FabSwingers.com forum: How do you arrange your meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Usually chat, meet for a coffee and see how it goes.

Recently went to cj's with a guy as it was his first time and didn't want to go himself. Worked out well.

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By *ntheswingCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Send a message asking for a meet, answer a message asking for a meet, or go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment and this has served us very well .

Chat for ages ?

Not a chance , we have way better things to do than that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat until i feel comfortable enough and have time to meet. I don't meet socially so i make sure it feels right first. I've never been wrong about someone yet in 5 years.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Badly

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I chat until i feel comfortable enough and have time to meet. I don't meet socially so i make sure it feels right first. I've never been wrong about someone yet in 5 years."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just clubs really now. In the past I've chatted until I could meet for a social, normally within a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "

I BEG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "

I smear myself from head to toe in chickens blood and throw some bones on the floor.

It's never let me down yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

I BEG

On your knees ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Chat for a little while, meet for coffee and go from there.

Also meet people at socials. I've taken a few guys to a club for their first time. But just socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

I BEG

On your knees ?

Position assumed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke signals.

Telepathy.

Burning sage and ringing bells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

Can you untie me now please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying many ways get messages saying would love to meet you so when we are free message them get no response lol posted meets usually end in bi guys which are of no interest

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I just turn up at the houses of the boys that ask me to peg them, make them cry and then leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just turn up at the houses of the boys that ask me to peg them, make them cry and then leave "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

I BEG

On your knees ?

I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

You forgot the mattress!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Get chatting with someone, arrange a social and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

You forgot the mattress!"

That's going to far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get chatting with someone, arrange a social and take it from there"

God your weird

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Get chatting with someone, arrange a social and take it from there

God your weird

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i know its so much angst mind you if i did it another way i could put a lot of moaning threads up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

You forgot the mattress!

That's going to far

too far is a hard metal floor for ones head to merge with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "

Bit of a mix, some planned longer, some on the spur of the moment.. no real set pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get chatting with someone, arrange a social and take it from there

God your weird

i know its so much angst mind you if i did it another way i could put a lot of moaning threads up

Lol

Chatting is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

You forgot the mattress!

That's going to far

too far is a hard metal floor for ones head to merge with "

Now I'm scared

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Chatting

Prayer

Sacrifial offering

Throwing wishes to cosmos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bribery. Begging. And if all else fails, a blip on the head with a shillelagh when they're not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bribery. Begging. And if all else fails, a blip on the head with a shillelagh when they're not looking

Your taking my ideas off me

great minds think alike

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

Is the balaclava for you or me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bribery. Begging. And if all else fails, a blip on the head with a shillelagh when they're not looking

Your taking my ideas off me

great minds think alike

If I'm really struggling, I just deploy my secret, super hero weapon, the HypnoTits. "Look into my nipples. Loooooooook. Looooooook".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

Can you untie me now please

How are you managing to talk?

*puts gag back in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat... laugh... oh now that's a sexy pic... Wanna meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets.

Gag.

Duck tape.

Blindfold.

Cable ties.

Balaclava.

Hanky.

Chloraform.

Van.

You forgot the mattress!"

No I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently on train returning from my very first fab meet. Hope the rest in future are a fantastic as the first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out profile and pics, switch to kik as easier to chat. More chatting and flirting. Sometimes arrange a social, other times meet and play. Am pretty strict now on cancellations as my time is so precious.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Smoke signals.

Telepathy.

Burning sage and ringing bells.

Smoke signals,that was you was it?

And I thought it was that chimney being blown up in Kent..

Not very subtle, but it got my attention..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Badly"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really peg boys- but they do ask

I flirt- shamelessly- until I can get someone to surrender and then we talk t's and c's

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I go to clubs.

Chat there and if I wanna take things further then there are rooms available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DBS check 6 personal references and they must attend one weeks induction involving a written examination plus some role play

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"DBS check 6 personal references and they must attend one weeks induction involving a written examination plus some role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to chat for a bit, meet for a social and see where that goes, but spur of the moment has served me well too

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

the mystery, remains a mystery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

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hot moves xx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Chat... laugh... oh now that's a sexy pic... Wanna meet?

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to clubs.

Chat there and if I wanna take things further then there are rooms available."

I just use a club......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

Thank you! Forgot to mention the occasional hike into the mountains with my telescopic Alpen horn and yodelling at deer in a slightly sexually aggressive fashion xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

Thank you! Forgot to mention the occasional hike into the mountains with my telescopic Alpen horn and yodelling at deer in a slightly sexually aggressive fashion xx"
being honest you got me at the throat singing

do the deer respond?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

There he is!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

In advance.

Take Monday, for instance. That was agreed several weeks ago. The actors had their lines and timings, all I had to do was press play.

And then I directed a porn movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat until i feel comfortable enough and have time to meet. I don't meet socially so i make sure it feels right first. I've never been wrong about someone yet in 5 years."

How I do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smoke signals.

Telepathy.

Burning sage and ringing bells.

Smoke signals,that was you was it?

And I thought it was that chimney being blown up in Kent..

Not very subtle, but it got my attention.. "

Yeah me message got blown away by the chimnaaaay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

Thank you! Forgot to mention the occasional hike into the mountains with my telescopic Alpen horn and yodelling at deer in a slightly sexually aggressive fashion xxbeing honest you got me at the throat singing

do the deer respond?

You'd be surprised! But of course I need to then have the awkward conversation with them that I'm not the type of guy that just meets straight after a little bit of eye contact when I'm getting my groove on!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

At the moment anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We respond to messages, but mostly message people when we are free. Due to childcare we don't always know until the day or couple of days before. We do like to have a social first but prefer to have a play on the same night, otherwise it could be weeks before we get chance again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

No problem I'll be back soon I've just had a look out the window and that moon is looking ripe for a howlin'!xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

No problem I'll be back soon I've just had a look out the window and that moon is looking ripe for a howlin'!xxx

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you know theres a lunar eclipse over the weekend dont you? cant remember whether its the 10th or 12th....enjoy xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Chat for a while, as I can't relax with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

No problem I'll be back soon I've just had a look out the window and that moon is looking ripe for a howlin'!xxx

you know theres a lunar eclipse over the weekend dont you? cant remember whether its the 10th or 12th....enjoy xx"

That's news to me, thank you!xx

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "
.....

i chat a lot and if a girl can live with my sarcasm....i might ask her to meet for coffee.....a nice person is more important to me x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

No problem I'll be back soon I've just had a look out the window and that moon is looking ripe for a howlin'!xxx

you know theres a lunar eclipse over the weekend dont you? cant remember whether its the 10th or 12th....enjoy xx

That's news to me, thank you!xx"
its eclipse 'season..two weeks ago there was a solar eclipse and a couple of weeks before that was a lunar eclipse also..this is the big one though, so keep a cage handy and cut your nails..hehe xx oh and its mercury retrograde until the 21st..it will get better in the communication department and start to lighten up after that..x

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over a year ago

"Long periods of native American throat singing, followed by an intense session on the jungle drums topped of with some howling at the moon.

Then once all that shits finished log on here and start looking

hot moves xx

do the deer respond?

No problem I'll be back soon I've just had a look out the window and that moon is looking ripe for a howlin'!xxx

you know theres a lunar eclipse over the weekend dont you? cant remember whether its the 10th or 12th....enjoy xx

That's news to me, thank you!xxits eclipse 'season..two weeks ago there was a solar eclipse and a couple of weeks before that was a lunar eclipse also..this is the big one though, so keep a cage handy and cut your nails..hehe xx oh and its mercury retrograde until the 21st..it will get better in the communication department and start to lighten up after that..x"

Bloody hell, I'm going to have a sore throat after this!

In other news, when I change back to a human someone's gonna need to come shave my back, I can't reach all of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to create an aura of sensitivity and empathy by crying a lot.

Sometime during films like Bambi ot Bridget Jones Diary.

I often cry before or after sex.

They usually cry during sex.....

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I did try rhohypnol....

But the viagra wore off before it took effect.

I now settled for the tried and tested method of relentless begging and pleading, offering bribes and hiding under your bed..

Although I have noticed recently that chatting with people seems to be having an effect and maybe even meeting for a drink or a meal to see if we get along..

May even stick with the latter method, as to be totally honest, some of the underneaths of your beds are minging and I think I caught bed bugs from one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me- Are you free Tuesday?

Them-...no!....what about Wednesday?

Me-.....I can in the afternoon,.....

Them- I can't in the afternoon, Thursday?

Me- I'm at the dentist, sorry! Friday?

Them- I'm out with my mates Friday, it's been arranged for weeks

This is similar to how I arrange my meets.

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Rarely

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Chat for ages, post a meet? Just spur of moment?

I've done a mixture. Generally those I've chatted and planned with longer have been better meets. "

I normally just say fancy a social or respond to that same question of me .

no need for hidden hand signals or Morse code or jumping through hoops.

when one feeling the time is right one grows a set and just asks

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