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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it really difficult to find, it's harder than you think (no pun intended)

Anyone else looking? Post on here and maybe someone will find what they're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all are... Aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a FWB I can lend out! Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My search has started now the Schools will soon be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you see one let me know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but

I still haven't found what I'm looking for

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_ISAntOom0

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've made no secret that I would like a lady to be a more permanent feature in my life, if there s a lazily looking for a guy in the Yorkshire area and you think we might get on please get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me yes.. But being near Newcastle, I've got more chance of finding a unicorn!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Us too..

S

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes.....always

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Fwb at the very least

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We do.

MrsSB

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

[Removed by poster at 27/08/16 18:51:05]

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Me, I'd like a fwb.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me I'm looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer. "

I've been looking for 4 years on and off. You have to sift alot of shit on this site, however if your standards are low then as the poster above has said you will be 'snapped up straight away'. Personally I'd rather have a wank than spend 5 minutes in the company of some of the people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly mine moved away last yr for a new job and finding a replacement has been hard work

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Fwb at the very least"

This for is too tbh, unlikely to find one by just jumping in though an may never find one..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we are it's just hard to find people willing and wanting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a whisper... Sigh..

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yup. Gender unimportant.

Ideally one that doesn't see me as a kinky vending machine

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Apply within

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I never looked for a Fwb but have had friends on here that I saw in a regular basis. It's not something you can actively seek I don't think. They just sort of happen after a few meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it really difficult to find, it's harder than you think (no pun intended)

Anyone else looking? Post on here and maybe someone will find what they're looking for? "

Yes! Have to be local or nearby though. I'm not travelling miles for regular sex.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I'm still looking for a fb it's finding the one that ticks all the boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me me me please!

It really is harder than I thought

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes I'd like one or too. I have friends on here but I want more regularity.

I like men and this would be the best way to get only the good bits of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer.

I've been looking for 4 years on and off. You have to sift alot of shit on this site, however if your standards are low then as the poster above has said you will be 'snapped up straight away'. Personally I'd rather have a wank than spend 5 minutes in the company of some of the people on here."

Agree

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Me me me please!

It really is harder than I thought

"

I agree. I met one relatively early on but then got rid of him after 18 months and nothing as regular since.

I did have another but then he got loved up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kinky FWB would be good. More than that would be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer.

I've been looking for 4 years on and off. You have to sift alot of shit on this site, however if your standards are low then as the poster above has said you will be 'snapped up straight away'. Personally I'd rather have a wank than spend 5 minutes in the company of some of the people on here.

Agree "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

o/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either "

All of a sudden I wish I lived in Heckmondwike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?"

Not as many times a kiss fuck or avoid it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?"

As many times as people want to discuss it. Don't want to discuss it? Don't read the thread.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Ideally I'd like one

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

As many times as people want to discuss it. Don't want to discuss it? Don't read the thread."

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

As many times as people want to discuss it. Don't want to discuss it? Don't read the thread."

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Me too - it's surprisingly hard to find one.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?"

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'd still love to find another local fb or fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either "

No. We aren't all looking for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight? "

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd love an fwb - but most on here seem to think the next fuck is always the best fuck - however mind-blowing a time you both had - so I can't see it happening!

Just joined a dating site and hoping to find someone very sexually adventurous on there!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'll throw my hat in for this one

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?"

If you don't like it don't read it. Or are you a conversation killjoy in real life too?

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By *ubcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

left site


"Yes I'd like one or too. I have friends on here but I want more regularity.

I like men and this would be the best way to get only the good bits of them "

Define "good bits"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either "

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?

If you don't like it don't read it. Or are you a conversation killjoy in real life too?"

Do you keep going over the same conversations in real life then?

The point I was trying to make, which I did on previous similar thread, was everybody says that's what we want but we don't "get together" and make it happen we just moan and say there's nobody out there, is that okay?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?

If you don't like it don't read it. Or are you a conversation killjoy in real life too?

Do you keep going over the same conversations in real life then?

The point I was trying to make, which I did on previous similar thread, was everybody says that's what we want but we don't "get together" and make it happen we just moan and say there's nobody out there, is that okay?"

The point is new people join everyday so it may not be the same old ground.

Like I say of you're not interested go to another thread. Then you don't have to repeat yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?

If you don't like it don't read it. Or are you a conversation killjoy in real life too?

Do you keep going over the same conversations in real life then?

The point I was trying to make, which I did on previous similar thread, was everybody says that's what we want but we don't "get together" and make it happen we just moan and say there's nobody out there, is that okay?

The point is new people join everyday so it may not be the same old ground.

Like I say of you're not interested go to another thread. Then you don't have to repeat yourself. "

Okay, I get the point, good luck in your search by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes "

So would a "regular meet" not class a friend with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? As opposed to a one night stand?? I'm confused now

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"This old chestnut again?....how many effing times?

Who's pissed on your chips tonight?

Bit of honest never hurt anybody, well not in the real world or are we supposed to be sheep on here?

If you don't like it don't read it. Or are you a conversation killjoy in real life too?

Do you keep going over the same conversations in real life then?

The point I was trying to make, which I did on previous similar thread, was everybody says that's what we want but we don't "get together" and make it happen we just moan and say there's nobody out there, is that okay?

The point is new people join everyday so it may not be the same old ground.

Like I say of you're not interested go to another thread. Then you don't have to repeat yourself.

Okay, I get the point, good luck in your search by the way "

You too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still looking for the elusive FWB.. don't seem to be many around my area sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes

So would a "regular meet" not class a friend with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? As opposed to a one night stand?? I'm confused now "

Nope...it's simply NSA sex with men I meet more than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes

So would a "regular meet" not class a friend with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? As opposed to a one night stand?? I'm confused now

Nope...it's simply NSA sex with men I meet more than once! "

Oh ok but surely there's some mutual respect and friendliness in there? Just that's really kinda what I was saying

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I'm window shopping at the moment whilst I work out if I want a fwb or something more, but definitely agree that finding someone suitable is not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes

So would a "regular meet" not class a friend with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? As opposed to a one night stand?? I'm confused now

Nope...it's simply NSA sex with men I meet more than once!

Oh ok but surely there's some mutual respect and friendliness in there? Just that's really kinda what I was saying "

Of course...and lots of giggles and chat too. But that doesn't in any way make them FB/FWBs. There is no relationship outside of the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not what we're all after anyway? Can never have enough friends and if those friends just happen to want to rip your clothes off when there horny then what could be better than that??. Yea I've not found one either

Nope I'm definitely not after a FB or FWB. I've got a fair few 'regular' meets and that's as far as it goes

So would a "regular meet" not class a friend with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? As opposed to a one night stand?? I'm confused now

Nope...it's simply NSA sex with men I meet more than once!

Oh ok but surely there's some mutual respect and friendliness in there? Just that's really kinda what I was saying

Of course...and lots of giggles and chat too. But that doesn't in any way make them FB/FWBs. There is no relationship outside of the bedroom "

I'd call that a fuck buddy myself, mutual respect and pleasure with no ties? Guess it's all relative, there lucky boys anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to look for one but I wouldn't say no to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be rather jolly and some who liked to accompany pooch and I on our rambles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seriously, i have found them by just meeting (and fucking) as many guys as possible, who i got on with obviously.

not very classy of me but i go for what i want and get lucky at times.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Ok I see a lot of you seem to be looking for a fwb with out much luck it seems.

The no luck bit is a mystery to me if I'm being honest here .

Maybe it’s the sexual dynamic I engage in and actively search out but I seem to have no problem finding regular play partners who stay in touch by that I mean as often as daily and never go past a few days with out a chat. .who would meet me for a coffee or a drink with no sex involved as well as meet me for regular fun frolics and sex ,

Not saying it doesn’t take time but that’s all it seems to take in my experience.

I personally think you need a couple of fwb because although it’s a commitment to another person real life takes precedent over fun but hay the same thing happens in any type of friendship that’s why you always have a few close friends or a circle of friends .

A exclusive arrangement is different from fwb in my book more like boyfriend and girlfriend than friends with benefits but I'm assuming no one on here is truly looking for that as there are better options out there for finding that than a sex or swinging site.

I personally think sex gets better the more you invest t in the other person and the more often you practice sex with them .so for me if I want that truly mind blowing experience I will never forget, I'm going to have to learn my fwb true weaknesses in between the sheets and mercilessly exploit them to truly spur them into giving me everything they have to give sexually blowing my and their mind in the process hopefully

Oh well people my take on the fwb dynamic and why I actively only search out that dynamic because I believe its not enough to say you want a fwb .you also have to say what it means to you and why you want that above just one nightstands .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love one too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling rather charmed recently found my two new fb's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also looking for fwb xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find a fwb

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

I find that if you want something its best not to look.

I'm busy not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Searching for a local female fwb fb but all the free ones are too far away.....

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

A regular couple would be heaven x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to find hens teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't object to a FWB.

Sounds ideal......

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I find that if you want something its best not to look.

I'm busy not looking "

and no doubt it keeps those pesty no1 and no2 types out of your hair .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone in here found one?

I think a lot more people are hooking up than we all think. Just some arentonpilite to boast how much fun they are having.

I'd love FWB or FB (if your here let me know )

And we are all alowed to be choosy, just like others here, I don't want to jump in bed with somebody I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loking for an elusive muse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wants

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

fwb/fb is just what I want,that, and my lottery numbers to come up.I reckon my chances are the same.

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Yep, been looking for ages, after a lady to attend clubs and parties with.... One day I might be lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love to find a FB. Derby area anyone xx

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By *onnybegood 28Man
over a year ago

london

Would love to find a fwb Essex or London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it really difficult to find, it's harder than you think (no pun intended)

Anyone else looking? Post on here and maybe someone will find what they're looking for? "

Yup ive been looking for a fwb/fb for a few months now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely looking but sadly not finding. Hopefully very soon though

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Has anyone in here found one?

I think a lot more people are hooking up than we all think. Just some arentonpilite to boast how much fun they are having.

I'd love FWB or FB (if your here let me know )

And we are all alowed to be choosy, just like others here, I don't want to jump in bed with somebody I don't like. "

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

This is why I'm here.

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'm here.

James"

Was that one of their 90s tunes?

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts


"This is why I'm here.

James

Was that one of their 90s tunes?"

Born of Frustration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd love an fwb - but most on here seem to think the next fuck is always the best fuck - however mind-blowing a time you both had - so I can't see it happening!

Just joined a dating site and hoping to find someone very sexually adventurous on there! "

Yes that's true, me too. Not POF though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loking for an elusive muse. "

You've got ejay though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely looking for a FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if there's anyone in my area that would be interested, I'm sure we could sort something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. My search has started now the Schools will soon be back "

I'll move to South Wales if I get the job of being your FWB Miss valiant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love an FwB. I like the F part as much as the B. Well...almost as much.

Anyone up for a (group?) social or a few group socials with all of this in mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it really difficult to find, it's harder than you think (no pun intended)

Anyone else looking? Post on here and maybe someone will find what they're looking for? "

Exactly what I am looking for... a FWB/ FB. Would be a great addition to an already full life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd love an fwb - but most on here seem to think the next fuck is always the best fuck - however mind-blowing a time you both had - so I can't see it happening!

Just joined a dating site and hoping to find someone very sexually adventurous on there!

Yes that's true, me too. Not POF though. "

Would love to find out which dating site you joined... inquiring pervy minds want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it.

Only looking for a nice guy to meet up with almost every night without the commitment and relationship strings...got more chance of becoming the next England football team manager I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeking in ireland discretion assured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it.

Only looking for a nice guy to meet up with almost every night without the commitment and relationship strings...got more chance of becoming the next England football team manager I think!"

Meet every night but without commitment, most people starting relationships don't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it.

Only looking for a nice guy to meet up with almost every night without the commitment and relationship strings...got more chance of becoming the next England football team manager I think!

Meet every night but without commitment, most people starting relationships don't do that."

I said almost every night... I have a high sex drive but dont wanna shag the whole site to appease this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a high sex drive too. I understand if you want frequent sex. It's natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it.

Only looking for a nice guy to meet up with almost every night without the commitment and relationship strings...got more chance of becoming the next England football team manager I think!

Meet every night but without commitment, most people starting relationships don't do that.

I said almost every night... I have a high sex drive but dont wanna shag the whole site to appease this"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always looking for one, problem is finding someone who wants a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us would love this....have had this off and on.....I've got an iron in the fire at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same issue here - single guy struggling to find a FB in the Yorks area!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I my opinion a fwb/fb just happens when you least expect it, you can't actively 'look' for one.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I my opinion a fwb/fb just happens when you least expect it, you can't actively 'look' for one. "

I agree with this entirely. Anyone I've ever met repeatedly (i don't like referring to them as FB/FWB) Have just been guys where we've met with no pressure for anything other than a night of great sex. We've both enjoyed it and thought we'd like to do it again....and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"

I'd say I'd be willing to travel an hour for a a regular and that's gonna be quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a FWB not easy to find, or I'm not appealing or my standards are high

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

One regular is always better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"

Probably about an hour away at the most, and pretty regularly. Weekly ish? Depends, doesn't it?

Not in the sense of "Weekly at 3.15 on Saturdays, please! And every other Wednesday at 2". Obviously.

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By *ustyRedxxxxWoman
over a year ago

sunny south coast

I wouldn't mind a fb or fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely looking for a regular fwb, but I get the feeling single guys are not exactly a hot item on here ... we're the cornflakes of the swinging world ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never looked for a Fwb but have had friends on here that I saw in a regular basis. It's not something you can actively seek I don't think. They just sort of happen after a few meets. "

I agree. I think the issue is finding people who want the friendship part as well as the sex. I would be very happy with a regular fwb, if the right one ever comes along .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I my opinion a fwb/fb just happens when you least expect it, you can't actively 'look' for one.

I agree with this entirely. Anyone I've ever met repeatedly (i don't like referring to them as FB/FWB) Have just been guys where we've met with no pressure for anything other than a night of great sex. We've both enjoyed it and thought we'd like to do it again....and again. "

Can i be on that list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not worthy.

Enough said!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im open minded to it and it says so on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not worthy.

Enough said!!!!"

*Waves.......

You can almost see me from your place.

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By *uvtogiveoralMan
over a year ago

hyde


"Yeah I'd love an fwb - but most on here seem to think the next fuck is always the best fuck - however mind-blowing a time you both had - so I can't see it happening!

Just joined a dating site and hoping to find someone very sexually adventurous on there! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not worthy.

Enough said!!!!

*Waves.......

You can almost see me from your place. "

Coffee???? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not worthy.

Enough said!!!!

*Waves.......

You can almost see me from your place.

Coffee???? x"

Definitely!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm looking.

it is harder than it looks. But had a couple in the past. Works well with right person.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ok I see a lot of you seem to be looking for a fwb with out much luck it seems.

The no luck bit is a mystery to me if I'm being honest here .

Maybe it’s the sexual dynamic I engage in and actively search out but I seem to have no problem finding regular play partners who stay in touch by that I mean as often as daily and never go past a few days with out a chat. .who would meet me for a coffee or a drink with no sex involved as well as meet me for regular fun frolics and sex ,

Not saying it doesn’t take time but that’s all it seems to take in my experience.

I personally think you need a couple of fwb because although it’s a commitment to another person real life takes precedent over fun but hay the same thing happens in any type of friendship that’s why you always have a few close friends or a circle of friends .

A exclusive arrangement is different from fwb in my book more like boyfriend and girlfriend than friends with benefits but I'm assuming no one on here is truly looking for that as there are better options out there for finding that than a sex or swinging site.

I personally think sex gets better the more you invest t in the other person and the more often you practice sex with them .so for me if I want that truly mind blowing experience I will never forget, I'm going to have to learn my fwb true weaknesses in between the sheets and mercilessly exploit them to truly spur them into giving me everything they have to give sexually blowing my and their mind in the process hopefully

Oh well people my take on the fwb dynamic and why I actively only search out that dynamic because I believe its not enough to say you want a fwb .you also have to say what it means to you and why you want that above just one nightstands . "

this! know what you are looking for,don't get distracted/ talked out of it and when you find it, put the effort in..im lucky, but then ive been proactive too. i would say i was poly, nurturing meaningful non monogamous relationships. i value those people in my life, i make sure i tell them too, without being 'clingy' x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"
twice aweek or more would do me.... closer allows for more spontaneous meets... i like to leave a key should my fb feel the need to drop in for a quickie.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah possibly once I'm settled in my new home all the way up in Lincolnshire who knows what could happen.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Always room for one more

Just be fit, know what you're doing and available when it suits me

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I am looking for a FWBWMOMN.....Sod it! It made sense when I started....off to look at pretty pics instead

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Looking for fwb, ideally with great sexual chemistry, and someone easy going, fun loving, with a nice sexy ass. Is that too much to ask, Fab?

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Looking for either cuckold or fwb. Moved to Bournemouth and have no idea about the area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking just nit finding, anyone interested please check my profile and PM ME

nice1 jayxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a FWB/FB! Not had much luck so far, but I'm not going to give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"

I'd go for at least weekly - more if doable!

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

The hunt is on for a new one for the wife. Thought we had one sorted but it turns out he's as reliable as the electrics in French cars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been looking for a fb for years, it would be fun to have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm realistic.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"We all are... Aren't we?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The hunt is on for a new one for the wife. Thought we had one sorted but it turns out he's as reliable as the electrics in French cars. "

Lol that's unreliable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"

I think if both parties are well into it, they'd be ok with travelling - ah the expectation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found one two weeks ago. Good fun so far. I love the turn up, fuck, no hassle and go vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still looking over here "

I don't think you'll have much difficulty ... love 'athletic' sigh ...

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I found one two weeks ago. Good fun so far. I love the turn up, fuck, no hassle and go vibe.

"

This would be good

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By *elkinMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I would love to find a FB/FWB

I have plenty of spare time and can travel so any ladies who are interested please get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys...how far away is too far and how regular would you like to meet?"

Leeds is somewhere I would class as reasonable for travelling from Manchester! But I don't fit your preferences.....

Never mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found one two weeks ago. Good fun so far. I love the turn up, fuck, no hassle and go vibe.

This would be good"

Look no further then Fae, I'm your guy

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By *ion79Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Would love to fb or fwb any takers

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I am but local to Letchworth only ( on holiday this week so far from there)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer.

I've been looking for 4 years on and off. You have to sift alot of shit on this site, however if your standards are low then as the poster above has said you will be 'snapped up straight away'. Personally I'd rather have a wank than spend 5 minutes in the company of some of the people on here."

My thoughts entirely. Not gonna put out just because of interest, especially when I think (and correct me if I'm wrong) we want a sole FWB opposed to some of the sights on here.

I'll keep waiting!

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By *ion79Man
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ion79Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Would love to help you

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By *unguy78Man
over a year ago

landudno


"Surprising, I thought all the lovely ladies would have been snapped up straight away. I suspect you shan't be waiting much longer.

I've been looking for 4 years on and off. You have to sift alot of shit on this site, however if your standards are low then as the poster above has said you will be 'snapped up straight away'. Personally I'd rather have a wank than spend 5 minutes in the company of some of the people on here."

I can relate to that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am but local to Letchworth only ( on holiday this week so far from there)"

You're going to be inundated with offers!!!!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As for us this topic sort of ties on with the other "How far would you travel" we though we'd put our answer here too..

For what we want, 200ish miles & a hotel weekend away for us, We'd only be able to manage once a month or so though if that far. After reading a few forum topics though, talking & visiting clubs we reckon we are nearer poly than play so who they are is far far more important than where they are..

x

S&H

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