FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it so hard to meet people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

idk? maybe people are looking for something different to what you are offering them?

i wouldn't mind finding a proper chat site tbh, one where people actually chat and don't talk shit, this site isn't really for me but all sites are like this one.

so there you go.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ah you joined the wrong site.

You want the instashag site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

Because you're straight, and too far away

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Could be all the cock shots and your young

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

You are young, too young for many.

And 28 out of 31 pics are of your cock.

That puts me off. Others may have different answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple maths.....zillions of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing what you're doing to get meets or what you say when you message people, it's hard to tell.

Age may be a factor but shouldn't really prevent you meeting someone suitable.

Are you reading people's profiles fully, only contacting those where you genuinely believe you match what they're after, writing respectful personalised messages to them with a face pic?

Hopefully if so it'll only be a matter of time before you get some joy! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People may think that you're so obsessed with your cock that you'd be unwilling to share it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for profile advice? Or just wondering why you can't get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may think that you're so obsessed with your cock that you'd be unwilling to share it. "

this

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

You need to get out and meet people, this isn't tron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

When my pics were cock only pics noone chatted now I have changed not rude I get chats your profile just looks like a cock nothing else at all many women don't like that.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry, but all your profile tells me is you either are a cock or you have one....not quite sure yet

As all you seem to offer is a cock, that might be where your problem lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.. .28 out of 31 pics are of your cock.

That puts me off. Others may have different answers."

This

Although it was a bit like a cartoon strip with all the captions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

It might have something to do with the excessive pics of your cock, and the stupid text you have written over most of them.

So you like to be 'balls deep' good for you... Classy..

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you come across as a typical 'think with his dick' 19 yr old... We'd wager a significant number of people on here are put off by that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you're straight and looking for women yet your two verifications are from geezers. Meet me in KFC carpark by McArthur Glen outlet and I'll give you a meet in person veri off a female.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

cos you talk about your cock and think thats the be all and end all, showing the level of maturity that doesnt suit me at least..you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

Most ladies here want something more than a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might have something to do with the excessive pics of your cock, and the stupid text you have written over most of them.

So you like to be 'balls deep' good for you... Classy..

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you come across as a typical 'think with his dick' 19 yr old... We'd wager a significant number of people on here are put off by that!"

Someone to suck on this made me think he was a virgin in school just wanting to see naked pics of women and giggle at boobies.

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

"You are young, too young for many.

And 28 out of 31 pics are of your cock.

That puts me off. Others may have different answers."

Have to agree.. Cocks are great n all.. But if you have one pic of it.. That's all you need. Experiment with some pics. Most camera phones have a timer and editing apps. So go wild and see if it makes a difference. Also make your profile a decent read.. Makes people want to contact you more if you show you can string words together in an acceptable fashion.

Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name will put some people off.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Well, your age will go against you, as will the fact that you have 30 odd cock pics and seem to think that that is all you need to be successful on here.

And having two veries off guys, one who compliments you on your cock, means you cant be straight surely... so sort that too

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I offer the same advice to all genders and demographics on here, there are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives they all say pretty much the same thing..

Have fun reading.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You seem a decent lad, put some torso or leg pics up and join in the banter.

You will soon have them giggling like schoolgirls

and all a flutter.

But remember you will need to stimulate their minds first.

Welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your whole profile is basically about your dick.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Well, your age will go against you, as will the fact that you have 30 odd cock pics and seem to think that that is all you need to be successful on here.

And having two veries off guys, one who compliments you on your cock, means you cant be straight surely... so sort that too

Exactly what I was thinking

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It's not hard to meet people, I suppose it depends on your target?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Your whole profile is basically about your dick. "

This is it! You need less about your cock and more about you and what you can do and offer to others. Atm we don't know your experience with couples etc, so expand on relevant information.

This isn't just another sex site, it's more specialised and you'll learn and improve as you go.

We're also coming out of the holiday season, where people have been absent or travel focused - it's always slow at this time.

Only some men will make it a huge success here and they need determination, willingness to stick at it and to stay emotionally upbeat, as it gets tough. Persistent rejections or never hearing back from others can be tough on some men's psyche. Form friendships, so that you have some support - there are some great people in fab, many of them have replied to your post. Message me sometime if you're needing support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may think that you're so obsessed with your cock that you'd be unwilling to share it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People may think that you're so obsessed with your cock that you'd be unwilling to share it.

Post of the day.

Sorry OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple maths.....zillions of men on here

This really...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Simple maths.....zillions of men on here

This really... "

Possibly so, but I'm one in a zillion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

It's an excellent avenue to a busier road.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

as a single guy I don't find it hard to meet here, lower your expectations slightly and visit some clubs.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

if i can go to the wales forum, and see anyone of 6 different socials on page 1 i could put my name down for and meet people, then with the greatest of respect you are not taking advantage of the avenues that are open to you....

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

Your profile name

Your 31pics all apparently of your cock (I've not bothered to look)

Your 2 veri's both from guys, although you identify yourself as straight

Your profile talks solely about your cock

You're welcome

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"then with the greatest of respect you are not taking advantage of the avenues that are open to you...."

Avenues and Alleyways - Tony Christie

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcfGeNqp-bY

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

1. Cos you're a single guy and massively in the majority looking for the minority.

2. Your profile name is an instant turn off. It implies that you are a bit too proud of your cock and all you have to do is turn up with your cock and get it out as everyone will want it, without you having to put any effort in.

3. Your profile pics - see 2 above.

4. The captions on your profile pics - see 2 above.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

OP please don't take the advice I'm about to give you the wrong way I'm just a old man offering some friendly advice to a much younger man .

The easiest way to get laid is not by using a site like this the weekend nights down the local popular pub or club is hell even your local supermarket offers a easier way to met local woman .now of coarse one has to have the confidence to approach women but as long as you do that way is by far the easiest way .

Your 19 single foot free that's your best bet for fun with girls around your own age or even a bit older .

The swinging world can be brutal your young foot free and hopefully single you really don't need this world in my opinion because of the reasons I've already listed .

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

Nope; can't think of a single reason. Let's face it, you have got more to offer than perhaps one or maybe two other guys, on this site

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Patience is the key lol"

Oh yeah, that too; complain if you must, but first wait 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im finding it really hard to meet people on this website? Any people that have been on this site for a while know why?"

I think somebody is working on a formula to explain.

Asking for profile help, won't help you meet. It will only make your page look better for the person who advises you. We all want different thing. Be yourself kidda'.

The people you have asked might not fancy you, sad but true people are looking for who they fancy too.

Hope this helps.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"You need to get out and meet people, this isn't tron"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not a problem if a man think his best sexual mate attraction is his cock. The problem is when other people don't think so.

I think there is a skill to attracting people on an Internet site because you have to manage without face to face interaction and socially, the non verbal signals you give out make up a huge mount of the communication so I would concur with the guy above - give the site a rest for a while and go to the pub and clubs and see how you get on face to face. It's a damn sight easier.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"You need to get out and meet people, this isn't tron"

1) virtual reality

2) keyboard stud

But my fav is teledildonics

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