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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Block as you see fit

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

Expect nothing, then you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what we do it saves them coming up on future searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this. I take it as a "no" and it saves me messaging them again by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often block delete my messages as I get so many espesially when I'm organising a social I need to concentrate on those messages only. The way i see it is if they are very keen they will message again. If they don't then never mind there's plenty more peeps on here. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

Your Choice

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

You could be cutting off your nose to spite your face though - a lady might have to block delete one week because she was manic at work, but the following week want to message you about something you said on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

Yes. We block people we are not interested in. It is not rude. Neither is not replying to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thats your choice

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"there's plenty more peeps on here. xxx"

Oi, I've not been referred to as a peep before \o/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's plenty more peeps on here. xxx

Oi, I've not been referred to as a peep before \o/ "

Awwww ace you know your my fave peep to peep at. xxx

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

It might be what you put as the opening message that puts someone off or the fact that you haven't read their profile both, both reasons why I delete without reading but yeah do what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do this. I take it as a "no" and it saves me messaging them again by mistake. "

I used to do this, then I would look at their profile and see that if I had contacting them, it would show it saying

"You messaged them 2 months ago" for example, then I simply don't message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look upon the block button as a futher extension of your freedom to do as you choose without having to worry about being judged on here.

Up to you basically fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do as you please, but we often delete messages from men if we're not looking for a man at that time or they don't fit a specific profile for a meet we want.

Doesn't mean they won't next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look upon the block button as a futher extension of your freedom to do as you choose without having to worry about being judged on here.

Up to you basically fella "

Absolutely 100% this!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"there's plenty more peeps on here. xxx

Oi, I've not been referred to as a peep before \o/

Awwww ace you know your my fave peep to peep at. xxx"

Fanks xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all,saves unwanted contact .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often block delete my messages as I get so many espesially when I'm organising a social I need to concentrate on those messages only. The way i see it is if they are very keen they will message again. If they don't then never mind there's plenty more peeps on here. xxx"

I wish there was a way of having several inbox folders and auto direct messages...

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Your profile = your rules

As per FAQS though its not rude not to reply

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals

It's your profile. We use it as a filter, and block those: who send one liners, don't read the profile, who whine on updates, or who continually slag off people, or their looks etc. Saves us having to see it, or bother with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to block people who come up in searches as looking for a TV....then when you go to drop a message....it won't send as they are not looking for your sex....total waste of time reading their profile again at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just so relieved that there is a block button on fab!

Make use of.it and block as you see fit

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Do what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

I block people with vowels in their username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do this. I take it as a "no" and it saves me messaging them again by mistake.

I used to do this, then I would look at their profile and see that if I had contacting them, it would show it saying

"You messaged them 2 months ago" for example, then I simply don't message again "

True. But I'm stubborn and I like the satisfaction of hitting the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the block button

Just been told that BDSM is abusive to women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do this. I take it as a "no" and it saves me messaging them again by mistake.

I used to do this, then I would look at their profile and see that if I had contacting them, it would show it saying

"You messaged them 2 months ago" for example, then I simply don't message again

True. But I'm stubborn and I like the satisfaction of hitting the block button "

fair play buddy

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Am I wrong to block those who just delete messages without reading. I know it's some people's way of saying thanks but no thanks, but a little message is nice"

that's totally up to you but remember timing is everything OP .

I personally never block anyone even someone who is rude to me .

just because someone deletes your message after reading doesn't mean they don't like you although that could be the reason in some cases .

I think a reply to a message has a lot to do with timing if your timing is bad your message will get deleted but if you block that person they can never message you if you catch there eye at some point down the line maybe when their searching for a meet.

food for thought about blocking over a read but deleted message blocking but again its your choice so do as you will and feel comfortable with .

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