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"It isn't aggressive to know what you want and clearly state it." Maybe it is just the way they are written, have no problem with people saying what they want, but say it in a nice way  | |||
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"Even if I meet every angrily written criteria, I'm not going there. If their profile makes them sound like an aggressive cunt, they're probably going to be an aggressive cunt in person too. " haha I'm a fan of your banter! | |||
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"Every once in a while I think I should get SHOUTY on my profile and then I remember it really won't make any difference. I only get a few messages anyway. There are some male profiles that get a little ranty but I just ignore them. " Grrr!  Lickety grrr *-
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"Every once in a while I think I should get SHOUTY on my profile and then I remember it really won't make any difference. I only get a few messages anyway. There are some male profiles that get a little ranty but I just ignore them. Grrr! Lickety grrr *-
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"Not really into ticking boxes so no, the connection wouldn't be there for me." Even if it says cunt a few times just for effect? | |||
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"I never read profiles. I just look at the pretty pictures and save time "I just look at the cocks | |||
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"Not really into ticking boxes so no, the connection wouldn't be there for me. Even if it says cunt a few times just for effect? " I need to hunt down these profiles | |||
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"Not really into ticking boxes so no, the connection wouldn't be there for me. Even if it says cunt a few times just for effect?
I need to hunt down these profiles "I'm very tempted..... | |||
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"Not really into ticking boxes so no, the connection wouldn't be there for me. Even if it says cunt a few times just for effect?
I need to hunt down these profiles "There are plenty out there | |||
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"I never read profiles. I just look at the pretty pictures and save time "haha I'm the same once you have read one, you have read them all. Just make sure your first message is robust. Subject line :- hi Message:- this is me Insert cock pic fancy a fuck ? | |||
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"I (mrs) has just updated ours today with a ranty beginning. We tried the nice approach and attracted a tonne of dick heads and arse holes who thought that not bothering to read a profile that someone has taken the time to write or people arguing with us as to whether they were too far for us to meet or not was ok. So thought I'd take a different approach.
Don't like to but sometimes you gotta be assertive "I'd be interested to hear whether it actually makes a difference. Aren't you concerned you might put off the nice people who have a bit of self respect, but the dick heads and arseholes who didn't read it before still aren't going to read it now? | |||
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"I (mrs) has just updated ours today with a ranty beginning. We tried the nice approach and attracted a tonne of dick heads and arse holes who thought that not bothering to read a profile that someone has taken the time to write or people arguing with us as to whether they were too far for us to meet or not was ok. So thought I'd take a different approach.
Don't like to but sometimes you gotta be assertive "It is certainly assertive... | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" Maybe they so it to make sure that the wrong type don't bother? We have had people who challenge our choices and we find it rather rude. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? Maybe they so it to make sure that the wrong type don't bother? We have had people who challenge our choices and we find it rather rude." Exactly this. This is the reason I've edited the profile. I also think if they haven't met us and are challenging our choices then what else won't they accept when it comes to meeting?? | |||
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"Sometimes their bark is worse than their bite and behind a list of negatives lies a warm and sensitive bastard. "Unlikely and i can't be arsed to find out | |||
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"I (mrs) has just updated ours today with a ranty beginning. We tried the nice approach and attracted a tonne of dick heads and arse holes who thought that not bothering to read a profile that someone has taken the time to write or people arguing with us as to whether they were too far for us to meet or not was ok. So thought I'd take a different approach.
Don't like to but sometimes you gotta be assertive
It is certainly assertive..."As long as your profile attracts the type of people you want it to then that is just fine. Being honest, in our case the type that we don't want to attract are the type we are hoping will walk right past. But sometimes they see it as a challenge. It isn't a challenge. It is just simply our choices. | |||
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"Sometimes their bark is worse than their bite and behind a list of negatives lies a warm and sensitive bastard. "Maybe but I think there's a bit of a super-ego trip being had by said profiles. Some folk do like a challenge though, I couldn't be bothered much | |||
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"I (mrs) has just updated ours today with a ranty beginning. We tried the nice approach and attracted a tonne of dick heads and arse holes who thought that not bothering to read a profile that someone has taken the time to write or people arguing with us as to whether they were too far for us to meet or not was ok. So thought I'd take a different approach.
Don't like to but sometimes you gotta be assertive
I'd be interested to hear whether it actually makes a difference. Aren't you concerned you might put off the nice people who have a bit of self respect, but the dick heads and arseholes who didn't read it before still aren't going to read it now?"They just won't get a reply now. We used to respond to Every single message. At least now our profile will tell them why they haven't had a response. As for putting off people that have self respect.....I don't think so. I think that shows we have respect for ourselves, know what we want and are not afraid to say it x | |||
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"I (mrs) has just updated ours today with a ranty beginning. We tried the nice approach and attracted a tonne of dick heads and arse holes who thought that not bothering to read a profile that someone has taken the time to write or people arguing with us as to whether they were too far for us to meet or not was ok. So thought I'd take a different approach.
Don't like to but sometimes you gotta be assertive
It is certainly assertive..." | |||
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"I did consider doing the bullet point thing just to make it a bit easier for people (mainly guys) to take in but I didn't think know it would one across very well so I stuck with the long winded approach. Like Rubywoo says I don't think it would make an ounce of difference but would probably stop the kind of people I'm looking for from contacting me. Can't bloody win can ya??
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"I did consider doing the bullet point thing just to make it a bit easier for people (mainly guys) to take in but I didn't think know it would one across very well so I stuck with the long winded approach. Like Rubywoo says I don't think it would make an ounce of difference but would probably stop the kind of people I'm looking for from contacting me. Can't bloody win can ya??
"That's kind of where I come from, it is easy enough using your filters to stop unwanted attention without a list of everything that pisses you off. Can't help feeling it might stop nice folks from saying hello. | |||
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"Sometimes their bark is worse than their bite and behind a list of negatives lies a warm and sensitive bastard. "They're just misunderstood? | |||
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"Sometimes their bark is worse than their bite and behind a list of negatives lies a warm and sensitive bastard.
Maybe but I think there's a bit of a super-ego trip being had by said profiles. Some folk do like a challenge though, I couldn't be bothered much "I don't think so. Maybe in a few cases but I think people are just sick of the same questions by the same type of person all doing the same thing.....wasting time.  | |||
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"Most people wouldn't know an aggressive profile if it slapped them across the face... Cos no fucker ever reads them! Hummm, That feels much better. " | |||
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"I did consider doing the bullet point thing just to make it a bit easier for people (mainly guys) to take in but I didn't think know it would one across very well so I stuck with the long winded approach. Like Rubywoo says I don't think it would make an ounce of difference but would probably stop the kind of people I'm looking for from contacting me. Can't bloody win can ya??
That's kind of where I come from, it is easy enough using your filters to stop unwanted attention without a list of everything that pisses you off. Can't help feeling it might stop nice folks from saying hello."The thing is if the profile clearly states certain types, then what is the need for filters? If people choose contact from certain types of folk, nice doesn't come into it. Decent folk will respect the choices in profiles and not harass people with unwanted and uninvited contact. Again our opinion. | |||
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"I did consider doing the bullet point thing just to make it a bit easier for people (mainly guys) to take in but I didn't think know it would one across very well so I stuck with the long winded approach. Like Rubywoo says I don't think it would make an ounce of difference but would probably stop the kind of people I'm looking for from contacting me. Can't bloody win can ya??
That's kind of where I come from, it is easy enough using your filters to stop unwanted attention without a list of everything that pisses you off. Can't help feeling it might stop nice folks from saying hello.
The thing is if the profile clearly states certain types, then what is the need for filters? If people choose contact from certain types of folk, nice doesn't come into it.
Decent folk will respect the choices in profiles and not harass people with unwanted and uninvited contact.
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"These people just need a bit of a hug to help with their insecurities. I'd never fuck them though. That's a bad hangover waiting to happen." We all know hugging leads to fucking. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective. | |||
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"These people just need a bit of a hug to help with their insecurities. I'd never fuck them though. That's a bad hangover waiting to happen. We all know hugging leads to fucking. "Lol | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective." Good point, I tend not to get beyond point one before thinking I can,t be bothered. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective. Good point, I tend not to get beyond point one before thinking I can,t be bothered." Exactly....I'm usually not hot enough | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective. Good point, I tend not to get beyond point one before thinking I can,t be bothered. Exactly....I'm usually not hot enough" That's my thinking. If they state they're looking for fit, attractive, exceptional etc. women I move onto someone else since that's not me. Well, not generically anyway. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective. Good point, I tend not to get beyond point one before thinking I can,t be bothered. Exactly....I'm usually not hot enough" You and me both... | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply "We've had our share of 'let me cum and fuck that slut cunt' or similar as an opening message. So given that I think my rant is justified and I fully understand others rants. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? I generally find I fit into one or two of the don'ts so move on without contact. So in that sense they are effective. Good point, I tend not to get beyond point one before thinking I can,t be bothered. Exactly....I'm usually not hot enough That's my thinking. If they state they're looking for fit, attractive, exceptional etc. women I move onto someone else since that's not me. Well, not generically anyway." If they have a list of what they find physically appealing we move in....We never fit them. | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply "I get the same messages with a longer, well thought out profile, this 'meh' profile, a ranty one and the one that basically said, Will fill in later. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" there are loads of other people to meet on here so tend to avoid the demanding type profiles really. | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply
I get the same messages with a longer, well thought out profile, this 'meh' profile, a ranty one and the one that basically said, Will fill in later."Probably proves many people don't read profiles too carefully! | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply
We've had our share of 'let me cum and fuck that slut cunt' or similar as an opening message.
So given that I think my rant is justified and I fully understand others rants. "Urgh that's disgusting. Unfortunately we've probably all been subjected to similar nastiness on here. | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply
I get the same messages with a longer, well thought out profile, this 'meh' profile, a ranty one and the one that basically said, Will fill in later."I do like your "Junk Mail" headline | |||
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"The amusing thing is i have nothing on my profile.....and i don't suffer any of the angst that others do. Filters is the way forward and proper management of your profile. Not rants. Just my opinion." I guess that I people (couples and single females) are looking for single males than a fairly prescriptive profile might be helpful? | |||
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"The amusing thing is i have nothing on my profile.....and i don't suffer any of the angst that others do. Filters is the way forward and proper management of your profile. Not rants. Just my opinion. I guess that I people (couples and single females) are looking for single males than a fairly prescriptive profile might be helpful?" I say all i need to say | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" No I wouldn't, seen one particular profile I'm surprised the couple themselves even meet each other! | |||
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"Most of the shouty, ultra demanding or narcissistic profiles I've seen have been women or couples profiles. They seem to demand near perfection and offer little in return. Having said that, of course, it's entirely up to the guys whether they choose to jump through an assault course of hoops to get the 'prize' at the end! " No perfection required here Just a bit of respect and manners.
I am quite particular but I don't have a specific type so we will chat to anyone that takes the time to be friendly and not pushy...cos...well...who knows? | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother? No I wouldn't, seen one particular profile I'm surprised the couple themselves even meet each other!"  | |||
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"Most of the shouty, ultra demanding or narcissistic profiles I've seen have been women or couples profiles. They seem to demand near perfection and offer little in return. Having said that, of course, it's entirely up to the guys whether they choose to jump through an assault course of hoops to get the 'prize' at the end! No perfection required here Just a bit of respect and manners.
I am quite particular but I don't have a specific type so we will chat to anyone that takes the time to be friendly and not pushy...cos...well...who knows? "We are with you. Respect and manners are all that is needed. It is so funny how they all expect it back even after uninvited and often rude comments. | |||
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"It's definitely a fine balance between being assertive and being rude. It does get frustrating when people message you without bothering to read your profile, the get arsey when you don't reply
I get the same messages with a longer, well thought out profile, this 'meh' profile, a ranty one and the one that basically said, Will fill in later.
I do like your "Junk Mail" headline "Thank you. Sadly, very few get the pun. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" Personally wouldn't bother we don't want to be working that hard to meet people's demands as this is meant to be fun after all !! | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge." | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge. "We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever. All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices. Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi. | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. " Thank God i never meet from the forum | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi."Would it not be easier to block single guys and write a positive profile that would appeal to the people you do want to meet? | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi."LMAO but bothered enough to be bother to post here. Busted. | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi.
Would it not be easier to block single guys and write a positive profile that would appeal to the people you do want to meet?"Our profile appeals just fine to the people we want to meet. And being honest we have been on here long enough to know what kind of profile appeals to the type we want to speak to. We hate to repeat, but why would we need to apply filters? Our _iew is quite simple. If we say we are not interested don't bother us. Do we now live in a world where people just cannot respect others? | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum "Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is ) | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi.
LMAO but bothered enough to be bother to post here.
Busted. "Busted in what?? Our comments have brought some amusing comments out from single guys. Hopefully more of them will read our comments and leave us alone! They never seem to read our profile though... | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi."Yours isn't aggressive at all, it clearly sets out your likes / dislikes | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge." Suppose this is the 10-1 ratio working in reverse, men can't afford to be aggressive or selectively picky | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge.
We don't think ours is overly aggressive however we aren't bothered about what others think whatsoever.
All we expect is people read them, and respect our choices.
Similar people to ourselves will understand why our profiles have to be the way they are, and come by and say hi.
Yours isn't aggressive at all, it clearly sets out your likes / dislikes "Thank you!! You will surprised just how many people ignore it though! Manners mean nothing on here it seems. | |||
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"You don't find many 'aggressive profiles' when you're looking for men, thank fuck. I assume women / couples have them because others pander to them. I would _iew them as hard work not a challenge. Suppose this is the 10-1 ratio working in reverse, men can't afford to be aggressive or selectively picky "Very sensible comment Doc | |||
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"All the clever boys no the sketch. 1. Check pictures like/dislike 2. Fab a couple of them 3. Flick to end of profile (scan for subject line words) 4 small message don't mention sex 5. Add face pic. 6.should you get reply back, then read profile. flawless "Hold on I'm just going to write that down | |||
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"All the clever boys no the sketch. 1. Check pictures like/dislike 2. Fab a couple of them 3. Flick to end of profile (scan for subject line words) 4 small message don't mention sex 5. Add face pic. 6.should you get reply back, then read profile. flawless "Sounds pretty much standard text book for most fellas. | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is ) "Childish behaviour. Block them back | |||
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"I did consider doing the bullet point thing just to make it a bit easier for people (mainly guys) to take in but I didn't think know it would one across very well so I stuck with the long winded approach. Like Rubywoo says I don't think it would make an ounce of difference but would probably stop the kind of people I'm looking for from contacting me. Can't bloody win can ya??
"You just gotta find out which ones are the nice ones i always read the profile still nice as i can be no one still wants me i say to people hello how are you can i see a picture of you if they have silhouette it gets deleted I'm like okay then lol | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is ) "Oh yeah. All part and parcel. They see a disagreement as a personal vendetta. Whatever. I couldn't care less. | |||
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"You know the ones, that have the list of do's & dont's etc, do you see them as a challenge or just think not worth the bother?" Not worth it | |||
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Childish behaviour. Block them back "I find them amusing and can see them on here anyway (they are so self righteous) so no point. Just childish | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is ) "It's a tad bizarre as it doesn't stop the interaction on here. I tend to ramp it up if I know I've been blocked as as result of posting, childish but amusing at the same time | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is )
It's a tad bizarre as it doesn't stop the interaction on here. I tend to ramp it up if I know I've been blocked as as result of posting, childish but amusing at the same time "I'm not clever enough for that  I shall watch and learn. I'm quite slow on the uptake sometimes | |||
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is )
It's a tad bizarre as it doesn't stop the interaction on here. I tend to ramp it up if I know I've been blocked as as result of posting, childish but amusing at the same time "I don't post on threads started by those that I know have blocked me and I don't reply to their posts. I've stopped clicking on profiles now in case I discover I have been blocked. | |||
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"Even if I meet every angrily written criteria, I'm not going there. If their profile makes them sound like an aggressive cunt, they're probably going to be an aggressive cunt in person too. "
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"I almost never read profiles. I get a picture of someone from their username, photos and how they post in here. Thank God i never meet from the forum
Same ,, certain people also get a bit touchy if you have a disagreement on here with someone they fancy or chat with off the forums so block you. (In my personal experience that is )
It's a tad bizarre as it doesn't stop the interaction on here. I tend to ramp it up if I know I've been blocked as as result of posting, childish but amusing at the same time
I don't post on threads started by those that I know have blocked me and I don't reply to their posts. I've stopped clicking on profiles now in case I discover I have been blocked. "Bit random but you have a beautiful mouth and teeth by the way | |||
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"The amusing thing is i have nothing on my profile.....and i don't suffer any of the angst that others do. Filters is the way forward and proper management of your profile. Not rants. Just my opinion."
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. I like to ensure clarity | |||
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"Well reading all the ranty egotistical post's on various thread's, is it surprising that there are so many ranty egotistical profiles. I honestly think that some people would only be happy to meet themselves! " | |||
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"Mines a bit mardy...only because im pissed off that people message me who clearly havent bothered reading even a smidge of it...i know its long winded but hey ho " me too. | |||
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"Even if I meet every angrily written criteria, I'm not going there. If their profile makes them sound like an aggressive cunt, they're probably going to be an aggressive cunt in person too. " Well said Madam !!! This hasn't been said enough . Manners cost nothing . I have been treated like shit off singles and couples.... BUT I will not make the next person pay for the last one's crimes . But to have a profile that just screams " Fuck off I hate you all and hope you die !!! "...isn't a turn on , cannot be justified and quite frankly comes across as actually enjoying being nasty because they can . " Preferences " isn't a get out of jail free card to excuse a nasty attitude . Oh and don't forget to end your angry profile with " looking for fun " because you really do sound like a barrel of laughs . ( Cue response saying my rant makes me the same....."Yawn " ) | |||
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"I never read profiles. I just look at the pretty pictures and save time
I just look at the cocks ". No cocks in my pics ,..maybe thats where im going wrong ,.... Or right maybe ? | |||
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"Can't say we give a fuck if people get turned off by our profile, we still get enough messages" Well said. Likewise for us. | |||
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"Even if I meet every angrily written criteria, I'm not going there. If their profile makes them sound like an aggressive cunt, they're probably going to be an aggressive cunt in person too. Well said Madam !!! This hasn't been said enough . Manners cost nothing . I have been treated like shit off singles and couples.... BUT I will not make the next person pay for the last one's crimes . But to have a profile that just screams " Fuck off I hate you all and hope you die !!! "...isn't a turn on , cannot be justified and quite frankly comes across as actually enjoying being nasty because they can . " Preferences " isn't a get out of jail free card to excuse a nasty attitude . Oh and don't forget to end your angry profile with " looking for fun " because you really do sound like a barrel of laughs . ( Cue response saying my rant makes me the same....."Yawn " ) " | |||
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"I tried a ranty profile within a few weeks of being here first time around. It worked to a degree. Then I read a forum post about how it can come across to guys and that Fab's really a two way street. So I've played around with various profile write ups over time, but mostly I go for humour and a tiny bit of sexiness. I skim read messages and don't reply to every one so that's my filter really. I wouldn't want to miss out on an awesome guy because I came across as a stuck up grumpy cow. Or something like that." | |||
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