FabSwingers.com forum: lets down

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What?

As in your area going to cancel on someone because someone else cancelled on you?

Confused

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

How have they let you down

No show or cancel

If cancel, yes if life gets in the way, of course cancel

Don't no show.

You do seem on the negative side of things on here, you may give uncertainty off to your meets, or you are choosing the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you cancel on someone just because you've had it done to you. What has the next planned playmate done to deserve that treatment?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's sex, that is all.

Nothing more, nothing less

If it becomes so important,,,, you may need a hobby

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you cancel on someone just because you've had it done to you. What has the next planned playmate done to deserve that treatment?"

if anything, it should make you understand how shit being stood up can feel and be sure not to do it to anyone else

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People do have to cancel ,as things come up in life.If they let you know before hand ,i don't see the problem.

Its not a reason to do it to others and will result in less meets.

Miss

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

How many bodies are in the cellar these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

Don't you have enough lampshades yet?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

How many bodies are in the cellar these days?

12 ish

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

Don't you have enough lampshades yet?"

Never enough my sweet. eBay has a lot to answer for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

How childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean you plan to cancel meets on purpose to spite swinging in general? How bizarre.

Just kill them like I do.

How many bodies are in the cellar these days?

12 ish

Is that all.

Pah!!!!!! Amateur

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

No don't be so silly or childish

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

How old are you

people have lives outside of this, the same as you do, why would you be so childish and spiteful toward someone who doesn't deserve it

Jeeeez there are some strange people onhere at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I posted the following on another thread

'Remind people that although a 'let down' is disappointing, it is only sex.

It's not akin to laying in theatre, the surgeon has opened you up and removed both dodgy kidneys and the donor changes his or mind.

It's a fuck. Life goes on'

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?"

haha

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

did I just read that correctly?

I would suggest be more selective in your choice of meets!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?"

What time was that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i woudnt do it back to them. And i was waiting for my meet when he cancelled 5mins before due to meet but by then i was waiting at the place arranged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

did I just read that correctly?

I would suggest be more selective in your choice of meets! "
i will do x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"No i woudnt do it back to them. And i was waiting for my meet when he cancelled 5mins before due to meet but by then i was waiting at the place arranged.

Well if that was the case you never made that clear enough in the OP hence the replies you got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?

What time was that?

I see what you did there.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?

What time was that?

I see what you did there.

Always thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I read "lives outside Fab" one more time as an excuse for pissing people about I will scream.

A detailed study by Sydney University found that 84.366% never intended to turn up in the first place.

The excuses i get, if i am lucky on the morning of the meet, are always hard to accept as real. It's those lies which makes me, and the OP, feel agrieved not peoples right to change their mind.

For instance. "Very sorry, had to take my dad to hospital; suspected heart attack." - 3 weeks later "My dad lives in Spain, has done for years. Yeah, erm, when can we meet then?".

Another - "My company told me on Thursday I had to fly out to a North Sea oil rig (on Sunday)."

"Why didn't you tell me and cancel our Tuesday meeting? A text would have been nice.

"Could not get a signal." Over 4 days! In a City!!! Liars!!

Timewasters are timewasters.

Phew - I feel better now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

Of course you shouldn't...that's just petty, spiteful and childish! Real life gets in the way of random shags sometimes.

As others have said - and also on your previous posts - perhaps you should look at your selection process, as many women (myself included) never encounter timewasters?

And 4 meets in a 7 day period despite these cancellations isn't exactly bad going is it?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

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"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

Of course you shouldn't...that's just petty, spiteful and childish! Real life gets in the way of random shags sometimes.

As others have said - and also on your previous posts - perhaps you should look at your selection process, as many women (myself included) never encounter timewasters?

And 4 meets in a 7 day period despite these cancellations isn't exactly bad going is it?

Don't mention "real life", it sets some of them off on a rampage

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?

I was waiting for a number 22 bus once but it didn't show up.

I deliberately didn't get on the next one.

That'll show them eh?"

Oh my god! It was you who ruined the public transport system wasn't it?

You should be ashamed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why your moaning, you don't seem to have any problems getting meets. Several a week in fact.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Why is it that men let me down rather than me letting the men down.already this week two have had to cancel. Shud i do the same?"

No you shouldn't do the same. Block themand move one.

In the future spend a lot of time getting to know someobody online first. Make them wait. Then you wil out the timewasters and idiots. You will out the ones looking for a quick fuck. Anyone who waits and takes time getting to know you will surely want to meet you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never play games - life's too precious. So no tit for tat on other unsuspecting people

Meet at clubs. Are these men turning up for socials but not sex meets?

Re_iew how you're choosing people. We don't know these guys, how you picked them, communicated or meet fail details - elaboration would help

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"If I read "lives outside Fab" one more time as an excuse for pissing people about I will scream.

A detailed study by Sydney University found that 84.366% never intended to turn up in the first place.

The excuses i get, if i am lucky on the morning of the meet, are always hard to accept as real. It's those lies which makes me, and the OP, feel agrieved not peoples right to change their mind.

For instance. "Very sorry, had to take my dad to hospital; suspected heart attack." - 3 weeks later "My dad lives in Spain, has done for years. Yeah, erm, when can we meet then?".

Another - "My company told me on Thursday I had to fly out to a North Sea oil rig (on Sunday)."

"Why didn't you tell me and cancel our Tuesday meeting? A text would have been nice.

"Could not get a signal." Over 4 days! In a City!!! Liars!!

Timewasters are timewasters.

Phew - I feel better now.

I agree. We all have lives oustide of Fab. I also agree that 84.366% never intended to meet.

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