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:) I cannot wait for my first meet..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to this site just got photo verified the list of things you can tick is amazing! Has everyone had a good experience on their first meet or did nerves kick in lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm still in contact with my first meet. we used to fuck a few times a week but now he's moved away for work, shame really as there's not many guys like him on here.

i wasn't nervous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's great news, I really like the idea of exploring someone intimately on more then one occasion if it felt right the first time round ?? I'm not a shy or nervous person but who knows put in a certain situation that I'm in familiar with might change that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting people can be nerve racking for me, just for sex it isn't though.

hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sitting in a corner twiddling my thumbs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you feir and I hope you have all the fun you can handle ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never get all the fun i can handle haha, but thanks yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared to possibly wait a while for your first meet. Weeks, months even.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I'm sure there will come a point where it just makes everything complete even if it's just for 24 hrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm patient as they say Rome wasn't built in one day I want to be a little bit selective

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Our first meet was a very good experience, I was very nervous indeed, Mr N was just excited. Once we got back to the man's flat my nerves just vanished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nervous now and I've not even arranged a meeting.

Hello, and good luck here.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Had some great meets wife always nervous but once going she enjoys . Was very excited on my first meet and cum very quickly , 2nd meet I did get nervous and lucky was with an experienced couple and they said it happens to everyone sooner or later but since then have had no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meets don't necesarily mean sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first meet many many years ago. I was single then. I was nervous but not for long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first couple of socials and my first hotel meet I was so nervous because I'd not met anyone new in 20 years.

After that I relaxed, but I still always get a nervous excitement. I don't meet very often, so I genuinely feel like a kid at Christmas in the days building up to seeing someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet ended up being a 1 year and a half sort of relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet ended up being a 1 year and a half sort of relationship. "

Snap well two years and it was just an amazing time with a beautiful friend , sadly we don't talk any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get a nervous kind of excitement every time I meet which is a great feeling.

My 1st time meeting I was over excitable, really nervous & I talked incessantly until he shut me up by kissing, which was nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site just got photo verified the list of things you can tick is amazing! Has everyone had a good experience on their first meet or did nerves kick in lol ? "

Good luck fella.

Yeh ive had some nice meets on here, yep nerves can get in the way, but it gets better with time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet ended up being a 1 year and a half sort of relationship.

Snap well two years and it was just an amazing time with a beautiful friend , sadly we don't talk any more "

5 years for me, and we dont talk anymore either.

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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I love the nerves! Adds to the excitement for me

Welcome to fab and best of luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nerves coupled with the pure idle lust, I was like a new born foal.

Knees threatening to give!

Worth it completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet ended up being a 1 year and a half sort of relationship.

Snap well two years and it was just an amazing time with a beautiful friend , sadly we don't talk any more

5 years for me, and we dont talk anymore either. "

We should create a club ;-(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was in August 2011, (he's long gone!) beautiful marine! Picked him up from his brothers engagement party, drove to a hotel where he asked the receptionist for a room for "my wife and I" Was a good meet and still speak now and again on whatsapp!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My very first meet from this site took six months(i was already shagging guys on here but id known them from other sites).

He came over and had a good time. Then he dissappeared of the face of the earth. Three weeks later he had messaged me, there had been an emergency the next day.

I know this was true as i then ended up seeing him every monday for about 4 years until his jib took him away. Where still in touch but i havent seen him along while

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and op i always say the day i stop getting the nervous exitement when meeting someone new is the day i stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Jib'

I didn't realise are Australian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh for fecking sake

you*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet ended up being a 1 year and a half sort of relationship.

Snap well two years and it was just an amazing time with a beautiful friend , sadly we don't talk any more "

Oh Taff I'm sorry to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was last year on my couples profile. Very nervous but excited....a little more so because we'll I'd only experienced being with my husband and we met at 16

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You've been on fab for 7 months OP, hardly new.....

Anyway my first meet on here was a social but I didn't see him again because he got loads of froth from his coffee on his lip and the way he licked it off made me cringe!!! I was very nervous though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been on fab for 7 months OP, hardly new.....

Anyway my first meet on here was a social but I didn't see him again because he got loads of froth from his coffee on his lip and the way he licked it off made me cringe!!! I was very nervous though."

Bloody amateurs . Rookie mistake or is Ms Lick a fussy minx.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We were nervous on our first couple meet,but both enjoyed it.

We had a social first,so that helped a bit,

Have fun;)

Miss

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"You've been on fab for 7 months OP, hardly new.....

Anyway my first meet on here was a social but I didn't see him again because he got loads of froth from his coffee on his lip and the way he licked it off made me cringe!!! I was very nervous though.

Bloody amateurs . Rookie mistake or is Ms Lick a fussy minx. "

It was like a slow motion lick from one side to the other and I'm sure I heard an 'Mmmmmmmmm' to. I'm sure I pulled a face! You're right though I am a fussy minx x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm nervous now and I've not even arranged a meeting.

Hello, and good luck here. "

hello and thank you. I'm sure it will be everything you ask for when it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I still get a nervous kind of excitement every time I meet which is a great feeling.

My 1st time meeting I was over excitable, really nervous & I talked incessantly until he shut me up by kissing, which was nice "

that sound perfect a kiss can do a lot lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First meets don't necesarily mean sex"

i agree, but it is always nice to break the ice with something to smile about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've been on fab for 7 months OP, hardly new.....

Anyway my first meet on here was a social but I didn't see him again because he got loads of froth from his coffee on his lip and the way he licked it off made me cringe!!! I was very nervous though."

lol,i did set up the account some time ago but i never had anything on here as i was just browsing, but new to me is verified and actually looking for some new experiences i hope you understand thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and op i always say the day i stop getting the nervous exitement when meeting someone new is the day i stop"

i can quiet relate to that there will be some sort of nervousness to contend with lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we ever stopped being nervous before a meet we would stop playing for a bit, nerves are part of the fun

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