FabSwingers.com forum: How many of you are really looking for NSA fun ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for NSA fun......I'm just having difficulty finding a lady who's looking for the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some meets we have are completely NSA, and that's great - especially when we are traveling. But others are regular and that's what we prefer and ask for on our profile.

So I will say us, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first.

But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me.

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No strings but ideally not just one-off meets.

Definitely no exclusivity, no demands, no relationship bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some meets we have are completely NSA, and that's great - especially when we are traveling. But others are regular and that's what we prefer and ask for on our profile.

So I will say us, sometimes.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

A bit of both. Nice have regulars,but as hubby says,it's nice to have a bit of strange now and then.

MrsSB

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first.

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

I agree and feel the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want drama our anything exclusive, but do prefer to get to know people. Fuck and go just makes me feel icky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood... In general I would like to stick to one or two regulars. But sometimes I just have an itch that needs scratching, in which case my first port of call are the single guys & couples I've been chatting to already. Sometimes none of them are available, so I find someone on here. Some become regulars, others are never seen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

Perfectly reasonable

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I'm not looking for anything more than nsa. I have met and repeat meets. I'm looking at moment for something specific so there will be some fine threads needed to accomplish this. Nsa can mean different things for different people.Nsa for me means no expectations,no exclusivity and respect for who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never even use the NSA acronym so not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. I'm single,enjoying life and love having a variety of men in my life. I barely have time to fuck,I don't have time for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always said it was NSA I was after but a few years ago I meet a lady on here and we decided to have a exclusive relationship. It lasted up until last April and was great. But ended when she took a job abroad. I could have upped sticks but decided to stay here in good old England.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

I agree and feel the same way."

I agree to a certain extent. You can't know if someone will become a friend,or never contact again after sex.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Bit of both. I equally enjoy exploring a woman's body, and developing sexual chemistry as much as having simple no strings.

#sittingonthefence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for NSA fun......I'm just having difficulty finding a lady who's looking for the same!!

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Couldn't have put it better myself, that's exactly what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings.

*waves frantically*!!!!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

definitely no strings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moi

Occasionally a fuck develops into friendship though and i don't mind that really but beyond that i don't want or need anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like sex with virtual strangers a long time ago but now I find my needs have evolved.

My body always follows willingly if the person I'm going to have sex with understands me, that they know I'm fiery, passionate even, but above all not seeking anything heavy of heart as I'm not looking for any more than to get lost in the paradise of lustful lustiness.

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

Long term no strings for me, but on the odd occasion i have noticed there a lot of women who actually want a full time relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

Ditched for a better offer... They must have had rocks in their head.. because you are stunning!

Also no strings please.. that doesn't mean I am not polite and civil though!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

Yup, no strings should not be an excuse for no respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both. I equally enjoy exploring a woman's body, and developing sexual chemistry as much as having simple no strings.

#sittingonthefence"

At first glance, I thought your hashtag at the end said "sittingontheFACE"! Oops....sorry, I've not been awake long!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

Ditched for a better offer... They must have had rocks in their head.. because you are stunning!

Also no strings please.. that doesn't mean I am not polite and civil though!"

Hence the question ... She is stunning , but some who want more than NSA may prefer to meet someone with more relationship potential .

And no strings doesn't mean one can't be polite and civil . It's odd that some think people like us who don't want friendship are curt and rude . Far from it , we are a very friendly couple believe it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends and if we happen to fuck all the better x

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Regular no strings would be ideal but never say never to one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for Nsa ,regular Fb, and even a partner ..... I'm certainly open minded to a relationship .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

I agree and feel the same way.

I agree to a certain extent. You can't know if someone will become a friend,or never contact again after sex. "

Oh definitely, and I've had plenty of one offs I've never seen again - but that's no much what I was looking for from the outset, that's just how it ended up going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been trying for ages now still no result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

We'd agree with all that. We look for different things in people. We'd definitely go for no strings when meeting singles, but still has to be a connection there.

We've tried the just turning up and fuck thing, as neither of us are 'people persons'. And it hadn't gone well. But we still haven't tried a club. So never say never.

Though we have made the mistake of being friend zoned. And it's difficult to explore fantasies without building up trust first.

As for definition of NSA, we'd say exclusivity? Not being obligated to another swinger as to who you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa can be a really complicated question can't it? I'm very content being single. I like living on my own and doing my own thing,and I've met guys for a one or two off and that's very exciting. But I would like a familiar body that I love and who loves me, to have on a regular, but not often, basis in my bed.

I wouldn't want them exclusively, even, its actually very horny thinking about them fucking other people, but I would worry they'd prefer another woman to me and I'd lose them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

No Strings to Me is Perfect and Exactly what I Want Too Good to be True!

I Don't Need a Complicated So-Called relationship either!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

NSA. With as little interaction before and most certainly after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings, but that doesn't mean we haven't made some good friends and had repeat meets

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Depends what mood I'm in to be honest,my requirements change from one minute to the next. Mostly I am looking for more,but sometimes you just need one thing whilst you're looking for that person that can give you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's perfectly possible to have no strings friends. I've got a husband so i need no involvement beyond friendship. I've got some guys that I've been meeting for years. We message now and then. Meet when convenient to both and have a great time becoming reacquainted. Then we go our separate ways. I also have one offs, just because i like meeting new people. If they turn into nsa friends then great. If not that's also great. I'm not really into completely random meets though. Because of lack of time and there usually being distance involved i don't meet socially so i need to be confident that we are going to be on the same wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I would play anonymously is in a club.

NSA is definitely my reason for being here. Life is complicated enough for anything extra. Rock up, fuck and fuck off is perfect for what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only time I would play anonymously is in a club.

NSA is definitely my reason for being here. Life is complicated enough for anything extra. Rock up, fuck and fuck off is perfect for what I'm looking for. "

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Quickie one-off meets hold no interest for me. They don't hit the spot AT ALL at this moment in my life. I'm also not interested in exploring fantasies or pushing boundaries or anything of that nature. I find all that very tedious.

I need something a bit more meaningful. I want to spend some quality time with a woman, both in and out of the bedroom. I like the thrill of getting know a woman beforehand. It's still no strings. It's just got a bit of substance to it that's all.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

No strings. Like yourselves, although most of our meets are in clubs, we never even make introductions sometimes. Just good times, fuck n go......

Although we do also have repeat meets. Isn't that what swinging about, go out, fuck and come home....... then fuck some more together once home xxxxx

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm at the club I go to, I've had fun with people whose names I've not known and I've enjoyed it.

But where I live in Reading, I'm not interested in one off fucks, they just do nothing for me.

I must just have a different mindset when I'm in a club I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of my meets are no strings, i want to be with someone but am gonna have sex while i wait for that person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No strings. Like yourselves, although most of our meets are in clubs, we never even make introductions sometimes. Just good times, fuck n go......

Although we do also have repeat meets. Isn't that what swinging about, go out, fuck and come home....... then fuck some more together once home xxxxx

Suzi"

Yep , this is what works so well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both. I equally enjoy exploring a woman's body, and developing sexual chemistry as much as having simple no strings.

#sittingonthefence"

I wouldn't say exploring someone's body and having sexual chemistry is strings. Are you saying no strings is turning up,without much conversation,putting your cock in,pumping away for a few minutes,coming and going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I'm at the club I go to, I've had fun with people whose names I've not known and I've enjoyed it.

But where I live in Reading, I'm not interested in one off fucks, they just do nothing for me.

I must just have a different mindset when I'm in a club I think."

That mindset you have in the club , is the one we have all the time

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Me although I do like the safety of a regular fb, no strings tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa play pure and simple. But would also love to have a regular fwb or couple to play with. Getting either is proving to be a work of art though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

I would say that ideally I am looking for a few 'friends with benefits' as the reward-to-work ratio for one-off meets is not very favourable for a less than perfect single guy like myself. However one-offs are fine by me because ultimately I'm looking for fun. I'm certainly not looking for exclusivity though.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Quickie one-off meets hold no interest for me. They don't hit the spot AT ALL at this moment in my life. I'm also not interested in exploring fantasies or pushing boundaries or anything of that nature. I find all that very tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have at least some kind of connection on a purely non-sexual level with the women i meet whether it's shared interests or experiences etc.. After the sex I do keep in contact if only to say Hi once in a while. I couldn't just drop someone completely as you never know a further meet may be on the cards and i just think this is right on a purely human interaction level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not looking for nsa, in fact I am not looking for sex at all.

My wife gets home on average 1 long weekend per month, so the tenancy is not to swing, but occasionally she is home more than a couple of nights and we will go and find some extra fun. usually from our existing friends, or a club night, but on a couple of occasions I have reached out to couples or bi women I know from this profile. Which of course makes me a fake single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have strings if I am honest yet it has to be the unicorn I am seeking though

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

I'm all about "no strings" unless of course you want to tie me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets are NSA, non-exclusive and uncomplicated...even the repeat/regular ones with guys I've been seeing for years, or those who choose to only meet me.

It doesn't mean we don't have mutual respect and friendship - we're just not part of each others lives outside of Fab and never will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to have at least some kind of connection on a purely non-sexual level with the women i meet whether it's shared interests or experiences etc.. After the sex I do keep in contact if only to say Hi once in a while. I couldn't just drop someone completely as you never know a further meet may be on the cards and i just think this is right on a purely human interaction level.

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By *eelingnaughty87Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm looking for nsa fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for NSA, but, I don't think that "no strings" has to mean anonymous, unknown, one-off and impersonal.

I think trust, respect, friendship, attraction and an appropriate amount of intimacy can co-exist with "no strings".

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm tied down enough at work & home so it's NSA for me all the time

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Looking for NSA, but, I don't think that "no strings" has to mean anonymous, unknown, one-off and impersonal.

I think trust, respect, friendship, attraction and an appropriate amount of intimacy can co-exist with "no strings". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not currently looking but when I do its nsa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much just looking for no strings. Mutual attraction physically and mentally is still a must though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

Yup, no strings should not be an excuse for no respect."

Couldn't agree more.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

We all have strings that make just meeting for a fuck hard when you want one, be that string the cheating spouse, the single parent, the successful business person, shift workers etc so it's arguable that getting a fuck no strings attached doesn't actually exist

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

This is exactly how I feel as well

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We work on the karma chameleon theory

"They cum and go"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree fuck and go no thank you. I'm not looking for strings neither am I looking for exclusive people. The best meets I have had have been spur of the moment but I have had a few messages from them previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree.

This is exactly how I feel as well

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think the best meets are spontaneous. We met that way ... when single I used meets to scratch an itch and didn't want any meets encroaching on my 'real' life. I feel the same way now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really interested in complete NSA meets or fun but have a relationship that is very much separate from Fab so can't fully commit either to be honest. But want to give more than just sex to a Fabber, to be a friend, help etc.

I know what I mean just finding it difficult to express here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

My only experience of this was one time meeting a girl advertising "no strings fun". So I get to the designated meeting point and a few minutes later she turned up. She then took a conker out of her pocket with a hole drilled in it and started throwing it at me. Wtf's all the about?...Crazy bitch.

Put me right off it did, never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of NSA means I don't want to get into a relationship or exclusivity with you but I do want to be a 'friend' of sorts where possible.

Not all meets work out that way but the ones that do provide (for me at least) the most fulfilling sex.

Completely one offs, don't know their name or even care does nothing for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Reading some of the threads there seems to be an increase of people being offended/slighted/hurt because their casual fuck has had the temerity to see other people!

You can find love anywhere, I met my other half here but neither of us was looking. He's not what I look for on here, and as a Dutch man who's lived half his life in France with those sophisticated ladies a big, black woman with an attitude was certainly not his dream date, but cupid has a sense of humour.

If all involved knows the score: no harm, no foul! However, if not...well, we see the fallout every day: not pretty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Put me right off it did, never again!

You mean you don't go to meets armed with your own conker? Pfft, amateur

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

To answer your question...no strings. I have family, friends and a partner: enough drama for me. That said, I've known my playmates for years, some we touch bases every couple of months or so.

For me, people I play with are friends, but I don't make demands on their times or they on mine and no hissy fits/nose out of joint if they play elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Put me right off it did, never again!

You mean you don't go to meets armed with your own conker? Pfft, amateur

Hmmmm...... (ponders)

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We work on the karma chameleon theory

"They cum and go"

Damn. Earworm. I like your style

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

NSA yes but i want to be freinds with them as well, otherwise it is not as enjoyable and i feel like i was shit or something otherwise.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have had quite a few regular playmates over the years all NSA the better you know someone the better the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a regular guy for sex with friendship as well

I love one off social meets though and happy to meet once and never again but not if sex involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no strings for us no bullshit no baggage lol after all we are here for sex only if we make a few friends then cool but not out looking for it 95% of our meets are spur of the moment stuff

ps also understands we all use the site differently and rightly so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get all the strings I want at home without the sex.

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Pure no strings for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already said a few times have to admit I'm a both ways guy lol

I like to have a regular yet to find one for fun where you can build a friendship and sexual experiences

But am also very very happy to meet on a 100% NSA basis

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over a year ago

No strings. But if you click, you click, it's unavoidable. But I'm not actively looking though as just out of a relationship and having way too much fun on Tinder!

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Some fun would just be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

I agree totally.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just no strings - please, no relationships ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's the men I meet who want strings, with the exception of my FWB xxx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I love nsa. Not sure I can cope with the hassle and complications of a relationship. I have three grown up kids and don't need another.

I socialise with fab friends too so it's not all just sex. The added benefit that we can have conversations about fab too and have a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings but need to have chatted to them first, I have to find someone arousing mentally as well as physically, I couldn't fuck someone with out knowing their name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy with either, but agree with some of the other comments that you can have no strings with a regular person/people

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.

Possibly for those in a relationship of some kind,NSA can be a fulfilling addition,a spark to their flame but I find that NSA is not really an adequate substitute for,,,,what? really...I don't want the kind of relationship where you're in each others pocket 24/7,with all the stress and responsibility that entails.

I,personally,would prefer rather than 'No strings attached' a kind of 'not many strings attached and even then,only loosely',kind of arrangement (or two or three). The possibility of dates,meals out,drinks,dancing laughs and,of course,wild uninhibited sexy fun,,,,just none of the mundane ness of everyday life together.

A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.

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over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.

A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.

I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied.

And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'.

I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway.

But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess.

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over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.

A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.

I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied.

And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'.

I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway.

But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess."

For example,tonight,,,sat at home alone (feeling ever so slightly lonely if I'm honest),,,I could go to the pub,I could pick up some guy,any guy, for a bit of wild abandon or I could just advertise on here 'looking to meet tonight',,,it just doesn't appeal. Right now,I'd rather just have a kiss n cuddle.

Just don't want to have to get a mortgage together,choose wallpaper and go grocery shopping together for that.

There must be a happy medium,,,the kisses n cuddles,,,the wild sex when you feel like it,,,,just none of the boring bits.Like I said,,,not many strings attached.

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over a year ago

"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that ....

But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ?

Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny .

So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?

Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.

A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.

I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied.

And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'.

I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway.

But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess.

Just don't want to have to get a mortgage together,choose wallpaper and go grocery shopping together for that.

There must be a happy medium,,,the kisses n cuddles,,,the wild sex when you feel like it,,,,just none of the boring bits.Like I said,,,not many strings attached."

i'd like proper regular sex with someone who give a shit. and yeah they don't have to commit to me either, i'm very independent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. "

Very well put

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over a year ago

I thought this was a really interesting thread. Yes we are looking for NSA sex, but I suspect some would frown on our more personal friendship-based approach and say it negates NSA. To us 'no strings attached' means the sexual relationship is not exclusive, there are no requirements for frequency of meetings, and there is no involvement in personal lives. However, that doesn't stop us making an effort with our playmates. When we meet we would always make an evening of it, eg go out for some drinks, or invite to our house for dinner. Some people call that dating (which seems to be a dirty word on Fab), but we call it having a nice time with friends. And to us, what is better than having a night out with friends and having some hot kinky sex thrown in!

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over a year ago

"I thought this was a really interesting thread. Yes we are looking for NSA sex, but I suspect some would frown on our more personal friendship-based approach and say it negates NSA. To us 'no strings attached' means the sexual relationship is not exclusive, there are no requirements for frequency of meetings, and there is no involvement in personal lives. However, that doesn't stop us making an effort with our playmates. When we meet we would always make an evening of it, eg go out for some drinks, or invite to our house for dinner. Some people call that dating (which seems to be a dirty word on Fab), but we call it having a nice time with friends. And to us, what is better than having a night out with friends and having some hot kinky sex thrown in!"

That sounds like a lot of fun, it's something we have done as well and hope to do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd like NSA. One offs seem quite appealing at the moment. However I'm still looking for localish friends to hook up with every now and then and to chill out with.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I would like a very regular FWB but no strings, no exclusivity and no hassle about who else I meet. And they'd get the same in return.

I guess I'd like the good parts of having a man and none of the crap parts. And having several men who fit that criteria

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