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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x"

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've actually done that before to a woman.

My ex and I were out in town for dinner and then went on for a few drinks.

Before we left the bar is just said exactly that. ..and we left.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

It`s not creepy unless it`s made creepy, compliments are good if they are administered and left to their own devices, if it ends in a Benny Hill chase scene then you have gone too far

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x"
Thankyou.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I've actually done that before to a woman.

My ex and I were out in town for dinner and then went on for a few drinks.

Before we left the bar is just said exactly that. ..and we left.

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. Corrrr well done.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.

When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)

Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say

" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"

Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .

Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?

It`s not creepy unless it`s made creepy, compliments are good if they are administered and left to their own devices, if it ends in a Benny Hill chase scene then you have gone too far

"
. Ha ha god that would awfull.....but funny..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd appreciate the effort but would prefer someone to just talk and certainly not disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww, I'd love this!!

You hear how people meet in the supermarket, but it just seems like an urban legend!!!

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I've actually done that before to a woman.

My ex and I were out in town for dinner and then went on for a few drinks.

Before we left the bar is just said exactly that. ..and we left.

. Corrrr well done."

I had obviously had a confidence transplant that evening lol

And I certainly couldn't do it to a guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. Many years ago ....,. I used to see a lass walk past mh work every dah , one day i just went over and asked if her fella would be jealous if i took her out for coffee ....... Was seeing her for 3 months til her fella did find out. Lmfao But seriously ,... lifes too short to wonder what if ,..,, do it ,. It could be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this happen to me in a supermarket once, was with my mum and kept passing each other in the aisles. Thought it was really sweet when on about the third pass he approached me and told me he thought I was lovely. As we got to one of the last aisles he stopped again and asked me out. We swapped numbers, went out once and he turned into an obsessive nightmare. Wouldn't leave me alone, would send stroppy texts if I didn't reply immediately, would walk past my house and message me to say he'd looked out for me as he'd gone past. It was quite unsettling and took some stern words from a third party to get him to stop calling. Maybe that experience has scarred me but I'd find someone doing similar again uncomfortable.

Mrs GnT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me once, probably about 20 years ago, and I still remember it fondly...

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