FabSwingers.com forum: Taking it on the chin

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

Obviously, no guy wants to see his message immediately deleted when he sends a face pic, because naturally you'll feel unattractive. My question is, have any women ever broken off contact with a man, or deleted their messages, because thy thought they were too HANDSOME, or maybe so attractive they seemed fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes- reverse image searched and found his Facebook page. Male bodybuilder. Couldn't believe he was legit, or interested in plain old me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I thought this was gonna be a thread about facials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ya about feeling unattractive its the worse feeling ever man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked to send a pic then been blocked

Makes you feel just great

I think it's a game some 'ladies' play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One told me that my pics was fake and it was too good, which I take as a complement lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never knocked any woman back because I thought they are to good looking for me, beauty is skin deep

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

But would 'not attracted to you' make any difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah I had to tell Johnny Depp to rack off the other day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah I had to tell Johnny Depp to rack off the other day."

Was that tart after you, too? Dear me. Quite the player, isn't he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah I had to tell Johnny Depp to rack off the other day.

Was that tart after you, too? Dear me. Quite the player, isn't he?"

He's a fantastic hair dresser apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah I had to tell Johnny Depp to rack off the other day.

Was that tart after you, too? Dear me. Quite the player, isn't he?"

hey - send him this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But would 'not attracted to you' make any difference.

Na it wouldnt just the same still feels shit.

What about the woman themselves are we judging them on thier looks ?

Its allright if shes a hottie and you get knocked back...not even gonna go there..

What can ya do some of us are hot an some of us are not

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

I don't think many people actually like or enjoy rejection. However, it's part and parcel of swinging. None of us are going to be to everyone's taste.

We've probably had as many of our messages deleted as we have replied to.

Quite a few of them have been read and deleted by single men, so they do it too.

No, I don't think we've thought someone was too attractive/handsome that they must be fake. It would usually be other factors that would make us suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was gonna be a thread about facials

Me too. So disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was gonna be a thread about facials

Me too. So disappointing

i thought it was about cock slapping - chins were mentioned the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

No I've never done that. Though I have been sceptical until seeing them in the flesh, and on more than one occasion punched well above my weight. I love Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My main reason for asking was that, very pleasingly I might add, I've been referred to as handsome a few times in the past few days on here, and face to face a couple of times, but I too have had messages deleted after sending face pics, and been told I'm 'not their type', so it got me wondering.

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was gonna be a thread about facials

Me too. So disappointing

i thought it was about cock slapping - chins were mentioned the other day"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah I had to tell Johnny Depp to rack off the other day.

Was that tart after you, too? Dear me. Quite the player, isn't he?"

It's him I know it!

He lives in Southend on Sea and runs a laundrette!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My main reason for asking was that, very pleasingly I might add, I've been referred to as handsome a few times in the past few days on here, and face to face a couple of times, but I too have had messages deleted after sending face pics, and been told I'm 'not their type', so it got me wondering.

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men."

so you think you're too good looking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

so you think you're too good looking?"

No, that's not what I said at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never the face I'm bothered about, it's the body.

One person's gorgeous face could be another person's idea of a face like a ripped dap.

But a six pack is a six pack. I have more spare tyres than Kwik Fit. Just wouldn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men."

Quite possibly OP. For example some of my mates will cream their pants at the mere mention of Bradley Cooper, whereas I don't find him remotely attractive and would kick him out of bed to allow room for Russell Howard. Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

so you think you're too good looking?

No, that's not what I said at all."

so you're not good looking enough?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

so you think you're too good looking?"

Can feel like a Keith Lemon fiiiight coming on. Hands up some gorgus soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, Paul Walker messaged me from beyond the grave. Much too handsome for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

He has an interesting face, defined by his bright and youthful smile I think, perhaps that's the appeal for some, and the red light for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this saw a hot guy in a club talked to him he was lovely but was to chicken to ask him to play cause i thought he wouldn't be into me..... Turns out I should have asked him lol

Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men."

This I agree with..

Men seem to get less discerning the more fraustrated they get.

Ladies just get their toys out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

so you think you're too good looking?

No, that's not what I said at all.

so you're not good looking enough? "

It'd be nice to be considered handsome for the vast majority of women, I've often wondered what it must be like to have the Hollywood looks of Brad Pitt or George Clooney in their primes.

I myself have been told I look like everyone from Justin Timberlake to 'That Yellow Bastard' from Sin City, so yes, that's quite a range of attractive/unattractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah if a girl or guy is proper gym ripped it just makes me feel insecure about my body!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done this saw a hot guy in a club talked to him he was lovely but was to chicken to ask him to play cause i thought he wouldn't be into me..... Turns out I should have asked him lol

Sarah xx"

That's happened to me in a swingers club years ago too, my awkwardness in the situation made me miss lots of cues that I was later told were them trying to get me to join them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah if a girl or guy is proper gym ripped it just makes me feel insecure about my body!"

185 unread messages should be giving your confidence a bit of a boost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps sexual preference among women is more diverse than among men.

so you think you're too good looking?

No, that's not what I said at all.

so you're not good looking enough?

It'd be nice to be considered handsome for the vast majority of women, I've often wondered what it must be like to have the Hollywood looks of Brad Pitt or George Clooney in their primes.

I myself have been told I look like everyone from Justin Timberlake to 'That Yellow Bastard' from Sin City, so yes, that's quite a range of attractive/unattractiveness."

Who gives a damn about so called Hollywood looks?

You're you.

Live in the you, you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gonna send us all a face pic OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite interesting point though I think everyone has a type..this may be a default mechanism or unconscious programming. But sometimes I just fancy someone and it could just be smallest simplest thing that does it ...like a look or the way they laugh..but than I'm weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah if a girl or guy is proper gym ripped it just makes me feel insecure about my body!

185 unread messages should be giving your confidence a bit of a boost?"

I've bin on here over a year so I'm wise to the fact most of my mails are sent not because of my looks ( I seldom show my face on my thumb nail) but because of my interests, plus I think about 90 percent of men would fuck anything. That's not ment to offend, but most of the mail allude to what I'm into not what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can confirm that, in my opinion, OP is rather handsome

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Should really concentrate - Harry Hill does the 'Fight'. ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously being blocked and deleted is a bad feeling, but don't take it too heart! Some people on here will tell you that your not for them and will not block or delete you, that is the mature way to do things, problem with this site and others is that it is like a catalogue and people always think they can do better and most end up getting their fingers burt, another problem for the men on here is men out number woman by a huge margin.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

Nearly. When I first joined I had all my filters on lockdown but there was a single guy who I had the impression liked me. It took me ages to pluck up the guts to initiate contact because I thought he was so tterly gorgeous from his face pic that he must be too good to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used reverse image search once ,, apparently I was looking in a mirror

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

Yup, the fewer and the more obviously professional the pics the less I trust them. Never trust one stunning pic IME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used reverse image search once ,, apparently I was looking in a mirror

fecker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can confirm that, in my opinion, OP is rather handsome

*Unbuttons shirt, leans on bar, sips a whisky*

...hey ladies...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have thought the guy is to handsome so 'out of my league' not to say I only meet unattractive men lol! I have met some absolutely gorgeous guys but still pinch myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told some men they are too pretty. I like a bit rough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've told some men they are too pretty. I like a bit rough

I'm bald and rather stern featured (they soften up greatly for the right person), I can understand how some people might both be drawn to, or turned away by such a face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, here's one for you, I'd like the ladies opinions too...

I get this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've not seen any face that has been too handsome,on here. I've seen some cock and torso pics that are abundant on gay websites; those gay men pretending to be straight eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profile pics look like they've come straight out of a high end aftershave ad. I instantly block those kinds.. I just can't see a male model needing a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some profile pics look like they've come straight out of a high end aftershave ad. I instantly block those kinds.. I just can't see a male model needing a site like this

Wellll let's not be too hasty

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's never the face I'm bothered about, it's the body.

One person's gorgeous face could be another person's idea of a face like a ripped dap.

But a six pack is a six pack. I have more spare tyres than Kwik Fit. Just wouldn't work."
you can't get fitter than a kwik fit fitter

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