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"Every time you fancy a smoke, smack yourself around the back of the head x" Are such people available for hire? | |||
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"The nicotine addiction is pretty easy to overcome. It's the addiction to the act of smoking that is harder to quash. But you're on the right side. You simply need to find another oral fixation to focus on." Sort of agree. Nicotine is hard to ditch but it is the habit that catches you out long sfter tge nicotine is forgotten. "I can slwsys have one tomorrow if I am still desperate" was my thinking. But never wanted to the day after the craving. Good luck. | |||
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"It's really hard to quit, my day was Monday was doing good until today and was getting a really stressful day at work today and boom cigarettes. . But tomorrow is another day and start back to square one Day off, no stress, and will be more positive. .. It's easy for anyone who hasn't smoked to say just quit, but it's really hard, I'm trying to break my routine as I have a routine with smoking :-/" Routine is the hardest bit to beat. Try replacing the smoking time with another activity, particularly one that is hands-on. Even if it's something like reading a book - it'll distract your mind, and also your hands with holding the book and turning the pages. | |||
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"So tomorrow is going to be my first day to hopefully quit smoking has anyone got any suggestions for when you get any cravings or any tip that may work ![]() Remember the first cigarette you ever smoked and how disgusting it was! That's what I did. Been off them for 2 months and will never smoke again. I had no idea just how bad I used to smell! | |||
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"So tomorrow is going to be my first day to hopefully quit smoking has anyone got any suggestions for when you get any cravings or any tip that may work ![]() Go and see a hypnotherapist. Do your research and find a good one. One session and you will never smoke again. You will have no cravings. | |||
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"I cheated and used Champix. After smoking for 18 years and thinking I'd never be able to give up it was actually pain free. Would recommend." What's that ? | |||
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"So tomorrow is going to be my first day to hopefully quit smoking has anyone got any suggestions for when you get any cravings or any tip that may work ![]() Vaping, I instantly changed from smoking to vaping and gave up much easier ![]() | |||
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"I cheated and used Champix. After smoking for 18 years and thinking I'd never be able to give up it was actually pain free. Would recommend. What's that ? " "Varenicline (trade name Chantix and Champix usually in the form of varenicline tartrate), is a prescription medication used to treat nicotine addiction. Varenicline is a nicotinic receptor partial agonist—it stimulates nicotine receptors more weakly than nicotine itself does." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varenicline | |||
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"It's really hard to quit, my day was Monday was doing good until today and was getting a really stressful day at work today and boom cigarettes. . But tomorrow is another day and start back to square one Day off, no stress, and will be more positive. .. It's easy for anyone who hasn't smoked to say just quit, but it's really hard, I'm trying to break my routine as I have a routine with smoking :-/ I actually think routine is my biggest part of smoking !! Was good at the routine part until today, I had stopped the getting up in the morning and getting a coffee with a cigarette and I managed and stopped the get a shower then a cigarette and then the getting dressed for work cigarette ....etc And I felt Ok. . But come about 12pm Im really struggling :-/ Routine is the hardest bit to beat. Try replacing the smoking time with another activity, particularly one that is hands-on. Even if it's something like reading a book - it'll distract your mind, and also your hands with holding the book and turning the pages." | |||
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"Champix go to Boots you will not have a fag after the first week, it is immense " I'm going to Google it ! I tried patches but I found it awful at night time .. I was twitching and having nightmares so I was getting up in the morning exhausted ... I go to bed and don't even think of a cigarette during the night So I can't understand why if I don't get up during the night for one, why I need them in the day... Most people I know wake from their sleep to go for a cig during the night I don't ! | |||
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"It's really hard to quit, my day was Monday was doing good until today and was getting a really stressful day at work today and boom cigarettes. . But tomorrow is another day and start back to square one Day off, no stress, and will be more positive. .. It's easy for anyone who hasn't smoked to say just quit, but it's really hard, I'm trying to break my routine as I have a routine with smoking :-/ I actually think routine is my biggest part of smoking !! Was good at the routine part until today, I had stopped the getting up in the morning and getting a coffee with a cigarette and I managed and stopped the get a shower then a cigarette and then the getting dressed for work cigarette ....etc And I felt Ok. . But come about 12pm Im really struggling :-/ Routine is the hardest bit to beat. Try replacing the smoking time with another activity, particularly one that is hands-on. Even if it's something like reading a book - it'll distract your mind, and also your hands with holding the book and turning the pages." What is it about 12pm that makes it a time that you want to smoke? You've come that far in the battle against routine. This is just the next hurdle. If there's something in your routine that leads up to smoking around that time, try making some changes to get around it. Distraction and doing something to focus your attention elsewhere is key. Maybe at 12pm you could write in a diary, or clean a room, or play a computer game for a short while. Those are just random ideas. Picking up a new hobby is a good one to occupy yourself with. | |||
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"I switched to Vaping. There's good advice on here - but one thing you may notice - It comes from many personal angles. My nicotine intake is probably the same - as is my "oral fixation" - but it isn't all the same - I still find myself pulling at my trousers ready to put a paper and some tobacco on it ready to roll - its a habit / rhythm. I miss the taste and feel of the cig. I'm taking this one step at a time - nicotine concentrations in vape can be lowered over time with you hardly noticing. The taste can be altered to something you'd recognize more in a soft drink. Brute force works for some people - but lets be honest - there's an equal number who it fails miserably (the brute force method just makes for a better story) Do this your way - and trust that your method is the right one for you - that's the only way this kind of thing works (even if it makes for a shit story to brag about) ![]() Brute force is one of the least effective ways. Switching to vaping is very good, though. There does seem to be a correlation between the act of smoking and the idea of sating a nicotine addiction. With a vape allowing you to lower the nicotine amount over time, it's quite possible to keep 'smoking' at the same amount, but absorb less nicotine over time, and when you get to 0% nicotine just think... well, why am I doing this? I'm getting no nicotine from it, so it's purely the act of vaping that I keep doing, which is pointless. | |||
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"I've just Google champix, I'm going make an appointment for doc as it's only prescription prescribed. .. I bought an e cig today but tbh I only think I'm replacing one habit with another :-/ " It is replacing one habit with another. It's an arguably less harmful habit, though, and one that can be reduced in nicotine content until you're at 0% nicotine intake. | |||
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"I switched to Vaping. There's good advice on here - but one thing you may notice - It comes from many personal angles. My nicotine intake is probably the same - as is my "oral fixation" - but it isn't all the same - I still find myself pulling at my trousers ready to put a paper and some tobacco on it ready to roll - its a habit / rhythm. I miss the taste and feel of the cig. I'm taking this one step at a time - nicotine concentrations in vape can be lowered over time with you hardly noticing. The taste can be altered to something you'd recognize more in a soft drink. Brute force works for some people - but lets be honest - there's an equal number who it fails miserably (the brute force method just makes for a better story) Do this your way - and trust that your method is the right one for you - that's the only way this kind of thing works (even if it makes for a shit story to brag about) ![]() when you get to 0% nicotine just think... well, why am I doing this? My thoughts exactly the best way to solve a problem is by focusing on one variable at a time - and changing that till it meets your requirements - then move on to the next one. eventually you run out of variables to change - and go figure - the problem is solved. The movies love to show large explosions - but in reality constant wear is far more destructive. ![]() | |||
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"I use cigarettes as a way of freedom, at work I go outside to get abit of space and quiet time and to see daylight At home I go outside to get space as well. .. I'm a single mum and work 40hrs a week, and come home and have my two to feed and sort out and a house to clean in the evening Cigarettes are my alone time and my little bit of space :-/ " Going outside doesn't require you to smoke cigarettes, though. At work, why not go for a short walk? At home, why not do some gardening? Both can relaxing activities in themselves | |||
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"I use cigarettes as a way of freedom, at work I go outside to get abit of space and quiet time and to see daylight At home I go outside to get space as well. .. I'm a single mum and work 40hrs a week, and come home and have my two to feed and sort out and a house to clean in the evening Cigarettes are my alone time and my little bit of space :-/ " I was similar and not really a social smoker - I used the time to get my head together. You don't have to give that time up though. | |||
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"I use cigarettes as a way of freedom, at work I go outside to get abit of space and quiet time and to see daylight At home I go outside to get space as well. .. I'm a single mum and work 40hrs a week, and come home and have my two to feed and sort out and a house to clean in the evening Cigarettes are my alone time and my little bit of space :-/ Going outside doesn't require you to smoke cigarettes, though. At work, why not go for a short walk? At home, why not do some gardening? Both can relaxing activities in themselves" you could even grow some celery or licorice to gnaw on | |||
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"So tomorrow is going to be my first day to hopefully quit smoking has anyone got any suggestions for when you get any cravings or any tip that may work ![]() When you fancy a fag. Remember, it's bad for your health and could kill you. Hopefully that puts you off. ![]() | |||
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"Stay away from triggers, change your old habits, get rid of any cigarettes. Have confidence ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Actually nicotine addiction is one of the strongest addictions. Chemically, it is a stronger addiction than heroin or . The side effects are just not so violent and obvious. Nicotine gum, sprays, tablets, patches, are actually self defeating, as they are still giving you the nicotine. There is only one way; dead stop. Cold turkey. And of course you have to break the trigger habits too; the physical act if smoking. One way is to remove the nicotine hsbit immediately, and the physical trigger a bit later. I switched to electric cigs, but with ZERO nicotine content in the liquid, That allowed me to kill the nicotine craving, but keep the physical actions going. After a month, the nicotine craving disappeared; it then only took about a week to ditch the electric fag, as it was by then , just pointless and I found I didn't need the physical " having a fag" actions . I still avoid the triggers where I can; it would only need me to have one fag and I would be back on it ( even now it's 7 years). Another satisfying side effect is that for every pack of 20 that you don't buy, you are depriving the government of £ 5.50. (Which is why the government actually don't want to stop smokers; they depend on the £55m a day in tax that smokers provide for them.)" Untill the revenue they get from smokers becomes less than its cost to the NHS they will not take it too seriously. The more who stop and the less who start will help towards that. | |||
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"So I've gone all day with only 2 cravings, brought myself a vape with the lower nicotine in! If I can bloody do this anyone can! Thankyou all ![]() Good luck Flash! Glad to hear you're doing well! ![]() | |||
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"So I've gone all day with only 2 cravings, brought myself a vape with the lower nicotine in! If I can bloody do this anyone can! Thankyou all ![]() Well done :0) I've swap to a Vap two weeks ago & all is well. Good luck xxx | |||
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"So I've gone all day with only 2 cravings, brought myself a vape with the lower nicotine in! If I can bloody do this anyone can! Thankyou all ![]() Only 2 cravings is good; But be strong; 2nd and 3rd day is worst. Grit your teeth; get through them, then it will get easy. Stay with it! | |||
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