FabSwingers.com forum: seems to be some unhappy Fabbers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Those people are unhappy.

Others aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What can admin do about users happiness?

Surely it's down to the individuals and how they manage their experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are extremely happy - maybe we should post that as maybe only the grumblers making noise

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

There are too many fakes on here but why would the owners of the site reduce user numbers & hence reduce advertising revenue?

Just little ole cynical me's take on it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy........ always happy to reply to messages, give opinions on forum and share our positivity.......have only moaned once - and thatwas after I drove to meet a man and he didn't turn up - twice - I have him two chances, I drove for 50mins the 1st time and 90mins the 2nd time - he apologised the day after the 1st time but no apologies the 2nd time - he just never turned up. Grrrrrrr ??

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No point in being unhappy and if something or someone is causing it simply walk away from it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Jesus wept!!! Pray tell how you expect Admin to "cure" unhappiness?!! Being on Fab isn't mandatory. If it makes you unhappy and you're too dim to press "delete account" and take up whatever floats your boat, then oh well!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"There are too many fakes on here but why would the owners of the site reduce user numbers & hence reduce advertising revenue?

Just little ole cynical me's take on it..

What can admin fo about it? There are fakes and time wasters on paid sites as well. Forcing people to get verified within a certain time frame will deter more genuine people.

It's OK being cynical bur perhaps bring some ideas to the table too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What can admin do about users happiness?

Surely it's down to the individuals and how they manage their experience?"

You'd think so wouldn't you, but apparently not. We are to be spoon fed everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm

Those people are unhappy.

Others aren't "

I'm reading quite a few answers to posts like this.

...some do, some don't! (Should have kept this for a rant day I know

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Some are happy on here, otherwise they would leave. Like me - no sex from the site, even private messages are rare but i stay because the forums are fun.

Some people are unhappy unless EVERYTHING goes their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

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I'm a very unhappy person

I haven't met you yet *weeps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

I'm a very unhappy person

I haven't met you yet *weeps* "

You're not missing much. Be joyous in the fact that you've had a lucky escape. I'm a horrible person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Probably aware that plenty are happy with the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont know why people who are unhappy with anything - not just this - stay with it - just walk away

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

I am pretty sure that admin have read some of the posts complaining about this, that and the other.

Thing is, admin never promised this, that or the other.

They don't make any wild claims.

They provide a site for people to use.

Despite you saying that people are 'unhappy' , i'm guessing they fill their happiness void with something else entirely. Where else would all their wind come from ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

I'm a very unhappy person

I haven't met you yet *weeps*

You're not missing much. Be joyous in the fact that you've had a lucky escape. I'm a horrible person."
I'm still unhappy to me I'm missing out on a lot

let me see what your like

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm happy

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I'd bet there's also some very loud happy people, but they were told to keep the noise down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

I doubt they are unhappy because they are on here complaining instead of reporting it to admin, blocking and moving on....some people thrive on it

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By *taffsfun73Man
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

In that case i got a face like a smacked arse and im finding it hard to type for the tears

I can i get the meet now please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn that

upside down

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn that

upside down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

In that case i got a face like a smacked arse and im finding it hard to type for the tears

I can i get the meet now please

Sending positive meet vibes your way. Good luck

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

That's not the real Scarlett writing that is it?!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm happy.

If I was unhappy here I probably wouldn't log in.

Maybe those unhappy souls who hoover up the good atmosphere out of the site should find another playground.

Fabswhingers perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Despite my best efforts I didn't win the lottery at the weekend.

This made me unhappy.

Fab admin should do something about my misery immediately.

*this was typed using my sarcasm font.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Fabswhingers...an excellent idea!

Patent it immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is what you make of it.

In fairness I was on another site before this one (for 3 years!) and that one was much worse for fakes and there weren't many local men. You also had to pay to get anything from the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy, I like the site just as it is.

OP, I am guessing you are also happy, you are still here after all.

If you have a solution to sensibly identify fakes and time wasters write it in a book and sell it, you could make a fortune. just about every social website in the world would buy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

That's not the real Scarlett writing that is it?!

Time to play by the rules.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like everything, it's what you make it. No-one can change the fact that there are timewasters, all you can control is how you deal with it.

Move on, find other people, don't waste time on fakes and timewasters and stop moaning about something that you can't change.

No-one else is responsible for your happiness. You are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for the unhappy people. Let's meet them and make them happy. Spread the love.

am waiting

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You will never eradicate time wasters as the definition is so wide. However, you can minimise your exposure to people out for playing the fool with someone else's time.

Minimise, never eradicate.

Desperation is one of the strongest opportunity they play

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It is the people who don't read profiles that annoy us and we guess they waste our time.

Far from unhappy though.

Among the many idiots there has been a few decent people who make it all worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own happiness from Fab. If Fab doesn't make you happy then don't use it. It's not suitable for everybody, it doesn't work for everybody. And with regards timewasters and fakes, we've never knowingly stumbled across them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is the people who don't read profiles that annoy us and we guess they waste our time.

Far from unhappy though.

Among the many idiots there has been a few decent people who make it all worth it."

We are not going to let the idiots ruin our happiness!

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"It is the people who don't read profiles that annoy us and we guess they waste our time.

Far from unhappy though.

Among the many idiots there has been a few decent people who make it all worth it.

We are not going to let the idiots ruin our happiness! "

We are completely with you on that!!

We no doubt will have some of those same idiots bother us because they have read this thread and think they are funny! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm happy!

And me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m happy.

The forum is just a small number of site members, admin already do do something about fake accounts, they take them down when reported and have measures they take against members other members report.

As for time wasters yes there are loads, some are dreamers and fantasists but the label of time waster is used too frequently, it's applied to people who chat but decide not to meet, it's only through chatting a lot of people can determine if they wish to meet or not, so that is not time wasting.

The site is what you make it, you have to work at it.

Too many members have unrealistic expectations and too many people treat other members like free prostitutes, gigalos or sex toys.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No drama here; I'm cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No drama here; I'm cool

Nice boob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No drama here; I'm cool

Same, it is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy. Its an internet site i would be surprised if there werent fakes and time wasters. Even on paid sites you get them. No point moaning just block and move on

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

If they were that unhappy, surely they still wouldn't be here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No drama here; I'm cool

Same, it is what you make it"

Oh hello you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are happy. Its an internet site i would be surprised if there werent fakes and time wasters. Even on paid sites you get them. No point moaning just block and move on "

There is never any point in moaning about anything! Let's get moving on and having fun!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm loving fab atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm loving fab atm

Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think fab is brilliant. I am a single bloke and get far more hassles using dating sites, hence back on fab again as it's easier and more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is fun.

If it wasn't I'd delete my account.

If something made me unhappy I'd stop doing it. Easy peasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See OP. Lots if people are happy.

Don't think about what Fab can do for you, think what you can do for Fab!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Maybe Admin have come to the realisation that you can't please all of the people all of the time.

So how would you suggest Admin go about making sure that everyone on here is happy?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i'm fine thanks....

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Only a small percentage are fake or time wasters & its the same on most swinging sites, I would go as far as saying Fab is one of the better sites.

Admin can't do much about time wasters as its impossible to dictate what others can/can't do, most people are quite happy with the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think admin should search for sexy men and order them to fuck me. That would make me really happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think admin should search for sexy men and order them to fuck me. That would make me really happy

I'll start the queue!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"I think admin should search for sexy men and order them to fuck me. That would make me really happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab goes in waves sometimes it's up sometimes it's down, you can have a great few months and then go a couple of months of just dross and half wits and fakes and time wasters, at the minute we are in the latter hoping it changes soon

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

You own your own experience, no-one else

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Wait till it gets to rant thursday

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through this thread has made me happy.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Life is sweet - yes you get approaches like the one I had today from "user no longer on the site."

But then you also get ones like the mail I had on Friday where we met on Saturday and had a good time out in the sunshine - so I had fun and got some sun on my buns too.

You just have to see the glass as half empty - not User no longer on the site!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?"

Apparently you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes"

Would make no difference at all;

The people that are " unhappy" are just the fucking moaners, who probably moan about everything, and ( increasingly like more of society ) want everything handed to them on a plate, rather than go out and sort stuff out for themselves .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes"

You are not photo verified

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes"

I disagree.

Lots of real members who do meet others would leave if photo verification was made mandatory, including me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes

You are not photo verified "

Classic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Verified in person thats even better

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Im Verified in person thats even better"

Oh ok

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?

Apparently you can.

Fabulous news but unfortunately I can't celebrate it because of my dubious mood

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Im Verified in person thats even better"

What about before you were verified in person though? Were you a fake then?

At what point should people have to be photo verified according to your plan?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes

You are not photo verified "

This

Being photo verified, means diddly squat in my opinion anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok maybe a silly idea but have come across women profiles to be men

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

I think your reading to much into it OP.

not saying the posters your post is referring to are not a bit pissed off but I'm sure that in some circumstances the real motive behind said posts is to drum up interest from like minded souls .

it would be interesting to know what percentage of such posts lead to meets from like minded souls who read the post .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see in one sense why some users maybe unhappy - but it's sour milk.

For the best part, everybody knows this site is populated with single guys assuming it's just a grab a shag site. Some "ladies" too (as I've learned). When they discover it's not - well... Cest la vie!

And then the time wasters messing genuine users about - but you soldier on. But life goes on.

Raise a smile like a fluster. I'm enjoying the social side more than the online chase (always have done)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just posted to similar threads on the site feedback forum page, so not going over it again.

Nobody will be happy all the time and everyone is unhappy at some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?

Apparently you can.

Fabulous news but unfortunately I can't celebrate it because of my dubious mood

You need to stroke a pussy, it's very therapeutic. Grab a Raggie this instant!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ready quite a few unhappy people complaining about time wasters and fake accounts. Surprisingly both couples, females and single guys. Is Fab admin aware people are unhappy?

Im happy with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can admin do about users happiness?"

free blowjobs for everyone ?

I'm starting to feel unhappy too

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes

You are not photo verified "

PMSL. Now that made me happy. Thanks View.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Every fab member should be photo verified so u dnt get many fakes

You are not photo verified

PMSL. Now that made me happy. Thanks View.

Pleasure was all mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own happiness from Fab. If Fab doesn't make you happy then don't use it, it doesn't work for everybody. And with regards timewasters and fakes just ignore them and carry on searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unhappy about my tax bill, but one particular fabber has made my life very happy recently. I'll never turn down a free blowjob though!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?

Apparently you can.

Fabulous news but unfortunately I can't celebrate it because of my dubious mood

You need to stroke a pussy, it's very therapeutic. Grab a Raggie this instant!!!!!!"

I've got one curled up beside me snoring at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fighting a plummeting mood today. Can I blame Admin for that?

Apparently you can.

Fabulous news but unfortunately I can't celebrate it because of my dubious mood

You need to stroke a pussy, it's very therapeutic. Grab a Raggie this instant!!!!!!

I've got one curled up beside me snoring at the moment."

My dog is snoring in her new bed right now too!

Cat flaked out next to me also!

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