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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

people watching... most of us have done it and enjoyed it at some point or another. But WHY is is so much fun to sit ina a street cafe watching the world go by, what makes it so fascinating?

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

Love sitting watching the people go by - just try and imagine what they are doing - whats on their mind and yes - would i ??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people watching... most of us have done it and enjoyed it at some point or another. But WHY is is so much fun to sit ina a street cafe watching the world go by, what makes it so fascinating?"
What makes you do it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

i love to do it.

We did it in the pub last night, but were trying to figure out wether they were swingers or not....there were a few we reckon

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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My cousin and I sit in cafe's/restaurants and make up storyies of imaginary people and speak just slightly higer than normal.

One guy was once so intrigued he lent back and tipped his chair over

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"people watching... most of us have done it and enjoyed it at some point or another. But WHY is is so much fun to sit ina a street cafe watching the world go by, what makes it so fascinating?"

The thing is if you can read body language its gets even better

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"people watching... most of us have done it and enjoyed it at some point or another. But WHY is is so much fun to sit ina a street cafe watching the world go by, what makes it so fascinating?What makes you do it?"

I am naturally curious about people and their behaviours, their lives and what makes them tick and I sit there wondering what may or may not be going on in their lives, I guess. It is a relaxing "voyeurist" activity for me.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"i love to do it.

We did it in the pub last night, but were trying to figure out wether they were swingers or not....there were a few we reckon"

Yes, I often wonder that especially of those who look seemingly "innocent" and then I wonder if anybody ever spots me thinking the same...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"people watching... most of us have done it and enjoyed it at some point or another. But WHY is is so much fun to sit ina a street cafe watching the world go by, what makes it so fascinating?

The thing is if you can read body language its gets even better "

Totally.. and it is so great to observe a discrepancy in body language between two people, whether they mirror each other or whatever else it suggests...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like watching people, especially if they have hot bodies

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i love to do it.

We did it in the pub last night, but were trying to figure out wether they were swingers or not....there were a few we reckon

Yes, I often wonder that especially of those who look seemingly "innocent" and then I wonder if anybody ever spots me thinking the same..."

I think everyone does it, I even give them nicknames, something suitable. lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I like watching people, especially if they have hot bodies "

Me too, and sometimes you cannot quite make out what makes somebody really sexy.. but they just ooze it, dont they...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"i love to do it.

We did it in the pub last night, but were trying to figure out wether they were swingers or not....there were a few we reckon

Yes, I often wonder that especially of those who look seemingly "innocent" and then I wonder if anybody ever spots me thinking the same...

I think everyone does it, I even give them nicknames, something suitable. lol "

Care to share?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

There was a guy in the bar I was in last weekend, who made two mistakes 1) Light trousers/ slacks 2) Wet marks in the front. So he was from that moment known as the dribbler. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a pub/restaurant where me and my friend go to - its near her workplace so I just meet her there. We spend the time guessing which people are having affairs during their lunch hours... arrive in separate cars... go to quietest corner.... its great fun. We spot the regulars now and call them pet names like white car bad shoes and thin no hair woman...

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

i love people watching,just watching the world go by, i find it relaxing(as strange as that sounds)

PS im not strange really im not lol

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Theres a pub/restaurant where me and my friend go to - its near her workplace so I just meet her there. We spend the time guessing which people are having affairs during their lunch hours... arrive in separate cars... go to quietest corner.... its great fun. We spot the regulars now and call them pet names like white car bad shoes and thin no hair woman...

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See we are all doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a pub/restaurant where me and my friend go to - its near her workplace so I just meet her there. We spend the time guessing which people are having affairs during their lunch hours... arrive in separate cars... go to quietest corner.... its great fun. We spot the regulars now and call them pet names like white car bad shoes and thin no hair woman...

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you been watchin me? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often say - what's their story... it's fun.

It's just our natural curiosity, I'm sure.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Theres a pub/restaurant where me and my friend go to - its near her workplace so I just meet her there. We spend the time guessing which people are having affairs during their lunch hours... arrive in separate cars... go to quietest corner.... its great fun. We spot the regulars now and call them pet names like white car bad shoes and thin no hair woman...

See we are all doing it. "

I m pondering... maybe it is just a way of putting yourself into somebody else's shoes for a moment, thinking what it might be like to be them? Who knows but it is fun

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I often say - what's their story... it's fun.

It's just our natural curiosity, I'm sure.

"

Yes, you just beat me to it lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often say - what's their story... it's fun.

It's just our natural curiosity, I'm sure.

Yes, you just beat me to it lol..."

What's your story? - lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I often say - what's their story... it's fun.

It's just our natural curiosity, I'm sure.

Yes, you just beat me to it lol...

What's your story? - lol "

I do it .. and it is quite hard to drag yourself away from a good vantage point where you can see people while sipping a glass of chilled something. I thin you are spot on that it is a natural curiosity we all have to some degree, what I do not know why we have it - does it make sense to have this behaviour in terms of "survival" - is it important to us to watch what others are doing? Did we learn from that in the past maybe? Who knows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who nows indeed.

What I do know is I almmost always like to sit in the window, if not outside, when in a cafe alone. And I'm very aware that I never want to face the wall when I'm in company even though I know I should give my company all the attention (to be polite)... I just can't help myself.

Oh dear, I may have given too much away here

I'm a selfish tea drinker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Who nows indeed.

What I do know is I almmost always like to sit in the window, if not outside, when in a cafe alone. And I'm very aware that I never want to face the wall when I'm in company even though I know I should give my company all the attention (to be polite)... I just can't help myself.

Oh dear, I may have given too much away here

I'm a selfish tea drinker"

Apparently that has soemthing to do with primitive fight/flight and self preservation issues - and I think most of us prefer to not face the wall but a (potential) exit out of a situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm I think I've heard of that before... I'll remember it the next time someone attacks me with their teacup for lingering too long at them whilst they go about their business.. and I'm merely people watching.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"hmmm I think I've heard of that before... I'll remember it the next time someone attacks me with their teacup for lingering too long at them whilst they go about their business.. and I'm merely people watching."

hahaha that was funny... had not thought of it in that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a pub/restaurant where me and my friend go to - its near her workplace so I just meet her there. We spend the time guessing which people are having affairs during their lunch hours... arrive in separate cars... go to quietest corner.... its great fun. We spot the regulars now and call them pet names like white car bad shoes and thin no hair woman...

you been watchin me? lol "

My goodness where did you spring from? Hello how are you? LTNS Actually Im sure you've been to that pub

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