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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok why not "

good man

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot "

We would but we are meeting a few of them next week.

S&H

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

whats the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've joined in with similar "out of my league" and "what have you got to lose" threads.

It just confirmed my hypothesis.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo! Loads are out of my league, but I'll wait out on winking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna wink a few I like the lot of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I winked a hot guy and he sent me a message, we ended up chatting,meeting and having an excellent social! It does work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

This . I know this is meant as a bit of fun, but I don't like to think of myself or anyone as above or below me in any kind of ranking, so I'll just continue messaging the folks I find attractive and hope for the best anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Nobody's out of anyone's league, the notion that what you look like places you above anyone else is ridiculous and faintly insulting to anyone you have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

league

the more I say it the weirder it sounds

leeeeeeeagggggue

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I've joined in with similar "out of my league" and "what have you got to lose" threads.

It just confirmed my hypothesis.

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Me too, I got ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why bother....

go with what you know is my motto

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

This . I know this is meant as a bit of fun, but I don't like to think of myself or anyone as above or below me in any kind of ranking, so I'll just continue messaging the folks I find attractive and hope for the best anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot "

Well I pm women I think are smoking hot knowing they probably wouldn't meet me.

I did yesterday.

Not sure I think of anyone that's out of my league though.

People are people.

I give the same respect to a homeless person as I do a millionaire until I know them well enough to make an informed decision about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

I wish it were true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've winked and also damn filters

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, any women we have messaged who decided not to reply to us because they thought we were out of their league, please don't worry, we're really not!

At least we assume that was the reason.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "
maybe she just does that on sundays, or it was a gift..what you perceive, is not always the reality of the situation..it comes from your mind making up separatism and being self judgemental at the end of the day..why would anyone do that to themselves??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be gutted if anyone thought I was 'out of their league' im the most down to earth girl in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "

That doesn't make her better just richer. Not being compatible doesn't make someone out of your league.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Not just me then! Don't get the mentality either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because .........."

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if anyone thought I was 'out of their league' im the most down to earth girl in the world. "

You may well be, but you're very attractive and hard to chat to some one! It is usually based on our own thoughts and the judgement is made before we even know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just winked a few, but as ever distance...

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I'm always surprised when very Sexy people find us attractive and even want to meet me/us.

No complains.

MrsSB

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PS distance not a problem for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good il give it a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the leagues what stop me, it's the age ranges

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

This is where online can be deceiving.....I'm.at my happiest drinking pints with the rugby boys rather than supping wine with the girls.....I do girly when I need to....I see myself as a bit of an idiot with a stupid sense of humour and that does not show in any way on my profile or pics.

Even if you feel someone is "outta your league" message then, you may be surprised, don't judge a book and all that!

I've sent messages to hotties and had replies, it does work!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because .........."

They don`t like the look of your finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you."

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not make myself look a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads out of my league lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

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Their arrogance only makes them "think" they're better than you ...but I'm happy to agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not make myself look a twat "

This

I don't send winks. Plus I don't believe in this league thing. Everyone has a chance if you connect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

With my confidence at about an all time low today I just don't have time to wink at the entire site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg lighting up people

and tbh in my opinion there are loads of guys/gals who you think are two attractive for you hence the out of my league remark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "

So she drinks dom perignon?

Does she earn the money to pay for it herself or ?..........anyway materialistic people aren't necessarily better than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

Their arrogance only makes them "think" they're better than you ...but I'm happy to agree to disagree. "

See where you are coming from now

I agree they are not out of my league

It's them thinking they are that's the issue

Ironically makes me better than them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep

That doesn't make her better just richer. Not being compatible doesn't make someone out of your league."

Never said that...a bird like that is outta ya league if she can and you can't...it's bleeding obvious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

Their arrogance only makes them "think" they're better than you ...but I'm happy to agree to disagree.

See where you are coming from now

I agree they are not out of my league

It's them thinking they are that's the issue

Ironically makes me better than them "

Did they actually say they thought they were out of your league?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met and played with men who I would never have messaged in the first place as I would never have expected them to be interested in me so go for it, if they turn you down, it's not the end of the world and you never know, they could say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".it's bleeding obvious..

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Not to the majority of people on this thread it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met and played with men who I would never have messaged in the first place as I would never have expected them to be interested in me so go for it, if they turn you down, it's not the end of the world and you never know, they could say yes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot "
done and winked sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

Their arrogance only makes them "think" they're better than you ...but I'm happy to agree to disagree.

See where you are coming from now

I agree they are not out of my league

It's them thinking they are that's the issue

Ironically makes me better than them

Did they actually say they thought they were out of your league?"

A few actually have yes

The others would surely say hi if we were on an even keel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "

That's out of your pay scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep

That doesn't make her better just richer. Not being compatible doesn't make someone out of your league.

Never said that...a bird like that is outta ya league if she can and you can't...it's bleeding obvious..

"

All of my regular partners have much more money than me,are they slumming it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooo! Loads are out of my league, but I'll wait out on winking them "

I can't imagine there are too many out of your league on this site. Not that I've seen anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By some of the totally negative comments on this post think most of you outta my league as laughter plays a good part in sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob-ably not.

I'll make an arse out of myself again.

Done it before and it never quite goes to plan.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Agreed maybe league is the wrong word but in our case you look at someone, You see the type in the main they are drawn to from their veries & forum posts, games etc. THOSE they flirt with or have veries from are not like you, nowhere close tbh but you still fit their profile wants..but you don't contact them because you think you are wasting your time & theirs..or you do contact them & have your thoughts confirmed.

My take on it anyway..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get messages stating "I know I'm way out of your league" but thought I'd message anyway! I'm not in any "League", it's all down to attraction for me. However, as I've stated before, I have looked at a hot guys profile and thought, he'd never want to meet me, not because I think he's out of my league, but because I feel I'm not hot enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Agreed maybe league is the wrong word but in our case you look at someone, You see the type in the main they are drawn to from their veries & forum posts, games etc. THOSE they flirt with or have veries from are not like you, nowhere close tbh but you still fit their profile wants..but you don't contact them because you think you are wasting your time & theirs..or you do contact them & have your thoughts confirmed.

My take on it anyway..

S

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thats exactly my point

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot "

There is no league. There are however preferences and I choose to respect them. Plus I have no intention of meeting anyone anytime soon and winking or PMing someone out of the blue tends to be seen as a precursor to that. On the off chance someone I wink or PM is actually interested then I would be wasting their time by doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".it's bleeding obvious..

Not to the majority of people on this thread it's not "

Well I'm not surprised there's confusion then

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Prefer chatting in the forum/cam rooms rather than direct messages. They must get a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep

That doesn't make her better just richer. Not being compatible doesn't make someone out of your league.

Never said that...a bird like that is outta ya league if she can and you can't...it's bleeding obvious..

All of my regular partners have much more money than me,are they slumming it? "

How can I answer that when I've never seen ya...I'm good but not that fucking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok one other thing...chicks feed off body language and the typed message..if you start with a negative it's off putting..

Oh ya outta my league...that's not a great one liner...i'd hit them with one like... Oooooh tell ya what love them eyebrows,now girls don't get complimented on there fucking eyebrows so you get the ball rolling with somthing like that and take it from there

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By *uvtogiveoralMan
over a year ago

hyde


"I'd be gutted if anyone thought I was 'out of their league' im the most down to earth girl in the world. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So the 'hot' ladies I message don't reply because ..........

You aren't compatible for some reason, not because they're better than you.

Agree to disagree on this I think

Some very arrogant 'hotties' about

Their arrogance only makes them "think" they're better than you ...but I'm happy to agree to disagree.

See where you are coming from now

I agree they are not out of my league

It's them thinking they are that's the issue

Ironically makes me better than them "

My mum often used to say "I don't think I'm better than other people, I KNOW I am" I think she was joking

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Then again you don't ask you don't get, we sent a wink last night & just got one back

Let's chat

S&H

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The worst that can happen is they say, no thanks or delete your message. It's not life or death.

If we see someone we like the look of and think we might fit their preferences, we'll give it a go.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Ok one other thing...chicks feed off body language and the typed message..if you start with a negative it's off putting..

Oh ya outta my league...that's not a great one liner...i'd hit them with one like... Oooooh tell ya what love them eyebrows,now girls don't get complimented on there fucking eyebrows so you get the ball rolling with somthing like that and take it from there "

I get complimented on my eyebrows quite often. Ok, it's by other women but that's besides the point.

I'll go for little finger, I've never been complimented on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK I'm in for a wink or three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a league based on looks my wife is three leagues above me however we ve been together 20 years and very happy ,I think theres may be more to it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not make myself look a twat

This

I don't send winks. Plus I don't believe in this league thing. Everyone has a chance if you connect."

I'll wink not because their out of my league my wink is for appreciation of them as a forum friend and lovely profile pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread, I'll take the plunge and wink

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Well I've just been furiously winking, need a breather now I think.

Had to fab all over someone's gallery too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've just been furiously winking, need a breather now I think.

Had to fab all over someone's gallery too "

Thanks I appreciate the wink and the fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe in out of my league talk. It's just either they don't fancy me back or they are scared of my Willy hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather get a message than a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I winked a hot guy and he sent me a message, we ended up chatting,meeting and having an excellent social! It does work!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather get a message than a wink "

wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks don't work on me...

I even say in my profile I'd rather have a message so winkers beware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if anyone thought I was 'out of their league' im the most down to earth girl in the world. "

And you're smoking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking down at you all from my fluffy cloud. It's lovely up here today

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over a year ago

Winked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather get a message than a wink

wuu2 "

Gtg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok one other thing...chicks feed off body language and the typed message..if you start with a negative it's off putting..

Oh ya outta my league...that's not a great one liner...i'd hit them with one like... Oooooh tell ya what love them eyebrows,now girls don't get complimented on there fucking eyebrows so you get the ball rolling with somthing like that and take it from there

I get complimented on my eyebrows quite often. Ok, it's by other women but that's besides the point.

I'll go for little finger, I've never been complimented on that. "

Ahhhh funny it's other chicks..it's probably because I started it a few years ago,that and wall paper ...like who high 5's ya wall paper??? Me coz it's a ice breaker if you say somthing funny about it

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "

I wouldn't bother,

She's more pretentious that outta my league..

Would buy her 15 quid bottle of prosecco and listen to her say how she so love Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Bravo nobody is out of anyone's ' league '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winked. "

Oh, and then blocked. Thanks for your BRILLIANT idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told by one person in fab that I was not in the same league as the ladies attending her event ie I wasn't good looking enough for them upon looking at her profile and the so called super models I thought what the fuck as they were all ordinary looking middle aged woman not stunning page 3 models but hey I know I'm no super hunk but to be told your not in our league by someone as ordinary looking as yourself is quite insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather get a message than a wink

wuu2

Gtg "

Good to go?

Going to gulp?

Get the grease?

I just realised why I do so badly on here...

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Winked a few today

Sometimes threads like this (and the hotlist ones) lead to memorable moments and future plans!

What's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha I got a wink.

I'm definitely not out of anyones league though

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Ok..you get talking to a bird..you find out she drinks Dom Perignon 2004 @ £250 a pop...she's outta ya league if you think £4 for a JD & is steep "

This example given of a lady isnt out of someones league, she is just a fussy Kunt who is a walking clichè.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Winked.

Oh, and then blocked. Thanks for your BRILLIANT idea! "

lol

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this thread. Is there a purpose to the OP's statement?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Winked a few today

Sometimes threads like this (and the hotlist ones) lead to memorable moments and future plans!

What's the worst that can happen?"

We might turn up?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winked a few today

Sometimes threads like this (and the hotlist ones) lead to memorable moments and future plans!

What's the worst that can happen?

We might turn up?

S"
I wouldn't slam the door closed on you if u turned up lol

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"Winked a few today

Sometimes threads like this (and the hotlist ones) lead to memorable moments and future plans!

What's the worst that can happen?

We might turn up?

S"

Can't wait

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Nothing. No winks. I am sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one outta my league xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been contacted for meets by some extremely hot younger couples so I guess it proves that everyone has different tastes as we see ourselves as ordinary run of the mill looking people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one outta my league xxx"
so even an armpit like me has got a shot then lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't make up my mind if I'm out of anyone's league or I'm playing for a Sunday pub side.

For the record, I'm neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my own league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Nobody's out of anyone's league, the notion that what you look like places you above anyone else is ridiculous and faintly insulting to anyone you have met."

Not really, they could still be out of my league, Ive just been lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you wink someone because you like them at least reply with a no thanks or thanks but your not me??

and on here I believe there is no league

its upto the individual,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league "
If i could wink you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am north wales been the butchers league division 3

Lol

Pooch on the other hand is pure

Premier league, with a champions league place

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We consider Nobody to be out of our league until we get slapped down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yeah I'd love to see a wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league "
u can dust my room any time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league "

you certainly are rubywoo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we know which league we're in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league "

Biting tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you wink someone because you like them at least reply with a no thanks or thanks but your not me??

and on here I believe there is no league

its upto the individual,s "

Why? Winks are a waste of time IMO

If someone winks at me I see that as being lazy so why should I reply to a lazy person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league

Biting tongue"

I'm surprised you haven't bitten right through it by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do we know which league we're in?"
To me I feel I will always be out of your league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in my own league

Biting tongue

I'm surprised you haven't bitten right through it by now "

I've got a cold

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Winked a few today

Sometimes threads like this (and the hotlist ones) lead to memorable moments and future plans!

What's the worst that can happen?

We might turn up?

S

Can't wait "

S

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"How do we know which league we're in?"

I think you need to make it to the play-offs to move up or do really badly to face relegation. I have never quite figured out the correlation between that concept and meeting people and having sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always up for some winking, happy to wink at anyone we like though it's often people who don't meet couples and distance etc.

But just a bit of fun.

As for leagues, well, we've got insecurities but you don't known until you ask.

The worst that can happen is you get abuse, but that just proves they're not for us, so a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because a wink is kind of letting you know that your interested,you can then look at the profile and make a chioce to return the wink?

then the fun begins?? no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your premier league scarlet,no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it "

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here here,now I await to be shot down ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if anyone thought I was 'out of their league' im the most down to earth girl in the world. "

your out of mine i think, your fit, i'm really not! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree a lot of ladies and dare I say couples think they are better than they are but I suppose we do as well when looking for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sour grapes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooo! Loads are out of my league, but I'll wait out on winking them "

just looked at your profile, i think you'd easily get loads of offers here, your very attractive and love your style, great body too if you don't mind me saying! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooo! Loads are out of my league, but I'll wait out on winking them

just looked at your profile, i think you'd easily get loads of offers here, your very attractive and love your style, great body too if you don't mind me saying! x"

Oh stop

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I'd rather not make myself look a twat "

I under stand feel like a right dick when I wink or msg some one and they just look or read and del

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

But as I am here I will wink some ladies and see how it goes not holding out much hope but oh well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now to be honest I don't really care what your answer is fire away but do you think im too out of your league women just curious to see what your answer is lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Theres guys/gals that you think are way out of your league on fab but send them a wink or pm just to let them know that you think they are smoking hot "

sadly I'm out because I don't think I'm out of anyone's league nor is anyone out of my league .

if I'm inspired by you because of the whole package face body and mind sexual tastes I will play if I'm not I won't.

I would hope anyone who chooses to play with me thinks the same way in that dynamic there is not league just people attracted to each other based on the whole package of the person their attracted to.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I know my place.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's obviously easier for women and couples on this site.

I think that's where the "Out of their League" hypothesis stems from.

Women can afford to be that bit more choosy.

It may sound bad, but it's a fact.

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I have winked a couple of profiles of those way hotter then me. But hey what's the worst that could happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not make myself look a twat

I under stand feel like a right dick when I wink or msg some one and they just look or read and del "

Happens all the time. Just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's obviously easier for women and couples on this site.

I think that's where the "Out of their League" hypothesis stems from.

Women can afford to be that bit more choosy.

It may sound bad, but it's a fact. "

It's not easier for couples! We've been here 5 years and never found a couple to play with!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's obviously easier for women and couples on this site.

I think that's where the "Out of their League" hypothesis stems from.

Women can afford to be that bit more choosy.

It may sound bad, but it's a fact.

It's not easier for couples! We've been here 5 years and never found a couple to play with!!!! "

To be fair your profile only shows you.

Unless you have a separate account people may view you as a single male pretending to be a couple.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

All the ladies in here are outta my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's obviously easier for women and couples on this site.

I think that's where the "Out of their League" hypothesis stems from.

Women can afford to be that bit more choosy.

It may sound bad, but it's a fact.

It's not easier for couples! We've been here 5 years and never found a couple to play with!!!!

To be fair your profile only shows you.

Unless you have a separate account people may view you as a single male pretending to be a couple. "

We have a couples profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's obviously easier for women and couples on this site.

I think that's where the "Out of their League" hypothesis stems from.

Women can afford to be that bit more choosy.

It may sound bad, but it's a fact.

It's not easier for couples! We've been here 5 years and never found a couple to play with!!!!

To be fair your profile only shows you.

Unless you have a separate account people may view you as a single male pretending to be a couple. "

We do.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

There's certainly plenty of 'smokin hot' Fabbers here, that doesn't necessarily mean they're unobtainable or out of anyone's league..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol "

Of course. Some of them are also just joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is out of my league. I'm above and beyond .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol

Of course. Some of them are also just joking "

And some of them make it look like they're joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol

Of course. Some of them are also just joking

And some of them make it look like they're joking "

I didn't mean me. I'm never joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway,back to the OP. I'm ready for the hundreds of messages from men who are beneath me,I hope I can cope with it

"Never a turer word spoken in jest" I think is the phrase.

Far too many people, has to be said woman in my humble opinion, on here give the impression they're in a different "higher league" or is it cl***e and act like queen bees and expect "lesser men" to buzz around them for titbits of "honey" in the forum hums la Marseillaise to himself and awaits the vitriol

Of course. Some of them are also just joking

And some of them make it look like they're joking

I didn't mean me. I'm never joking "

I know.

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By *ad_seanMan
over a year ago

London

I just fab their photos instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've joined in on a few - what have I got to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the league of legends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Southern Premier league languishing around mid table, but I turn up on here hoping to make a run into the first round of the FA cup..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once chatted up a lady "out of my league". She was a famous actress so guys were intimidated I guess. Ended up back at her hotel. Point is, the "out of your league" people are just normal folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think anybody is anymore-anybody that thinks we are beneath them arent worth meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ive bit the bullet so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sour grapes?

no real time feedback princess??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

I would maybe say that seeing as we are all humans and on the same site that we are infact in the same league ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I connect or don't connect. I never feel I'm not good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of.. "

Well said! Here doesn't have specials! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there's more out of our league than in it we would like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless your being charged and ain't got enough credits then........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does "out of your league" mean exact,y? It is not a term I recognise in any shape or form...nor should anyone with an ounce if self-respect!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Agreed maybe league is the wrong word but in our case you look at someone, You see the type in the main they are drawn to from their veries & forum posts, games etc. THOSE they flirt with or have veries from are not like you, nowhere close tbh but you still fit their profile wants..but you don't contact them because you think you are wasting your time & theirs..or you do contact them & have your thoughts confirmed.

My take on it anyway..

S

"
timing is everything, however i tend to want to gap my mind of uncertainty so id message (in my own time)and move on if it was a no..

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"how is anyone on here out of anyones 'league'? if you both are attracted to each other and are compatible in preferences..i just don't get this mentality...there is no league, to be out of..

Well said! Here doesn't have specials! X "
unless its platinum membership..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ......

Gold and platinum membership ....

.........next there will be air miles and loyalty points perhaps....

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"league

the more I say it the weirder it sounds

leeeeeeeagggggue

"

try saying globule,over n over n over,,its really weird

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