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I think there's to many married men on here cheating on their wives and spoiling it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they spoiling it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? "

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's too many men full stop.

and i hardly chat to anyone coz i don't even fancy them firstly, or their message was shit.

then after that you've got to be careful not to put women off you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over"

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? "
leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well. I'm well against cheaters it's not fair. And there's single men out there who can't even get replys for a leg over because there's so many men on here to women and I bet half of them are cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant"

*here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's too many judgemental c*nts on here sticking their noses into other folks' business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about cheating wives? Would you be so moral if one of those contacted you I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

*here "

Dammit! Bloody iPhone and fat fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant"

Let's be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well. I'm well against cheaters it's not fair. And there's single men out there who can't even get replys for a leg over because there's so many men on here to women and I bet half of them are cheating "

Maybe u should try harder then and stop moaning ... Find ur USP and use that to ur advantage. If married men are getting their pick and making it difficult for you, what does that say about you? Can't blame them for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything, they do the rest of us a favour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who cares anyway just thought I'd put a conversation on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

*here

Dammit! Bloody iPhone and fat fingers. "

Yeah yeah blame the dyslexic iPhone why don't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well. I'm well against cheaters it's not fair. And there's single men out there who can't even get replys for a leg over because there's so many men on here to women and I bet half of them are cheating

Maybe u should try harder then and stop moaning ... Find ur USP and use that to ur advantage. If married men are getting their pick and making it difficult for you, what does that say about you? Can't blame them for it!! "
I have no problem just like to see the replys u get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

*here

Dammit! Bloody iPhone and fat fingers.

Yeah yeah blame the dyslexic iPhone why don't you "

The phone isn't dyslexic at all, but my fat thumb is mashing so many letters at the same time... I really need to practise my dexterity. Need to twiddle them more...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant"
thanks for the corrections, I don't speak good England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

*here

Dammit! Bloody iPhone and fat fingers.

Yeah yeah blame the dyslexic iPhone why don't you

The phone isn't dyslexic at all, but my fat thumb is mashing so many letters at the same time... I really need to practise my dexterity. Need to twiddle them more..."

100% there is a sexual reference in there somewhere...

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant"

Pedant or grammar nazi??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

*here

Dammit! Bloody iPhone and fat fingers.

Yeah yeah blame the dyslexic iPhone why don't you

The phone isn't dyslexic at all, but my fat thumb is mashing so many letters at the same time... I really need to practise my dexterity. Need to twiddle them more...

100% there is a sexual reference in there somewhere... "

Oh, without a shadow of a doubt. It's a swinging site; I cannot go long with dropping to base level!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant"

But it's legitimate for men and women, whatever their partnership status, to be seeking sex here. Of all sex type scenarios, swinging is one which involves people in relationships to be having sex with those that they're not committed to.

Choose and filter the types of people that you want to meet and care not what others do differently to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

"I think THEY'RE spoiling it for actual genuine men on her trying to get THEIR leg over"

#halfpissedpedant

But it's legitimate for men and women, whatever their partnership status, to be seeking sex here. Of all sex type scenarios, swinging is one which involves people in relationships to be having sex with those that they're not committed to.

Choose and filter the types of people that you want to meet and care not what others do differently to you. "

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

Every marriage has its own conditions to arouse and maintain the Sexual satisfaction of all. Respect everyone's boundaries and understand that it's only good sex and enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every marriage has its own conditions to arouse and maintain the Sexual satisfaction of all. Respect everyone's boundaries and understand that it's only good sex and enjoy!!

"
good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about cheating wives? Would you be so moral if one of those contacted you I wonder? "

Ha ha so true!! Everyone has there own interests but I just think you need to be honest about your own situation here so people know what they are getting into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about cheating wives? Would you be so moral if one of those contacted you I wonder?

Ha ha so true!! Everyone has there own interests but I just think you need to be honest about your own situation here so people know what they are getting into "
true again. If I was married I would put it in. I'm speaking to some women around my area and a lot of them keep stating "why do I always end up with married men "

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

Bottom line is nsa means exactly that. If that is not your current situation don't lie......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about cheating wives? Would you be so moral if one of those contacted you I wonder?

Ha ha so true!! Everyone has there own interests but I just think you need to be honest about your own situation here so people know what they are getting into true again. If I was married I would put it in. I'm speaking to some women around my area and a lot of them keep stating "why do I always end up with married men " "

It's only fair people need to know that if they want to get involved or not!! I get some people like that idea! But I honestly believe that the lies will come back to haunt you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meeting married men. I like meeting some single men too, but it is more rare to find attractive and socially competent men who are single in the age range I'm interested in because someone else has usually put a ring on it.

Single men like that do exist, obviously (I'd best clarify before all the divorced ones and the single dads start to protest too much) - there are just far fewer of them in my experience.

No one spoils anything for anyone else, that's the weak excuse of the inept.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I like meeting married men. I like meeting some single men too, but it is more rare to find attractive and socially competent men who are single in the age range I'm interested in because someone else has usually put a ring on it.

"

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's too many judgemental c*nts on here sticking their noses into other folks' business "

Couldn't of put it better my self..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if the married ones are getting the meets the single ones arent - somebody is doing something right - guess who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is for the people that want to play and have fun. Each to there own.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Good Lord. That was shockingly harsh. I would have at least waited for his explanation, before coming down on him like that. I've just joined this site. I can see I'll have to be very sure to word things carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody at FAB tells you what to do,just make your own choice.We don't wish to meet attached so we politely decline then block and move on

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I think the OP got caught out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He left? interesting thread though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ought to add we only play in clubs now where we think the playing field is level with no chance of comeback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP got caught out "

Why? He wasn't married, he was the one whinging about the married ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what your looking for

Lot's of people prefer married and cheating men and women so they aren't spoiling it for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like meeting married men. I like meeting some single men too, but it is more rare to find attractive and socially competent men who are single in the age range I'm interested in because someone else has usually put a ring on it.

Single men like that do exist, obviously (I'd best clarify before all the divorced ones and the single dads start to protest too much) - there are just far fewer of them in my experience.

No one spoils anything for anyone else, that's the weak excuse of the inept. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends what your looking for

Lot's of people prefer married and cheating men and women so they aren't spoiling it for them "

I wonder if, the now missing in action, original poster would refuse to meet married or partnered ladies with or with out their partners consent?

I do love moralistic juxtapositions being posted on a recreational sex site! Quintessentially British in my _iew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like meeting married men. I like meeting some single men too, but it is more rare to find attractive and socially competent men who are single in the age range I'm interested in because someone else has usually put a ring on it.

Single men like that do exist, obviously (I'd best clarify before all the divorced ones and the single dads start to protest too much) - there are just far fewer of them in my experience.

No one spoils anything for anyone else, that's the weak excuse of the inept.

"

If people don't want to meet you take it in the chin move on!! I've met a few I've also had a nice thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends what your looking for

Lot's of people prefer married and cheating men and women so they aren't spoiling it for them

I wonder if, the now missing in action, original poster would refuse to meet married or partnered ladies with or with out their partners consent?

I do love moralistic juxtapositions being posted on a recreational sex site! Quintessentially British in my _iew!"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Good Lord. That was shockingly harsh. I would have at least waited for his explanation, before coming down on him like that. I've just joined this site. I can see I'll have to be very sure to word things carefully. "

Yes, there's nothing like a bit o' Fab outrage that turns on a sixpence

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I think the OP got caught out "

My thoughts exactly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He left? interesting thread though. "

His wife must have found his profile...

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I personally wouldn't want to meet a guy who had an unknowing wife/partner...

We all have our own morals, likes and dislikes...

I'm sure what I find unattractive the next woman would have a kink for...

It happens, I just don't want to be part of it... I wouldn't say it ruins it... As long as they are open and honest with the person they'd like to meet...

Just my opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over"

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"He left? interesting thread though.

His wife must have found his profile... "

Was just about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares anyway just thought I'd put a conversation on here "

And then go unlos......just like a married man that! Lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about cheating wives? Would you be so moral if one of those contacted you I wonder? "

Ohhh good come back!! You go girl !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached."

How is that spoiling it for the single men? If 75% of the men are married and most women won't meet married men, then surely that's a good thing for the single ones because they're competing in a smaller pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached.

How is that spoiling it for the single men? If 75% of the men are married and most women won't meet married men, then surely that's a good thing for the single ones because they're competing in a smaller pool."

Your logic and reasoning have no place on a Fab thread...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached.

How is that spoiling it for the single men? If 75% of the men are married and most women won't meet married men, then surely that's a good thing for the single ones because they're competing in a smaller pool."

I think he believed that women are meeting married men, who shouldn't be on here (apparently), thus taking sex which by right the "genuine, single men" are entitled to.

Married (and cheating) guys, who have no business meeting anyone on here for sex, are spoiling it for single men by stealing the sex they should be getting.

Because obviously if all the married and cheating men were removed, the women would meet the single guys that were left

It's not like we meet those we're attracted to rather than whomever is available or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached.

How is that spoiling it for the single men? If 75% of the men are married and most women won't meet married men, then surely that's a good thing for the single ones because they're competing in a smaller pool.

I think he believed that women are meeting married men, who shouldn't be on here (apparently), thus taking sex which by right the "genuine, single men" are entitled to.

Married (and cheating) guys, who have no business meeting anyone on here for sex, are spoiling it for single men by stealing the sex they should be getting.

Because obviously if all the married and cheating men were removed, the women would meet the single guys that were left

It's not like we meet those we're attracted to rather than whomever is available or anything."

Lots of people seem to think it's a zero sum game which it patently isn't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached.

How is that spoiling it for the single men? If 75% of the men are married and most women won't meet married men, then surely that's a good thing for the single ones because they're competing in a smaller pool.

I think he believed that women are meeting married men, who shouldn't be on here (apparently), thus taking sex which by right the "genuine, single men" are entitled to.

Married (and cheating) guys, who have no business meeting anyone on here for sex, are spoiling it for single men by stealing the sex they should be getting.

Because obviously if all the married and cheating men were removed, the women would meet the single guys that were left

It's not like we meet those we're attracted to rather than whomever is available or anything.

Lots of people seem to think it's a zero sum game which it patently isn't. "

Quite.

"If all the men you want to meet weren't here, you'd have to lower your standards"

"I read what you're looking for on your profile and you're never going to get that. I'm the best you're going to get so meet me"

Er, no, on both counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached."

I did a more detailed poll and found it to be 74.8%. Accuracy is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few points

It's too many not to many or two many

There are a few genuine non pushy guys here who are polite and respectful

Why has op made a rash comment and then left the site? Did his wife find out?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Good Lord. That was shockingly harsh. I would have at least waited for his explanation, before coming down on him like that. I've just joined this site. I can see I'll have to be very sure to word things carefully. "

Welcome to the forums

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By *ntheswingCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well."

Maybe if this was a dating site, but no, it's a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute bastards OP! Oh where have you gone? OP! OP! Are you there?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well.

Maybe if this was a dating site, but no, it's a swinging site."

For some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think their spoiling it for actual genuine men on here trying to get there leg over

Totally true. I would say 75% of guys on here over 30 are attached."

One of the 25% ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well.

Maybe if this was a dating site, but no, it's a swinging site.

For some "

This!

I think there is a significant portion of single women (and possibly single men too) that while not looking for a full LTR, are seeking an exclusive play partner. With that in mind I think the reason so many people get a bee in their bonnet over 'single' guys cheating is that these women know that they will not be the centre of attention. Rather than it being a case of they feel bad for the bloke's wife or girlfriend.

[Remove pin. Throw into crowd. Wait for explosion...]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they spoiling it? leading women on, and maybe in the end they get broken hearted as well.

Maybe if this was a dating site, but no, it's a swinging site.

For some

This!

I think there is a significant portion of single women (and possibly single men too) that while not looking for a full LTR, are seeking an exclusive play partner. With that in mind I think the reason so many people get a bee in their bonnet over 'single' guys cheating is that these women know that they will not be the centre of attention. Rather than it being a case of they feel bad for the bloke's wife or girlfriend.

[Remove pin. Throw into crowd. Wait for explosion...]"

i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like meeting married men. I like meeting some single men too, but it is more rare to find attractive and socially competent men who are single in the age range I'm interested in because someone else has usually put a ring on it. "

Wait a second...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor."

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do. "

yeah maybe.

i like how most of meets aren't the jealous type either.

had one recently who was and i just don't need that kind of drama. and he hadn't deleted his account on here so i'm not sure why he expected me to be exclusive (also said he was genuine and single lol). so i do get where you're coming from. he expected me to be exclusive yet wasn't doing that himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day any one married being man or woman who is cheating on their partner has to live with their conscience same goes with any one in a relationship of any kind who is on here without their partners knowledge and op do u know the ratio of married men to single guys I bet you don't so stop moaning and uo your game or take a hard look at your profile and the way you approach the ladies

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do. "

It's not holier than thou to not want to be a part of someone else's lies and, perhaps, an entirely innocent partner (and maybe family) being hurt.

Many people on here have been cheated on and don't wish to be involved in making another person feel that way.

What *is* unreasonable is to expect everybody to share your values and to claim they're lying about their motives if they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered if the women , TVs or men we meet are cheating or not .

It's just a bit of fun , and if they cheat with us at least there's no chance of it developing into anything more serious .

And they're less likely to get an std if they play with swingers .

So it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do.

It's not holier than thou to not want to be a part of someone else's lies and, perhaps, an entirely innocent partner (and maybe family) being hurt.

Many people on here have been cheated on and don't wish to be involved in making another person feel that way.

What *is* unreasonable is to expect everybody to share your values and to claim they're lying about their motives if they don't."
I agree u can't know all the ins and outs of a person's life their reasons and all the baggage they carry that's why I never ask people about their family when I meet them that's a separate thing they have to deal with while with me it's me and them and hopefully good sex when we part we go back to our own worlds but when together we are in our special little world

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do.

It's not holier than thou to not want to be a part of someone else's lies and, perhaps, an entirely innocent partner (and maybe family) being hurt.

Many people on here have been cheated on and don't wish to be involved in making another person feel that way.

What *is* unreasonable is to expect everybody to share your values and to claim they're lying about their motives if they don't.I agree u can't know all the ins and outs of a person's life their reasons and all the baggage they carry that's why I never ask people about their family when I meet them that's a separate thing they have to deal with while with me it's me and them and hopefully good sex when we part we go back to our own worlds but when together we are in our special little world "

Great, and you're entitled to do it your way, as long as you accept any potential consequences.

Other people are entitled not to have anything to do with cheats. It doesn't make them holier than thou. They're doing what feels right for them.

Just as the cheats make their own choices, people can decide if they want to be part of it. At least, they *should* be given the chance to make an informed choice.

Unfortunately, if someone is lying to the person they're supposed to love, they're unlikely to think twice about lying to anyone, or everyone, else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i'm looking for a relationship (not on here any more) but just fucking people while i wait for that. i don't expect to be exclusive with anyone who's a swinger.

also not interested in married men for the cba factor.

At least you're honest and plain speaking about it though. Rather than taking the holier-than-thou stance that many do.

It's not holier than thou to not want to be a part of someone else's lies and, perhaps, an entirely innocent partner (and maybe family) being hurt.

Many people on here have been cheated on and don't wish to be involved in making another person feel that way.

What *is* unreasonable is to expect everybody to share your values and to claim they're lying about their motives if they don't.I agree u can't know all the ins and outs of a person's life their reasons and all the baggage they carry that's why I never ask people about their family when I meet them that's a separate thing they have to deal with while with me it's me and them and hopefully good sex when we part we go back to our own worlds but when together we are in our special little world

Great, and you're entitled to do it your way, as long as you accept any potential consequences.

Other people are entitled not to have anything to do with cheats. It doesn't make them holier than thou. They're doing what feels right for them.

Just as the cheats make their own choices, people can decide if they want to be part of it. At least, they *should* be given the chance to make an informed choice.

Unfortunately, if someone is lying to the person they're supposed to love, they're unlikely to think twice about lying to anyone, or everyone, else."
hi sorry I messed the thread above up lol I'm the one who never asks there background regarding family lol I inserted my _iew halfway in someone else's so apologies to both u lovely ladies x

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