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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

How did they explain what they are doing here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one "

She won't tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

How did they explain what they are doing here? "

THIS!

And your mums response was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Did your mother not ask how these people knew that?

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I recognise those tatts!!!

WTF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Called your mother?! Are you 12?

People are pathetic, huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people really have nothing better to do with their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only care about the gossip. They won't turn on the grass. Unfortunately.

Hide your identifiable pics OP and deny it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked how they knew and she said that they had been told by someone else. But seems long winded to me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?"

Well spotted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?"

Haha omg imagine the shame. Maybe she's on here as well

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Well, whoever it is, they are bloody pathetic - as has been said.

What are they doing on here?

As this is not a site you "stumble" upon.

If they are on here, they are doing the same.

But your Mum should tell you.

And then someone should have their nose chopped off for sticking it in someone elses business.

:-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one

She won't tell me "

then she has no right to question you on it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"People only care about the gossip. They won't turn on the grass. Unfortunately.

Hide your identifiable pics OP and deny it. "

Maybe even a new profile it is puts them off the scent?

Whoever it is it's horrible to be 'found out'

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?

Haha omg imagine the shame. Maybe she's on here as well "

Why would it be wrong for her?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Oh shit that is bang out of order but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest the online world is a save haven for al sorts of nut jobs .

In future blur your tats in your pictures with a photo app to be on the safe side I know that's no consolation for the terrible thing that has just happen to you all you can do now is do all you can to make sure it never happens again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Hopefully your mother will be questioning why the sneaky low life cunt was on here in the first place and then who the hell do they think they are for being such a low life cunt and deliberately stir up trouble between a mother and daughter... (angry stabbing repeatedly emoji)...

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

How did they explain what they are doing here? "

Sadly if you shout loudly and maliciously enough, your part in the drama disappears from view.

I'm deeply sorry that this has happened, and hope you can sort things with your mum.

(then find out who did it and shit through their letterbox!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex did the same to me but my mum "owned" him. She said " maybe if you had looked after her better she wouldn't of strayed".

Hope you mum takes it well too op after all your an adult. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?

Haha omg imagine the shame. Maybe she's on here as well

Why would it be wrong for her? "

Exactly... being able to live an adult life and enjoy consensual sex with people is nothing to be ashamed of...

But ask her to block you and vice versa just in case she is the "informer" ...

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?

Haha omg imagine the shame. Maybe she's on here as well "

I still fail to see why it's any of her business. Personally I wouldn't engage a conversation with someone who obviously tried to stir up trouble within our family. Who does your mother value more - you or some random twat on the phone?

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Sadly thats how some people function here when they suss Id. All you can do is limit what you put online to be identified and when you dont thats the risk of the sad bastards just here to suss out who's who locally

I would just tell family I aint got a clue wtf they're on about. Maybe also rein in the profile just in case the username has been passed on.

Best o luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have informed her that my private life is none of her business and she rightly agreed. However stated that she did not like getting phone calls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Bang out of order...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugggghhhhh how miserable. Hope you're okay xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm thinking that whilst that's a shitty thing to do, you're well past the age where you need to explain your sex life to your parents.

That's pretty much all you need to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have informed her that my private life is none of her business and she rightly agreed. However stated that she did not like getting phone calls!! "

Well said. In response the the latter part, hang up then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have informed her that my private life is none of her business and she rightly agreed. However stated that she did not like getting phone calls!! "

That's good. That's exactly what my mum said to me. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have informed her that my private life is none of her business and she rightly agreed. However stated that she did not like getting phone calls!!

That's good. That's exactly what my mum said to me. Xxx"

Allso op the phone call but will be a snipe at them not you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have informed her that my private life is none of her business and she rightly agreed. However stated that she did not like getting phone calls!! "

My first thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

How did they explain what they are doing here?

Sadly if you shout loudly and maliciously enough, your part in the drama disappears from view.

I'm deeply sorry that this has happened, and hope you can sort things with your mum.

(then find out who did it and shit through their letterbox!) "

Ah, but the story has moved on and it's a friend of a friend who's spotted the tattoos. Absolutely no point in raising the question now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

Who cares? "Person likes sex shocker" who gives a fuck

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm thinking that whilst that's a shitty thing to do, you're well past the age where you need to explain your sex life to your parents.

That's pretty much all you need to say. "

This

I've found quite a bit of my family on here now. You've no idea how many times the word fab can be used at family events is quite amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my full face shown on here if anyone tells my family I will just say it is my life simple as that.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"People only care about the gossip. They won't turn on the grass. Unfortunately.

Hide your identifiable pics OP and deny it.

Maybe even a new profile it is puts them off the scent?

Whoever it is it's horrible to be 'found out' "

Then don't keep it as a "little secret" tell your loved ones that matter & fuck what everybody else thinks!.

What we did anyway..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Called your mother?! Are you 12?

People are pathetic, huh?"

This! I hope your mother told them to get fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it many years ago when I was single, my profile was printed out and posted through my friends door (had loads of face pics)

Her husband wouldn't let her see me and thought I was discusting to be meeting strangers for sex.

you have to be aware that if your profile is recognisable you run the risk of people being malicious, it's a sad world and I still didn't find out who did it

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Anyone worth being in your life would say nothing to anyone about your private life after they stumbled on it.

If someone was in danger, at risk vulnerable etc then quiet words might be needed in some direction. Anything other than that is bang out've order.

Such a chain of people would be fcuked off if not have limited existence in my life You learn, so do they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but it's only sex, you've not killed anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but it's only sex, you've not killed anyone."

True I haven't. I'm a l consenting adult!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but it's only sex, you've not killed anyone.

True I haven't. I'm a l consenting adult!! "

Are you sure you haven't killed someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but it's only sex, you've not killed anyone.

True I haven't. I'm a l consenting adult!! "

Yeah and your Mother will get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but it's only sex, you've not killed anyone.

True I haven't. I'm a l consenting adult!!

Are you sure you haven't killed someone? "

Yep I'm pretty sure on that one.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one

She won't tell me

then she has no right to question you on it "
this..ignore it..just dont mention it again...i guess you dont need your mums approval?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd put my profile to private, remove photos that might be used for identification and progressively relaunch my profile.

I'd also ask for more information, so that I could get to the bottom of the problem and sort it out.

Consider changing your profile location too for a while. Good luck!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

My mums response would be..

"And? your only jealous as am I,so run along now."

S

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?"

Yeah that was my thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could of been worse. Your mum recognising your partners cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell your mum they must have an account as well because nbody can see your profile on here without one.

you can actually set your privacy settings to that but lie if you haven't done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people could mind their own business the world would be a better place. What a lowlife thing to do telling your Mum. Hope you sort it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg ....why didn't you just deny it and say what are you talking about....change your pics on your profile and problem solved x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some people are just spiteful ,nasty buggers with nothing better to do.Hope you're ok,don't let them grind you down.

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch!! But if your mum doesn't like the calls then she needs to rip them a new 1 and tell them to grow up. I'm lucky, my mum's so laid back, I went to show her something on the laptop one day, and there was fabswingers on another tab top...

I ended up explaining what it is, showing her round the site, and got told 'if you can't be good be careful'

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

OMG really, the person who snitches on you to your mother is either jealous of you, or someone you have said no to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OMG really, the person who snitches on you to your mother is either jealous of you, or someone you have said no to."

Haha I say no to a lot of people!!

I've calmed down now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG really, the person who snitches on you to your mother is either jealous of you, or someone you have said no to.

Haha I say no to a lot of people!!

I've calmed down now!! "

Remember that snitches get stitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you do is for your fun, if no one likes it well hard luck. Love live have fun. It's your life live it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one

She won't tell me "

Probably yer Ma is on here

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

The world is full of them hun, that's why I have a very large 'Block List' I very rarely let local people in and check my 'Who's Local' list daily to block all locals... unless I'm intrigued.

It's great, your junk mail is cut by about 2 thirds and you know whoever messages you isn't just some 'Interfering Twat' that has nothing better to do than try to spy on their friends or neighbours, so they can spew their bile in the local shop or pub! They are jealous, they are jealous because you have an exciting life and they don't. They are jealous because maybe you get a lot of attention for whatever reasons (probably because your just a nice person) and they don't and never will.

That's why they do it...

Because your leading the life they want to... but they don't have the balls. No pun intended.

Just saying!

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Just change your avatar and username and ignore the idiot causing the trouble.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Maybe your Mum found you and didn't want to say?"

That's what I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say 'Sure am!' and smile sweetly. When you have nothing to hide, it disarms the other person and gives them nothing to hold over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People only care about the gossip. They won't turn on the grass. Unfortunately.

Hide your identifiable pics OP and deny it. "

This. My wife was outed by a work colleague several years ago. People did in fact turn on him, but the damage was already done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 34. It's no ones business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 34. It's no ones business. "

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes.

Ask your mother who it was? Then rip them a new one

She won't tell me

Probably yer Ma is on here "

You took the words out of my mouth! May be she's here and in denial

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If you don't want to be associated with fabswingers, then don't post pics. You are old enough to know what the internet is all about. End of.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What did they think your mother was going to do? Ground you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There are some interfering twats about, someone has apparently recognised me from my tattoos on my profile and rang my mother of all people to say i am on a website looking for sex and threesomes. "

two things would bother me about this firstly that someone would do it and secondly and most importantly in my eyes that your mother took their word for it without speaking to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope your mother wasn't too upset at finding out that a 'friend' was such a low life who would try to hurt you (and her).

But a) there is no law against being on Fab

b) you're over 18.

I'm sure your mum felt the same way.

It was an extremely dirty trick to involve your mother, she probably only wants your happiness anyway.

An ex of mine searched out and contacted my daughter and told her all about my 'shameful secrets'....she told him to get lost..she's adult enough not to be fazed like that.

He set up a profile on here using a pic of me ..I got it and him removed.

The people trying to expose or embarrass others, are the ones who end up looking stupid in the end.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"My ex did the same to me but my mum "owned" him. She said " maybe if you had looked after her better she wouldn't of strayed".

Hope you mum takes it well too op after all your an adult. Xxx"

Lol That would be my mums response

Op / Hope its not caused to much grief between you and your mum x x

(Jo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is wrong with some pople, also what they doing on site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get this one, Mrs P's father shouts across an auction room to Mr P's mother " did you know our kids were swingers?" Cant remember what her exact response was but it shut him up lol

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