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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Woke up this morning and three people had looked at me I wanted to contact two of them but I was outside their filters so annoying. Filters should both ways!!!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

But if all 3 never made contact it was for a reason just because someone looks doesn't mean they are interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely "

but then how would they know if they was interested or not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not?? "

Haha made me giggle that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not?? "

If I'm outside their filters they wouldn't be interested would they? The number of men that look at me when they are looking for women is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not?? "

Its logical, captain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not??

If I'm outside their filters they wouldn't be interested would they? The number of men that look at me when they are looking for women is amazing"

Nowt wrong with being nosey though, people look at me from up and down the country, couples that look state they're not looking for single guys, guys look at me stating the same, don't stress over who looks at you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"But if all 3 never made contact it was for a reason just because someone looks doesn't mean they are interested "

Obvious to you and I, not the op it would appear.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely "

How would you know if you're interested without looking? Haven't really thought this through have you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not?? "

Exactly!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Therefore would be better if they didn't see my profile in the first place surely

but then how would they know if they was interested or not??

If I'm outside their filters they wouldn't be interested would they? The number of men that look at me when they are looking for women is amazing"

1. Maybe they just block everyone and make contact with who they like not uncommon on here

2. I just looked at your profile and I'm only interested in women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at your profile and men can't message us, just to annoy you.

But then I am a bit of a wanker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could just be nosey like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our filters are not carved in stone. It's unlikely we would go outsides our filters but never say never. I prefer our filters in place in order to reduce the mail we get from people we are unlikely to meet. But we still reserve the right to contact people who are outside our filters should we stumble across someone who we think we could have some fun with. Likewise we have no issues with being outside someone's filters and them contacting us if they wish. If fact my husband has played with 2 women at parties and we couldn't contact them afterwards because our profile ages were older than then set age. Never mind.

Also some women and couples filter out dingle me just preferring to search themselves. Again probably done to stop all the messages.

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By *ia69Woman
over a year ago

town

I'm always looking at profiles very rare do I message. Call me nosey. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm walking down the road and I see people.

I look even though I don't want to. I look.

Curiosity. Human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I was so genuinely thrilled to discover stealth looking. Prior to that, I got lots of "ooh, you looked at my profile, let's meet" type messages. Odd. I look at all sorts of profiles for a huge variety of reasons, including those of people I know before looking that I won't want to make contact with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys never had so many people look at me and cant contact any !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine you are in a pub..do you only look at and talk people who you would want to fuck? No, you see and chat to allsorts of people, we are social beings. Just because they looked doesn't mean they were scoping you out. They could just be seeing if you have anything in common to chat about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're gonna look in mode.

Now that'll really bake your noodle

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks guys never had so many people look at me and cant contact any !!!"

Just because people look it doesn't mean they want contact with you! Perhaps if you actually had a profile people would?!!

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Imagine you are in a pub..do you only look at and talk people who you would want to fuck? No, you see and chat to allsorts of people, we are social beings. Just because they looked doesn't mean they were scoping you out. They could just be seeing if you have anything in common to chat about"

Like your living art gallery for instance? x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never, ever, ever waste time and energy on people that have no interest in you.

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