it doesn't suit or you don't think it suits then you can always just cut it off.

A side point but we haven't had a long hair appreciation thread for ages.

I will be definitely doing it for myself just would like opinions, I had long hair in my teens but its been ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short and sharp haircuts do it for me, with a bit of length on top either styled or tousled.

I like your hair on your profile pic OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

I'm not sure that's true."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

What makes you think that doesn't already happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should grow your hair if you want to. Do it for you and not anybody else. I have long hair because I like it.

If you do grow it out and it doesn't suit or you don't think it suits then you can always just cut it off.

A side point but we haven't had a long hair appreciation thread for ages.

I will be definitely doing it for myself just would like opinions, I had long hair in my teens but its been ages.

That's good.

Then I'd say, try it out if you want to. You can always just cut it off if you don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I just love that retro look with it greased back and shaved on the side and a top knot!! Anyone with a top knot? Own up and I swear I won't chop it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

What makes you think that doesn't already happen

Haha nothing actually..... nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

I'm not sure that's true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

What makes you think that doesn't already happen

Haha nothing actually..... nothing

I'm was joking but thanks

Think the plan is I'll go to the hairdressers tomorrow have a little tidy up (split ends and neck line) then persevere for a few more months if anything it'll be cold soon and can help keep me warm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow it, grow it!

I always think close cropped hair is such a waste on a guy, so many guys have no say in when their hair waltzes off and yet those who have it don't celebrate and cherish it while it's there!

I think it also gives a good glimpse into your personality exactly the same way as a woman's hairstyle does, there is so much potential!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grow it, grow it!

I always think close cropped hair is such a waste on a guy, so many guys have no say in when their hair waltzes off and yet those who have it don't celebrate and cherish it while it's there!

I think it also gives a good glimpse into your personality exactly the same way as a woman's hairstyle does, there is so much potential!!

This is kind of my thought, I'm a rocker at heart and my 30s are my last chance until the eventual thinning happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow it and show us a pic in a few months. I think long hair on a man can look really sexy but perhaps takes quite a bit of confidence. I also think guys with long hair look a little mysterious. Chris Hemsworth & Kit Harington rock longer hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks quite thick so I would grow it and keep some height in it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grow it and show us a pic in a few months. I think long hair on a man can look really sexy but perhaps takes quite a bit of confidence. I also think guys with long hair look a little mysterious. Chris Hemsworth & Kit Harington rock longer hair

I will do an update pic but hair grows half an inch a month apparently so it won't show much.I won't look like Kit but my hair would likely resemble that or the poldark guy with my natural waves and colour but we will see. PH if only I could look like Thor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

What makes you think that doesn't already happen

Haha nothing actually..... nothing

I'm was joking but thanks

Think the plan is I'll go to the hairdressers tomorrow have a little tidy up (split ends and neck line) then persevere for a few more months if anything it'll be cold soon and can help keep me warm!"

It's ok, i got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a good thing and a bad thing. Good as it can be used as a game. It looks great and if looked after looks even better. Same with the beard!!

The bad is I have had ladies demanding me to cut it off. Ladies pulling my hair to see if it's a wig or not. Ladies asking me why my hair is in better condition than theirs.

When I ask how they wash it and dry it and style it with products. That say all of it. I wash it and that's it.

I've had men come up from behind and grab my arse thinking I'm a lady!!

I must admit the look of sheer terror when I turn around is funny. But they are not just grabbing my arse if you know what I mean!!

Lads come on!! It's never a good way to start a conversation.

But you have to accept that 75% of the women on here will not like you? Unless you are mr hemsworth.

So don't think it. Just do it. As my other long haired friend said. You can always chop it off.

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By *ellbound_GhoulwarpWoman
over a year ago

Fifth Circle of Hell

Grow it! Lads always look great with long hair, and i now have an appreciation for the man bun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow it long while you can, before the curse of thinning hair hits you. I have been stricken early and hade to cut my hair short to help hide the thin patches

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is a good thing and a bad thing. Good as it can be used as a game. It looks great and if looked after looks even better. Same with the beard!!

The bad is I have had ladies demanding me to cut it off. Ladies pulling my hair to see if it's a wig or not. Ladies asking me why my hair is in better condition than theirs.

When I ask how they wash it and dry it and style it with products. That say all of it. I wash it and that's it.

I've had men come up from behind and grab my arse thinking I'm a lady!!

I must admit the look of sheer terror when I turn around is funny. But they are not just grabbing my arse if you know what I mean!!

Lads come on!! It's never a good way to start a conversation.

But you have to accept that 75% of the women on here will not like you? Unless you are mr hemsworth.

So don't think it. Just do it. As my other long haired friend said. You can always chop it off. "

Well that'll be an upgrade from the 99% that currently have no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are products that can speed up the growth. God another hottie.. Aidan Turner.. Yummy

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

You ladies who love long hair have such good taste....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are products that can speed up the growth. God another hottie.. Aidan Turner.. Yummy

What are these supplements? I take the one a day hair, skin and nail vitamins plus multi vits , omega 3 etc

I've read a good diet and regular exercise can improve hair growth. Any others?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

grow it and then cut it if u dont like it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like men with long hair , especially bloody man buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like men with long hair , especially bloody man buns "

Yeah... well... I don't like women with... erm... really good bodies. yeah, I got nothing in response to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like men with long hair , especially bloody man buns

Yeah... well... I don't like women with... erm... really good bodies. yeah, I got nothing in response to that.

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god no, cut. Long feminine hair is always such a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, cut. Long feminine hair is always such a turn off.

So is blue hair.

(It's really not, your hair is awesome)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I've grown mine again recently. Just be prepared for your hair looking shit for the next few months while it's in the in between stage "

Has it grown anymore, since last time you showed me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, cut. Long feminine hair is always such a turn off.

Yeah cause I look so damm feminine.

lol

But this would so boring if we all looked the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, cut. Long feminine hair is always such a turn off.

Yeah cause I look so damm feminine.

lol

But this would so boring if we all looked the same. "

I sadly do look quite feminine. Meh, I'm cool with it. *flips hair*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer mine now it's longer on top, I tried growing the sides out but I buckled and cut them short again!

Like someone else said though be prepared for months of it looking shit

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No, we haven't had a long haired appreciation thread for ages. Unless I've lost my touch, I can usually sense them.

OP - If you fancy a change, grow it for a bit. Can always cut it off, if you decide it's not for you.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

If there was, I missed it. I would have been there like a shot!

If its what you want, go for it. Its just that in-between stage.

And conditioner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I much prefer mine now it's longer on top, I tried growing the sides out but I buckled and cut them short again!

Like someone else said though be prepared for months of it looking shit

Yeah that's the stage I'm starting to hit, growing out the sides is a pain, was considering the undercut until I get some real long length to keep it tidy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

If there was, I missed it. I would have been there like a shot!

If its what you want, go for it. Its just that in-between stage.

And conditioner

Yeah I'm only washing it twice a week but conditioning every day on advice off my hairdresser friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, cut. Long feminine hair is always such a turn off.

Yeah cause I look so damm feminine.

lol

But this would so boring if we all looked the same.

I sadly do look quite feminine. Meh, I'm cool with it. *flips hair*"

Lol

Hatter you look like my old bassist. You didn't live in the black Country did you?

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Wonder what I'd look like with long hair.

Been shaving my head for the last 20 years.

Not sure I could grow it back now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time last year I had a Grade 1 clipper cut. Been growing it since. Only had the split ends trimmed and about 5 inches lopped of the bottom.

I'm actually enjoying being able to have a top knot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your face looks like it would suit a longer length. I'd say go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your face looks like it would suit a longer length. I'd say go for it

Thanks pretty much settled I'm going for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your face looks like it would suit a longer length. I'd say go for it

Thanks pretty much settled I'm going for it.

Haha good man!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I had long hair. ..once..not too girly or mullety....would regularly have it in french plaits for work...worked in a record shop ..I once had to show a hells angel how to do it and next time I saw him he had his the same! Go for it. ..get a good detangler product though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

I wish!! i have long hair and that's never happened for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had long hair. ..once..not too girly or mullety....would regularly have it in french plaits for work...worked in a record shop ..I once had to show a hells angel how to do it and next time I saw him he had his the same! Go for it. ..get a good detangler product though!

Otherwise known as a comb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really do it for me, but that's because I like to be the one with the best hair when I meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

Short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK I know there will of been a mens long hair appreciation post at some point but I want to know if I should grow my hair.

So what's your preference in general and for me?

I like your hair in the pic I see...its up to you at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't really do it for me, but that's because I like to be the one with the best hair when I meet someone

That's been a common issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't really do it for me, but that's because I like to be the one with the best hair when I meet someone

Well my hair is fabulous!! Lol

And I have had women that got really pissy when my hair was in better condition.

But to be fair I don't think even my hair could match yours. It does look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grow it but understanding the risks involved.... women's knickers will fall off all around you

I wish!! i have long hair and that's never happened for me!!"

to be fair it has to me. But I was in a band as the singer and guitarist. I had women come up to me and start talking. That was yrs ago though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say go for it OP, you've already started at 2 months down the line. The messy stage is awful though, I got through it by having an array of diamanté hairbands, you could try that I guess

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I hate long hair on men,I prefer short any day of the week

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