FabSwingers.com forum: Your longest relationship so far?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

7 years: I think the 7 year itch theory is right for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 and still passionately in love with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months but he still has no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5. And then a few that made it to 3. I'm not that great at relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long. Only had 1 girlfriend before.

9 months at the most I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months but he still has no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months but he still has no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 years xxx

Since swinging 2 and half years, he is getting the idea, bit of a set back with the lumpy porridge though xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

with myself, i've been getting on well for 46 years (im nearly 45) i live with myself everyday , im pretty tolerant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"with myself, i've been getting on well for 46 years (im nearly 45) i live with myself everyday , im pretty tolerant

You just won at this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7years this coming Feb, past the young love stage and it's now at toleration, honestly couldn't see life without him and couldn't see my life any different than it is now. Not sure he'd say the same for me though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just shy of 6 years by a week

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

30 years 4 married to him

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

18 years, ended in divorce I'm happy to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 years, she is bonkers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years. Father of my two kids

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

35 years and counting.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"18 months but he still has no idea

I'd keep quiet.

I had quite a few like that - they all ended once they found out

I struck lucky once I found Mrs ddc though, (even though it did take me 6 years to persuade her to give up waiting for someone better and marry me

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28 years in total now

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years. We were fine till we got engaged.

Next relationship lasted 6 years and produced two children. We were fine till we got engaged.

Conclusion: I'm never getting engaged again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

23 years and still counting lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

30 years, married 22, and blissfully happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years too long!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

0 days

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

12 years and still in love

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

25 years and counting.

We met and got together while still at school.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I met my ex when I was 12 and we were together until I was 40 when I called it a day after 20 years of marriage

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

23 years and still going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mobile phone number had it for 18 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years, ended in divorce.

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston

Together 25 years married 21

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By *ouple x and yCouple
over a year ago

warwickshire

19 years married 14 and still going strong

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By * Reason WhyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Area

10 years for us, both our longest relationship.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

12 Years, married just shy of 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months but he still has no idea

I'd keep quiet.

I had quite a few like that - they all ended once they found out

I struck lucky once I found Mrs ddc though, (even though it did take me 6 years to persuade her to give up waiting for someone better and marry me

)

28 years in total now

Mr ddc "

We hit a rough patch a few weeks back when he had the bushes outside his house removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years, which would have been 10 to many if it wasn't for my daughters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 10 years but been single 7 years since it ended! Literally can not find a boyfriend!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Mine all seem to stop at around 3 years 3 months. Think im cursed not to get past that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He broke up with me the day of our 7 months together.

That was last summer. My next great love is myself, we've been on and off for as long as I can remember!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

7 yrs for me too...twice

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just over ten and still in the honeymoon period. We hardly fall out and if we feel a bit in a rut we do something to change it.

I still love him more each day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 and counting .i'd have got less for murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 8 years loved every minute of it..still really good friends with her now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seven years is my longest so glad to be out of that one

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

6 years. 5 years too long! But hey ho, live an learn!

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

8 years in a relationship. 4 years single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 years...ended officially last year but wow what a fab time I have had since

long may it last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years and counting.... It had better last a good few more years as well taking we've just got married 2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years, the first 8 were good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 years, the first 8 were good."

Wish I could say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 years, the first 8 were good.

Wish I could say the same

I'm being generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years, we were married for 10 of them, currently awaiting divorce. I don't regret it because I got my kids, but I should have rustled up the courage to leave him sooner. I was miserable for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 but not together now. This current relationship is the happiest I've ever been in as

my man ticks all my boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"7 years and counting.... It had better last a good few more years as well taking we've just got married 2 weeks ago

Congratulations

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"7 years and counting.... It had better last a good few more years as well taking we've just got married 2 weeks ago

Congrats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years and 1 month

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

22 years and I'm still crazy about her, (or is it she drives me crazy?). Been playing with others for the past 10 years. The shared moments have definitely made us closer.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

22 years.

Decided to leave him within the first year and then somehow got hideously trapped

Single 5 years now and very pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years.

Finally broke free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 years, the first 8 were good.

Wish I could say the same

I'm being generous

Lol you had a great solicitor then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've just passed 8 years

Together at 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years and we're still good friends. Have the odd night out together. He also lets me use his house when I want a break in the country

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

So long that if you'd have told me at the beginning I would have laughed in your face

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

17 years which was probably 16 years too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years. I feel so old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have been two years in november but ended it three weeks ago,

never knew i was on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11 years, which would have been 10 to many if it wasn't for my daughters."

I this has got to be my favourite pic on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Would have been two years in november but ended it three weeks ago,

never knew i was on here"

Make the most of the single life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and palmela handerson, still going strong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years and counting lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"11 years, which would have been 10 to many if it wasn't for my daughters."

Just get a divorce... Best thing I ever did

10 and a bit years to my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"16

Oh and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would have been two years in november but ended it three weeks ago,

never knew i was on here

Make the most of the single life

I intend to

already started to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 yrs. We originally split after 6 months but like a twat I had him back. Wouldnt have had my babies otherwise though so dont regret it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

9 years I think

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Relationships would be H

14.5yrs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Just over ten and still in the honeymoon period. We hardly fall out and if we feel a bit in a rut we do something to change it.

I still love him more each day"

This for us too, though we've been together 16 years now.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14yrs or there abouts

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

20 yrs..17 married....decree nisi arrived couple of months ago after 6 yrs...still get on well though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 years, we were married for 10 of them, currently awaiting divorce. I don't regret it because I got my kids, but I should have rustled up the courage to leave him sooner. I was miserable for years. "

Change 14 to 13 and I could have written this very post.

We can start divorce proceedings next July.

Nell

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

20 years

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

11 years

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

8 years the last 4 of which were sexless

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've never been in a relationship.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Change 14 to 13 and I could have written this very post.

We can start divorce proceedings next July.

Nell"
how come you have to wait that long?

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By *orthwest2someCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Almost 30 years ,soul mates and best friends as well as man and wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33yrs and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years until it became so toxic i had to leave - no matter what I did she always wanted to change me bit by bit.

Interestingly chatted to someone who was neutral and said she could've been bipolar.

She'd bollock me on occasions- because she loved me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change 14 to 13 and I could have written this very post.

We can start divorce proceedings next July.

Nellhow come you have to wait that long?"

Because it's an amicable split. Neither of us can cite unreasonable behaviour, abandonment or infidelity as reasons for divorcing so we have to wait 2 years.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

4 years so far with C. I know it's not what people consider a real relationship, but it's the longest I've been with anyone so it's an achievement for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years for me

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We will be celebrating our 35th wedding anniversary in february. Still as much in lustre with each other as we were at the beginning xxxxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly half of my life (& more of hers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will be celebrating our 35th wedding anniversary in february. Still as much in lustre with each other as we were at the beginning xxxxxxx Suzi

Brill, well done

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By *p to playMan
over a year ago

swad

Yea 15 years and going no were here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 9 years. We had the 7year hitch instead of the 7 year itch

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Change 14 to 13 and I could have written this very post.

We can start divorce proceedings next July.

Nellhow come you have to wait that long?

Because it's an amicable split. Neither of us can cite unreasonable behaviour, abandonment or infidelity as reasons for divorcing so we have to wait 2 years."
oh right i didnt know it had changed we just did ours on irritrivable breakdown of marriage and started two months after we split up and took 6 months from start to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"7 years here too "

He must have been a really patient guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 was longest shortest 6 years god even bank robbers don't get sentences that long

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

19 months and counting

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

25 years

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"0 days"

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By *ockbone1Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

19 years, we've been together as long as I can remember and I can honestly say my right hand has never let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 and a bit for me

8 for L

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

For several reasons I've never had a relationship in my adult life.

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

20+ years & loving each day of this crazy life that we get to share & explore together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 years so far!

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas

26 years and counting.

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