FabSwingers.com forum: Any help please?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use one of the torso pics instead. I don't mind dick pictures and you've got an alright amount and a mix of face and body pictures. Profile text is nice and polite so it's just a case of finding people that find you attractive.

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome to the forum. Enjoy the fun bits, read the less fun bits and generally join in. Let your personality come through.

By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

Your profile is pretty basic, but it's not terrible. I'd suggest putting most, if not all, of your cock pics to friends only or private.

Get rid of the bit about not wanting your face as a profile picture because Carlisle is too small. You don't need to put a face pic as a profile picture. Set it to one of your body - you have a good body. Anyone who clicks your profile will see your face three times from the pics you have up there, too. Presumably you want locals to see you, so the mention of it is a bit confusing.

If anything I'd say just fill out your profile a bit more about your sexual interests, likes, dislikes, what you're looking for and not looking for.

All of this said, though, it's not going to guarantee you attract anybody. Make sure any messages you send out to women are well-written, interesting, and don't solely consist of something like "hi, how are you".

I'd like to say you get out of this what you put in, but you don't. Perseverence or a sheer bloody-minded love of the site and all it stands for will see you right.

Also, as a fellow Cumbrian, there is a profile that occasionally organises socials in the county - once a month. Keep an eye out on the local updates for that and get yourself along to mingle.

Hope this helps!