FabSwingers.com forum: I've noticed...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot of tension on here lately.

Let's all calm the fuck down and spread some love for once.

Happy hump day everyone. Almost the weekend. Hang in there

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

There's tension? I didn't notice

but then I've been in a happy pink and fluffy place lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's tension? I didn't notice

but then I've been in a happy pink and fluffy place lately

How did the baby birth go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tense nervous headaches...gritty grimey ..

Bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the day in york with all my best mates on Saturday, so I'm definitely looking forward to the weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having the day in york with all my best mates on Saturday, so I'm definitely looking forward to the weekend"

Great stuff

awesome weather too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just business as usual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's tension? I didn't notice

but then I've been in a happy pink and fluffy place lately

Ah good. You may want to stay in there until it all calms down in here

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I've noticed that over the last few weeks,but I don't know if that's just me or if everyone else is being narky as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've noticed that over the last few weeks,but I don't know if that's just me or if everyone else is being narky as well"

Nope, you're not the only one.

Hoping it's just a phase and things will calm down again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been in a content place for along time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not really noticed. No more than usual anyway.

Maybe we should all just have a group hug or something. Or group yoga.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not really noticed. No more than usual anyway.

Maybe we should all just have a group hug or something. Or group yoga. "

Let's do it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I've noticed that over the last few weeks,but I don't know if that's just me or if everyone else is being narky as well"
sometimes it seems everyone is in a bad mood and sometimes all in a good mood.

But a lot of it is dependant on whats posted.

When i have enough i just bugger of for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that over the last few weeks,but I don't know if that's just me or if everyone else is being narky as well

Nope, you're not the only one.

Hoping it's just a phase and things will calm down again.

Looks normal to me, there's always tension and drama somewhere on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not really noticed. No more than usual anyway.

Maybe we should all just have a group hug or something. Or group yoga.

Let's do it

Group yoga I think is the way forward and not an excuse to see all the ladies in yoga pants at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

Haha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

Haha, yes not sure which i am more repelled by lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've noticed that over the last few weeks,but I don't know if that's just me or if everyone else is being narky as well

Nope, you're not the only one.

Hoping it's just a phase and things will calm down again.

Looks normal to me, there's always tension and drama somewhere on here

I love a bit of drama

But when it gets a bit personal..it's not great to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not really noticed. No more than usual anyway.

Maybe we should all just have a group hug or something. Or group yoga.

Let's do it

Group yoga I think is the way forward and not an excuse to see all the ladies in yoga pants at all

No, of course it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always calm....just because i happen to disagree with someone doesn't mean I'm calling in the hit men to bump them off. The fab forum isn't that important....besides i find it really irritating when everything's covered in glitter...it gets into some really annoying places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am always calm....just because i happen to disagree with someone doesn't mean I'm calling in the hit men to bump them off. The fab forum isn't that important....besides i find it really irritating when everything's covered in glitter...it gets into some really annoying places

I think it's healthy to argue and to have disagreements.

Everyone agreeing with each other is a bit boring to be honest.

But what I don't like to see is when it gets a bit personal.

Seen a few instances lately where it does and the atmosphere can get a bit edgy so to speak.

Anyway, I may be wrong who knows, but it's just an observation I've made.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I think it's healthy to argue and to have disagreements.

Everyone agreeing with each other is a bit boring to be honest.

But what I don't like to see is when it gets a bit personal.

Seen a few instances lately where it does and the atmosphere can get a bit edgy so to speak.

Anyway, I may be wrong who knows, but it's just an observation I've made.

It could be the weather....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But we've got the wiggle thread, the belt thread

and a delightful thread with the musings and poetry trying to pull a bird...what's not to love ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But we've got the wiggle thread, the belt thread

and a delightful thread with the musings and poetry trying to pull a bird...what's not to love ??

Haha, good point.

I'm loving Dan's thread about trying to pull a bird.

I'm actually warming to him. Funny guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's healthy to argue and to have disagreements.

Everyone agreeing with each other is a bit boring to be honest.

But what I don't like to see is when it gets a bit personal.

Seen a few instances lately where it does and the atmosphere can get a bit edgy so to speak.

Anyway, I may be wrong who knows, but it's just an observation I've made.

Ah...that's a whole different thing. People without the ability to argue a point without being insulting. ...a lot will depend on how the regular posters interact with each other. That tends to change quite often. It only takes one dominating personality to change the whole feel of a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally always nice. However there has been a few people here lately that seemed to have put themselves on some kind of hierarchy and it makes me cringe. I should probably just ignore it to be fair.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

I think it's healthy to argue and to have disagreements.

Everyone agreeing with each other is a bit boring to be honest.

But what I don't like to see is when it gets a bit personal.

Seen a few instances lately where it does and the atmosphere can get a bit edgy so to speak.

Anyway, I may be wrong who knows, but it's just an observation I've made.

Erghh

I cant stand it when people are bouncy over the top walking on fluffly clouds vomit inducing 'nice and over cheerful' to people all the time regardless of what is going on or what is being said.

We all know the culprits lol

its so painfully obvious they are using the forums as a desperate attempt to attract a lady and are fearful that if they say something negative they will be 'crossed off that ladies little list' hahah

If you constantly 'agree' with every thread then you are not exercising your brain and are in full bum lick mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's healthy to argue and to have disagreements.

Everyone agreeing with each other is a bit boring to be honest.

But what I don't like to see is when it gets a bit personal.

Seen a few instances lately where it does and the atmosphere can get a bit edgy so to speak.

Anyway, I may be wrong who knows, but it's just an observation I've made.

Yep, same as someone can say something one day and everyone slates them for it, but someone else says the same thing another day and everyone joins in agreeing with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitch

moan

whine

flatter

splatter

ewwww

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

Word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bitch

moan

whine

flatter

splatter

ewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitch

moan

whine

flatter

splatter

ewwww

It's not my mess!

it's the sycophants and narcissists leaking.

Meow moo baa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

I see the forums as grumpy when I'm grumpy. Today they are just

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

I see the forums as grumpy when I'm grumpy. Today they are just

I'm not seeing more tension and grumpiness than normal.

There are a few people I consider dickheads about and the odd troll or two but nothing unusual.

Unless I'm just oblivious to it. I'm fairly chilled at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But we've got the wiggle thread, the belt thread

and a delightful thread with the musings and poetry trying to pull a bird...what's not to love ??

Haha, good point.

I'm loving Dan's thread about trying to pull a bird.

I'm actually warming to him. Funny guy.

I say good luck to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

I see the forums as grumpy when I'm grumpy. Today they are just

I'm not seeing more tension and grumpiness than normal.

There are a few people I consider dickheads about and the odd troll or two but nothing unusual.

Unless I'm just oblivious to it. I'm fairly chilled at the moment."

I'm a dickhead whatever my mood.

Glad you're chilled. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty tense atm because I need a wee but I cba to get out of bed. Need someone/something to bounce on my tummy.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

I see the forums as grumpy when I'm grumpy. Today they are just

I'm not seeing more tension and grumpiness than normal.

There are a few people I consider dickheads about and the odd troll or two but nothing unusual.

Unless I'm just oblivious to it. I'm fairly chilled at the moment.

I'm a dickhead whatever my mood.

Glad you're chilled. x"

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Every day on Fab is basically the same. I've noticed nothing different. Just the usual nonsense. The usual happy people. The usual dicks. The usual people trying to twist things. The usual funny posters. The usual people trying to look clever. The usual people trying to put others down. The same old same old...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

There's no tension - just people who need a good fuck

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

Agreed

Though I will say that I haven't noticed tension. I wonder what that says about me?

I see the forums as grumpy when I'm grumpy. Today they are just

I'm not seeing more tension and grumpiness than normal.

There are a few people I consider dickheads about and the odd troll or two but nothing unusual.

Unless I'm just oblivious to it. I'm fairly chilled at the moment.

I'm a dickhead whatever my mood.

Glad you're chilled. x"

You're not the type of dickhead I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no tension - just people who need a good fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no tension - just people who need a good fuck

I hope I'm not sycophantic, I just tend to avoid the drama when I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of tension on here lately.

Let's all calm the fuck down and spread some love for once.

Tension lately? Haha. I've seen nothing but the same tone on here for as long as I've been around. Maybe I don't read much into it.

But, great advice telling people to calm down. Sex is supposed to be enjoyed, and how people can get s negative vibe while here I don't get.

Happy times to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them, I post (or not), I leave them.

In the great scheme of things doesn't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of tension on here lately.

Let's all calm the fuck down and spread some love for once.

Happy hump day everyone. Almost the weekend. Hang in there

What a load of absolute crap. I've never heard such self-absorbed, attention seeking rubbish in my entire life!!! I AM SO FUCKING CHILLED I'M PRACTICALLY BEING SERVED AS A BEN AND JERRY'S!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty tense right now as I'm touching cloth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of tension on here lately.

Let's all calm the fuck down and spread some love for once.

Happy hump day everyone. Almost the weekend. Hang in there

What a load of absolute crap. I've never heard such self-absorbed, attention seeking rubbish in my entire life!!! I AM SO FUCKING CHILLED I'M PRACTICALLY BEING SERVED AS A BEN AND JERRY'S!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am very chilled and zero tension in the forums from me. Albeit I am direct, I don't engage in any fluff type threads but that shouldn't be interpreted in any other way bar them not being my thing or me not that type of person.

I sometimes think we have unrealistic expectation of the harmony expected but it reflect life. Some ups and some downs.

Just do your thing with people who will do theirs with you and ignore the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear ..... Another one !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Oh dear ..... Another one !"

Me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am very chilled and zero tension in the forums from me. Albeit I am direct, I don't engage in any fluff type threads but that shouldn't be interpreted in any other way bar them not being my thing or me not that type of person.

I sometimes think we have unrealistic expectation of the harmony expected but it reflect life. Some ups and some downs.

Just do your thing with people who will do theirs with you and ignore the rest.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?"

No not you ..... The other one

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?

No not you ..... The other one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?

No not you ..... The other one

Me?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Who's Spartacus??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?

No not you ..... The other one

Me?

Or me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

I totally agree with you! You're so right! And amazing and clever! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear ..... Another one !

Me?

No not you ..... The other one

Me?

Or me? "

It's just me not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually think it's normal behaviour to have some tension & a little grumpiness amongst a group of random strangers.

Would be very Stepford Wife-like forum wise if we were all perfectly nice all the time.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"I actually think it's normal behaviour to have some tension & a little grumpiness amongst a group of random strangers.

Would be very Stepford Wife-like forum wise if we were all perfectly nice all the time."

Agreed

Nothing worse than someone talking Like wvwrythings perfect and they dont have a care in the world and over nice to everyone.

Makes ya wanna puke!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

*everythings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its human nature to fall out. Any excuse for a good fight.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Tension?...Shhhhh don't mention Paris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tension?...Shhhhh don't mention Paris

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

To reduce tension have a fuck or a wank.

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit.

I totally agree with you! You're so right! And amazing and clever! !

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Better than wall to wall sycophantic fluffy shit."

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm an optimist by nature but also have an obstreperous streak a mile wide. So I need a bit of grumpy around me; when the forums are all sweetness and light it makes me want to be the total opposite, which wars with my innate cheerfulness. So long may the fora continue being stroppy. The humour on here always outweighs it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an optimist by nature but also have an obstreperous streak a mile wide. So I need a bit of grumpy around me; when the forums are all sweetness and light it makes me want to be the total opposite, which wars with my innate cheerfulness. So long may the fora continue being stroppy. The humour on here always outweighs it."

I try

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

These are the strangest forums I've ever been on. Not be if allowed to call someobe out on their billshit for fear of a ban kinda makes it a bit false.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These are the strangest forums I've ever been on. Not be if allowed to call someobe out on their billshit for fear of a ban kinda makes it a bit false. "

The level of white knighting that goes on also makes it hard to have a discussion without it getting personal. It happens on all forums but not to the extent it happens on here.

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