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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who does this? I can't believe you can connect with somebody so much, and say the right words over text, and turn each other on. my beliefs have recently been blown away.

Does anyone else use this to 'relieve' themselves?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Not for me that.

Wouldn't know where to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only do this if planning to meet them, otherwise, it's a pointless waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would only do this if planning to meet them, otherwise, it's a pointless waste of time."

I quite agree. Otherwise I can just see things going round in circles. I need a target or a Finish line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."

Yes. Physical attraction that's then penetrates the mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time as I'm stuck offshore for weeks at a time and it helps relieve the stress oh and when its accompanied with pics its even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I am going to meet them, wouldn't do it to get myself off as such but as a tease before meeting it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as there's a meet somewhere in the near future this is good fun for me

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do it to 'relieve' myself but as a way of keeping a long distance relationship alive between meet ups...

there has to be that connection though..

Otherwise it's just chat isn't it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's the nightmare scenario for me, when someone seems to want an in person meeting but actually wants dirty talk/pics.

O had enough of it at sixth form to last a lifetime so it's got nil interest for me with a stranger

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."

Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never, ever do such a thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the nightmare scenario for me, when someone seems to want an in person meeting but actually wants dirty talk/pics.

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Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text.

Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection... "

Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Mr mcduck and I do this all the time, usually if he's at work on nights and I'm all tucked up in bed, it's super horny and quite a tease, although it's perhaps a little different for us as we are together Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me that.

Wouldn't know where to start "

Aye right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexting?! Can you not see my halo from there? I don't do such filthy things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection...

Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet "

Or hoping it would then turn a potential, into a definite meet

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Not for me that.

Wouldn't know where to start

Aye right!! "

That was just an informal chat

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sexting?! Can you not see my halo from there? I don't do such filthy things "

You are a funny one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me that.

Wouldn't know where to start

Aye right!!

That was just an informal chat

"

Oh I know; I'm saying nothing about the pics!!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Do it with H when she's on a 15hr shift.

As said we would do it with someone we were looking to meet or had met to keep the temp up.

S

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Not for me that.

Wouldn't know where to start

Aye right!!

That was just an informal chat

Oh I know; I'm saying nothing about the pics!!! "

I'm blaming the wine

And pleading the fifth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting?! Can you not see my halo from there? I don't do such filthy things "

*Snort laugh*....jeez stop making me do that...!! Am trying to look sexy over here

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only with jack if in the mood,i wouldnt want to with someone didnt know and would feel a tit lol.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known too

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

Nope ... Never sent one

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm still saying no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead."

If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope ... Never sent one "

Oh bugger who have I just answered by text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still saying no."

I'm still not buying it...am also saying nothing about th pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope ... Never sent one

Oh bugger who have I just answered by text "

I'll read it soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead.

If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles. "

It's not even as cool as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It

If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles.

It's not even as cool as that "

Not re-runs of pUnky BreWSter? Haha. Sorry taking this somewhere else.

Both sides of the text have to be really involved to make it work.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm still saying no.

I'm still not buying it...am also saying nothing about th pics "

Pics you say...look out

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

If the chemistry is strong I get turned on as soon as we connect, from the first 'Hello' lol! I occasionally indulge but most of the time I try to avoid it - I have enough trouble with sexual tension as it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. The "What are you wearing?" And "Fancy sucking this?" Followed by a dick pic at 2am gets a bit boring.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text.

Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection...

Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet "

Would only do it with people i have with repeat meets though as we would know eachother well enough by then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun. "

I think it's supposed to be indecent hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun.

I think it's supposed to be indecent hun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun. "

It can be a chuckle if its just a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun.

It can be a chuckle if its just a bit of fun "

It's a lot of fun with some

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Who does this? I can't believe you can connect with somebody so much, and say the right words over text, and turn each other on. my beliefs have recently been blown away.

Does anyone else use this to 'relieve' themselves? "

I will engage in this with the right person.

for me its not about relieve because I rarely masturbate ,masturbation is not my thing.

I view it as a poor substitute compared to the real thing and for that reason I rarely engage in it.

for me its about three things anticipation keeping things going and interesting in between meets and power.

anticipation speaks for its self a good bit of teasing chat before a play meet can enhance the meet.

in between meets it can be used to keep up the interest from both parties .

but my real reason for doing it is this.

the power one feels when one knows their words alone are turning another on fits with my sexuality big time .

the written word has power the person using the written word to express desire can use that power to turn another on and then get a kick out of knowing that.

for this reason I have in the past indulged ferns who never meet but use the dynamic of the written word to enhance their sex life .

you see by knowing they are getting off on my sexually that I have expressed in words can give me a small adrenalin boost and a feeling of power because I no my sexuality is turning them on so to me its worth it on occasions to indulge in this sort of play.

no where as big of a adrenalin boost or a feeling of power that a regular play meet with a fern gives me but still a small boost enough to make it worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"....worth while to me with the right fern of coarse. "

Fern? Hehe, that made me giggle.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.

Fern? Hehe, that made me giggle..... "

Tree huggers eh ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"....worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.

Fern? Hehe, that made me giggle.....

Tree huggers eh ? "

I was thinking of Charles talking to his plants......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.

Fern? Hehe, that made me giggle.....

Tree huggers eh ?

I was thinking of Charles talking to his plants...... "

Good lord no! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone up for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do it to 'relieve' myself but as a way of keeping a long distance relationship alive between meet ups...

there has to be that connection though..

Otherwise it's just chat isn't it? "

This

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I have a few 'friends' that I do this with, we're on the same wavelength so it helps keep our friendship alive between meets.

Not everyone can do it though as I've found out. You type out a whole scenario full of passion and sexual tension and get a one line response back, kinda kills it then

Thems that gets it though...omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be immense fun, and really adds a little spice in the build up to a meet.

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By *ush Home RuffianMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My forte

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, with someone I know but see all too rarely. You soon come up against the limitations of language though...! And it help to be ambidextrous. More Whatsapp now, texts are only used by Dominoes pizzas.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works well to build tension

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I won't do it with someone from here. For me there has to be a real emotional connection to enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I know them.

I'm not getting to see one of my favourite people - he's not on here...! - as often as we'd both like at the minute, so we write some erotic prose for each other every few days and email them back and forth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had a little fun today. hopefully it turns into something else well we can hope.

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