FabSwingers.com forum: First messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?

As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!

Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.

So what are your opinions/preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as you, a normal message really.

gets really boring being approached like i'm a definite fuck and all they have to do is ask when i'm free and send me a pic of thier dick.

i have dildos and sex toys, i want something more than a penis for sex, although i do want a penis obviously, a fairly big one.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Hate the cock pics, love a message that's taken a moment of thought. I get a bunch of "hi" or "wanna fuck now"

As if I'll drop everything for someone a hundred miles away!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op,

For us a message that includes us both and shows you gave read our profile is good .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a hi, and straight to the point. Nothing overly done. I can then reply and take it further. I can also read more on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.

A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback people.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well

Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here

Dax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try sending something eye catching or/and amusing to start a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx"

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx"

You sir are genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?"

You would but I can't message you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

You sir are genius

Not a genius (well a bit maybe) just like to find different ways to attract attention and get a response .

Doesn't always work but sometimes....and it's fun.

I try to use different messages of a similar ilk.

Give it a try, worse that can happen "MESSAGE DELETED"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well

Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here

Dax "

Thanks

With all the dick picw flying about ive ditched the teflon and donned my kevlar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?"

i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well

Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here

Dax

Thanks

With all the dick picw flying about ive ditched the teflon and donned my kevlar

Wow....full protection then...my kevlar only comes out when I'm on the motorbike lol

Also worth looking into clubs and socials too. Get yourself out there and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?

i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great."

The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's

It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?

i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great.

The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's

It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?'"

actually yeah if i do fancy the guy i say thanks. not really fancied anyone for ages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send well worded profile tailored messages, don't always work mind but there ya go.

I don't like receiving messages that say:-

Meet now

nice pics

suck now

wanna meet

asl (yes I've had these too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they must be polite

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm a 54 year old bisexual smoker, I don't send preemptive messages to anyone, but I have met a few people off the forums. Draw your own conclusions from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a little tip.... short messages like "hi, how are you?" Can be read without even opening the message so often stay "unread"

If you want someone to open the message and then most likely check out your profile you need to say something interesting in the very first line!

I don't answer messages that come across as "ok I've hit send message, now I expect you to make conversation with me"

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.

A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either

This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a little tip.... short messages like "hi, how are you?" Can be read without even opening the message so often stay "unread"

If you want someone to open the message and then most likely check out your profile you need to say something interesting in the very first line!

I don't answer messages that come across as "ok I've hit send message, now I expect you to make conversation with me"

Mrs x"

Id like to give you a little tip Mrs... lol xx

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"For example

Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories

1) wow!

2) fucking hell wow!

3) pass me the tissues....

You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....

You are amazing xx

Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?

i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great.

The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's

It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?'"

Haha don't get FAF messages much...

I like people with a sense of humour, and see it all as a bit of fun and banter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to give you a little tip Mrs... lol xx"

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell me I'm pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to give you a little tip Mrs... lol xx

oh dear"

Nature I'm afraid, only have a little one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just tell me I'm pretty

Youd be prettier in nothing but your top hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually seldom receive rude first messages! Maybe my profile scares them!

Generally they are...'love your profile and pics'...which I don't mind them saying

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.

A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either

This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one? "

Yes have more than one face picture. Maybe smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell me I'm pretty

Youd be prettier in nothing but your top hat

I know

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?

As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!

Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.

So what are your opinions/preferences? "

I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.

A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either

This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one? "

If you have face pics I can see on your profile, then no, I wouldn't expect you to send me one. Others might though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.

A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either

This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one?

Yes have more than one face picture. Maybe smile "

Yeah as I can see your smile from here lol

I do have a couple where I'm smiling. I did say it was a silly question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?

As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!

Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.

So what are your opinions/preferences?

I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.

Yeah thats because i got fed up of the endless tirade of dick pics

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?

As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!

Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.

So what are your opinions/preferences?

I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.

Yeah thats because i got fed up of the endless tirade of dick pics

Nahh.

That's not the way to do it

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