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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you meet someone local if the opportunity arose ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available"

This

I've had people message me and say they are only a few miles away and we should fuck !! Errr just because you're near doesn't mean I want you near me it's just not a good enough reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available"

This

If someone happens to be local, we get on, and there's mutual attraction, possibly.

But I wouldn't just meet for the sake of meeting because they're local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer local meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know asking to meet for a fuck is shit u should try and build a rapoir at least and see what happens

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If we liked them and got on,yes we would.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them"

No we wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them

No we wouldn't "

Wanna fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available

This

I've had people message me and say they are only a few miles away and we should fuck !! Errr just because you're near doesn't mean I want you near me it's just not a good enough reason "

For those very reasons - they are nearby and assuming I want to fuck , is reason to NOT meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them

No we wouldn't

Wanna fuck? "

Seeing as you asked so eloquently.

Hell the fuck yes!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though "

Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Truly scrumptious I'm not that easy lol I like to be courted and flirted with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though

Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration "
Lmao I'm actually being serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truly scrumptious I'm not that easy lol I like to be courted and flirted with x"

I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to the person I quoted

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As long as there was a mutual attraction it wouldn't bother me I know had a regular arrangement with a guy that lives in the same village as me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes it feels like I have tried to message 95% of the population locally but to no avail bit I do tend to find local people don't want to meet locals no matter how discrete you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them

No we wouldn't

Wanna fuck?

Seeing as you asked so eloquently.

Hell the fuck yes!!!!!!! "

I am very eloquent & subtle thanksverymuch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them

No we wouldn't

Wanna fuck?

Seeing as you asked so eloquently.

Hell the fuck yes!!!!!!!

I am very eloquent & subtle thanksverymuch "

Here's equally subtle.

Get your sexy ass to Stoke!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though

Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration "
Joking really I've messaged the ones with a decent profile believe me some of the women in birmingham mainly say I'm so and so age and I'm looking to meet men and couples i say good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, but here are no locals, it is like timbuktu lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet someone local if the opportunity arose ?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol"

That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.

Being frustrated is wasted energy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got lots of energy lol

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Would you meet someone local if the opportunity arose ?"

Yes why not we are all here for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to those people who won't meet a local how far do you travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol

That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.

Being frustrated is wasted energy"
Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to those people who won't meet a local how far do you travel"
we've had an 800 mile round trip for a social meet once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol

That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.

Being frustrated is wasted energy Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao "

That's totally over my head. Never seen it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow and I thought 40 miles there 40 back was a trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I did this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol

That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.

Being frustrated is wasted energy Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao

That's totally over my head. Never seen it"
Heard it way too much i work in a arena where they have Disney shows every single year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow and I thought 40 miles there 40 back was a trip"

No big deal really. We turned it to our advantage and had a long weekend away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet someone local if the opportunity arose ?"

As per your other thread, not if it were in Scunthorpe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Scarlet how far did u travel or was it a local meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good job I'm outside Scunthorpe then lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be willing to travel once i have a decent financial balance this month has been terrible for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So local meets are 50/50 if gauging opinion correct

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Of course I would, that is why I have, I accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scarlet how far did u travel or was it a local meet"

Local. He mailed me that afternoon. We swapped details and steamed up my car.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I once arranged a meet with a couple. They gave me their address and it was two streets from mine. When I got there I knew the woman but I still played. SallyS

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I once arranged a meet with a couple. They gave me their address and it was two streets from mine. When I got there I knew the woman but I still played. SallyS

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I once arranged a meet with a couple. They gave me their address and it was two streets from mine. When I got there I knew the woman but I still played. SallyS

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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

Apparently only guys are near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x"

He had no public pics and no verifications on show.

I met him anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that is local lol I have played with people in village I live in on strict basis it stayed between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too local

I had a guy that lives a few streets away from me mailing me for months, he seemed a nice enough guy so I was happy to chat to him

He couldn't see my problem, I think he saw us being 5 mins away as a bonus and convenient for regualr meets, I saw it as a possible disaster, I've had a few guys get arsey on me when I've not wanted to meet them again, I just don't need that from a guy on my door step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not too local

I had a guy that lives a few streets away from me mailing me for months, he seemed a nice enough guy so I was happy to chat to him

He couldn't see my problem, I think he saw us being 5 mins away as a bonus and convenient for regualr meets, I saw it as a possible disaster, I've had a few guys get arsey on me when I've not wanted to meet them again, I just don't need that from a guy on my door step"
Can definitely see that would be a major problem I also wouldn't want it that close either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh I see your point of view stalker on the doorstep not what u want but there are genuine local people around its finding one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on few things connection trust discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh I see your point of view stalker on the doorstep not what u want but there are genuine local people around its finding one"

Yes the problem is you don't know who's genuine and who's not good at rejection till you meets them, buy that time it's to late

Best to avoid everybody too local

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Just down the road is too close, the other side of the city is fine.

As long as I fancy them and they fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x

He had no public pics and no verifications on show.

I met him anyway. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Yeh I see your point of view stalker on the doorstep not what u want but there are genuine local people around its finding one

Yes the problem is you don't know who's genuine and who's not good at rejection till you meets them, buy that time it's to late

Best to avoid everybody too local "

Agreed!

They may never have had a problem with rejection before but they could still get obsessed with someone or take rejection badly at any point.

You can never be sure.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x

He had no public pics and no verifications on show.

I met him anyway. "

(My mum mode: on)

OMG! You could have ended up dead in a ditch

(My mum mode: off)

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes and we do but not because they are local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x

He had no public pics and no verifications on show.

I met him anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to read verifications and verifications verifications I know not always a good way to judge someone but if they have had a few meets it's a yard stick to go by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x

He had no public pics and no verifications on show.

I met him anyway.

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