FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty ok.

By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you seeking attention ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok. i am one of the older, 'unnattractive', but patient people on here.

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

we all judge inwardly and outwardly, some things we keep to ourselves because it's not nice to say to others or we come off across as nasty when we say it and we might not mean to be nasty, it's just our fucked up ego and way of thinking makes us feel better about ourselves and might also justify that we are right to be the person we are because at least we aren't *insert whatever derogatory comment here*.

i, personally, don't agree in heirarchy at all. i feel it's one of the most stupid things in the world to consider one person more worthy than others or more better.

yes rapists and murderes are not nice people, neither are NPDs or socipaths, but they're still trying to live their shitty lives in a shitty world and everyone is the way they are for a reason.

the end.

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"ok. i am one of the older, 'unnattractive', but patient people on here.

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

i, personally, don't agree in heirarchy at all. i feel it's one of the most stupid things in the world to consider one person more worthy than others or more better.

yes rapists and murderes are not nice people, neither are NPDs or socipaths, but they're still trying to live their shitty lives in a shitty world and everyone is the way they are for a reason.

the end."

Thank you x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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Less attractive women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you."

You are getting very philosophical lately. I like it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's possible to make a point without making sweeping generalisations that alienate whole groups of people in one fell swoop. Phrasing and context is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

You are getting very philosophical lately. I like it.

thanks. i've always been this way. just this site doesn't really promote that kind of discussion until recently.

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"I think it's possible to make a point without making sweeping generalisations that alienate whole groups of people in one fell swoop. Phrasing and context is key."

Thanks but don't understand what you mean.xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you."

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think she's just a troll and is playing us all. Hence me ignoring her.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

Reading all the replies to the OP makes me think. . .

People in glass houses n all that jazz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

i relate more to emo music, things like this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Pzjv8P1GJ8

With all my heart I always believed in you

And as you see up to now I was right

You made your way into brightest light

Fighting the evil in the darkest nights

Walking towards the sun – Getting closer to the light

Now the pain is gone and it's gonna be alright

Walking towards the sun

Life forces us to make lots of decisions

And sometimes we really do not know

If we are wrong or if we do the right thing

Sometimes we'll fade and some other time we'll glow

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Pzjv8P1GJ8

Is a cool track Feir, have just left a comment on there for you

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are."

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Pzjv8P1GJ8

Is a cool track Feir, have just left a comment on there for you

lol, i replied.

actually it isn't that funny but i made myself laugh.

yeah i love that tune.

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

My Fab momma tell me shut it.?LOOOOOOOOOOOOO XX

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

Well I think you are quite cute anyway

If that's the c word you were thinking of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

My Fab momma tell me shut it.?LOOOOOOOOOOOOO XX"

you don't have to shut up, i'm just explaining that people can't handle others truths or opinions very well sometimes, especially if they conflict with their own.

i don't hate you also. in case you were wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are very attractive, exotic and self-confident...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. I imagine you live a very different cosmopolitan lifestyle to many of the single women on Fab.

The few posts of yours that I've noticed have stood out as narcissistic - blowing your own trumpet to the detriment of others with sweeping generalisations.

I suspect it's this that's pissed off some people - although I've seen worse from regular forumites who are allowed to get away with it unchallenged!

To be honest it's quite a refreshing change from the multitude of attention-seeking/fishing-for-compliments/arse-licking/white knight posts that seem to be increasingly prevalent

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

"OP you are very attractive, exotic and self-confident...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. I imagine you live a very different cosmopolitan lifestyle to many of the single women on Fab.

The few posts of yours that I've noticed have stood out as narcissistic - blowing your own trumpet to the detriment of others with sweeping generalisations.

I suspect it's this that's pissed off some people - although I've seen worse from regular forumites who are allowed to get away with it unchallenged!

To be honest it's quite a refreshing change from the multitude of attention-seeking/fishing-for-compliments/arse-licking/white knight posts that seem to be increasingly prevalent

Thank you so much for or your time its was awesome and i heard you and wish you well. x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Pzjv8P1GJ8

Is a cool track Feir, have just left a comment on there for you

lol, i replied.

actually it isn't that funny but i made myself laugh.

yeah i love that tune.

Try this one

www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgIqecROs5M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Pzjv8P1GJ8

Is a cool track Feir, have just left a comment on there for you

lol, i replied.

actually it isn't that funny but i made myself laugh.

yeah i love that tune.

Try this one

www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgIqecROs5M"

used to like that tune, gone a bit more emo than that now though. thanks anyway.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"used to like that tune, gone a bit more emo than that now though. thanks anyway."

There's no pleasing some women is there

I haven't got a fucking clue what constitutes as Emo ffs. I used to have some black clothes if that's any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"used to like that tune, gone a bit more emo than that now though. thanks anyway.

There's no pleasing some women is there

I haven't got a fucking clue what constitutes as Emo ffs. I used to have some black clothes if that's any good

haha. just the fact that you were considerate enough to find a tune for me was pleasing enough for me.

but don't tell anyone i said that or i will deny it, as an official bitch.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"haha. just the fact that you were considerate enough to find a tune for me was pleasing enough for me.

but don't tell anyone i said that or i will deny it, as an official bitch."

Let The Music Do The Talking - Aerosmith

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dacZjjkUFx8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"haha. just the fact that you were considerate enough to find a tune for me was pleasing enough for me.

but don't tell anyone i said that or i will deny it, as an official bitch.

Let The Music Do The Talking - Aerosmith

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dacZjjkUFx8"

just no

but thankyou. i also replied on youtube. only just noticed you'd replied.

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx"

Some will love you, some will be indifferent and some will hate you. Pretty much like life in general I suppose

I've fabbed a few of your pis anyway

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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*pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx"

"All" and "love" are strong words and a perfect example of the "sweeping generalisations" mentioned above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think the uneducated plebs don't like you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x "

Haha you have beef with anyone yet you started a thread about the "older, less attractive women" being more bitchy.

It must be Monday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you."

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"What makes you think the uneducated plebs don't like you? "

Ha !

What first attracted you to millionaire Paul Daniels ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

You are getting very philosophical lately. I like it.

thanks. i've always been this way. just this site doesn't really promote that kind of discussion until recently."

Yes I noticed it too on the olympics thread I started, your comments seem to come from the result of a lot more internal reflection than the average poster, which can only be a good thing.

I don't tend to agree with you (no offence) but the more you explain the basis for your comments, the more I enjoy reading them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

The second sentence answers the first really.

You don't/ haven't offended me, honestly I find a lot of what you say hilarious but then that's my sense of humour.

There is a lot of inverse snobbery on this site and a lot of white knights, if you keep putting subjective comments like "attractiveness" out there then people will jump all over it and it sort of ruins a thread really. Maybe try letting a few comments go before you go on the defensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx"

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are."

Yes! I agree.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have only noticed a couple of your comments, can't say I disagreed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

That is a really great avatar

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Going by this post alone ( only seen one other you have made over the weekend up to now ) then I would say confidence is a great trait to have and you have it....but being nasty about other people who you think are not as attractive as you is not an attractive trait at all....so I think thats where your problem will lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

But who is to say people are 'sucking up' by saying it's a 'breathe of fresh air', maybe that's just their opinion?

There doesn't really seem to be any limit to what men will white Knight a single woman for on here, so it is different. You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've never seen you before. I'm older than you but stunnigly attractive so my feelings for you must be middle of the road.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have no opinion of you positive or negative to be honest. Of the comments you post are a true reflection of you then so be it. If they are intended to inflame and cause offence then that's your game to play.

It is interesting though that you seem to care so much about it even though you say you don't.

Of the comments I have seen you post it seems you are the first to go on the I'm offended by your response' attack. Perhaps that is your default setting? Ready for a fight where there is none to have. Particularly apparent on the autumn thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

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Strong word hate..i doubt anyone hates you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

But who is to say people are 'sucking up' by saying it's a 'breathe of fresh air', maybe that's just their opinion?

There doesn't really seem to be any limit to what men will white Knight a single woman for on here, so it is different. You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well. "

people have said so on this thread ..

they also say it about other people who post their controversial and incendiary _iews on other threads, right before that person gets banned for being err.. controversial

I can say its rude as the OP comes across as such to me, personally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am older and wasn't first in the queue when the man upstairs was giving out looks,but got no beef with nobody on here,we are all somebody and somebody special to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

But who is to say people are 'sucking up' by saying it's a 'breathe of fresh air', maybe that's just their opinion?

There doesn't really seem to be any limit to what men will white Knight a single woman for on here, so it is different. You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well. "

or women white knighting a man? seems to be the case here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't go round thinking your shit smells sweeter than everyone else's then you won't encounter any hostility.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Going by this post alone ( only seen one other you have made over the weekend up to now ) then I would say confidence is a great trait to have and you have it....but being nasty about other people who you think are not as attractive as you is not an attractive trait at all....so I think thats where your problem will lie

After reading a couple of more posts you have made....I will add... you complain about another persons comment being rude ( when it wasn't ) when your post was rude first it looks like you are either not aware of how you are coming across or are aware but think you can be rude and no one else can answer.

If you give it out, expect to get it back.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I think it's possible to make a point without making sweeping generalisations that alienate whole groups of people in one fell swoop. Phrasing and context is key."

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over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

But who is to say people are 'sucking up' by saying it's a 'breathe of fresh air', maybe that's just their opinion?

There doesn't really seem to be any limit to what men will white Knight a single woman for on here, so it is different. You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well.

or women white knighting a man? seems to be the case here

If you read my earlier post where I give advice then you could see I am clearly not white knighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older less attractive"

Amazing.

I think that's where the problem lies. It's not because they're jealous or older and less attractive. It's because of your ugly attitude.

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over a year ago

"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x "

True. I've noticed it's always the stuck up arrogant chicks with little respect for others that want all the attention on here, with no intention but boosting there egos. - That's an example of a sweeping statement. One which never does well. Your, 'unattractive' suggestion is somewhat misplaced. I believe there are others here much more beautiful than you. But that's my oppinion, and now you have it!

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over a year ago

"Think its wonderful you all love me thanks fabbers. xxx

Is that all the people on here? Or all the people on this site?

I find you rude and contrary and a lot of your comments are way off the mark...

You come across as a spoilt child who throws a strop when he can't get his own way... and I am usually a good judge of character ...

I also enjoy being proved wrong but somehow I don't think that's going to happen

Gosh I hate it when people sit on the fence

I'm not here to suck up to people about their 'different' _iews being a 'breathe of fresh air' on the stale old forums...

rude people are rude people and should be made aware of the fact as they are obviously too thick skinned to notice

But who is to say people are 'sucking up' by saying it's a 'breathe of fresh air', maybe that's just their opinion?

There doesn't really seem to be any limit to what men will white Knight a single woman for on here, so it is different. You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well.

or women white knighting a man? seems to be the case here

If you read my earlier post where I give advice then you could see I am clearly not white knighting. "

I didn't mean you....how do I know you are the M or F posting?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Insecurities are everywhere,I feel your's come through in your posts. Put others down to make you feel better maybe...

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over a year ago

"ok. i am one of the older, 'unnattractive', but patient people on here.

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

i, personally, don't agree in heirarchy at all. i feel it's one of the most stupid things in the world to consider one person more worthy than others or more better.

yes rapists and murderes are not nice people, neither are NPDs or socipaths, but they're still trying to live their shitty lives in a shitty world and everyone is the way they are for a reason.

the end."

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over a year ago

"You can say it's rude but honestly, too much politeness gets boring as well. "

No it fucking doesn't, y'twat!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If you give it out, expect to get it back."

The op comes across as attention seeking at best and a narcissistic troll at worst to me.

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over a year ago

"What makes you think the uneducated plebs don't like you?

Ha !

What first attracted you to millionaire Paul Daniels ?"

You sussed my inspiration for my post.

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over a year ago

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

I'm really sorry, but NO ONE has a right to think they're better than anyone else! It's not a God given right or an inherited right. Anyone who does indeed think like that is pretty pathetic and needs to take themselves off to a corner, pull their head out their arsehole and give it a serious wobble!

No person here is better than me, and vice versa, we're all different, in every aspect of life not better. Whilst those people sadly do exist, it's their ego that creates a false sense of self importance.

To those people, you might want a reality check. You might be quite. stunning visually, but damn ugly personality wise.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

If you give it out, expect

to get it back."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're funny

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over a year ago

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

To those people, you might want a reality check. You might be quite. stunning visually, but damn ugly personality wise.

I take issue with the suggestion no one can think they're better than someone else. I'm better than Peter Sutcliffe. Less flippantly, why shouldn't someone think they are better? I think I'm better than most people. If I didn't, I'd change my behaviour until I did. Most of them probably think they're better than me. It's just normal.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I'm really sorry, but NO ONE has a right to think they're better than anyone else!

I have the right to think as I please. I do think I am better than some. I don't behave the way they do, I don't conduct myself the way they do. I live my life with accountability and am reasonable for my actions.

and they can think I am the biggest cunt going, some do and that is absolutely their right to do so, I am cool with it.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

To those people, you might want a reality check. You might be quite. stunning visually, but damn ugly personality wise.

You mean you were better than him at not breaking the law. . He was better than you ar murdering people this i'im better than you' crap makes no sense.

Hence why you cannot say it UNLESS you qualify what exactly you are better at.

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over a year ago

you might not be having any beef with anyone indivdually but you do come across as looking down on people.

now, that's your right to do that but a lot of people don't like that.

To those people, you might want a reality check. You might be quite. stunning visually, but damn ugly personality wise.

You mean you were better than him at not breaking the law. . He was better than you ar murdering people this i'im better than you' crap makes no sense.

Hence why you cannot say it UNLESS you qualify what exactly you are better at."

Being a person. I'm better looking, too.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

If you give it out, expect

to get it back.

Absolutely

Do you actually add anything to threads other than thumbing up or leaving passive agressive sarcasm ?

Hahah i have noticed a pattern!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I'm really sorry, but NO ONE has a right to think they're better than anyone else!

and they can think I am the biggest cunt going, some do and that is absolutely their right to do so, I am cool with it."

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven"

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

If you give it out, expect

to get it back.

Absolutely

Do you actually add anything to threads other than thumbing up or leaving passive agressive sarcasm ?

Hahah i have noticed a pattern!"

So have I, oh the irony

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over a year ago

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!"

yes they can be. but at least they're being honest.

also who is to say being nice is always the best thing anyway, just because it's more pleasant? sometimes you have to lie to be nice and i'm not a big fan of lies.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!

yes they can be. but at least they're being honest.

also who is to say being nice is always the best thing anyway, just because it's more pleasant? sometimes you have to lie to be nice and i'm not a big fan of lies."

I hate lies suppose it's better to say nothing really. I just find it hard to believe that the guy can say what he has and lump everyone together then when people question him they are apparently jealous of him. That's pretty arrogant and up one's own behind. I don't know I just get the feeling he's pretty insecure for some reason.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!

yes they can be. but at least they're being honest.

also who is to say being nice is always the best thing anyway, just because it's more pleasant? sometimes you have to lie to be nice and i'm not a big fan of lies."
well youve just answered yourself. The op asked for honesty, wanted to know why he thought hed upset a few people then says about older unattractive people. Now if your going to be honest be honest but dont feign suprise when people dont take kindly to that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And the op didnt have to "be nice" he could of asked the question perfectly well without adding the bit about older unpleasant women

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over a year ago

I'm hoping he's just pissing around otherwise...that kind of arrogance is offputting.

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over a year ago

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!

yes they can be. but at least they're being honest.

also who is to say being nice is always the best thing anyway, just because it's more pleasant? sometimes you have to lie to be nice and i'm not a big fan of lies.

OP probably talks like that around people who are also the same, so it's acceptable to them usually. it doesn't even mean they're insecure really, can just mean they're opinionated but also not tactful.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x "

As one of the 'older less attractive women ' on here sweeping statements like that make me think.. Oh dear.if you can't be nice say nothing at all.

Making rude comments about others just isn't nice.. Yes it's a great way of getting attention but do you really want negative attention.

I am not ruffled by you. You have an opinion and you you let everyone know about it..you assume your hated which I don't think you are.

Maybe think about what you type and imagine how others may take it before posting.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

i don't agree with a lot of what you say but it's your life and nothing to do with me. i don't feel i've the right to tell you not to have your own thoughts and opinions just because they do not conform to mine."
you know what pisses me off is people that go on and on about valuing honesty so they can say what they damn well like then throw a bitch fit when people are honest back. Its the hypoctacy that pisses me off not the honesty

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x "

I've not read the whole thread but the little gem you've put in your opening post about 'older less attractive women' could go some way to explaining the bitchy posts... often like meets like with these sort of quandaries and if you open with bitching, it's highly likely you'll be met with the same sort of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ones the same here people see things different and that's what makes this site good .. What the op see as Less attractive some here will love.

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over a year ago

I don't have the energy or even enough time in the day to form an opinion of you, maybe one day you'll be important enough for me to do so

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over a year ago

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

i don't agree with a lot of what you say but it's your life and nothing to do with me. i don't feel i've the right to tell you not to have your own thoughts and opinions just because they do not conform to mine.you know what pisses me off is people that go on and on about valuing honesty so they can say what they damn well like then throw a bitch fit when people are honest back. Its the hypoctacy that pisses me off not the honesty"

that's your issue though, getting pissed off. OP hasn't pissed me off, i get that some personalitites are not as pleasant as others. you can't force people to change so why get pissed off about it?

you can't control anything but yourself.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok it seem's i upset a few posters on here and tbh i have no understanding why.?

I would appreciate you telling me why and it does seem to be older less attractive women ruffled by me.

I really have no beef with with anyone but so many bitchy comments i just don't get it.

PS. honestly go for it i don't hold grudge and grass to Admin. x "

You make me die

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Less attractive women?

i'm not stunning, it doesn't bother me at all not to be.

that's the thing with opinions too, they are not your internal thoughts and neither should you let them affect you.

Its how you feel within yourself though that really matters

Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

Haters gonna hate

This is what i'm saying i don't understand why anyone would me.

just because they don't agree with you it doesn't mean they hate you. maybe they aren't very good at expressing themselves when others come across as a little hostile?

don't internalise other peoples opinions of yourself either. if you're happy as you are then ignore it. and never feel a need to justify yourself to anyone.

it's always good to reflect on yourself and grow as a person but if you're happy as you are then stay as you are.

aw thanks hun its nice to see have someone whos cool with me.

Last message i got in private called me the c word and was very common

part of the problem of being honest is that many people really don't like honesty when it offends them. so yes you will get people being nasty to you. i find that immature.

i don't agree with a lot of what you say but it's your life and nothing to do with me. i don't feel i've the right to tell you not to have your own thoughts and opinions just because they do not conform to mine.you know what pisses me off is people that go on and on about valuing honesty so they can say what they damn well like then throw a bitch fit when people are honest back. Its the hypoctacy that pisses me off not the honesty

that's your issue though, getting pissed off. OP hasn't pissed me off, i get that some personalitites are not as pleasant as others. you can't force people to change so why get pissed off about it?

you can't control anything but yourself."
i couldnt give a shit about the op, i read one of his threada the other day and remembered him from last time.

I couldnt careless about the op i couldnt careless about his honesty or what he has to aay ita the sheer fact hes playing at being a victim through his own hypocracy. Maybe pissed off was the wrong word cause i couldnt careless either way. I was just giving my honest reply same as everyone else. But the op doesnt like our honesty its somehow different to ours

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

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FFS...

This is a swingers website?

Where married people get to shag other married people without keeping a secret from their spouses about it?

So if you can't be honest here, then where can you be honest?

Honesty isn't about agreeing with every opinion, it's about being brave enough to share our own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've really noticed you so I've clicked the green arrow.

People who post in your style tend to sweep in, ruffle feathers & crash out fairly rapidly.

It can be highly amusing & tiresome all at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the forums full of touchy people that pull apart and dissect every word of what you post

you`ll always tread on someones toes

you must be new around here if you`re only just picking that up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"the forums full of touchy people that pull apart and dissect every word of what you post

you`ll always tread on someones toes

you must be new around here if you`re only just picking that up

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but that is part of the point hes not

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over a year ago

"the forums full of touchy people that pull apart and dissect every word of what you post

you`ll always tread on someones toes

you must be new around here if you`re only just picking that up

Hmmm,I sense some animosity in your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the forums full of touchy people that pull apart and dissect every word of what you post

you`ll always tread on someones toes

you must be new around here if you`re only just picking that up

Hmmm,I sense some animosity in your comments

here we go

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By *isalovez OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can think your better than others, you can act better than others.

But you cant buy self awareness.

Now i dont know whether the op is a troll or genuinely cant see his attitude.

If its the later than my point is proven

I'm not sure someone can be that blind to how they are,can they?!"

Seems they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen your posts so no opinion formed. Opinions are like arseholes - everyone has them, but they don't all go round pushing them in front of other peoples' faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This older less attractive woman is unruffled. It takes a lot to ruffle my feathers