FabSwingers.com forum: Such a thing as too good looking ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lool I feel the same about women

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It's in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with. "

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some men are so gorgeous I'd feel self concious. That's down to my own insecurities though.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool"

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

No not on here, nobodys perfect anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

Yes. You are too handsome for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention ..

Yes. You are too handsome for me."

I'm not too handsome for anyone we are all equal here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news. "

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much in real life - but I think you can be on a site like this!

I seem to do pretty well with couples. I'm told that - besides being a friendly bugger - it's because I'm attractive enough for both parties to 'fancy' me - but not so attractive that the woman feels insecure in any way (a lot of us have insecurities if we're honest!) I know exactly where they're coming from as I think I may be the same if in a couple! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

Haha! This question is a loaded gun... But I'll be tactical with my words....

My answer is no. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - even on the swinging scene. It goes with comfortability and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are i have to say some drop dead gorgeous guys on here ...who i keep in my hotlist to perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

If the allegations are true (and the American statute of limitations makes it difficult) then he is not "naughty."

It would make him a predatory criminal bastard.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

Why would the drugging and raping of women be a source of amusement ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

If the allegations are true (and the American statute of limitations makes it difficult) then he is not "naughty."

It would make him a predatory criminal bastard."

Agreed. Apparently it's funny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

Why would the drugging and raping of women be a source of amusement ?"

For the same reason they make the silly memes about it to make people laugh

Sense of humour goes a long way in this cold world x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

Why would the drugging and raping of women be a source of amusement ?

For the same reason they make the silly memes about it to make people laugh

Sense of humour goes a long way in this cold world x"

Who are 'they' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

Why would the drugging and raping of women be a source of amusement ?

For the same reason they make the silly memes about it to make people laugh

Sense of humour goes a long way in this cold world x"

He has not been tried.

But I fail to see how you find any humour whatsoever in the allegations. I would imagine those claiming to be victims would feel the same.

There are appropriate comedic subjects. This is not one.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

Everytime I look in the mirror I ask myself this same question...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've never had to worry about it personally (as in anyone ever being put off me for that reason). I've also never been put off men or women I have found ridiculously good looking because 1) I have got to know them first, which makes them more or less attractive to me, 2) I assume if they've bothered spending the time to get to know me then they may just possibly find me attractive too and 3) I know that what I consider attractive is utterly subjective anyway.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

We have been politely turned down before now by couples, because I apparently am too slim xxxxx

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had to worry about it personally (as in anyone ever being put off me for that reason). I've also never been put off men or women I have found ridiculously good looking because 1) I have got to know them first, which makes them more or less attractive to me, 2) I assume if they've bothered spending the time to get to know me then they may just possibly find me attractive too and 3) I know that what I consider attractive is utterly subjective anyway."

^^^This^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if we feel others are too good looking for us to approach etc but, we're aware that we're not to everyone's taste..... In the same way not everyone is to ours. An ugly personality can be the real decider for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, there's guys I'd never approach because they're way out of my league, but I wouldn't turn them down if they approached me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, this must definitely be the reason I can't get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What utter bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shallow waters this Fab at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yes, there's guys I'd never approach because they're way out of my league, but I wouldn't turn them down if they approached me

I'm coming

Looool x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you ask a person. The worst they can do is say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but us muscle guys are usually above the league

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, you ask a person. The worst they can do is say no. "

Exactly never be scared to approach anyone even if you think wow ! Cause a lot of people are humble and you might just end up surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is...I'm not it

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I think I'm average, but a few people have been shocked on face pic Friday when they see me....fab is a great ego booster but I'm under no illusion im a stunner. I have many insecurites and I won't approach 'fit' men through fear of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body "

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"If there is...I'm not it

Oh ur not too bad on the eye mister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body "

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits"

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but us muscle guys are usually above the league

Not my type but there is someone for everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid"

I'm currently sleeping with a woman that has had 3 kids. She looks incredible. She might not see it. But I do.

Have some self belief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be so attractive that they don't even answer my messages. Even if fact they look at my profile and delete. I'm assuming they think I'd think them beneath me!! Lol

But we are all judged on our looks. If we are good looking it may be " they are unapproachable. They wouldn't look twice at me!!"

Or "my word he looks like he'll put an axe in my head!!"

We all judge by looks it's hard wired into us.

It is how we overcome this prewired position.

Some are nice and a polite thanks but no thanks. Most ignore. Some then read your profile.

But the first impressions are the profile pic you choose to pick. If they don't think you are their type they will not read your profile.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

I'm currently sleeping with a woman that has had 3 kids. She looks incredible. She might not see it. But I do.

Have some self belief

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

I don't see guys as too good looking

I do feel intimidated by very good looking guys, I always feel if I meet them I will be a massive disappointment in the flesh to tend to avoid

Unless I'm in a club in which case they can see me in the flesh then it's their choice if they want to talk or not, I wouldn't turn down a very good looking guy if I was stood talking to him face to face, I do it regular on here though

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

Oh no, have I disrupted your lads banter? Most people don't joke about rape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must be so attractive that they don't even answer my messages. Even if fact they look at my profile and delete. I'm assuming they think I'd think them beneath me!! Lol

But we are all judged on our looks. If we are good looking it may be " they are unapproachable. They wouldn't look twice at me!!"

Or "my word he looks like he'll put an axe in my head!!"

We all judge by looks it's hard wired into us.

It is how we overcome this prewired position.

Some are nice and a polite thanks but no thanks. Most ignore. Some then read your profile.

But the first impressions are the profile pic you choose to pick. If they don't think you are their type they will not read your profile. "

I wouldn't take it to heart mate I get it too

If they only knew what they was missing lol but on the other hand maybe I'm missing something too. But keep optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

I have to be honest I feel the same

I just can't see why a gym fit guy would want to meet me and I'm sure he would be horrified if he saw my jelly belly

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body "

Well i have got a wobbly body and have met lots of slim men on here, what difference does it make if they go to the gym or not. If they can see what you look like then its up to them if they want to see you or not. Anyway once i am having sex with someone im not thinking about what i look like im thinking about enjoying myself or not as the case may be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

Oh no, have I disrupted your lads banter? Most people don't joke about rape. "

chill out no ones getting graped around here

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

Oh no, have I disrupted your lads banter? Most people don't joke about rape. "

I wasn't joking. I don't watch the news.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

I have to be honest I feel the same

I just can't see why a gym fit guy would want to meet me and I'm sure he would be horrified if he saw my jelly belly

I love natural women gym bodies are over rated but fair play to anyone who puts in the time I'd rather fuck for two hours then hit the gym lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but us muscle guys are usually above the league

Not my type but there is someone for everyone on here

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That is right, there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

Oh no, have I disrupted your lads banter? Most people don't joke about rape. "

Some do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Or too ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was one of those men that I thought was too good looking.

Way out of my league and had women flirting around him all the time!

I felt a little insecure at first but then learned to accept that he liked my wobbly bits

If the hot young men on here want to shag me then that's a fantastic ego boost!

They can see what I look like from my pictures - everyone wants variety right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down for this exact reason. Well that's how I read it

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"It's in the eye of the beholder

This is true, the problems come if the beholder is holding a mirror.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

No. The more attractive I find people the better.

I do sometimes wonder, why they're interested in me but I don't ponder that for too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Some may be good looking but have a personality of a brick.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool"

A rape joke. Really??????

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

What did he do? I don't watch the news.

Your gonna have to google it lol but he's naughty

Why would the drugging and raping of women be a source of amusement ?

For the same reason they make the silly memes about it to make people laugh

Sense of humour goes a long way in this cold world x"

Sense of humour about rape?

I don't think 'being too good looking' is going to be your problem.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

So glad you find sexual harassment so funny

It was light humour towards another male! Most people just take it with a pinch of salt and keep it moving

Oh no, have I disrupted your lads banter? Most people don't joke about rape.

chill out no ones getting graped around here

Chill out? About casual misogyny and non consensual acts of violence. Erm no, I won't.

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"Yes, this must definitely be the reason I can't get laid.

Yeah, that and the fact you're just too modest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

Nope not in my opinion. I'm not intimidated by good looking men or women, and I never consider anyone out of my league. I figure if they've got past my epic profile text, liked what they've seen and don't run for the hills after seeing my private pics then I'm good enough for them...and I regularly meet some incredibly hot younger guys.

Confidence is an attractive trait and yet some of the best-looking on here don't think they're all that - and I find it a turn-off when people put themselves down.

The worst anyone can do is say 'no thanks' which is absolutely fine by me. It doesn't dent my ego and I say it enough myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, this must definitely be the reason I can't get laid.

Yeah, that and the fact you're just too modest x

?? go tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with. "

This. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool"

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Regardless of your gender, see this from a victims perspective - what if you were in a position of being forced to do something against your whill and actually feared for your life? Would you laugh and joke about it then?

In another sense - what if you were charged under investigation and court hearings for the counts of rape and sexual assault. It ruins your home life, loss of employment, self worth and you then get put on curfew before it goes to court where you have to go by set court set rules? Would you find it funny then when your life is slowly and systematically destroyed for something you may or may not have done.

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C""

All time low ok mate get over yourself drop me out and keep it moving if you haven't got something positive to add to the thread rather then explain how you and your strong beliefs are so close to godliness

I got a sense of humour and yours is shit so get with the program

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

Some may be good looking but have a personality of a brick."

I can see a few of them on this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention ..

Hot young men are good for the soul I've had plenty of experience with older women and it's lovely to make them happy

Confidence is an attractive trait and yet some of the best-looking on here don't think they're all that - and I find it a turn-off when people put themselves down.

The worst anyone can do is say 'no thanks' which is absolutely fine by me. It doesn't dent my ego and I say it enough myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

I got a sense of humour and yours is shit so get with the program

I've got a very dark sense if humour cheers - but lines are drawn when something like that is thrown as "It's funny to me". What is next?

And I wonder when the next time you'll be posting for an ego boost of why you don't get meets...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

I got a sense of humour and yours is shit so get with the program

I've got a very dark sense if humour cheers - but lines are drawn when something like that is thrown as "It's funny to me". What is next?

And I wonder when the next time you'll be posting for an ego boost of why you don't get meets..."

Fucking hell mate cheer up! Go down the pub get a couple drinks in you or something and ego boost its turning personal

let's just stick to the thread I believe it's a good question to ask I'm around high class low class people everyday and I feel that some of them have there heads so far up there Arse that they believe they are too good for anyone!

I'm just being real about something I see if you can relate then put input and I am sorry if I have offended anyone with my comment about Bill Cosby! But sticks and stones and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are relative

What one person thinks as good looking won't necessarily appeal to another.

I do find however that from talking to a few.male friends.on fab and in life generally that guys can feel intimidated and put off by someone who is accepted as classically beautiful because they assume the competition will be fierce and so back off.

My last lustful fab fling on here was a Johnny Vegas clone and all I can say is WOW! He did it for me big time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks are relative

What one person thinks as good looking won't necessarily appeal to another.

My last lustful fab fling on here was a Johnny Vegas clone and all I can say is WOW! He did it for me big time!"

I love Johnny Vegas

did he come with the same sense of humour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been a problem I have suffered from.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C""

Oh snap!!

But perhaps we shouldn't feed the troll. Because anyone who disagrees is clearly up their own arse and has a sense of humour failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

Oh snap!!

But perhaps we shouldn't feed the troll. Because anyone who disagrees is clearly up their own arse and has a sense of humour failure

I'd love to see somebody like that make an open joke about rape at a social meet or a club and spout the same shite. The response would be far worse...

Reputations whilst throwing stones in glass houses et al... I think a drink is in order...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure it's them being too good looking more likely to be my lack of confidence that would put the barrier up.

So far it's only happened once off here when the guy turned up at the bar, my jaw hit the floor & I proceeded to become a jibbering wreck.

Still I managed to pull myself together, it was tough going but I felt I owed it to myself to give him a go....

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

You're an unpleasant soul. Good luck with the meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

I got a sense of humour and yours is shit so get with the program

I've got a very dark sense if humour cheers - but lines are drawn when something like that is thrown as "It's funny to me". What is next?

And I wonder when the next time you'll be posting for an ego boost of why you don't get meets...

Fucking hell mate cheer up! Go down the pub get a couple drinks in you or something and ego boost its turning personal

I'm just being real about something I see if you can relate then put input and I am sorry if I have offended anyone with my comment about Bill Cosby! But sticks and stones and all that

Sticks and stones may break my bones

But sexual abuse will hurt me.

There are some issues, OP, that should not be made light of. I am sure you understand that.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

Oh snap!!

But perhaps we shouldn't feed the troll. Because anyone who disagrees is clearly up their own arse and has a sense of humour failure

I'd love to see somebody like that make an open joke about rape at a social meet or a club and spout the same shite. The response would be far worse...

Reputations whilst throwing stones in glass houses et al... I think a drink is in order..."

Agreed. Mines a Pimms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits""

I'm more confident with people i think are more on my level though if that makes sense... I suppose when someone works that hard on their body i just find it difficult to understand why they would want to get naked with someone who spends little to no time on theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't so much see men themselves as too good looking as much as I might see the women they have met as too good looking or too many of a same type (which I am not).

I can smell someone lowering themselves to meet me a mile off.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

theres a couple of men on here who make me weak at the knees but id never approach them as they are probably looking for a young hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

Oh snap!!

But perhaps we shouldn't feed the troll. Because anyone who disagrees is clearly up their own arse and has a sense of humour failure

I'd love to see somebody like that make an open joke about rape at a social meet or a club and spout the same shite. The response would be far worse...

Reputations whilst throwing stones in glass houses et al... I think a drink is in order...

Agreed. Mines a Pimms. "

You can hold me to that. Large glass or bottle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure it's them being too good looking more likely to be my lack of confidence that would put the barrier up.

So far it's only happened once off here when the guy turned up at the bar, my jaw hit the floor & I proceeded to become a jibbering wreck.

Still I managed to pull myself together, it was tough going but I felt I owed it to myself to give him a go....

Sounds amazing!

I've been nervous when on a date and I'm out going never shy lol but this one women had me feeling a mess lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"theres a couple of men on here who make me weak at the knees but id never approach them as they are probably looking for a young hottie "

Never say never

if you don't ask you don't get is what I have always been told lol x

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over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

I'm currently sleeping with a woman that has had 3 kids. She looks incredible. She might not see it. But I do.

Have some self belief

Mmmm you grab my attention every time you post...you seem to be a very nice guy!...aswell as hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't so much see men themselves as too good looking as much as I might see the women they have met as too good looking or too many of a same type (which I am not).

I can smell someone lowering themselves to meet me a mile off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid"

I dont have any kids , just an asshole ex boyfriend and an addiciton to dominos haha

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Good looking doesnt mean your a nice person .... and I like nice people

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

have been with a few handsome men in the past but find them way too vain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits"

Fab does remind me sometimes though that not everyone sees you the way you see yourself ... You posted something last week ruby about being bigger and i was like

couldnt believe you thought that because you are someone that stands out on the forums as seriously hot to me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who are good looking that I think don't stand a chance with.

Bill Cosby had a method for fixing that problem loooool

Kash,

You often post things in a self absorbed manner about looks and not getting meets to gain attention and that's fine. You normally get knocked for it by forum users, but today you have hit a new low.

I think this is pretty indecent that you can make jokes about rape. You think it's funny? Let's put you in a situation...

Still laughing???

It's users like you who need to be banned for this kind of shit. Hilarious isn't it???

Eye Spy with my unfunny eye, something beginning with "C"

Oh snap!!

But perhaps we shouldn't feed the troll. Because anyone who disagrees is clearly up their own arse and has a sense of humour failure

I'd love to see somebody like that make an open joke about rape at a social meet or a club and spout the same shite. The response would be far worse...

Reputations whilst throwing stones in glass houses et al... I think a drink is in order..."

Il crack a joke where ever I am marmite mate either love it or hate it

it wasn't exactly something to take to heart when I said it but some people need to relax I do no condone any act of sexual abuse! Towards either males or females but it was a wise crack never the less. Let's move on from

That I did say sorry!

let's be friends LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits"

Fab does remind me sometimes though that not everyone sees you the way you see yourself ... You posted something last week ruby about being bigger and i was like

couldnt believe you thought that because you are someone that stands out on the forums as seriously hot to me x"

Aww thank you, that's lovely of you to say. It's a funny thing though fab, I describe myself as bigger because I am. I don't attract much attention in real life, and I'm the fattest person I know by miles. So if I ever get a hint someone seems like that person who wouldn't give me the time of day in the outside world, then I'm not interested - even if I initially fancied them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Really? Most people don't think like that at all

The lack of confidence would put me off meeting you. Not the "wobbly bits"

Fab does remind me sometimes though that not everyone sees you the way you see yourself ... You posted something last week ruby about being bigger and i was like

couldnt believe you thought that because you are someone that stands out on the forums as seriously hot to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't so much see men themselves as too good looking as much as I might see the women they have met as too good looking or too many of a same type (which I am not).

I can smell someone lowering themselves to meet me a mile off. "

I find this interesting.

This is something I thought I was imagining on here.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

I dont have any kids , just an asshole ex boyfriend and an addiciton to dominos haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't normally pursue someone that I consider out of my league. Though we did used to see a man, who has sadly left the swing scene. He had the face and the body of a Hollywood film star, and was a lot younger than me. I never knew what he saw in me, but he seemed to like me. Nice guy, but ironically he didn't excite me mentally the way other men with more modest looks have done. I guess when you look like that added extras aren't required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but us muscle guys are usually above the league

All about the face and personality for me...don't care about six packs etc

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Had it said to me once in response to a message I sent..

I realised she was right

Well yeah that's what I tell myself when I get the no thanks message.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention .."

Is this your way to say that you aren't getting meets because you are too good looking?

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OP... attraction isn't only skin deep & not many women will find rape jokes attractive.

When do the schools go back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention ..

Is this your way to say that you aren't getting meets because you are too good looking?

MrsSB

No i just think of something that's floating around in my head and put it into a thread.

It passes time and i like to see what others opinions are about these things I'm Gemini I need to know stuff Mrs SB XX

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Well OP... attraction isn't only skin deep & not many women will find rape jokes attractive.

When do the schools go back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in a long term relationship I would feel insecure with punching above my weight so to speak but in FAB life I'm all for going for what I find physically attractive and mentally stimulating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well OP... attraction isn't only skin deep & not many women will find rape jokes attractive.

When do the schools go back?

Well my children go back next week but I guess it's different all over the country and if that was directed at myself as a indirect hint then it's all good

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over a year ago

"I'm not sure it's them being too good looking more likely to be my lack of confidence that would put the barrier up.

So far it's only happened once off here when the guy turned up at the bar, my jaw hit the floor & I proceeded to become a jibbering wreck.

Still I managed to pull myself together, it was tough going but I felt I owed it to myself to give him a go....

Sounds amazing!

I've been nervous when on a date and I'm out going never shy lol but this one women had me feeling a mess lol x"

Honesty, it wasn't that amazing,my fault not his I hasten to add. I was too self conscious & spent the entire time trying to hold my tummy & everything else in & up!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think in a long term relationship I would feel insecure with punching above my weight so to speak but in FAB life I'm all for going for what I find physically attractive and mentally stimulating. "

That's separated two factors.. So long term you would settle for average joe but on here you would try the best of the best if they mentality stimulated you

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over a year ago

"I think in a long term relationship I would feel insecure with punching above my weight so to speak but in FAB life I'm all for going for what I find physically attractive and mentally stimulating.

That's separated two factors.. So long term you would settle for average joe but on here you would try the best of the best if they mentality stimulated you

Not sure about the average Joe long term either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid"

I have definitely found that the beautiful gym bunny boys still like us wobblier ladies....quite alot as it goes...I find once we are both naked and he is still interested that I don't care about my wobbly bits at all...I know I am worth the same as someone that has a prettier body....infact I am more confident once undressed...and more than I ever have been before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think in a long term relationship I would feel insecure with punching above my weight so to speak but in FAB life I'm all for going for what I find physically attractive and mentally stimulating.

That's separated two factors.. So long term you would settle for average joe but on here you would try the best of the best if they mentality stimulated you

Not sure about the average Joe long term either lol"

Looool I would settle for any women who made me laugh everyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

The birthday suit is the best suit of all lol and real women have wobbley bits and everything else it's not all about size 6/8 figures that can't eat a full meal xx

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over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

One of my jobs with the navy is as a physical trainer. One of the things I love on a woman is a bit flesh and meat and curves on a lass! Gym bunnies have no personality what's so ever, all either trying to take the perfect pre/post-workout selfie, or worrying about cards, drinking shakes and other gym related stuff, gimme a curvy lass, wobbly bits an all, any day of the week!

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over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as too good looking? I've seen women refuse to get with good looking men and vice versa because they assume they are players or gonna get too much attention ..

Confidence is an attractive trait and yet some of the best-looking on here don't think they're all that - and I find it a turn-off when people put themselves down.

The worst anyone can do is say 'no thanks' which is absolutely fine by me. It doesn't dent my ego and I say it enough myself

Must say I agree with a lot of what Bella says here!

I've been with a few gorgeous guys on the site! Very occasionally when I message someone I get turned down but so what? - just tell them to have a nice day and forget it!

If you find someone attractive on here it's always worth a try - the worst they can do is turn you down or ignore/delete your message! Xx

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over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

The birthday suit is the best suit of all lol and real women have wobbley bits and everything else it's not all about size 6/8 figures that can't eat a full meal xx"

Unfortunately it takes way too many women way too long to realise this...so many that look amazing that have no clue...and that makes them pretty but very unsexy quite often

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"I dont approach really hot gym guys cause i cant stand the gym and dont want them judging my wobbly body

Same, I feel like I'm being shamed for not being a gym bunny

You two are joking right?!

Alas no.....kids do things to your bodies and when u see a ripped guy u get a bit self Conscious about being nekkid

The birthday suit is the best suit of all lol and real women have wobbley bits and everything else it's not all about size 6/8 figures that can't eat a full meal xx

Unfortunately it takes way too many women way too long to realise this...so many that look amazing that have no clue...and that makes them pretty but very unsexy quite often

Give me a women who likes to eat and laugh any day of the week xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all pretty subjective....

Indeed beauty is in the mind of the beholder...or on a couple of occasions.. beerholder!

I'm far more attracted to those that can stimulate my mind first, then my eyes and ears!

And we all know the "never judge a book by its cover" mantra..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently fabbed a Hot Pics Guy and he fabbed my pics back. I look at him and think "Phwoar" but I wouldn't dare message him because I think he is way out of my league. He has now winked but I daren't wink back. I just wish I were more confident in myself.

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ive made myself come across as really un confident which is not wholly true

... Yes i have insecurities like most but im not a lights off dont look at me kind of girl

I like to think of it as more realistic than no confidence ... I can see what i look like , i dress cleverly to make the best of that , and i dont go for people that i know will make me feel self conscious (Even if they dont mean to do it)

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over a year ago

"I recently fabbed a Hot Pics Guy and he fabbed my pics back. I look at him and think "Phwoar" but I wouldn't dare message him because I think he is way out of my league. He has now winked but I daren't wink back. I just wish I were more confident in myself.

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

Reading stuff like this is mind blowing.

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over a year ago

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

I think this younger guy would most likely jump at the chance of a night with the lady attached to those awesome boobs! Easily give younger girls a run for their money and then some!

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over a year ago

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

Seriously...go for it...you look amazing!! And what have you got to lose! My body is nowhere near as good as yours and it really doesn't matter to anyone I have met as far as I can tell...and 99% of the guys I have seen have been much younger than me...and very good looking too...confidence is hard to come by...but once you have believed it once it gets easier

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

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Hey if a good looking guy messages me (attraction is very important to me) I would definitely message back, as I think well they must be interested in some aspect of me, so why not?

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over a year ago

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

Well he probably thought the same and fabbed the pics because he thought you are hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is also a guy locally who I would so love to meet but I'm not in his age range and, again, I'm not confident to ask him if he would consider "an older lady".

I do live in my own little dream world with fantasies of meeting some of the most desirable guys on here. Dreaming is a form of planning though so maybe, just maybe one day I might surprise myself

I'd suggest go for it too at the end of the day it could be the best night you have ever had

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over a year ago

A long while ago (in what now feels like a galaxy far far away), I received a wink from a ridiculously hot guy. My initial thoughts were that it was either a piss take or a wink in error. After a couple of glasses of wine too many I figured 'what the heck, I'll wink him back. And that is how I stumbled across Number One Chap. I'm still not entirely convinced it wasn't his notoriously fat thumbs making a mistake, but I am chuffed that I took the chance.

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By *ason_silverMan
over a year ago

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beautiful and attractive are not the same thing - I've seen many people who have what would be considered the best face / body - but behind the eyes you see a spoilt little brat so used to getting their own way that they stopped even trying to make themselves a better person and focused purely on how they look to continue the facade.

They are a different league... but not necessarily one I want to join.

give me a happy fun lover any day.

You find yourself singing to yourself as you do your shopping - and the people around you start smiling and joining in - that's REAL beauty (or a moment of insanity - take your pick)

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over a year ago

"A long while ago (in what now feels like a galaxy far far away), I received a wink from a ridiculously hot guy. My initial thoughts were that it was either a piss take or a wink in error. After a couple of glasses of wine too many I figured 'what the heck, I'll wink him back. And that is how I stumbled across Number One Chap. I'm still not entirely convinced it wasn't his notoriously fat thumbs making a mistake, but I am chuffed that I took the chance. "
You definitely deserve a wink

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Had my confidence boosted massively here...but I don't think I'm anywhere near good looking

I'll thank filters for the half decent pics on here

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

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"Had my confidence boosted massively here...but I don't think I'm anywhere near good looking

I'll thank filters for the half decent pics on here

You are stunning. Fact. Even as a blonde

MrsSB

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over a year ago

"Even as a blonde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as too good looking as far as I'm concerned as I'm more interested in "unconventional" beauty.

Mrs x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Had my confidence boosted massively here...but I don't think I'm anywhere near good looking

I'll thank filters for the half decent pics on here

You are stunning. Fact. Even as a blonde

MrsSB

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over a year ago

"Had my confidence boosted massively here...but I don't think I'm anywhere near good looking

I'll thank filters for the half decent pics on here

You are stunning. Fact. Even as a blonde

MrsSB

You're stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I wish I could fall into that category!

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

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I (Mrs) usually get very good feedback on my face Picts... I scrub up well!

But while I might be put off in 'real life' if a guy is really hot..(good looking = off with someone younger, prettier etc) . It's totally different on here. I'd be a lot bolder in terms of good looks even though I'd be well aware I'd be 'punching' xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys really are lovely and thanks so much for the advice.

I'm going to try to be more proactive as sitting and waiting for things to happen will drive me crazy.

I'm glad I discovered the Forums, as lots of great advice is given and the sarcasm has me in stitches.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"You guys really are lovely and thanks so much for the advice.

I'm going to try to be more proactive as sitting and waiting for things to happen will drive me crazy.

I'm glad I discovered the Forums, as lots of great advice is given and the sarcasm has me in stitches.

To try and think of an appropriate analogy for women.

Imagine going to a very large shoe shop and browsing and trying on in your own time.

Or having a thousand shoe salesmen knocking on your door.

Girls if you want the good stuff you've got to become the huntress and start messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people stay on the perv list because I'd happily look at them all day long but I know that I wouldn't stand a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is depressing when women like dana200 and rubywoo (who i would never approach as theyre so far out of my league theyre playing different sports) are talking about men being out of theirs it shows me how low on the totam pole i am

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

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I get the 'you're too good looking' thing a lot from the chicks.

If only they could see just how terrible I am on the inside.

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over a year ago

"This thread is depressing when women like dana200 and rubywoo (who i would never approach as theyre so far out of my league theyre playing different sports) are talking about men being out of theirs it shows me how low on the totam pole i am

Mr "

I think the leagues are more intertwined to people's preferences.

One girls prosecco is another girls poison.

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over a year ago

I think the leagues are more intertwined to people's preferences.

One girls prosecco is another girls poison. "

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