FabSwingers.com forum: To the people that dont like most of the narcissistic posts that are for attention seeking

By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

You know who you are, theres only a small percentage of us.

You are happy with yourself and who are and dont need the approval or desperate compliments on a forum.

You speak your mind clearly and without the need for an echo chamber to feel good about yourself.

I salute you people and i hope you never change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L.A.M.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is: you can boil most posts/threads down to being attention seeking.

People are free to do what they want just as others are free to ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know who you are, theres only a small percentage of us.

You are happy with yourself and who are and dont need the approval or desperate compliments on a forum.

You speak your mind clearly and without the need for an echo chamber to feel good about yourself.

I salute you people and i hope you never change.

But does my bum look big in this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rhubarb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are definitely more nauseating than others but attempting to be sly about is almost worse IMO.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

But if we agree, then it turns into the opposite of what the thread is supposed to be.

In physics it's a paradox. This thread could cause some kind of Fab self implosion, DO NOT POST.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

But enough about me. Let's talk about you. What do you think of me?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Tetchtosterone strikes again! !

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Let's be honest we're all here seeking some kind of attention due to the nature of the site, I genuinely enjoy the banter on the forums and take it all with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally like posts that aren't 'look at me', or seeking a meet from opening questions like "do you like young looking 40 year old mix raced scottish men?"

I prefer posting about something that seeks to entertain or enthuse about something other than myself..

like that new tv show,

that new science article,

and how great mmy cock is

(ok delete the last one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without attention seeking narcissism, these forums would not exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without attention seeking narcissism, these forums would not exist."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are definitely more nauseating than others but attempting to be sly about is almost worse IMO."

IMO it is worse. It's petty, and pointless.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"I generally like posts that aren't 'look at me', or seeking a meet from opening questions like "do you like young looking 40 year old mix raced scottish men?"

I prefer posting about something that seeks to entertain or enthuse about something other than myself..

like that new tv show,

that new science article,

and how great mmy cock is

(ok delete the last one)"

Each to there own and fair play to you, I just wonder why some people will jump onto the kind of thread they dislike purely to spread negativity?

Just don't read those threads if they offend you so much.

There are plenty of threads I have no interest in but I don't feel the need to jump in and attempt to belittle those that do.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Apart from this one obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snog"

You in the wrong thread?

I think you're looking for the 'snog,fuck,avoid thread'?

...snog by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's be honest we're all here seeking some kind of attention due to the nature of the site, I genuinely enjoy the banter on the forums and take it all with a pinch of salt.

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Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!"
I have noticed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Some are definitely more nauseating than others but attempting to be sly about is almost worse IMO."

Yep

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help. "

Please continue to cry for help

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!"

and you please continue with your attention seeking thread's

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!

and you please continue with your attention seeking thread's

I've sent you an attention seeking message

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help.

Please continue to cry for help

Do you want some tissues xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im trying to sink into the background and not be noticed.

Please, no autographs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im trying to sink into the background and not be noticed.

Please, no autographs!

I noticed

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Congratulations on starting a thread seeking attention for not being an attention seeker!

I personally joined this site to be ignored and not interact with anyone just in case I get accused of being narcissistic!

and you please continue with your attention seeking thread's

I've sent you an attention seeking message

I shall give it my attention

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Uh, great?

You may as well post "All the people I like on here - Yay! All the people I don't like - Boo!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dnt need anyone to boost my ego as im more then happy in my own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want some tissues xxxx Suzi

i guess it depends on what sort of workout he is doing right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I am attention seeking, just subtle about it maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the attention i get, i dont want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help.

Please continue to cry for help

Do you want some tissues xxxx Suzi

Oops, I need some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over our time on fab , we've learned it's so much better when you don't care whether people like you or not - especially on the forums .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on the forums judging others, that's a first

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help. "

From men...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Over our time on fab , we've learned it's so much better when you don't care whether people like you or not - especially on the forums .

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Over our time on fab , we've learned it's so much better when you don't care whether people like you or not - especially on the forums .

What? You don't care if people you have never met, or never will meet don't like you?? You must be mad

This will never do.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I step away from the threads that don't interest me, join in on the ones that do. If expressing an opinion or making any form of comment on social media is classed as attention seeking then proclaim me guilty despite that not ever being my explicit intention. Or just pull apart everyone's reasons for posting along with the multitude of amateur psychologists on here, seeking everyone to pay attention to how wonderfully sociologically aware you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over our time on fab , we've learned it's so much better when you don't care whether people like you or not - especially on the forums .

It's that disheartened feel when you check out a forum member that you like, and they have you blocked...then on the other frame of mind you think "Och! theres plenty more fanny in the sea"

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Arghhhh this was supposed to be a thread with zero replies!

God darn it

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over our time on fab , we've learned it's so much better when you don't care whether people like you or not - especially on the forums .

I get that vibe.

I love the forums and private message banter - but the twatwaffle of egocentric fart-knockers between the two is like watching third rate porn without the funky soundtrack or climax... I end up turning off unfulfilled.

Now where did I leave my mirror and the lube....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally like posts that aren't 'look at me', or seeking a meet from opening questions like "do you like young looking 40 year old mix raced scottish men?"

I prefer posting about something that seeks to entertain or enthuse about something other than myself..

like that new tv show,

that new science article,

and how great mmy cock is

(ok delete the last one)

Each to there own and fair play to you, I just wonder why some people will jump onto the kind of thread they dislike purely to spread negativity?

Just don't read those threads if they offend you so much.

There are plenty of threads I have no interest in but I don't feel the need to jump in and attempt to belittle those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I step away from the threads that don't interest me, join in on the ones that do. If expressing an opinion or making any form of comment on social media is classed as attention seeking then proclaim me guilty despite that not ever being my explicit intention. Or just pull apart everyone's reasons for posting along with the multitude of amateur psychologists on here, seeking everyone to pay attention to how wonderfully sociologically aware you are."

You're just posting that because you fancy a fuck

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attention finds all women on here, block attention and there is nothing left

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world! "

We'll if you ever fancy any company it looks like a very sexy world I'd be happy to visit someday

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

We'll if you ever fancy any company it looks like a very sexy world I'd be happy to visit someday

In thread flirting is banned dontcha know! It's an elusive 'C' gang privilege only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused. Are we supposed to be changing our avatars or something?!?

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

We'll if you ever fancy any company it looks like a very sexy world I'd be happy to visit someday

In thread flirting is banned dontcha know! It's an elusive 'C' gang privilege only

Sorry I had no idea! It's tough not being one of the cool kids

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

We'll if you ever fancy any company it looks like a very sexy world I'd be happy to visit someday

In thread flirting is banned dontcha know! It's an elusive 'C' gang privilege only

Oh that's why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EVERYONE on here is an attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world! "

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?"

Apparently you write a list of people who post that you have taken a dislike to various reasons, post it, say nasty things about them and then sit back and watch all the forum regulars you didn't name find it hilarious.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"EVERYONE on here is an attention seeker"

Who said that, did anyone hear or see anything

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?"

The ones those who feel left out perceive as popular and getting all the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what exactly is so wrong with attention seeking? Who wants to live in the shadows all their life? Not me,I'd rather the glare of sunlight where everybody can look at me. (probably makes them feel better about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i rarely post, does that mean i can laugh?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a small world, and only understandable that there are a lot of small minds in it hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile."

I was one of those finding it hilarious until it turned nasty. Because it kinda was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile."

I missed it too. I was out having fun at Kestrels with real people

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile.

I was one of those finding it hilarious until it turned nasty. Because it kinda was

It was nasty from the start. But what would I know; I'm not nice anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"EVERYONE on here is an attention seeker"

Nobody does it better than you love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile.

I was one of those finding it hilarious until it turned nasty. Because it kinda was

It was nasty from the start. But what would I know; I'm not nice anyway.

Well neither am I then apparently, because I found it funny at the start of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know who you are, theres only a small percentage of us.

You are happy with yourself and who are and dont need the approval or desperate compliments on a forum.

You speak your mind clearly and without the need for an echo chamber to feel good about yourself.

I salute you people and i hope you never change.

But does my bum look big in this? "

And the answer to Mrs Chakalaka, yes, ample and fucking incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOOK AT ME ,LOOKAT ME,,looooooooooooooooook at meeeeeeeee

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help. "

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

I initially found the fact that someone had the balls (for want of a better word) to compile a list & post it hilarious considering no one else will ever come out & say.

I didn't see the criteria unfold which is mean & uncalled for.

How the forums up until recently have felt very cliquey, maybe they were getting fed up with it, I know I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

I initially found the fact that someone had the balls (for want of a better word) to compile a list & post it hilarious considering no one else will ever come out & say.

I didn't see the criteria unfold which is mean & uncalled for.

How the forums up until recently have felt very cliquey, maybe they were getting fed up with it, I know I was."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile.

I missed it too. I was out having fun at Kestrels with real people

I was in the real world that day too. It's over-rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stand out in a sea of people you occasionally have to stick your head out of the parapet...some do it with more dignity than others.

I think people should spend less time worrying what others post as at the end of the day it's all minor in the grand scheme of things.

Think it's funny sometimes though as you get a good feel for people's personalities judging by some of their forum posts and many bullets can be dodged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could someone please start a bbw thread there hasnt been one this week

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I hate attention seeking.

Posting photos of my thighs, arse, cock snd torso are just cries for help.

Haha!

Fortunately he didn't specify what he's looking for help with!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?"

There was that list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i rarely post, does that mean i can laugh?"

yes post more...means I can perv lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will always be a clique...yes I said it!

Us mere mortals will never infiltrate the gang but I'm happy to be in my own little fab world!

So how do you determine who's in this so called clique then?

Sad, sad people

I'm glad I missed it. It sounds vile.

I missed it too. I was out having fun at Kestrels with real people

I was in the real world that day too. It's over-rated

Oh I don't know. I had a great time

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Fancy a fuck?

Erm yes.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Could someone please start a bbw thread there hasnt been one this week

Fuck it I'll start a bareback thread let's just go wild!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To stand out in a sea of people you occasionally have to stick your head out of the parapet...some do it with more dignity than others.

I think people should spend less time worrying what others post as at the end of the day it's all minor in the grand scheme of things.

Think it's funny sometimes though as you get a good feel for people's personalities judging by some of their forum posts and many bullets can be dodged."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To stand out in a sea of people you occasionally have to stick your head out of the parapet...some do it with more dignity than others.

I think people should spend less time worrying what others post as at the end of the day it's all minor in the grand scheme of things.

Think it's funny sometimes though as you get a good feel for people's personalities judging by some of their forum posts and many bullets can be dodged."

Many dodged, but for me it's also lead to good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone please start a bbw thread there hasnt been one this week

Fuck it I'll start a bareback thread let's just go wild! "

Never, ever go bearback. Yogi is likely to very pissed off of you try to fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To stand out in a sea of people you occasionally have to stick your head out of the parapet...some do it with more dignity than others.

I think people should spend less time worrying what others post as at the end of the day it's all minor in the grand scheme of things.

Think it's funny sometimes though as you get a good feel for people's personalities judging by some of their forum posts and many bullets can be dodged.

Hello, I was just thinking I hadn't seen you in a while

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You know it would help if people could tolerate other peoples posts. Surely people must know that others won't like everything you post either.

All threads or posts are easily avoided if needed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS can people please drop all reference to previous threads that were removed.

Thanks

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