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"Who's done it? Did you hate it?" I'm a live in carer for my mum and my thoughts on it change on an almost daily basis. I don't hate caring so much as i hate the fact i have to do it. I would give anything for my mum to not need me. I wish she could have a fun and active life instead of needing me to look after her. The worst thing for me is i never get a day off or a holiday. Sometimes i would love to just say fuck it and go away for a few days, but i can't. It would just take too much planning and be stressful trying to organise respite care and i would only worry while i was away anyhow. | |||
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"Who's done it? Did you hate it? I'm a live in carer for my mum and my thoughts on it change on an almost daily basis. I don't hate caring so much as i hate the fact i have to do it. I would give anything for my mum to not need me. I wish she could have a fun and active life instead of needing me to look after her. The worst thing for me is i never get a day off or a holiday. Sometimes i would love to just say fuck it and go away for a few days, but i can't. It would just take too much planning and be stressful trying to organise respite care and i would only worry while i was away anyhow." It's so hard, isn't it. I'm considering working for a large company that provide live in carers for all sorts of needs but it's probably going to be easier for me. Would you trust anyone else to look after her? | |||
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"Who's done it? Did you hate it? I'm a live in carer for my mum and my thoughts on it change on an almost daily basis. I don't hate caring so much as i hate the fact i have to do it. I would give anything for my mum to not need me. I wish she could have a fun and active life instead of needing me to look after her. The worst thing for me is i never get a day off or a holiday. Sometimes i would love to just say fuck it and go away for a few days, but i can't. It would just take too much planning and be stressful trying to organise respite care and i would only worry while i was away anyhow. It's so hard, isn't it. I'm considering working for a large company that provide live in carers for all sorts of needs but it's probably going to be easier for me. Would you trust anyone else to look after her?" I would trust my sisters, but one lives some distance away and the other one doesn't give a flying fuck. It will be different for you because it's not a loved one you are caring for and you are doing it out of choice and not because you have to because there is nobody else to do it. I think people who care for a living are amazing. They work long hours for usually low pay and in my experience they genuinely love what they do. The ladies who looked after my grandad in his last few months were like this and they really do make a difference. | |||
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"Who's done it? Did you hate it? I'm a live in carer for my mum and my thoughts on it change on an almost daily basis. I don't hate caring so much as i hate the fact i have to do it. I would give anything for my mum to not need me. I wish she could have a fun and active life instead of needing me to look after her. The worst thing for me is i never get a day off or a holiday. Sometimes i would love to just say fuck it and go away for a few days, but i can't. It would just take too much planning and be stressful trying to organise respite care and i would only worry while i was away anyhow. It's so hard, isn't it. I'm considering working for a large company that provide live in carers for all sorts of needs but it's probably going to be easier for me. Would you trust anyone else to look after her? I would trust my sisters, but one lives some distance away and the other one doesn't give a flying fuck. It will be different for you because it's not a loved one you are caring for and you are doing it out of choice and not because you have to because there is nobody else to do it. I think people who care for a living are amazing. They work long hours for usually low pay and in my experience they genuinely love what they do. The ladies who looked after my grandad in his last few months were like this and they really do make a difference. " well done and tho maybe your choices are limited and you have to do as you do you have my respect. I did some care for my mum when I did not have live ins available and oversaw the care when I had live ins. It's tough..very tough and quite frankly unless you've actually done it 24/7 most people haven't a clue. I did what I could for my mum and it certainly was one nail in the marriage coffin. I sincerely wish you well...and happy to chat if ever the need. Oh...do I say ..."...nice tits"...at this point....lol. I am joking..well a bit...!!!! | |||
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