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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy regarding the whole package here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

selective most of the time, especially for 1 on 1 meets. i'm not really that shallow on looks either, there has to be some personality to draw me in, but they also have to be attractive to me

sometimes i will fuck almost anyone, this is for 3sums because the 3sum turns me on more than the guys do. all i want is 3sums these days anyway. i am gonna try and have a few this weekend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"selective most of the time, especially for 1 on 1 meets. i'm not really that shallow on looks either, there has to be some personality to draw me in, but they also have to be attractive to me

sometimes i will fuck almost anyone, this is for 3sums because the 3sum turns me on more than the guys do. all i want is 3sums these days anyway. i am gonna try and have a few this weekend."

Threesomes is something I want to venture into I have a friend who feels the same way so we want to venture and show women a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fussy regarding the whole package here."

There has to be some amount of attraction for me otherwise il go home and kick myself lol

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

A Pulse helps...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A Pulse helps... "

Hahaha it's a start isn't it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"selective most of the time, especially for 1 on 1 meets. i'm not really that shallow on looks either, there has to be some personality to draw me in, but they also have to be attractive to me

sometimes i will fuck almost anyone, this is for 3sums because the 3sum turns me on more than the guys do. all i want is 3sums these days anyway. i am gonna try and have a few this weekend.

Threesomes is something I want to venture into I have a friend who feels the same way so we want to venture and show women a great time "

you should defintiely go for it. i reckon you won't have a problem on here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

Every hole is a goal, no?

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Every hole is a goal, no? "

As a friend is wont to say, any port in a storm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely fussy here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Every hole is a goal, no? "

If we all lived like that then the clinic would be filled loooool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Extremely fussy here "

Now that's what I need to hear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

Personally - very selective/picky. I don't just use these sites for sex but get great pleasure out of the social side and the occasional club meets. But a single or couple has to grab my interest either way and if there is no chemistry/spark then it's a no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fussy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

Surely if you could meet anybody you'd only go for the good looking ones anyway

Your hardly likely to meet somebody you don't find attractive if you were able to meet attractive people

Does that make sense

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As a 54 yr old bisexual smoker, I can't afford to be "too" fussy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Every hole is a goal, no?

As a friend is wont to say, any port in a storm?"

It doesn't matter if the cat is black or white, as long as it catches mice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Every hole is a goal, no?

If we all lived like that then the clinic would be filled loooool "

Because only mingers carry diseases?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I need to have that spark of sexual attraction or it's not happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm very selective. It's quality first and then getting the quantity just right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by not being fussy doesn't mean you don't know your worth btw.

i'm still a decent person who deserves a lot of the nice things in life, i think if you stayed in a relationship with someone disrespectful who treated you shit that might be cause for concern.

but sex is about having fun and enjoying yourself. for many it's about new experiences. you know what? if you drop your standards sometimes, or just don't have any but enjoyed the whole experience because you were compatible, then really you do know your worth, you know you were worth having that fun you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"selective most of the time, especially for 1 on 1 meets. i'm not really that shallow on looks either, there has to be some personality to draw me in, but they also have to be attractive to me

sometimes i will fuck almost anyone, this is for 3sums because the 3sum turns me on more than the guys do. all i want is 3sums these days anyway. i am gonna try and have a few this weekend.

Threesomes is something I want to venture into I have a friend who feels the same way so we want to venture and show women a great time

you should defintiely go for it. i reckon you won't have a problem on here either. "

I hope not still young and fresh with plenty of energy to burn off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Surely if you could meet anybody you'd only go for the good looking ones anyway

Your hardly likely to meet somebody you don't find attractive if you were able to meet attractive people

Does that make sense "

Makes perfect sense to me, I had a mail earlier and some nasty women wanted something she couldn't have needless to say she was not happy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters "

I don't like to talk for too long I just want to get in there and make the women feel brand new X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.. I need to have that spark of sexual attraction or it's not happening.

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Sexual attraction is a serious thing I do believe you need something to make the chemistry right x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size..

Every hole is a goal, no?

If we all lived like that then the clinic would be filled loooool

Because only mingers carry diseases?"

Nope I should of worded that better but good hygiene is a must I would hate to think I would let myself slip inside something that could stop me from enjoying a further meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a 54 yr old bisexual smoker, I can't afford to be "too" fussy lol "

Looool #knowyourworth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.. I need to have that spark of sexual attraction or it's not happening.

Sexual attraction is a serious thing I do believe you need something to make the chemistry right x"

And kissing is a major thing for me.. If someone has bad breath then no will in the world will get me naked

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I find there has to be attraction of some kind in order for me to want to meetup

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I will meet anyone for a social but when it comes to sex there has to be an attraction. So in that respect yes I'm very fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will meet anyone for a social but when it comes to sex there has to be an attraction. So in that respect yes I'm very fussy. "

I'm the same. Not fussed with who I have a social with but anything else and it's very picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters

I don't like to talk for too long I just want to get in there and make the women feel brand new X "

Nah I like feeling used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters

I don't like to talk for too long I just want to get in there and make the women feel brand new X

Nah I like feeling used "
Really!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow "

Way to break my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters

I don't like to talk for too long I just want to get in there and make the women feel brand new X

Nah I like feeling used Really!!!! "

Nah I just said it to excite the young'uns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart "

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!"

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way too fussy. If they can't keep me engaged with good conversation then nothing else matters

I don't like to talk for too long I just want to get in there and make the women feel brand new X

Nah I like feeling used Really!!!!

Nah I just said it to excite the young'uns "
Well it definitely worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!! "

I don't see how would a paper bag save me from being in A&E for 4 hours -_-

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I wouldn't say I'm fussy when it comes to looks and body .

But I do need to be inspired I know that sounds a bit conceited but what I mean is like a poet or a artist will do their best work when inspired by a person or _iew .

I feel I am the same give me a muse who clicks with me and I will do all I can to make her beg for more

but if I'm not inspired I am not going to play its that simple

Attraction is both physical and mental with me I need both to be inspired to meet let alone play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!!

I don't see how would a paper bag save me from being in A&E for 4 hours -_-"

You wouldn't have to look at my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!!

I don't see how would a paper bag save me from being in A&E for 4 hours -_-

You wouldn't have to look at my face "

I thought turning the lights off, would do the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!!

I don't see how would a paper bag save me from being in A&E for 4 hours -_-

You wouldn't have to look at my face

I thought turning the lights off, would do the job "

Not my fault ur too lazy to do any of the work!!! I couldn't get up and turn the lights off at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only meet people I find attractive. I'm so shallow

Way to break my heart

That's what you get for breaking my penis! I'm never ever doing reverse cowgirl again!

Well I told u to use a paper bag instead but noooooo!!!

I don't see how would a paper bag save me from being in A&E for 4 hours -_-

You wouldn't have to look at my face

I thought turning the lights off, would do the job

Not my fault ur too lazy to do any of the work!!! I couldn't get up and turn the lights off at the same time "

Lol, look who's talking! You were starfishing for the first hour and a half!

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I'm very selective, but men seem to assume regardless of what I'm looking for that I can't possibly not want them! And why notlol
"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.. I need to have that spark of sexual attraction or it's not happening.

Sexual attraction is a serious thing I do believe you need something to make the chemistry right x

And kissing is a major thing for me.. If someone has bad breath then no will in the world will get me naked"

Major put off that isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very selective, but men seem to assume regardless of what I'm looking for that I can't possibly not want them! And why notlol Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

I know what I'm looking for and looks matter chemistry matters. it's not shallow to know your worth is it. I genuinely wouldn't just meet someone just cause I had a sexual urge. I would have to calculate the situation after all I'm just here to make some women happy and put a smile on my own face at the same time

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

There has to be a sexual attraction, so many men ask me to meet without swapping face pics and sexual interests. Without An attraction I might as well just become an escort!I want the whole package. If not I already have regular fbs and subs, failing that I'm quite capable of Cumming on my own x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has to be a sexual attraction, so many men ask me to meet without swapping face pics and sexual interests. Without An attraction I might as well just become an escort!I want the whole package. If not I already have regular fbs and subs, failing that I'm quite capable of Cumming on my own x "

I can relate .. Is it ok to send you a friend request ? X

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I'm fussy, I won't jump into bed with just anyone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm fussy, I won't jump into bed with just anyone x"

To just jump into bed with anyone can find you in a whole load of different situations x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my worth How much is a sausage and egg mcmuffin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know my worth How much is a sausage and egg mcmuffin "

Give it a hour and il tell you hahaha ours doesn't open till 6:30

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Know your worth.....about tree fiddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god im so picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god im so picky "
Your prerogative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"god im so picky "

Loooool selective and few gets to expirence the real

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

I dont see anything wrong with being fussy. Why meet someone im not attracted to in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont see anything wrong with being fussy. Why meet someone im not attracted to in the first place "

Completely correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not very often that we actually meet as I am very picky.

Mrs SnT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not very often that we actually meet as I am very picky.

Mrs SnT"

It's the only way to be. Where the single guys outweigh single fem's/couples and we all know that this site is made up of 75% fantasists/time wasters and people that don't spark anything but "I just wanna get my dick wet" then stick to your guns.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that"

I was thinking the same thing. Who I fuck has no bearing on who I am. I don't look at someone and think I'm too good for them and feel they are less than me.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that"

If it feels good do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"by not being fussy doesn't mean you don't know your worth btw.

i'm still a decent person who deserves a lot of the nice things in life, i think if you stayed in a relationship with someone disrespectful who treated you shit that might be cause for concern.

but sex is about having fun and enjoying yourself. for many it's about new experiences. you know what? if you drop your standards sometimes, or just don't have any but enjoyed the whole experience because you were compatible, then really you do know your worth, you know you were worth having that fun you wanted."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet men who also know their own self worth. I didn't choose them, we chose each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm incredibly picky, if someone doesn't float my boat I walk away, even at a club.

It has to be the whole package for me- looks, personality, keeping my mind engaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I'm fussy when it comes to looks and body .

But I do need to be inspired I know that sounds a bit conceited but what I mean is like a poet or a artist will do their best work when inspired by a person or _iew .

I feel I am the same give me a muse who clicks with me and I will do all I can to make her beg for more

but if I'm not inspired I am not going to play its that simple

Attraction is both physical and mental with me I need both to be inspired to meet let alone play ."

I like this, I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

I will meet anyone but needs to be a connection when meet.I always say personality over looks anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

I was thinking the same thing. Who I fuck has no bearing on who I am. I don't look at someone and think I'm too good for them and feel they are less than me. "

everyone should have a bar set to where they would or wouldn't go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet men who also know their own self worth. I didn't choose them, we chose each other."

I hear that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm incredibly picky, if someone doesn't float my boat I walk away, even at a club.

It has to be the whole package for me- looks, personality, keeping my mind engaged "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely selective here

That selective that I hardly meet

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that"

Yes the two are unrelated here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

Yes the two are unrelated here. "

But I feel they are relate to some degree if you let your standards fall below what you set them to then you decrease your self worth in a sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i dont click with someone i wouldnt meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?"

Yes

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?

Yes

MrsSB "

but i admitted to fucking almost anybody...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

Yes the two are unrelated here.

But I feel they are relate to some degree if you let your standards fall below what you set them to then you decrease your self worth in a sense x"

If you have a strong sense of self worth its not determined or affected by who you have sex with however your self worth determines how you treat other people and having sex with someone you found unattractive for any reason is insulting to them and diminishes you.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

I'm not able to just meet anyone and even if I were able to I wouldn't. Being selective isn't being fussy; I meet people I really want to meet for a variety of reasons and hopefully it goes both ways.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm Highly selective

I have no interest in anyone, I feel doesn't find me truely attractive. I'm not a convenient hole for the evening, I'm a sexually confident woman that derserves respect and to be desired and then I shall offer the same in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm me, you either like me or you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?

Yes

MrsSB

but i admitted to fucking almost anybody..."

That puts you at the bottom off the fussyness league table I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id only meet mary berry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a "I'm considerably more fussy than you" thread? How does the winner prove their fussyness?I'm bisexual and haven't met anyone for 2 years. Do i win for not meeting either sex?

Yes

MrsSB

but i admitted to fucking almost anybody...

That puts you at the bottom off the fussyness league table I'm afraid. "

oh yeah.

i just wanted in on the prizes...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Id only meet mary berry"

She left the site I'm afraid. I think she exceeded the upper age limit...sorry.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

We haven't dipped our toes yet regarding meeting others but time is a factor but we are selective too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

I was thinking the same thing. Who I fuck has no bearing on who I am. I don't look at someone and think I'm too good for them and feel they are less than me.

everyone should have a bar set to where they would or wouldn't go "

Not those of us who don't need others to make them feel they are worthy. I'm not attracted to you,does that make you less of a person than me? You aren't attracted to me because of my size,that doesn't make me less of a person than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Highly selective

I have no interest in anyone, I feel doesn't find me truely attractive. I'm not a convenient hole for the evening, I'm a sexually confident woman that derserves respect and to be desired and then I shall offer the same in return "

So as long as they find you attractive you'll have sex with them?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'm Highly selective

I have no interest in anyone, I feel doesn't find me truely attractive. I'm not a convenient hole for the evening, I'm a sexually confident woman that derserves respect and to be desired and then I shall offer the same in return

So as long as they find you attractive you'll have sex with them?"

No I I obviously need to be attracted to them also. I didn't quite word that as well as I should have

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I do find these "I'm picky/fussy" type threads somewhat odd. We all have certain people we find sexually attractive, doesn't mean because you don't share the same taste you're more selective.

There could be two similar type men and one I would, one I wouldn't, example Bas Rutten and Stone Cold Steve Austin. Steve...yes please, Bas...no ta.

I've said no to some handsome men and yes please to men with faces only their mothers would love.

We should also remember no matter how hot and selective we may feel by virtue of being on this site if others knew they wouldn't touch us with someone else's. There are people on this thread I'm sure that will flatter to get a shag but wouldn't be seen dead with any of their conquests.

Just my two pennies worth...as you were.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I am far too picky for us to meet everyone,its rare we find a couple we both fancy and like.

Thats fine though,we are happy to have socials etc and meet new people,if it leads to more thats a bonus.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think I'm quite fussy. I can be put off by the wrong expression on a face pic. But, I can also be attracted by a casually smiling one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find these "I'm picky/fussy" type threads somewhat odd. We all have certain people we find sexually attractive, doesn't mean because you don't share the same taste you're more selective.

There could be two similar type men and one I would, one I wouldn't, example Bas Rutten and Stone Cold Steve Austin. Steve...yes please, Bas...no ta.

I've said no to some handsome men and yes please to men with faces only their mothers would love.

We should also remember no matter how hot and selective we may feel by virtue of being on this site if others knew they wouldn't touch us with someone else's. There are people on this thread I'm sure that will flatter to get a shag but wouldn't be seen dead with any of their conquests.

Just my two pennies worth...as you were. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Highly selective

I have no interest in anyone, I feel doesn't find me truely attractive. I'm not a convenient hole for the evening, I'm a sexually confident woman that derserves respect and to be desired and then I shall offer the same in return

So as long as they find you attractive you'll have sex with them?

No I I obviously need to be attracted to them also. I didn't quite word that as well as I should have "

That's what I was thinking. I have days like that every day

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'm Highly selective

I have no interest in anyone, I feel doesn't find me truely attractive. I'm not a convenient hole for the evening, I'm a sexually confident woman that derserves respect and to be desired and then I shall offer the same in return

So as long as they find you attractive you'll have sex with them?

No I I obviously need to be attracted to them also. I didn't quite word that as well as I should have

That's what I was thinking. I have days like that every day "

It's the Lack of sleep my kiddies aren't well at moment

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also all the men who write "not looking to shag my way through the whole site" or versions thereof on their profiles...you should be so lucky .

We ALL have preferences, standards whatever you want to call them mine might be different to yours but it doesn't make me better than you. Having sex with loads of different people doesn't mean you have lower standards either.

Treat everyone with respect, don't compare yourself and don't feel superior because you'll be knocked off your perch soon enough.

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over a year ago


"Also all the men who write "not looking to shag my way through the whole site" or versions thereof on their profiles...you should be so lucky .

We ALL have preferences, standards whatever you want to call them mine might be different to yours but it doesn't make me better than you. Having sex with loads of different people doesn't mean you have lower standards either.

Treat everyone with respect, don't compare yourself and don't feel superior because you'll be knocked off your perch soon enough."

I always wonder why they haven't left after a few shags if they aren't here to fuck the whole site?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Also all the men who write "not looking to shag my way through the whole site" or versions thereof on their profiles...you should be so lucky .

We ALL have preferences, standards whatever you want to call them mine might be different to yours but it doesn't make me better than you. Having sex with loads of different people doesn't mean you have lower standards either.

Treat everyone with respect, don't compare yourself and don't feel superior because you'll be knocked off your perch soon enough."

My point exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt "

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands."

If it was a case of low self esteem but attractive I could work with that I'm not shy and I bring a halo lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands.

If it was a case of low self esteem but attractive I could work with that I'm not shy and I bring a halo lol "

I think you misunderstood me. Some people with low self esteem will have sex with people they don't find attractive because they feel that is all they're worth. I'm not implying that you should have sex with women with low self esteem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands.

If it was a case of low self esteem but attractive I could work with that I'm not shy and I bring a halo lol

I think you misunderstood me. Some people with low self esteem will have sex with people they don't find attractive because they feel that is all they're worth. I'm not implying that you should have sex with women with low self esteem "

I'm sorry I did misread that, it's a vicious circle in that situation because I could quiet imagine you would end up hating yourself most of the time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands.

If it was a case of low self esteem but attractive I could work with that I'm not shy and I bring a halo lol

I think you misunderstood me. Some people with low self esteem will have sex with people they don't find attractive because they feel that is all they're worth. I'm not implying that you should have sex with women with low self esteem

I'm sorry I did misread that, it's a vicious circle in that situation because I could quiet imagine you would end up hating yourself most of the time. "

People with low self esteem don't like themselves much. You see it in the forum all the time and in life I think it's sad for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely picky and the slightest thing can put me off. I'm not here to meet endless amounts of people so my standards will remain high. If I don't find them attractive mentally and physically it's a no brainer for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any."

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fussier than you +1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fussier than you +1."

Yeah...you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad."

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me."

That's not nice. We have experienced similar mostly down to us being a lot older than many at the event we were at. I'm sorry you feel this way.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me."

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt

Well lots of us wouldn't knowingly do something that impacted on our self worth negatively. I know some do because their self esteem is so low they feel they're not worth more but as you've recognised the remedy lies in your own hands.

If it was a case of low self esteem but attractive I could work with that I'm not shy and I bring a halo lol

I think you misunderstood me. Some people with low self esteem will have sex with people they don't find attractive because they feel that is all they're worth. I'm not implying that you should have sex with women with low self esteem

I'm sorry I did misread that, it's a vicious circle in that situation because I could quiet imagine you would end up hating yourself most of the time.

People with low self esteem don't like themselves much. You see it in the forum all the time and in life I think it's sad for them "

It can be painful reading. Some don't realise they're painting targets on their backs for the predators who trawl such sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts. "

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If this is a competition, we're fussier than all of you x100%. What's the top prize?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this is a competition, we're fussier than all of you x100%. What's the top prize?

"

I'm still 1 more than you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

We ALL have preferences, standards whatever you want to call them mine might be different to yours but it doesn't make me better than you. Having sex with loads of different people doesn't mean you have lower standards either.

Treat everyone with respect, don't compare yourself and don't feel superior because you'll be knocked off your perch soon enough."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If this is a competition, we're fussier than all of you x100%. What's the top prize?

I'm still 1 more than you "

Imagines that said in a Harry Enfield voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance. "

What was the ratio of single guys to single females / couples at the aforementioned party?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I do find these "I'm picky/fussy" type threads somewhat odd. We all have certain people we find sexually attractive, doesn't mean because you don't share the same taste you're more selective.

There could be two similar type men and one I would, one I wouldn't, example Bas Rutten and Stone Cold Steve Austin. Steve...yes please, Bas...no ta.

I've said no to some handsome men and yes please to men with faces only their mothers would love.

We should also remember no matter how hot and selective we may feel by virtue of being on this site if others knew they wouldn't touch us with someone else's. There are people on this thread I'm sure that will flatter to get a shag but wouldn't be seen dead with any of their conquests.

Just my two pennies worth...as you were. "

a totally agree i don't think I'm better than anyone else because of the way i play. all i know is what i need to be inspired to play let alone meet and sadly that way of being is rarer than you would think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find these "I'm picky/fussy" type threads somewhat odd. We all have certain people we find sexually attractive, doesn't mean because you don't share the same taste you're more selective.

There could be two similar type men and one I would, one I wouldn't, example Bas Rutten and Stone Cold Steve Austin. Steve...yes please, Bas...no ta.

I've said no to some handsome men and yes please to men with faces only their mothers would love.

We should also remember no matter how hot and selective we may feel by virtue of being on this site if others knew they wouldn't touch us with someone else's. There are people on this thread I'm sure that will flatter to get a shag but wouldn't be seen dead with any of their conquests.

Just my two pennies worth...as you were. "

But your logic seems to assume that a random sample of people would show then same number having a preference for Stone Cold Steve Austin as they would Base Rutten.

That's very unlikely.

If 80% of people prefer the rattlesnake, then someone could be justified in claiming they are picky, if they only fuck people like Stone Cold and assuming they actually get laid.

However, the latter point is the salient one. The people I know that think they are the most fussy are either in denial about their standards or, in the main, just don't have a lot of sex.

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over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

What was the ratio of single guys to single females / couples at the aforementioned party? "

I didn't take a head count. Maybe 3 single guys for 2 couples or single women.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Would you just meet anyone and everyone cause your able to or are you selective with who you choose to meet? I'm fussy regarding hygiene and size.. "

I think most people are selective to at least some degree. Very few people will have sex with absolutely anyone!

I'm quite fussy.

I won't meet smokers, anyone with facial hair or more than minimal body hair, anyone with bad teeth or bad breath, anyone who uses text speak, anyone who has 57 photos of their cock, anyone too large, anyone with poor personal hygiene, anyone too young, too old or immature, anyone I find it hard work to talk to...

I'd rather not meet than meet someone who doesn't float my boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think knowing your worth and fucking lots of people are mutually exclusive. I'm picky as fuck and barely meet. If I was into anonymous gangbangs with men I never spoke to, I don't think this would mean I valued myself less - just that I got my sexual kicks in a different way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll talk to all. Flirt with many. I will meet those I think are sexy. Yes I'm fussy.

Unless I'm d*unk, then all bets are off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

What was the ratio of single guys to single females / couples at the aforementioned party?

I didn't take a head count. Maybe 3 single guys for 2 couples or single women."

OK that's a bit off. Whilst it's rude behaviour regardless, it could be mitigating circumstances if there are 9 single guys saying hello to them and they just came to meet another couple. But then again, go on a couples only nights if it's such a hassle.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't think knowing your worth and fucking lots of people are mutually exclusive. I'm picky as fuck and barely meet. If I was into anonymous gangbangs with men I never spoke to, I don't think this would mean I valued myself less - just that I got my sexual kicks in a different way."

Exactly.

As long as people have sex with the people they want sex with, rather than those they can have sex with, I don't think the actual numbers matter.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I certainly know my worth and who I shag doesn't change that

Yes the two are unrelated here.

But I feel they are relate to some degree if you let your standards fall below what you set them to then you decrease your self worth in a sense x"

I disagree - my worth is not measured by some abitrary 'fuckability of my meet' criteria, it's an entirely different subject!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has truly popped off but I think and believe everyone should have set standards.. You can't just fuck someone because it is put on a plate if i did that every time a female wanted sex with me I would be left feeling degraded to some degree no doubt "

If I fucked everyone who asked I'd never be off my back. I still find plenty of men I'm attracted to even though I don't set bars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit too fussy. I've been single for about 3 months now and I have been on here for about a month. I've met a few here and there but there has been no attraction. My friends say fuck anything, even a prostitute but I won't lower myself.

I picked up a girl I thought was hot the other day but she was horrendous and annoying. I think I'm destined to never have sex again.

I my as well get 10 cats and accept my destiny.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't just meet anyone just because they send me a fuck now message.

I meet people that I like, I don't have a type. If I like the person I am more like to play with them regardless of age, size, hair colour etc. All I ask is good hygiene, but that is pretty much a given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I picked up a girl I thought was hot the other day but she was horrendous and annoying."

Physical attractiveness and mental attractiveness aren't brilliantly correlated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd of fucked her if she was hot, despite her mental state.

That sounded so wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd of fucked her if she was hot, despite her mental state.

That sounded so wrong...."

We all would, it just get awkward if she wants more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is still messaging me asking to stay despite me making it clear.

Alcoholics don't have the best memory

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"She is still messaging me asking to stay despite me making it clear.

Alcoholics don't have the best memory "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is still messaging me asking to stay despite me making it clear.

Alcoholics don't have the best memory "

No regrets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha, got me there.

I can't complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit too fussy. I've been single for about 3 months now and I have been on here for about a month. I've met a few here and there but there has been no attraction. My friends say fuck anything, even a prostitute but I won't lower myself.

I picked up a girl I thought was hot the other day but she was horrendous and annoying. I think I'm destined to never have sex again.

I my as well get 10 cats and accept my destiny."

Have you thought about fucking a middle aged overweight woman? Once you get past the mental barriers that tell you you're too good for someone like me,I mean them,you may find yourself having some very satisfying sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance. "

No, much more likely that they weren't willing to engage with someone they felt they weren't likely to have sex with. If this is affecting your self esteem step back from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

No, much more likely that they weren't willing to engage with someone they felt they weren't likely to have sex with. If this is affecting your self esteem step back from it "

Now you see, that just makes me angry. Someone says hello to you, you take one look at them and decided at a glance that you don't want to fuck them, and that means they're not worth the effort of a single word in reply. That's seriously considered acceptable behaviour?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

No, much more likely that they weren't willing to engage with someone they felt they weren't likely to have sex with. If this is affecting your self esteem step back from it

Now you see, that just makes me angry. Someone says hello to you, you take one look at them and decided at a glance that you don't want to fuck them, and that means they're not worth the effort of a single word in reply. That's seriously considered acceptable behaviour?"

To some yes. I tend to accept that I can't change strangers behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find these "I'm picky/fussy" type threads somewhat odd. We all have certain people we find sexually attractive, doesn't mean because you don't share the same taste you're more selective.

There could be two similar type men and one I would, one I wouldn't, example Bas Rutten and Stone Cold Steve Austin. Steve...yes please, Bas...no ta.

I've said no to some handsome men and yes please to men with faces only their mothers would love.

We should also remember no matter how hot and selective we may feel by virtue of being on this site if others knew they wouldn't touch us with someone else's. There are people on this thread I'm sure that will flatter to get a shag but wouldn't be seen dead with any of their conquests.

Just my two pennies worth...as you were. "

There's a clear hierarchy on here.... this site where people look for strangers to fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

No, much more likely that they weren't willing to engage with someone they felt they weren't likely to have sex with. If this is affecting your self esteem step back from it

Now you see, that just makes me angry. Someone says hello to you, you take one look at them and decided at a glance that you don't want to fuck them, and that means they're not worth the effort of a single word in reply. That's seriously considered acceptable behaviour?"

Couples and single women are horrendous for doing this. Perhaps they won't speak because they are scared a single word means they have to shag me. Perhaps they think they are better than me.

I find men in clubs to be mostly really polite, but then I treat them like human beings.

I'm not a precious snowflake. If someone doesn't want to fuck me I'm fine with that. It doesn't hurt my feelings at all and I won't cry.

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By *ustfortonightMan
over a year ago

Kent

I'm fussy...

If the profile or chat suggests that we're on the same sexual wavelength and the sex would be great for us both then I'm in.

I would need to be physically attracted too, but there are a wide range of body types and looks that are attractive to me. And I find that if I hit it off with someone, I'll be more physically attracted to them anyway.

So physical is ready secondary to mental attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was willing to have sex with people I didn't find attractive, I still wouldn't be having any.

oh dear. I'm sure it's not that bad.

The last few of events I was at (one of which was a social), no one was willing to have a decent conversation with me, let alone anything more. I was at a party last night, nearly everyone I said hello to looked me right in the face and blanked me.

Is it because they were stuck up cunts.

The odds of everyone at multiple events being a stuck up cunt seems very low. Much more likely that I seem unpleasant at first glance.

No, much more likely that they weren't willing to engage with someone they felt they weren't likely to have sex with. If this is affecting your self esteem step back from it

Now you see, that just makes me angry. Someone says hello to you, you take one look at them and decided at a glance that you don't want to fuck them, and that means they're not worth the effort of a single word in reply. That's seriously considered acceptable behaviour?

Couples and single women are horrendous for doing this. Perhaps they won't speak because they are scared a single word means they have to shag me. Perhaps they think they are better than me.

I find men in clubs to be mostly really polite, but then I treat them like human beings.

I'm not a precious snowflake. If someone doesn't want to fuck me I'm fine with that. It doesn't hurt my feelings at all and I won't cry. "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

There's a clear hierarchy on here.... this site where people look for strangers to fuck... "

I think on a 'know your worth thread' that may be true but only if you allow it.

So many joined not to fuck strangers, they fuck that 'special one or two' in the hope of more and the thought that others may just look for a fuck affords them the opportunity to sneer.

The forum gives us the opportunity to share different expectations and requirements, none are better than the other. How you behave and conduct yourself in those pursuits, a different matter

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Couples and single women are horrendous for doing this. Perhaps they won't speak because they are scared a single word means they have to shag me. "

Uh...they don't, right? 'cos I've spoken to you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

There's a clear hierarchy on here.... this site where people look for strangers to fuck...

I think on a 'know your worth thread' that may be true but only if you allow it.

So many joined not to fuck strangers, they fuck that 'special one or two' in the hope of more and the thought that others may just look for a fuck affords them the opportunity to sneer.

The forum gives us the opportunity to share different expectations and requirements, none are better than the other. How you behave and conduct yourself in those pursuits, a different matter "

Don't be silly.

My way is the right way. How I use the site is how everyone should use it and anyone who disagrees is wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my fussiness drives me crazy.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

There's a clear hierarchy on here.... this site where people look for strangers to fuck...

I think on a 'know your worth thread' that may be true but only if you allow it.

So many joined not to fuck strangers, they fuck that 'special one or two' in the hope of more and the thought that others may just look for a fuck affords them the opportunity to sneer.

The forum gives us the opportunity to share different expectations and requirements, none are better than the other. How you behave and conduct yourself in those pursuits, a different matter

Don't be silly.

My way is the right way. How I use the site is how everyone should use it and anyone who disagrees is wrong!

"

Bless your cotton socks

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

There's a clear hierarchy on here.... this site where people look for strangers to fuck...

I think on a 'know your worth thread' that may be true but only if you allow it.

So many joined not to fuck strangers, they fuck that 'special one or two' in the hope of more and the thought that others may just look for a fuck affords them the opportunity to sneer.

The forum gives us the opportunity to share different expectations and requirements, none are better than the other. How you behave and conduct yourself in those pursuits, a different matter

Don't be silly.

My way is the right way. How I use the site is how everyone should use it and anyone who disagrees is wrong!

Bless your cotton socks "

Yer doing it wrong!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples and single women are horrendous for doing this. Perhaps they won't speak because they are scared a single word means they have to shag me.

Uh...they don't, right? 'cos I've spoken to you. "

Yeah but just cos you wanted to shag me though innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're fussy here mainly because to us sending a decent msg in the beginning helps and a face pic not being funny but I wanna know what someone looks likes before they're going near my pussy doesn't most ppl Mainly so we know they're not neighbours or look like my dad

Some ppl on here come across like complete dickheads so why on earth would we want to meet them

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Couples and single women are horrendous for doing this. Perhaps they won't speak because they are scared a single word means they have to shag me.

Uh...they don't, right? 'cos I've spoken to you.

Yeah but just cos you wanted to shag me though innit. "

True dat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how wanting to meet someone you actually fancy is being picky!

What does "knowing your worth" even mean when it comes to physical attraction?

Shagging someone you don't fancy is a waste of time - you might as well stay home and have a wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how wanting to meet someone you actually fancy is being picky!

What does "knowing your worth" even mean when it comes to physical attraction?

Shagging someone you don't fancy is a waste of time - you might as well stay home and have a wank!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how wanting to meet someone you actually fancy is being picky!

What does "knowing your worth" even mean when it comes to physical attraction?

Shagging someone you don't fancy is a waste of time - you might as well stay home and have a wank!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't just fuck anyone or anything x I have standards. And I know my worth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have looked at who women have had sex with,when they have said they are picky/choosy/fussy and not been attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm VERY fussy.

I have few chances to meet so it has to be really good when I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am very selective xx

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Very selective, I take many factors into consideration.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Hygiene is very important goes without saying, size is quite important to me too. Not just looks though, i prefer not to meet people who i think are a bit stupid because they might get on my tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussy at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have looked at who women have had sex with,when they have said they are picky/choosy/fussy and not been attracted to them. "

There's many men on the forum that I'm not attracted to but loads of women swoon over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you master your horniness you'll then be able to have standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you master your horniness you'll then be able to have standards.

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i have standards.

also - at scarlet.

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