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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion. "

Slimmer/average is definitely more for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

Dont put the lottery on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

You should never do anything for anyone else stay true to yourself and the people that matter will shine through. Learn to live yourself and the rest will follow sending hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have done incredibly well in losing the weight, you will benefit from being healthier and more active.

The truth is men like all shapes and sizes of women, I've no actual statistics but the female population of fab do seem to be on the curvier side, it may be that the lads are equally as round but I don't really look at male profiles so can't really comment (tho I'll admit I'm plumpsious myself)

Looking at your photos I'd have though you would be fighting them off with a poo covered stick

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion. "

Judging by the amount of attention I get, I'd say--men like everything.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Or to clarify---different men like everything. Though yea, some like anything :P

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

Look for guys that like you for being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

You have 25 verifications so you obviously are winning here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion.

Judging by the amount of attention I get, I'd say--men like everything."

I was having a dig at any other size, I'm large but i think overall men prefer smaller. Not all but as an average,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion.

Judging by the amount of attention I get, I'd say--men like everything.

I was having a dig at any other size, I'm large but i think overall men prefer smaller. Not all but as an average, "

Wasn't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have done incredibly well in losing the weight, you will benefit from being healthier and more active.

The truth is men like all shapes and sizes of women, I've no actual statistics but the female population of fab do seem to be on the curvier side, it may be that the lads are equally as round but I don't really look at male profiles so can't really comment (tho I'll admit I'm plumpsious myself)"

This.

And plumpsious is my new favorite word

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not all men like bigger women op,you only have to read the bbw thread from the other day to see that.

Different men like different things.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe size isn't the problem?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't know about that I'm an 8/10 and get more than enough interest

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Denise you have a verifs list about a mile long! It looks like loads of guys are after you (you lucky girl).

Janet xxxxxx

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion.

Judging by the amount of attention I get, I'd say--men like everything.

I was having a dig at any other size, I'm large but i think overall men prefer smaller. Not all but as an average, "

Didn't take it as a dig! Just commenting that, as a larger woman, I was very shocked at first that some men not only don't mind larger women, but actually prefer us.

I also caught the "wasn't having a dig" that you added as next comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny laides don't do it for me. I like something to grab hold of lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least you're not a male because then you would do even worse for meets

Maybe a lot of guys don't like so many don't son ours profile Oral but don't take cum in you're mouth would put some men off right away I know it's you're body and you're limits and should be respected but just my own opinion no offence meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate people actually talk to ya!!

Try being a single male on this site!!

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By *imply DifferentCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Meh.

Be yourself, get over it. There are a lot of people not interested in us, that will never bother us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done, patience is the key.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

Not all men are looking for the same thing. No one is going to appeal to all, that's life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here

You should never do anything for anyone else stay true to yourself and the people that matter will shine through. Learn to live yourself and the rest will follow sending hugs xxx

"
thanx hun x mwah x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I think most men want slimmer/average. In my opinion. "

Yes i think they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are people who want slim women.

i do think this site caters more for BBW lovers as most of the members are BBW so men who love that will stay, but many guys just like a variety of women or not BBW and they're on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also, i'm actually only a little bit fatter than i was as a teen/pre kids but i was chubby in those days and i did alright then and i do alright now.

only (bitchy) women seemed to have a problem with my figure when i was younger and not men.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here "

Don't think that's true. You'll find men on here say they do as they think fat girls are easier/more grateful. But I think average/slim is preferred.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I think most men prefer slim women over larger women, given the choice.

Sure, personality and looks matter but in terms of size alone, slim and average are preferable for most men. IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men prefer slim women over larger women, given the choice.

Sure, personality and looks matter but in terms of size alone, slim and average are preferable for most men. IMO."

That I do not agree with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men prefer slim women over larger women, given the choice.

Sure, personality and looks matter but in terms of size alone, slim and average are preferable for most men. IMO."

I agree (with a very small number of exceptions). The vast majority of blokes would drop me like a hot stone given a chance with size 10 version of me, all other things being equal.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I reposted an old pic from when I first joined fab (when I was 3 dress sizes bigger) a few months back to show someone who couldn't remember what I looked like when I started on the site. It got more fabs in an hour than any of my current pics do. Mind you, my boobs were a cup size as well and it was a really pretty bra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men prefer slim women over larger women, given the choice.

Sure, personality and looks matter but in terms of size alone, slim and average are preferable for most men. IMO.

I agree (with a very small number of exceptions). The vast majority of blokes would drop me like a hot stone given a chance with size 10 version of me, all other things being equal. "

when you say all things being equal, exactly what do you mean?

I imagine that lots of guys like your look - you have large breasts, a nice round bum, a curvaceous appearance. If you were a size 10, all of those features would likely be toned down (smaller breasts, smaller bum, less curves). I would think that you would then appeal to a different group of men - and possibly some of the same guys who like pretty faces and who put less emphasis on size.

Now if by "all things being equal" you mean that you would have equally large breasts, bum, and curves but have thinner everything-else, well....that's a different story and pretty damn rare.

I really think that women get as hung up on body size as men get hung up on dick size. Sure, there are some who care on either end of the spectrum, but generally there is attraction for all different groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a size 22/24 when younger and got no where with men .am a 12 now and men want big women.cant win here

You have 25 verifications so you obviously are winning here "

That was precisely my thought.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"also, i'm actually only a little bit fatter than i was as a teen/pre kids but i was chubby in those days and i did alright then and i do alright now.

only (bitchy) women seemed to have a problem with my figure when i was younger and not men.

"

Last time i looked you didnt look that big to me. Lots of men like young girls anyway even if they are a bit chubby.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Appreciate people actually talk to ya!!

Try being a single male on this site!! "

Nowt wrong with being a single male, it's how you approach it that is the problem with a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men prefer slim women over larger women, given the choice.

Sure, personality and looks matter but in terms of size alone, slim and average are preferable for most men. IMO.

I agree (with a very small number of exceptions). The vast majority of blokes would drop me like a hot stone given a chance with size 10 version of me, all other things being equal.

when you say all things being equal, exactly what do you mean?

I imagine that lots of guys like your look - you have large breasts, a nice round bum, a curvaceous appearance. If you were a size 10, all of those features would likely be toned down (smaller breasts, smaller bum, less curves). I would think that you would then appeal to a different group of men - and possibly some of the same guys who like pretty faces and who put less emphasis on size.

Now if by "all things being equal" you mean that you would have equally large breasts, bum, and curves but have thinner everything-else, well....that's a different story and pretty damn rare.

I really think that women get as hung up on body size as men get hung up on dick size. Sure, there are some who care on either end of the spectrum, but generally there is attraction for all different groups. "

I mean if I had the same personality, same face, same clothes, same proportions, same tastes - just thinner.

I'm not whingeing at all, I do just fine in attracting men to me. I know how to make myself look hot. But if I was the same as I am but shorter, or the same as I am, but thinner, I think far more men would be attracted to that because it would be closer to what's considered the norm of attractiveness; and those who are attracted to me in my current state probably would be more so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also, i'm actually only a little bit fatter than i was as a teen/pre kids but i was chubby in those days and i did alright then and i do alright now.

only (bitchy) women seemed to have a problem with my figure when i was younger and not men.

Last time i looked you didnt look that big to me. Lots of men like young girls anyway even if they are a bit chubby."

my belly and bum is big, bum more than anything but luckily men like big bums.

yeah true, it was mad when i was a teen, just about every man fancied you.

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