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Sexuality a state of mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im curious to know if people are just born sexy or is it a state of mind!! Everyones own vision of sexiness is different. But i find some women on here no matter how big they are or small they can look unbelievably sexy. I suppose it could be an inner confidence that shines through in a picture i don't know. But the media perception on sexiness is slightly deluded and the reality is completely different in my eyes. So I'm interested to know how a women can feel so sexually confident with herself! When the generally perception of the media is you have to look a certain way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a state of mind but other people kind of have to confirm to you that it's true what you're thinking.

with me an ex gave me a lot of love and a lot of confidence with that. now no-one can break me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's great you had someone like that in your life!! I suppose like you said people need reassuring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always felt attracted to makes since my kissing game at six.... I think I was born with it and it has been nurtured ... So I'm confident with it...

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's great you had someone like that in your life!! I suppose like you said people need reassuring."

yeah. unless you have some kind of learning difficulty then i don't think you can ignore other peoples reactions to you and not have them affect you.

i got very lucky with my ex though. i was broken before i met him.

also, i don't really bother with the media and that really helps to not fuel insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are alot of sexually confident women on here which is fantastic for us guys, Because men tend to have a built in ego which gives us that body confidence even when we are 10 stone over weight.

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