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Finding meets why is it so hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it such a nitemare to find a meet with like minded couples no one ever seems to read profile refuse to send face pics and they think we should do blind dates argghh all the club's we been to are either heaving n everyone is chatting or very quiet no playing or clubs do quiet you try and chat but people are feeling awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on over a year, are you not used to it by now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep we shouldn't be surprised really lol fed up of going to clubs where just constant chatting no playing if you know what I mean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's harder if you actually care about who you meet. If you do then the struggle is all part of the game! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's harder if you actually care about who you meet. If you do then the struggle is all part of the game! X"

This, we go to clubs all the time and just chat and then come home, not going to fuck someone we don't find attractive or get on with just because we are in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's harder if you actually care about who you meet. If you do then the struggle is all part of the game! X

This, we go to clubs all the time and just chat and then come home, not going to fuck someone we don't find attractive or get on with just because we are in a club"

We need to synchronise club meets, then we can bitch about in situ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's harder if you actually care about who you meet. If you do then the struggle is all part of the game! X

This, we go to clubs all the time and just chat and then come home, not going to fuck someone we don't find attractive or get on with just because we are in a club

We need to synchronise club meets, then we can bitch about in situ!"

Indeed Mrs l loves a good bitch in a club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get back to you. I'm researching 'no meets'. I've lots of experience so far.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Possibly because there 4 people who have to be interested in playing. How many times have you liked the look of a couple but your OH just isn't interested. Happens with me and hubby all the time, that is why we play as singles most of the time, it is easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's harder if you actually care about who you meet. If you do then the struggle is all part of the game! X

This, we go to clubs all the time and just chat and then come home, not going to fuck someone we don't find attractive or get on with just because we are in a club"

Exactly this

Just because you paid to go into a club, it doesn't mean your going to have sex.... there's more to life than a quick fuck, it's about making friends first, everything else comes (cums) later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure why its difficult sometimes- we just have problems finding the time to meet the people we chat to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The owner of the club told us most people never play they socialise at club then set up own party's no wonder the club is getting quiet all for a social but also for a play depending if every one clicks x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Why is it such a nitemare to find a meet with like minded couples no one ever seems to read profile refuse to send face pics and they think we should do blind dates argghh all the club's we been to are either heaving n everyone is chatting or very quiet no playing or clubs do quiet you try and chat but people are feeling awkward "

I've said it often no gender or demographic has it easy on here.. might be vastly different reasons no one has it easy though.

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