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"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself " Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well  | |||
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"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well
Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications "Ha ha!! Would be funny if they where always honest no one is ever going to write a bad verification!! Met her terrible blow job!! Or got in to the sack and action started so quickly just ended as quickly as well  | |||
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"I used to cut notches in one my bedposts as a guide. It seemed like a good idea at the time but now all the paint has gone and it's starting to rust." That made me laugh thanks  | |||
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"Pi plus 60." How do you sleep with 0.14 people? | |||
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"Pi plus 60. How do you sleep with 0.14 people?" It was a crazy night that involved 14 midges that counted for the 0.14  | |||
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"Pi plus 60. How do you sleep with 0.14 people?" lol well worked out | |||
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"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well
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Ha ha!! Would be funny if they where always honest no one is ever going to write a bad verification!! Met her terrible blow job!! Or got in to the sack and action started so quickly just ended as quickly as well "Well I had a shit meet and he wanted verifying. I told him k had nothing nice to say and refused to verify. There are always ways around it  | |||
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"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well
Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications
Ha ha!! Would be funny if they where always honest no one is ever going to write a bad verification!! Met her terrible blow job!! Or got in to the sack and action started so quickly just ended as quickly as well
Well I had a shit meet and he wanted verifying. I told him k had nothing nice to say and refused to verify. There are always ways around it "Well I had one meet that cried when I said it wasn't going any further!! Surprisingly didn't ask for a verification | |||
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"Pi plus 60. How do you sleep with 0.14 people?" ?
Wouldn't that be 63.1415927? | |||
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"Pi plus 60. How do you sleep with 0.14 people? ?
Wouldn't that be 63.1415927?"Well I think most people can work out how you sleep with 63 people ha ha how do you get the 0.14  | |||
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"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck.... Suzi"That many then  | |||
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"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck.... Suzi"The thought horrified me too, that's why I suggested last week. | |||
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"My answer was 20/30 roughly " Iv'e never been to bed with a rough woman, but I've woke up with a few though | |||
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"Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock xxxxxxSuzi"Ha ha loving that | |||
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"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck.... Suzi
The thought horrified me too, that's why I suggested last week. "Oh yeh, last week sounds way better, that's easy ....one xxxxx Suzi | |||
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"Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock xxxxxxSuzi"lol ?? | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off "
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years "I take you never settled down then. I agree with you then | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years "I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded "why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me | |||
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"over 200. i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years. i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me." I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do | |||
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"over 200. i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years. i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me.I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do " yep. we all know men would fuck just as many women if they could.  | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me "MARRY?! You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are  it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
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"over 200. i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years. i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me.I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do " Careful you don't shag too many women. You don't want to use up your lifetime allowance too early | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked."well played | |||
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"over 200. i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years. i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me.I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do yep. we all know men would fuck just as many women if they could. "No! No! He's concerned about going round the block too much. He'd never sully himself in that way in case women don't want to marry him! | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true."I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that "If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss."Saying you'd find it a turn off if a woman has had more than 10 sexual partners isn't insulting? Try telling every woman you chat to on here that, upfront, and see what they think!
Since I, and most of the women on here, have had more than 10 partners, you've judged and insulted every one of us, at the same time as being on here trying to get sex with those very same women you find a turn off!
But no, you've not insulted anyone
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"Well I've had more men than roast dinners..... "OMG you trollop! 
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss."Actually OP - read back through the thread.....you have been incredibly rude and insulting to the women on here who like to have a very varied, active sex life with multiple partners.....the very thought that I might meet someone with your attitude and I might give them a wonderful sexual experience without knowing what their double standards are has made me vow that I will from now on always ask any potential meet......how many do you think is too many?????? (Unless I am mid gangbang and my mouth is full and the potential next in line has just joined the fun.... | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss.
Actually OP - read back through the thread.....you have been incredibly rude and insulting to the women on here who like to have a very varied, active sex life with multiple partners.....the very thought that I might meet someone with your attitude and I might give them a wonderful sexual experience without knowing what their double standards are has made me vow that I will from now on always ask any potential meet......how many do you think is too many?????? (Unless I am mid gangbang and my mouth is full and the potential next in line has just joined the fun...."Apparently we're good enough for a leg over but not for any respect due to him having "standards". My standards mean I won't shag anyone who thinks it's ok for him to shag around casually, willy nilly but not for me, or any other woman. | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
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And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite."Hypocrite indeed - the OP finds it a turn off if a woman has slept with more than 10 guys, yet he said he's slept with about 20 or 30 women?! | |||
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I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
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You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
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I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite.
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I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.I take it you never settled down then
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10
BTW, you are *not* open minded why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me
MARRY?!
You do realise what this site is?
As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.
Just when you think you've heard it all!
You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!
#gobsmacked.
well played
And true.
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that
If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!
You're a hypocrite.
Hypocrite indeed - the OP finds it a turn off if a woman has slept with more than 10 guys, yet he said he's slept with about 20 or 30 women?!
It wasn't the OP that made the comment about it being a turn off."Oh dear. Oh god. Yikes! Now I read back and find out I have wronged the OP!!! So sorry. Please accept my humble apologies. Public apology on here - the OP is not the poster who put the insulting comments about women with more than 10partners. The OP is in fact open-minded, respectful and has a sense of humour! Hope he has a sense of forgiveness too! Private apology on its way too OP! M xxxxx | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake ." States a preference? Calling women who've had more than ten sexual partners insulting names on a SWINGING SITE on which he is looking for casual sex is stating a preference?!
The thread is about a man being told 20-30 partners is too many and everyone agrees that it's unreasonable and none of their business.
Nobody thinks them "stating their preference" is acceptable.
But someone makes insulting comments that women who've had more than 10 partners are loose sluts who've been around the block too many times and are a turn off and that's a preference?
Bollocks.
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"Apparently men lie about the amount of woman they have slept with, apparently we double it! 1 woman, I have slept with 1 woman! So 1 divided by 2 is 0.5......... I have slept with 2 midgets!!! "Careful, gloswingers will get jealous | |||
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"Only 6 "Congratulations, you are not a bow legged slut and are still suitable marriage material! | |||
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Being monogamous but now I'm single it's changed "ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though | |||
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I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone."ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..) | |||
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Being monogamous but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though "I was with kids dad 14 yrs. then spent 4 years single went a bit crazy in them years. But the past 3 years I spent 2 with my ex 1 yr celibate and the past two months since being on here I've had 4 meets (hussy | |||
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door.... "i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume.. | |||
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Being monogamous but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though
I was with kids dad 14 yrs. then spent 4 years single went a bit crazy in them years. But the past 3 years I spent 2 with my ex 1 yr celibate and the past two months since being on here I've had 4 meets (hussy "nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively.. | |||
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume.."I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people. I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. | |||
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Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
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I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)"One was due to a period of chaos in my life, including being homeless for a while. I wasn't getting out and meeting anyone and didn't have the headspace or energy to organise meets this way. I had so much else to worry about that sex just wasn't something I thought about. The other main time was due to insecurity and lack of confidence. I hid in my comfort zone, well away from anything to do with sex. That became habit and was very difficult to break out of. Even once I felt better I did nothing to change things for a very long time. | |||
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I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)
One was due to a period of chaos in my life, including being homeless for a while. I wasn't getting out and meeting anyone and didn't have the headspace or energy to organise meets this way. I had so much else to worry about that sex just wasn't something I thought about.
The other main time was due to insecurity and lack of confidence. I hid in my comfort zone, well away from anything to do with sex. That became habit and was very difficult to break out of. Even once I felt better I did nothing to change things for a very long time."i truly hope that life has changed for you and you can embrace joy in many ways for yourself now xx | |||
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"I've consulted the spreadsheet, and the answer is 28. I'm sure that makes me too slutty for some and not slutty enough for others." I hope you aren't joking... I do actually keep a list in "notes" on my phone
First name and where they were from (so i can remember who they were) and the date. The date goes in brackets if we didn't have full sex. Mine comes to 28 too, but that covers both men and women, and those I only had oral etc with. I was in a relationship for 14 years with a very boring man, and was faithful to him the entire time. The majority of the 28 have been since I left him.
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
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I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. "Truth in both I think. Generalising about most things is going to get it wrong sometimes and be right sometimes. As ever, I make off the cuff comments, no bad intentions
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Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual? "Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. | |||
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I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)
One was due to a period of chaos in my life, including being homeless for a while. I wasn't getting out and meeting anyone and didn't have the headspace or energy to organise meets this way. I had so much else to worry about that sex just wasn't something I thought about.
The other main time was due to insecurity and lack of confidence. I hid in my comfort zone, well away from anything to do with sex. That became habit and was very difficult to break out of. Even once I felt better I did nothing to change things for a very long time.i truly hope that life has changed for you and you can embrace joy in many ways for yourself now xx"Thanks. Life has its ups and downs. I have good spells and less good spells. I have to actively look for guys I want sex with because there just don't seem to be that many. If, for some reason, I'm not looking, I'm probably having little to no sex. I tend to need to find and choose guys myself because I feel uncomfortable and run a mile if they hit on me, (which I know is stupid). | |||
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First name and where they were from (so i can remember who they were) and the date. The date goes in brackets if we didn't have full sex. Mine comes to 28 too, but that covers both men and women, and those I only had oral etc with. I was in a relationship for 14 years with a very boring man, and was faithful to him the entire time. The majority of the 28 have been since I left him.
Unfortunately women do get judged by their number, although I'm surprised to see it on here!! I've not told mine to anyone except this forum. In the real world, that and my weight are personal and no one else's business. I don't need judging. "The spreadsheet is real times, dates, places etc. I like data | |||
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. "no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx | |||
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I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)
One was due to a period of chaos in my life, including being homeless for a while. I wasn't getting out and meeting anyone and didn't have the headspace or energy to organise meets this way. I had so much else to worry about that sex just wasn't something I thought about.
The other main time was due to insecurity and lack of confidence. I hid in my comfort zone, well away from anything to do with sex. That became habit and was very difficult to break out of. Even once I felt better I did nothing to change things for a very long time.i truly hope that life has changed for you and you can embrace joy in many ways for yourself now xx
Thanks. Life has its ups and downs. I have good spells and less good spells.
I have to actively look for guys I want sex with because there just don't seem to be that many. If, for some reason, I'm not looking, I'm probably having little to no sex. I tend to need to find and choose guys myself because I feel uncomfortable and run a mile if they hit on me, (which I know is stupid)."i find direct attention also really hard..you arent alone x | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake ." Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!! 
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake . Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!
Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!"i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x | |||
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx"I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically. | |||
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Being monogamous but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though
I was with kids dad 14 yrs. then spent 4 years single went a bit crazy in them years. But the past 3 years I spent 2 with my ex 1 yr celibate and the past two months since being on here I've had 4 meets (hussy nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively.."How do you know I was talking about just sex!! Ahh see you just assumed didn't you , | |||
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Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx
I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically."i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x | |||
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Being monogamous but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though
I was with kids dad 14 yrs. then spent 4 years single went a bit crazy in them years. But the past 3 years I spent 2 with my ex 1 yr celibate and the past two months since being on here I've had 4 meets (hussy nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively..
How do you know I was talking about just sex!! Ahh see you just assumed didn't you , "anyone who deems themselves crazy in any aspect isnt crazy at all..maybe be going through stuff..but they aren't insane..and if you want to say i assumed fair enough...i was just focused on topic.. x | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake . Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!
Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x"One "open-minded" guy said women who've had more than 10 sexual partners are a "turn off", have "been round the block too many times" and he wouldn't want to marry a woman like that because he "has standards". Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex. He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread. | |||
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"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?
Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx
I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x"I don't and it does cause me problems! | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake . Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!
Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x
One "open-minded" guy said women who've had more than 10 sexual partners are a "turn off", have "been round the block too many times" and he wouldn't want to marry a woman like that because he "has standards".
Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.
He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread."i dont want to be marriage material..i want to live my life in a way that makes me happy, and i do. if someone wants all of me it would be my past present and future anyway..and that is unlikely i sure as hell am not going to sacrifice my living now for something that is unlikely to happen..( who the heck would want such a man anyway??? ) xx | |||
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"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?
Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx
I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x
I don't and it does cause me problems!"you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake . Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!
Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x
One "open-minded" guy said women who've had more than 10 sexual partners are a "turn off", have "been round the block too many times" and he wouldn't want to marry a woman like that because he "has standards".
Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.
He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread.i dont want to be marriage material..i want to live my life in a way that makes me happy, and i do. if someone wants all of me it would be my past present and future anyway..and that is unlikely i sure as hell am not going to sacrifice my living now for something that is unlikely to happen..( who the heck would want such a man anyway??? ) xx"Exactly. Why on Earth a guy would join a swinging site looking for sex and then slate the women for being too promiscuous is beyond me. The suggestion we're good enough to fuck, (if there are no "better" options), but not worth respect or suitable to date or marry, pisses me right off though. I decide who I shag. I don't condemn anyone here, male, female or Intersex, for having too much/too little sex and anyone who thinks they can judge and insult me, or tell me who or how many men it's acceptable for me to shag, can fuck right off. | |||
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"I've slept with 4 men and 1 women I've had sexual encounters with a few more hello lovely..how are you..where you been hiding? xx"I'm good thanks. How's you ? Just been busy with work and home life x | |||
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"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?
Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx
I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x
I don't and it does cause me problems!you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x"I so do! | |||
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I'm good thanks. How's you ?
Just been busy with work and home life x"im great..its good to see you xx | |||
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"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?
Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol
Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....
i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..
I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.
I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?
Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx
I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x
I don't and it does cause me problems!you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x
I so do!"make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx | |||
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"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting. at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is . as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine . that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake . Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers! So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread! No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices. Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!
Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x
One "open-minded" guy said women who've had more than 10 sexual partners are a "turn off", have "been round the block too many times" and he wouldn't want to marry a woman like that because he "has standards".
Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.
He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread.i dont want to be marriage material..i want to live my life in a way that makes me happy, and i do. if someone wants all of me it would be my past present and future anyway..and that is unlikely i sure as hell am not going to sacrifice my living now for something that is unlikely to happen..( who the heck would want such a man anyway??? ) xx
Exactly. Why on Earth a guy would join a swinging site looking for sex and then slate the women for being too promiscuous is beyond me.
The suggestion we're good enough to fuck, (if there are no "better" options), but not worth respect or suitable to date or marry, pisses me right off though.
I decide who I shag. I don't condemn anyone here, male, female or Intersex, for having too much/too little sex and anyone who thinks they can judge and insult me, or tell me who or how many men it's acceptable for me to shag, can fuck right off."i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman.. | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years "I think I'd be put off by someone who DIDN'T have very many sexual partners. It would suggest that they might not be much fun, and that's IF you ever got them into bed in the first place... | |||
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"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off
I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!
And you're on a swinging site?!
Blimey.
By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years
I think I'd be put off by someone who DIDN'T have very many sexual partners. It would suggest that they might not be much fun, and that's IF you ever got them into bed in the first place... "I think that's just as unfair an assumption as the one that lots of partners mean they have low standards/will fuck anyone. Bit of a sweeping assumption about people's reasons for having a low number of previous partners. | |||
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"make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx" I should but I'm not very organised. I'm getting better though. | |||
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"i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman.." Or they are controlling and/or stuck in decades long since past. It beggars belief the attitude exists in some on here though. | |||
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"Only seven. Try only having sex with 2 people then
You're only 23 though!
Give yourself a break."Yeah but still 2 though my first time having sex was 16 my second one was only a year and a half ago it's easy saying give yourself a break | |||
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"make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx I should but I'm not very organised. I'm getting better though." good stuff x hope to see you out and about soon then x | |||
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I think that's just as unfair an assumption as the one that lots of partners mean they have low standards/will fuck anyone. Bit of a sweeping assumption about people's reasons for having a low number of previous partners."It was meant more as a light-hearted jibe at Mr 'I wouldn't touch any of you on here because you're all slags but please someone have sex with me' Guy than anything else. | |||
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"i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman.. Or they are controlling and/or stuck in decades long since past. It beggars belief the attitude exists in some on here though." Yer and there was me thinking I'd left those twats in the vanilla world!
The only good thing (and this is where I love forum) those people are in the minority. And you're not surrounded by friends or colleagues spouting the same up tight bollox. | |||
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