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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically with this post, is it not you that's seeking the attention?

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

There's 10 guys for every woman in this site. It's easier to pull in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

You can't be everyone's type for one thing, and perseverance and patience is key in this realm.

I know some women are attention seekers, some meet, some don't. Just focus on the ones who do engage with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can you tell me which part suggests I'm attentions seeking?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

2 weeks is no time. Join in the banter, you look great so you will soon be noticed for all the right reasons

Welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look for socials in your area or go to a club.

Meet people in the flesh, don't just rely on messaging people to get meets.

Good luck and be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Some men are attention seekers too, there are lots of women on here who meet. XXX

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes...I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

Some men are attention seekers too, there are lots of women on here who meet. XXX"

Me personally I'm definitely more of a doer I just show what I would do in a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

"

We can tell you are lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

"

Knew it!!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Nice tits, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Surely those with 100 plus veris have perfected the art of attention seeking!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!! "

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

We are sure you have your reasons why you are on this site.

Are they not allowed that same choice?

Attention-seeking or not, it is entirely up to them.

Regards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are some aint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another lonely hearts post please re-direct to pof or something one week old account ffs grow a pair and man up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

Surely those with 100 plus veris have perfected the art of attention seeking!"

Yeah , love the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week) "

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

A week in Fabland is nothing. You'll need patience by the bag load. Sounds as if your expectations of the site were too high.

Stick with it and try and keep a positive attitude. It can be hard on here at times but can also be great fun.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

They won't meet you so it's a problem with them (i.e. they're just attention seekers)?

They won't meet you so you assume they won't meet at all?

Or could it actually be you just haven't found anyone who wants to meet you yet?

Two weeks here is no time at all. Very few guys, if any, turn up here and find themselves knee deep in fanny by dinner time. There are loads of guys here compared with the number of women/couples.

Your expectations of the site may have been a bit off the mark. Be patient and stick with it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?"

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically with this post, is it not you that's seeking the attention? "

Men seek attention too.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh, and don't suggest it's the fault of the women here that you can't get meets. That never goes down well and won't help your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers "

I'll give you a christmas special to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers

"

You have a big house in the country, can I hide with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be some woman on here for that purpose along with some guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup self confessed attention seeker here who also meets cos it means I get even more attention. p.s new pic up please fab xxx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Definition of an attention seeker - someone who wants attention, but not necessarily from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup self confessed attention seeker here who also meets cos it means I get even more attention. p.s new pic up please fab xxx"

Consider yourself fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lose the need a meet within a week expectations and go with the flow -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

"

Fairplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers "

Damn it!! I'm washing my hair on the 11th December is no good either I'm in Pantomime

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

How about the week of 17th November 2018?

Let me check...

11/11/16 is my next appointment

Or 3/12-5/12 2016

But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers

Damn it!! I'm washing my hair on the 11th December is no good either I'm in Pantomime "

Oh buggery

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

People are on here for all different reasons.

Some meet, some don't.

Some are here just for the ego boost, some to chat shit in the forums, some like to cam, some like to wank over pics of naked ladies and some are here to show off their pics.

Pretty sure there are other reasons for being here too.

Those of us who have been here years have heard it all many, many times, so unless you can come up with some new patter than you will blend in with the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!!

Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

We are sure you have your reasons why you are on this site.

Are they not allowed that same choice?

Attention-seeking or not, it is entirely up to them.

Regards."

This is s good point, there are many and varied reasons people are on here.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Some are. Some aren't. I am so fab my new pic ffs and stop moaning!!! Oh and if you are hoping to meet a woman older than yourself perhaps your username might put some off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!!

Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom "

Strange isn't it that women don't throw themselves at the feet of men. I've never understood why not?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Some are. Some aren't. I am so fab my new pic ffs and stop moaning!!! Oh and if you are hoping to meet a woman older than yourself perhaps your username might put some off "

My hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me i dnt beg for people to fab my pics etc

im of the opinion if you like me or find me attractive then nice 1 if not iwont lose any sleep over it

you dnt get to 54 without some knockbacks

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

One week. Bloody hell there's people been here 6 months and still in your position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?"

This.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

It's nothing you're doing fella .. it's not the ladies fault either ... It's mine ..

I'm just too damned popular.. Yep they're all giving me all of their attention..

Welcome to the forums ...stick around join in and enjoy the place,

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Hello O.P.

Who knows why women are here ?

What are you doing wrong ? Well you are showing that if you don't get your own way - immediately - then you invent half truths about people. You assume.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!!

Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom "

If the site allowed you to post prior to the 7 day period, let's say as soon as you joined ... how long do you think before someone posted I've been here .......and no meets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup self confessed attention seeker here who also meets cos it means I get even more attention. p.s new pic up please fab xxx

Consider yourself fabbed "

Thank you beautiful xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Some are. Some aren't. I am so fab my new pic ffs and stop moaning!!! Oh and if you are hoping to meet a woman older than yourself perhaps your username might put some off "
this ( fab LL's pic)

and your name is not conducive to your aim and you've been on here week? first post on the forums? lets hope they get less whingy as time goes on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for lots of attention and I'm getting it thank you very much

If you want instant gratification, there are other ways OP.

It takes time, even for us "attention seeking chicks" so you need to be patient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success!

If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)!

I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles!

* Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?!

* Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps?

* Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet?

* Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you.

* Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed.

* Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look.

* Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man!

That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success!

If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)!

I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles!

* Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?!

* Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps?

* Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet?

* Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you.

* Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed.

* Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look.

* Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man!

That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! "

youre a very nice man to do this for him..thankyou..it was noticed by someone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

come over to Ireland and I'll meet ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success!

If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)!

I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles!

* Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?!

* Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps?

* Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet?

* Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you.

* Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed.

* Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look.

* Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man!

That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! youre a very nice man to do this for him..thankyou..it was noticed by someone xx"

You're welcome good lady, and thank you for your kind words, always appreciated! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me "
I'd do more than get nekkid with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me "

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week) "

Next week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics "

Number uno attention seeker

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By *ropshaftMan
over a year ago

i think attention seeking is the wrong phrase. i would use ego boosting. and yes there probs are a good few who are and likewise with men. its just having a connection with someone and perservering with them once the connection has been found. for all the 1 message wonders.... FUCK THEM OFF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics

Number uno attention seeker "

I got yours didn't I

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

OP your 26 years old. dear god man what are doing on here if you want a cougar get your bloody arse down the local club on a over 40s night dress smart smell nice and be polite you will pull .

that's providing your not a fuck wit and can actually talk to a woman with out going bright red and stammering like a idiot.

jesus 26 and I'm presuming single needing to use a site like this to get ones kicks the mind bogies.

when I was 26 I got what ever I wanted by attending the right club and then putting my social skills to good use. and yes that includes older women women my own age or younger and yes kinky women to.

bloody hell get off your arse and off the internet social interacting the old fashion way bets the internet into a pulp when it come to pulling for fun ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics "

I'll turn you, yet!

Hope you had a good time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics

I'll turn you, yet!

Hope you had a good time!"

Amazing time thanks xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Op its only been a week,give it time.

Its not attention seeking for most,just that the way the ratios go that women can be choosy .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success!

If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)!

I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles!

* Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?!

* Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps?

* Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet?

* Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you.

* Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed.

* Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look.

* Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man!

That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! "

Them's wise words right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They won't meet you so it's a problem with them (i.e. they're just attention seekers)?

They won't meet you so you assume they won't meet at all?

Or could it actually be you just haven't found anyone who wants to meet you yet?

Two weeks here is no time at all. Very few guys, if any, turn up here and find themselves knee deep in fanny by dinner time. There are loads of guys here compared with the number of women/couples.

Your expectations of the site may have been a bit off the mark. Be patient and stick with it."

And here's a few more, particularly the last paragraph.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes...I am

Knew it!!!

It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)

Next week? "

I'm away next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me

Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics

Number uno attention seeker

I got yours didn't I "

I wouldn't call that an achievement really . You only have to look stunning

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Of course we're here for attention.

That doesn't mean we're self seeking idiots who don't meet--when we find the right one(s).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

Of course we're here for attention.

That doesn't mean we're self seeking idiots who don't meet--when we find the right one(s)."

hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Somewhat of an oxymoron there we think ! You've been here a week. ? Many are here 5 years and never achieve a meet !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet.

I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol?

I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message.

So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?

"

Somewhat of an oxymoron there we think ! You've been here a week. ? Many are here 5 years and never achieve a meet !!

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