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By *andiceCool OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldham

What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The block and report button is your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report and block them."
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block.

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Report and block them."

This. Report the hell out of them. Don't take it personally, they are over privileged dick wads. I have "not looking to meet" on my profile to deter these a-holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report and block.

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Report block and laugh at the sad loser have a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report and block them.

This. Report the hell out of them. Don't take it personally, they are over privileged dick wads. I have "not looking to meet" on my profile to deter these a-holes"

If you delete everything ('men') off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and greatly reduces mail.

Mail filters work great too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accepting rejection is part and parcel of being on this site. I don't understand people who get abusive and nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report and block them.

This. Report the hell out of them. Don't take it personally, they are over privileged dick wads. I have "not looking to meet" on my profile to deter these a-holes

If you delete everything ('men') off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and greatly reduces mail.

Mail filters work great too. x"
The gems turn up when you least expect it though that's why we don't block

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By *andiceCool OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldham

I had to unblock him to report him and couldn't help laughing at his latest status..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Job done then, nothing to see here now folks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why react, it gives them what they seek

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

It's not just guys either that are abusive.

Personally we don't bother with block or report. We just let abusive people cause there own misery. They don't have any effect on our lives, so we just completely ignore abusive messages.

Saying that though we have only ever received one abusive message. And that was last year. Just ignore them, it's their time they are wasting xxxxxx Suzi

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

I say this in every post on this topic he's one of life's losers how do I know this .

well a successful person understands he was successful yesterday and will be again tomorrow. so a small set back today is nothing in the grand scheme of things because he knows from experience todays set back will be tomorrows success story ,

to such guy a rejection on a site like this means nothing because he knows he was successful yesterday and will be again soon enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report and block them.

This. Report the hell out of them. Don't take it personally, they are over privileged dick wads. I have "not looking to meet" on my profile to deter these a-holes

If you delete everything ('men') off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and greatly reduces mail.

Mail filters work great too. xThe gems turn up when you least expect it though that's why we don't block "

I don't block either. I just innocently scare the crap out of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Some people just can't handle rejection! And jeez if you are a skank and ugly slut then I really need to up my game. You are stunning! Pity the sad fuckers hun . It says more about their sad little lives than it does about you.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Why react, it gives them what they seek"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Were you "a skank and an ugly slut" before you said you didn't want to meet him?

No? I didn't think so.

Block.

Move on.

Next.

Maybe reset your filters and go hunting for your own pray....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Women are the same,not just guys

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

Women are the same,not just guys"

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I especially love the one or two guys who send abusive messages from their second, or even third account/s after being blocked......

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

To be fair, some women struggle with rejection too.

Not that it makes it right for someone to be abusive. Report and block.

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Use the block button and it is there tough luck

Xx

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I especially love the one or two guys who send abusive messages from their second, or even third account/s after being blocked...... "

Wonder if they message each other for the shiny new message awaiting moment I couldn't be doing with the admin of alter-profiles.

OP you should block and report and not take it to heart. Sounds like you hadn't even ruled them out, just that you couldn't today, so in the long run if that's who they have shown themselves to be, you win i say.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Abuse can come from all genders... I've one person on my block list a lady she was very special.

Report block move on, the anonymity the digital world provides gives some folk an opportunity to be abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

Women are the same,not just guys

Really?"

Obviously we don't get the volume of abuse but I've had a few where I've replied sorry not my type/not what I'm looking for and got abuse back can't say it bothered me just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only abusive to people I like.

You fucking cock monkey.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!"

Horrible man... Unfortunately, that's what some guys on here think of us girls.

I've had some messages like 'looking for a slut are you free to meet?'. Hmmn

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

Horrible man... Unfortunately, that's what some guys on here think of us girls.

I've had some messages like 'looking for a slut are you free to meet?'. Hmmn "

How on earth could you refuse such an offer haha

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

Horrible man... Unfortunately, that's what some guys on here think of us girls.

I've had some messages like 'looking for a slut are you free to meet?'. Hmmn

How on earth could you refuse such an offer haha "

Dunno really

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm only abusive to people I like.

You fucking cock monkey."

I can assure you I am most certainly not a monkey

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"I'm only abusive to people I like.

You fucking cock monkey.

I can assure you I am most certainly not a monkey "

Cheeky monkey Suzi xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with guys and rejection?. So i don't want to meet him tonight i get called a skank and an ugly slut. Jesussss. Get a grip!!!

Women are the same,not just guys

Really?"

Is that so hard to believe...

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Report and block them."

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