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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you have found the one but that one isn't the one that wants one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have two then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the one doesn't want one they're not the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the one"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the one

This "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the one"
but I still want that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the one, he didn't want to be the one, another wanted to be the one, he wasn't the one, the one I found first now wants to be the one. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the onebut I still want that one"

I hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the onebut I still want that one

I hope it works out for you "
thank you Lady T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in 'the one'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in 'the one'. "

Me neither.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I do not believe in "the one". I have never been under the impression that I can be everything to another human being, nor them to me.

I have a wonderful wife of 18 years, and we continue to explore swinging and non-monogamy together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the onebut I still want that one"

Then you're wanting THAT one, not THE one

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just have a wank

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"When you have found the one but that one isn't the one that wants one "

It sucks but that's life.

There will be other ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the onebut I still want that one

Then you're wanting THAT one, not THE one "
that one would be good

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do not believe in "the one". I have never been under the impression that I can be everything to another human being, nor them to me.

I have a wonderful wife of 18 years, and we continue to explore swinging and non-monogamy together. "

Same here.

At the moment I don't even believe in there being a one I want a long term relationship with (and who wants the same with me, obviously).

I shall wander towards old age growing dusty and cobweb-y on my shelf, with my cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure another ONE will come along.....they're a bit like busses, none then 3 at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure another ONE will come along.....they're a bit like busses, none then 3 at once"

Three at once sounds fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in 'the one'.

Me neither."

That's because you've never met the "One". Once you do, you'll realise how amazing finding and being with the "One" actually is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in 'the one'.

Me neither.

That's because you've never met the "One". Once you do, you'll realise how amazing finding and being with the "One" actually is "

And what happens if your 'one' dies young? Or you die, leaving your 'one' all alone? I just can't believe that you wouldn't find love again. There are over 7 billion people on this planet. Do you truly believe you're really only compatible with one of them?

And I say this as someone who has found someone I can connect with on a level I've never experienced before, I love him like I've never loved any partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in 'the one'.

Me neither.

That's because you've never met the "One". Once you do, you'll realise how amazing finding and being with the "One" actually is "

You're right, I haven't met "the One" because "the One" is a naive, immature and overromanticised concept. Instead I have met, and am married to, a man I want to spend the whole of my life with and be little old people together one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found 'the one' although actually he found me

Luckily we both love this lifestyle too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the one doesn't want one they're not the one"

unless you use chloroform.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I prefer 21 such a better number than just a lonely 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, found a few lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it happens all the time, but not sure I could have one as it woulnt work as bodybuilding comes first, unless they were into it as well

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I currently have 'the three'. Each lady brings something different to my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a swinger so one and only one would never be enough and I have four each brings something different into the roles we play and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe in the one. I believe in several

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Find another 'one'....

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I met the One and we were happily married for 12 years, now divorced but best friends for life

From now on it's just filth and fun and living in the moment which I must admit is next best thing to being with the One

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they are not the one... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then they are not the one... Simples "

This one..

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I think you'll find its only pronounced one..

It's actually spelled Juan..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then they are not the one... Simples "

Sometimes being the one, doesn't always mean you'll spend the rest of your life together.

Sometimes it might be that person changes you, into a better person, or changes your life for the better immeasurably.

That no matter who you end up with after, they will never have such a profound effect on your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is never a "one" I adore Paul and we are happy together but I have been married before, at the time I thought that person was the "one". To me the "one" is inline with monogamy, which I also don't believe it. I love Paul. Have I loved other yes. Have i lusted after other.. Hell yes! Luckily paul is on the same stance as me, we see our future together but like enjoying it with others too

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport


"There is never a "one" I adore Paul and we are happy together but I have been married before, at the time I thought that person was the "one". To me the "one" is inline with monogamy, which I also don't believe it. I love Paul. Have I loved other yes. Have i lusted after other.. Hell yes! Luckily paul is on the same stance as me, we see our future together but like enjoying it with others too "

Having met you two I'd have to say I think Paul is certainly the one for you. It's an undeniable chemistry and the love oozes from you both. Soppy for fab but it's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is never a "one" I adore Paul and we are happy together but I have been married before, at the time I thought that person was the "one". To me the "one" is inline with monogamy, which I also don't believe it. I love Paul. Have I loved other yes. Have i lusted after other.. Hell yes! Luckily paul is on the same stance as me, we see our future together but like enjoying it with others too

Having met you two I'd have to say I think Paul is certainly the one for you. It's an undeniable chemistry and the love oozes from you both. Soppy for fab but it's true

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Awe thanks babe

As you know more than anyone I do adore him, even if I walk all over him a little. . I do feel incredibly lucky to have met him. I maybe don't believe in the "one" but he's as close as it gets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then they are not the one... Simples

Sometimes being the one, doesn't always mean you'll spend the rest of your life together.

Sometimes it might be that person changes you, into a better person, or changes your life for the better immeasurably.

That no matter who you end up with after, they will never have such a profound effect on your life. "

There are a few of those I've had in my life... But to me they are not the one, or else I'd still be with them. I see the one as your ultimate soul mate. If you find that, no other can take their place, but I believe the ultimate soul mate feels the same about you. It's not a one way system. Cheesy, but that's my belief

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