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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " Don't worry 41 is a good age, at the prime of ur Life besides remember the saying: women are like wine, always getting better with __ | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " Firstly, I agree with your hubby and you are very sexy looking. I dont lie about my age and i am.a decade older than yourself. Its the person people want to meet and not their age. So continue as you are and dont worry about the declines in winks, fabs etc. I hope this helps reinstall your self confidence as honestly youre gorgeous and definitely dont look your age. Barney x | |||
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"Pretty confident that many do... Some people's age next to their face pics are hilarious!! I'm 35, and I really am 35. I mostly get approached by twentysomethings after a "milf", so it surprises me that it stops at 41?" Maybe it's not my age, maybe it's something else then? I wonder if the cut off age for women is the same as men? Guys do you get less messages when you hit 40/41? (Those that get messages!) | |||
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" Guys do you get less messages when you hit 40/41? (Those that get messages!) " More than ever. | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " I think you look incredible and age shouldn't matter, although I probably wouldn't come across your profile due to being 1 year too young xx | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " . Surely it's compulsory for hotwifes to be in their 40s.... It's part of the deal. | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " We didn't but think many do tbh, If we think they are lying we'll pass them by because my man logic says if they put a younger age it means "They" think they look younger & in our outside fab experience of meeting said people (school mums etc.) They are rarely comfortable with their lot in life or in their skins.. So to be avoided, Looking younger than you are is one thing, knowing it is another and changing your age is something else.. But it does most definitely cost you meets.. S We wouldn't be looking at your age OP | |||
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"Oh I wish I was still 41 and I totally agree no point lying about your age cos you'll only get caught out in the end " Do people really get 'caught out'? It's a very minor lie. I'm not saying lie, but is it really that big deal if people choose to do that. Practically every man we've met has changed their real age on their profile, certainly all those over forty have. We now ask men on the first meet how old they really are, and they tell us. The lie doesn't effect whether we can all have a good time. And they wanted to continue the lie, they could if they wanted - it's not like we're going to ask for ID. | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? I think you look incredible and age shouldn't matter, although I probably wouldn't come across your profile due to being 1 year too young xx" I'm sorry, I couldn't read what you said as I was too busy looking at your photos. | |||
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"Oh I wish I was still 41 and I totally agree no point lying about your age cos you'll only get caught out in the end Do people really get 'caught out'? It's a very minor lie. I'm not saying lie, but is it really that big deal if people choose to do that. Practically every man we've met has changed their real age on their profile, certainly all those over forty have. We now ask men on the first meet how old they really are, and they tell us. The lie doesn't effect whether we can all have a good time. And they wanted to continue the lie, they could if they wanted - it's not like we're going to ask for ID." i have my age preferences set for a reason. They apply to no where else in my life. And if i found out they lied i wouldnt meet them | |||
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"Oh I wish I was still 41 and I totally agree no point lying about your age cos you'll only get caught out in the end Do people really get 'caught out'? It's a very minor lie. I'm not saying lie, but is it really that big deal if people choose to do that. Practically every man we've met has changed their real age on their profile, certainly all those over forty have. We now ask men on the first meet how old they really are, and they tell us. The lie doesn't effect whether we can all have a good time. And they wanted to continue the lie, they could if they wanted - it's not like we're going to ask for ID.i have my age preferences set for a reason. They apply to no where else in my life. And if i found out they lied i wouldnt meet them" I guess all the men we've met were still within our age preferences, so it wasn't like our time was wasted or anything. | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " No. I'm 43 and I'm looking it lately. What is there to be done except enjoy the life we are given. | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " Nope I prefer to be honest. That said I've started getting more grey hairs over the last six months xx | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " You look stunning for any age. I'd happily receive a rejection message off you | |||
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"Your body looks great, no matter what age if im honest.. how big are your crows feet? only messing Are you only intrested in women?" OMG buahahahahaha! I can't believe I had it set that I was looking for women! Nope, only interested in men. That could really explain a few things. Lololololololololol | |||
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"Your body looks great, no matter what age if im honest.. how big are your crows feet? only messing Are you only intrested in women? OMG buahahahahaha! I can't believe I had it set that I was looking for women! Nope, only interested in men. That could really explain a few things. Lololololololololol " See you in 2 years | |||
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"They say life begins at 40, but when my ex wife gave birth to my sons, they were very small and didn't look 40" Haha made me giggle good 1 | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? " I genuinely surprised at this I haven't noticed a drop in numbers since I hit my 40's, I have noticed different men mail me how, I get more young guy than ever after older woman, in fact to be honest I'd say I get more messages now that ever | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? I genuinely surprised at this I haven't noticed a drop in numbers since I hit my 40's, I have noticed different men mail me how, I get more young guy than ever after older woman, in fact to be honest I'd say I get more messages now that ever " See my post a few posts up. Turned out I'd put I was only seeking women when in fact I'm only seeking men! Doh. My inbox is kinda full suddenly now. lol | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? I genuinely surprised at this I haven't noticed a drop in numbers since I hit my 40's, I have noticed different men mail me how, I get more young guy than ever after older woman, in fact to be honest I'd say I get more messages now that ever See my post a few posts up. Turned out I'd put I was only seeking women when in fact I'm only seeking men! Doh. My inbox is kinda full suddenly now. lol" What You mean men didn't mail you before just because you stated you wasn't looking for them Now that does surprise me | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? I genuinely surprised at this I haven't noticed a drop in numbers since I hit my 40's, I have noticed different men mail me how, I get more young guy than ever after older woman, in fact to be honest I'd say I get more messages now that ever See my post a few posts up. Turned out I'd put I was only seeking women when in fact I'm only seeking men! Doh. My inbox is kinda full suddenly now. lol What You mean men didn't mail you before just because you stated you wasn't looking for them Now that does surprise me " I'm wondering whether it was acting as a filter - maybe they couldn't? Honestly my inbox was as empty as an empty thing. Made Pluto look crowded. And weirdly our couples inbox got more messages. I'm not kidding, I even left it for five days, came back, no messages. Very odd. But now I know! | |||
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"I have been on and off Fab since I was 38-39 ish. Since hitting 40, and especially 41, views, messages and winks have shrunk down to almost zero. I don't lie about my age but it's very tempting! I don't (think) I look my age. Husband says I could pass for 34. Maybe he means a very ropey 34 who looks 50. I dunno! Would you/do you lie about your age? I genuinely surprised at this I haven't noticed a drop in numbers since I hit my 40's, I have noticed different men mail me how, I get more young guy than ever after older woman, in fact to be honest I'd say I get more messages now that ever See my post a few posts up. Turned out I'd put I was only seeking women when in fact I'm only seeking men! Doh. My inbox is kinda full suddenly now. lol What You mean men didn't mail you before just because you stated you wasn't looking for them Now that does surprise me I'm wondering whether it was acting as a filter - maybe they couldn't? Honestly my inbox was as empty as an empty thing. Made Pluto look crowded. And weirdly our couples inbox got more messages. I'm not kidding, I even left it for five days, came back, no messages. Very odd. But now I know!" If you were set to females only, you were quite probably not showing up in 'normal' search options. Only females or couples looking for females? | |||
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"Have my true age on profile 67 any comments that I don't look it are very welcome " Awww did you get married?! How did I miss that?! xx You're the original forum sweethearts (in my time). You don't even look 57. And I'm not taking the piss. | |||
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"Have my true age on profile 67 any comments that I don't look it are very welcome Awww did you get married?! How did I miss that?! xx You're the original forum sweethearts (in my time). You don't even look 57. And I'm not taking the piss. " I think he looks a lot younger than he is too - although they do say that you're as old as the woman you feel - and yes, my true age is also posted - this year is very unique as my age is the year Jim was born and on his birthday, later this year, his age will be the year I was born - it will never happen again! And yes, we will have been married 2 months tomorrow | |||
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"Have my true age on profile 67 any comments that I don't look it are very welcome Awww did you get married?! How did I miss that?! xx You're the original forum sweethearts (in my time). You don't even look 57. And I'm not taking the piss. I think he looks a lot younger than he is too - although they do say that you're as old as the woman you feel - and yes, my true age is also posted - this year is very unique as my age is the year Jim was born and on his birthday, later this year, his age will be the year I was born - it will never happen again! And yes, we will have been married 2 months tomorrow " congratulations, i knew you where getting married but i didnt know when. You look lovely in your photo. | |||
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" I think he looks a lot younger than he is too - although they do say that you're as old as the woman you feel - and yes, my true age is also posted - this year is very unique as my age is the year Jim was born and on his birthday, later this year, his age will be the year I was born - it will never happen again! And yes, we will have been married 2 months tomorrow congratulations, i knew you where getting married but i didnt know when. You look lovely in your photo." Thank you Karen, it was a perfect day | |||
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"I'll let you know when I get used to the fact the big number has changed. I feel like a car when the milometer goes up a column. " When's your servicing due? | |||
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"Age is a funny thing on Fabs. Message wise it makes no difference that I am late 40's nearly 50. However, I do feel my overall appeal has slightly diminished with age & I have to almost work harder at it, forum / chat room wise. " Look way younger !!! Plus I heard when you hit 50 it's legal to count backwards | |||
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"Age is a funny thing on Fabs. Message wise it makes no difference that I am late 40's nearly 50. However, I do feel my overall appeal has slightly diminished with age & I have to almost work harder at it, forum / chat room wise. Look way younger !!! Plus I heard when you hit 50 it's legal to count backwards " Excellent, I'll be counting back in fives | |||
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"Have my true age on profile 67 any comments that I don't look it are very welcome Awww did you get married?! How did I miss that?! xx You're the original forum sweethearts (in my time). You don't even look 57. And I'm not taking the piss. I think he looks a lot younger than he is too - although they do say that you're as old as the woman you feel - and yes, my true age is also posted - this year is very unique as my age is the year Jim was born and on his birthday, later this year, his age will be the year I was born - it will never happen again! And yes, we will have been married 2 months tomorrow " That's so cool about this year! And congrats. | |||
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