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"what time would you people say a 6 / 7 year old should be in bed by? AND If u were arranging a meet would u have ur kids in the same house that night? me personally would say no later than 8pm for bed and a big defo NO NO to kids being there if a meet is arranged." I think your bed time is sensible ... as for kids in house or even "remotely" close and irrespective of how yojng they are (baby asleep etc) for me it is a non negotiable No... it's wrong I think. | |||
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"what time would you people say a 6 / 7 year old should be in bed by? AND If u were arranging a meet would u have ur kids in the same house that night? me personally would say no later than 8pm for bed and a big defo NO NO to kids being there if a meet is arranged." Its not the bedtime its the amount of hours sleep a child needs for strong growth and cell renewal. There will be exceptions to the norm but the advised amount of sleep a 6-7 year old should have is at least ten and a half hours a night. So depending on what time they have to be up in the morning determines bedtime. If your child is sluggish in the morning then perhaps they need more sleep at night. Just observe their well being. I personally wouldn't swing with other couples in my home where children lived (mine or theirs). As with most things you used to enjoy before their arrival you need to rejig your social life accordingly. Good luck xxx | |||
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"I wouldn't meet with kids in the house of any age. Bedtimes do vary - at that age I was going to bed at around 8.30/9 - wide awake 6.30/7 and was top of the school year (was actually performing academically more than a year ahead) so the 'norm' doesn't always apply" a child's cognitive development is a multi faceted maze. many factors contribute to well being. it's just trying to find the balance of as many factors as possible to help them develop to their potential. one size doesn't fit all | |||
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"what time would you people say a 6 / 7 year old should be in bed by? AND If u were arranging a meet would u have ur kids in the same house that night? me personally would say no later than 8pm for bed and a big defo NO NO to kids being there if a meet is arranged." My 7 year old goes about 7:30 to 8. So I would say thats about right. But as others have said , it want works for you. But I would have to say to a very big NO to a meet in the house with kids in it. | |||
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