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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm due to meet somebody on Thu. (Funny what you find and where you find it, she's not from fab )

After arranging the day to meet, our conversation has gone around in circles. First we should meet for just a coffee, and then we can't wait to tear each other's cloths off. But now we're not sure if we will meet at all.

It started with banter, flirting and now it's full on sexual suggestion.

She now worries if we meet, and enjoy our friendship she might fall in love. (Do we all worry about this?)

I suggested to cool off for while so she can think about it, but she'd still like to 'just meet.' And I would like to "just shag" I mean 'just meet'

I know this is long, and I hope it makes sense.

Any suggestions? I like her, she sounds fun, but I don't want to hurt somebody in the future. Nobody does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a coffee. Be gentlemanly and make it clear you expect nothing more and see how it goes.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a coffee. Be gentlemanly and make it clear you expect nothing more and see how it goes.

Good luck x"

Sorry, should have read your profile first!! Doh!! Your in a relationship? Guess if she thinks she'll fall for you, it's best to stay away I'm afraid. The last thing you need is a bunny boiler on your door step!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for a coffee. Be gentlemanly and make it clear you expect nothing more and see how it goes.

Good luck x

Sorry, should have read your profile first!! Doh!! "

Haha. *Single men on fab, "Go and get her"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I somewhat agree Deelicious. I've been thinking the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well still confused with what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey talk about thinking ahead like a game of chess - not met yet and shes worried she will fall in love - have a coffee and chat - or leave well alone-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well still confused with what to do. "

Don't meet..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blimey talk about thinking ahead like a game of chess - not met yet and shes worried she will fall in love - have a coffee and chat - or leave well alone- "
Social and sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well still confused with what to do.

Don't meet..?"

More chat would just drive my sexual frustration through the roof. Do you mean, say goodbye and move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm due to meet somebody on Thu. (Funny what you find and where you find it, she's not from fab )

After arranging the day to meet, our conversation has gone around in circles. First we should meet for just a coffee, and then we can't wait to tear each other's cloths off. But now we're not sure if we will meet at all.

It started with banter, flirting and now it's full on sexual suggestion.

She now worries if we meet, and enjoy our friendship she might fall in love. (Do we all worry about this?)

I suggested to cool off for while so she can think about it, but she'd still like to 'just meet.' And I would like to "just shag" I mean 'just meet'

I know this is long, and I hope it makes sense.

Any suggestions? I like her, she sounds fun, but I don't want to hurt somebody in the future. Nobody does. "

If someone told me before meeting me there worried they'd fall in love with me I would have already blocked and deleted there number.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

thought you were on here to meet sexy women who like you and want to fuck your brains out????

whats the problem? meet, see how it goes in person...have credit card to pay for hotel if necessary..have fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be concerned that without even meeting you she thinks she might fall in love with you! If you think that its worth the risk of a bunny boiler situation then meet her. But be aware that you could really end up hurting her if things progressed passed just a quick coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't meet her she seems a bit full on

Is she definitely a real woman and not a guy fecking with you it's a little bit suspicious just my opinion though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Is she definitely a real woman and not a guy fecking with you it's a little bit suspicious just my opinion though "

It has crossed my mind. But ' she' seems to add up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just set a time and date in a very public place

I've got a gutt feeling that there's somthing iffy she will probably make her last minute excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a coffee. Be gentlemanly and make it clear you expect nothing more and see how it goes.

Good luck x"
just this young man be nice be real say it how it is in a polite and friendly way good lick opps luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update. I'm not meeting. easier to say no now, then say no later.

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