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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Hi fellow fabs, I've been on here for about a month now and only had about three messages. I've sent hundreds. Any advice as to getting some success? Do I need a cock pic? Would it help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Cock pics rarely help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cock pics would help if you're messaging people looking for a certain size of cock.

dunno, people just don't fancy you i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabs, I've been on here for about a month now and only had about three messages. I've sent hundreds. Any advice as to getting some success? Do I need a cock pic? Would it help?"
Few pointers because by reading your profile you don't say much you need to make some serious changes to it i was like that had to change mine also my describing what your on here for what your like as a person what your looking for stuff like that doesn't hurt also to look at a few male profiles to see what they're writing about themselves just to help you get off your feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt I've approached 100 women in all the time I've been here. Maybe be more selective?

Granted that I'm probably not the best person to give advice.

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Thanks, I've not looked at my profile in a while, it's so hard on here just to get somewhere. So much competition guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, I've not looked at my profile in a while, it's so hard on here just to get somewhere. So much competition guess."
Don't worry about competitiveness just write down what i say you will be fine

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Do you get much luck then? Im not greedy but it would be nice to get a few conversations going with a view to meeting one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get much luck then? Im not greedy but it would be nice to get a few conversations going with a view to meeting one "
Not at the moment i haven't no only been on few weeks people say to me patirnce get involved in the forums and stuff go to clubs and stuff get yourself noticed

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I wouldn't know the first thing about going to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you really sent out 100s if messages in a month?

I dobut the scattergun approach of messaging anybody and everybody pats divideds. It seems a little desperate and people spot that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't know the first thing about going to clubs. "
Check out the events pages see one close to you go there meet women chat to them and stuff

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

How else you meant to get replies. Gotta message them aint ya. They aint gonna message me. It's a woman's domain on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How else you meant to get replies. Gotta message them aint ya. They aint gonna message me. It's a woman's domain on here."
Work on your profile get them interested in you like you say it's a womans domain here if they don't like what they see they ain't going to message you back and not meaning by looks either they want to see what your like as a person most women on here don't even read your message first they read your profile if they don't like what they see on there they will delete your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How else you meant to get replies. Gotta message them aint ya. They aint gonna message me. It's a woman's domain on here."

Be honest in what you are looking for. Message those that match it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As his profile says he has been here over a year then it is feasible to have sent hundreds of messages in that time. Up; your profile needs serious work..there are several clubs in Leicester you can attend to get yourself out and about. Google is your friend

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